Tag: Valentines

  • The Psychology of Emotional Safety in Love

    True love flourishes not in grand gestures but in emotional safety, the quiet confidence that your heart is understood and protected. Emotional safety forms when partners listen to understand, not to defend, and respond to vulnerability with gentleness rather than analysis.

    Psychology calls these moments β€œbids for connection” tiny opportunities to turn toward each other that, over time, create the deep security we all crave.

    A relationship grounded in safety allows both partners to express desires, fears, and flaws without fear of judgment. It’s presence, consistency, and compassion woven into the fabric of daily life. Instead of asking β€œHow do I fix this?” try asking, β€œHow can I help you feel seen?” The answer will often say more about your love than any solution ever could.

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  • New Poetry: vibes, love & poesΓ­a

    Collaboration with a friend who is into the Ape NFTs. We drew a girlfriend for her male ape, poem for him below:

    My name is Archie, the ape
    And I have a lot of friends,
    But I’m looking for a girlfriend
    A girlfriend to feed me grapes.

    I remember the wet face
    Behind that mask 😷 that they said
    All this disease would prevent.

    I will go far, far away
    To other lands over the waves
    I’ll think of you every day,
    But I’ll return, I’ll be safe.

    Moana – Eve (I never returned 😒 😭 😿)

    Valentine’s Poetry

    I believe in Love

    I believe in Love
    That’s pure and clean
    I believe in Love
    It is no fantasy

    I believe in the Love
    That connects the soul
    I believe in Love
    Believe it or not

    And just like that
    February arrives
    With a flash.
    Aphrodite saw
    Your wishes, so raw,
    And she’ll deliver
    them now.

    Your beautiful, clear eyes
    Transmit a peace and a light
    That I search for all the time.

    Fabulous Spanish PoesΓ­a

    Eve

  • Love Poems, Valentine’s art, e-cards, & Poemas de Amor

    Next in my list is designing Valentine’s e-cards, something I love to do every year. If you need e-cards for your love or to share on social media, I will deliver in early February.

    If you need a personalized Valentine’s card, I’d love to design one for you. Visit my Etsy shop where you can purchase yours.

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    Love Images (Valentine’s backgrounds for February poetry)

    I created these gorgeous backgrounds with Canva, and I share them for free on our Facebook SPANISH poetry page Alma Poeta. You’re free to download and use them for your Valentine’s cards or crafts. Please share your creations back with us.

    My beloved, Scorpio, will act as though he doesn’t care about Valentine’s, but he will come on that morning and kiss me more tenderly than the previous day! And then he will softly make l❀️ve to me, unlike his usual ways. I can read his mind, so what he says is not what I hear. (((Oh, I was supposed to tell this to Scorpio. He is wondering why I’m already talking about Valentine’s))).

    The truth is that as a content creator, I have a Valentine’s posting schedule, and I’m prepared since last year.

    Previous Year Valentine’s Poetry

    Excerpt of a longer poem for the personalized card I created for a friend’s to gift his wife in 2024

    Poemas de Amor – Spanish Love Poems

    I have been writing a lot in Spanish lately, but no worries, English poetry is never going out of style.

    Love potion, translation, and marriage of the 3 Love Potion poems I wrote in English
    Γ‰l es la copa y yo soy el vino

    With love,

    Eve

  • The Art of Romance in Everyday Conversations

    Dear Loverstar,

    In our fast-paced, technology-driven world, we often find ourselves rushing through interactions, barely scratching the surface of meaningful communication. Amid the hustle and bustle, the art of romance seems to have taken a back seat, confined to special occasions or grand gestures. However, romance isn’t just about candlelit dinners or extravagant gifts during our anniversary; it’s about infusing our day-to-day conversations with warmth, sincerity, and a touch of magic.

    Why Romance Matters

    Romance is the language of love, a way to express deep affection and appreciation for that person who matters most to us. It creates an emotional connection, fosters intimacy, and strengthens the relationship. By incorporating romance into our daily dialogues, we remind our loved one that they are cherished and valued, not just during significant moments but every single day.

    Simple Ways to Be More Romantic

    1. Express Genuine Compliments: Compliments can brighten anyone’s day, especially when they come from the heart. Instead of generic praises, focus on specific traits or actions that you genuinely admire. A heartfelt compliment like, “I love how you always know how to make me smile,” carries much more weight than a simple “You look nice.”
    2. Practice Active Listening: Being truly present in a conversation is a powerful way to show someone you care. Listen attentively, make eye contact, and respond thoughtfully. This not only makes the other person feel heard but also deepens your connection.
    3. Use Affectionate Language: Terms of endearment, like “darling,” “love,” or “sweetheart,” can add a romantic touch to your conversations. While it might feel awkward at first, these words can quickly become natural and comfortable, enhancing the emotional warmth of your interactions.
    4. Share Small Acts of Kindness: Romance isn’t always verbal. Simple gestures, like leaving a sweet note, preparing a favorite meal, or giving a spontaneous hug, can speak volumes. These actions convey love and thoughtfulness, reinforcing the sentiment behind your words.
    5. Revisit Happy Memories: Talking about shared experiences and cherished memories can reignite feelings of closeness and nostalgia. Reminiscing about your first date or a memorable trip can bring a smile and remind your partner of the bond you share.
    6. Express Gratitude: Never underestimate the power of saying “thank you.” Acknowledging and appreciating the little things your loved one does fosters a positive atmosphere and shows that you don’t take them for granted.
    7. Be Spontaneous: Surprise your partner with an unexpected compliment, a spontaneous date, or an impromptu dance in the living room. These moments of unpredictability add excitement and keep the romance alive.

    The Impact of Romantic Conversations

    Integrating romance into daily conversations transforms the mundane into something special. It elevates everyday interactions, making them more meaningful and enriching. Over time, these small but significant efforts can lead to a stronger, more loving relationship. They create a foundation of trust and affection, ensuring that both partners feel valued and connected.

    In conclusion, romance shouldn’t be reserved for special occasions. By weaving it into our daily conversations, we can nurture our relationships and keep the spark alive. So, take a moment today to say something sweet, listen intently, and show your appreciation. The art of romance is within our reach, ready to enrich our lives and the lives of those we love.

    What are your thoughts?

    With love and light,

    Eve

  • The romance level quiz. I am an Eternal Flame & my lover is a Heart Harmony romantic.

    Dear Lovestar,

    The Romance Level Quiz by Eve Lovestar

    I created this quiz to help you determine your romantic level πŸ˜‰. I have identified 3 levels of romantics:

    1. The extreme romantic: The Eternal Flame romantics: We breathe and eat romance. 46 to 60 points
    2. The secret romantic: Heart’s Harmony romantics: They think romance but don’t talk it. 26 to 45 points
    3. The least romantic: Calm Waters romantics: Are they even romantic? 12 to 25 points

    Why take my quiz

    Understand your partner better and understand how much romance they can handle. Get inspired.

    With an understanding of your own romantic level versus your partner, you can work towards enhancing your relationship. You can use the insights gained from my quiz to communicate your needs and desires more effectively and create a more fulfilling romantic connection with your partner.

    I intend to develop informative and educational resources for each romance level that will provide you practical tips for enhancing your love life. These resources will cover topics such as communication skills, romantic gestures, maintaining intimacy, and navigating relationship challenges. Ask for help in the comments.

    Overall, taking the quiz and exploring the different romance levels can be a steppingstone towards personal growth, relationship enhancement, and a deeper understanding of romance and love.


    Take this quiz and figure out how romantic you are ❀️ 😍 πŸ’–


    1. If you are in a garden for an event, what’s your first thought?
       a) The flowers are beautiful and may remind you of someone special. You enjoy their beauty, take pictures, and even smell them.
       b) “Flowers are nice, but they’re just plants.” You don’t care if you are a garden or not.
       c) You do not like flowers. You avoid them, make sure nobody takes pictures of you at the garden, and leave as soon as possible.

    2. You’re walking in the rain with someone you care about. What crosses your mind?
       a) “This is so romantic, like a scene from a movie.” You imagine yourself dancing in the rain. You slow down and enjoy the experience.
       b) “I hope we don’t get too wet and wish you had an umbrella.” You walk faster.
       c) “I do not like the rain. My hair is wet. ” You might get upset or run to safety.  


    3. What’s your reaction when you see someone reading a love poem in public?
       a) “How beautiful! I wish I could express myself like that.” You stop and listen, maybe record them and tip them. Tears may appear if you resonate with the poem.
       b) “That’s a bit cheesy for my taste.” You ignore it and continue on your way.
       c) “I wonder if they’re doing that for attention.” You shake your head, and you might judge them.

    4. Imagine you receive a heartfelt handwritten letter. How do you feel?
       a) Warmth and appreciation, it’s such a thoughtful gesture. You feel special and save the letter for as long as possible.
       b) It’s nice, but an email would have been quicker. How much time did they spend on this? You might feel obligated to keep it for a while but eventually might lose it.
       c) Mild surprise, handwritten letters are rare these days. This much work for something going in the trash! You might not even complete reading it. If it’s cutesy, you will roll your eyes.

    5. How do you feel about stargazing with a romantic partner?
       a) It’s incredibly romantic, a chance to connect under the vast night sky. I’d hold hands and slowly lean into them. Eventually, we’d share a kiss, and an I love you.
       b) It sounds okay, but I’m not sure it’s worth the effort. I would rather stay in and watch a movie or even do the dishes, which sounds like a better use of our time.
       c) Will there be bugs? Eww. Let’s not.

    6. What’s your reaction to witnessing a marriage proposal in a public place?
       a) “How magical! I hope they have a lifetime of happiness.” You take pictures, congratulate them, and tell everyone on social media.
       b) “That’s a bit too public for my taste.” You look away and try to ignore it.
       c) “I wonder if they planned this just for social media.” You think they will not last together.

    7. How do you feel about cuddling while watching a movie?
       a) It’s the perfect way to feel close and connected and the only way to watch a movie. I watch movies just to cuddle.
       b) It’s okay, but sometimes I get uncomfortable. Or it will lead to more.
       c) I prefer to sit apart and focus on the movie. This is movie time. Cuddle time is always tomorrow.

    8. What’s your ideal way to spend Valentine’s Day?
       a) A romantic dinner followed by a moonlit walk. Home-cooked meals, red dresses, poetry performances, romantic music, and special gifts. Every year is different!
       b) It’s just another day, nothing special. We will enjoy some intimate moments, that’s all!
       c) I make the point of doing nothing romantic on that day. I also don’t know the date it’s celebrated on. I also never do anything romantic…

    9. You receive an unexpected gift from someone you’re dating. How do you react?
       a) With genuine delight and gratitude. I immediately thank them, and they know I loved it!
       b) It’s nice, but I’m not sure how to respond. They might not know if I liked their gift.
       c) I feel a bit awkward and unsure if I should reciprocate. I don’t like them as much anymore. They might be trying too hard. I avoid them. They might think I don’t like their gift but they should know I don’t do gifts this soon!

    10. How do you feel about love songs?
       a) They’re incredibly moving and resonate with my emotions. I listen to as many love songs as possible. I’m much more romantic than most romantic songs! I should be a songwriter.
       b) They’re okay, but I don’t pay much attention to them. Music is music.
       c) They can be cheesy and over-the-top. I prefer any non romantic songs. Romance is for little girls!

    11. Read and react to the following poem:

    “Soulmates” poem by Eve

      a) “This poem describes how I feel or how I want to feel. If I have not found my person yet, I have faith that I’ll meet them at the perfect time.” (chosen by liz)
      b) “I do not resonate with this poem! Soulmates do not exist, and if they did, we would all know by now.”
      c) “This poem is so cheesy.” It really sounds ridiculous πŸ™„ πŸ˜’ 😐…. getting off this blog ASAP!

    12. Which quote resonates with you?
       a) “Our Love is written in the stars”
       b) “The depth of our Love is our greatest secret”
       c) “Our love is our safe space where we can be ourselves and not be judged for it”



    Reflect on your answers.


    What is your romantic level?

    Rate your answers by assigning points:

    – Option a) Add 5 points
    – Option b) Add 3 points
    – Option c) Add 1 point

    Tally up the total points to determine your romantic inclinations.

    THE ROMANCE LEVELS

    46 to 60 points: The Eternal Flame: Most intense romantic. We believe in twin flames/ soulmates and fall in love at first sight.

    The Eternal Flame is the most romantic level. Individuals in this category have the highest degree of romantic inclination and experience a deep and everlasting passion for romance. It implies a strong and enduring connection to romantic ideals and gestures.

    Individuals who fit into the “Eternal Flame” category are deeply passionate about romance and love. They often prioritize emotional connection and intimacy in their relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:

    1. **Hopeless Romantics:** They believe in the power of love and often express themselves through grand gestures and heartfelt expressions of affection.

    2. **Emotionally Invested:** They are deeply invested in their relationships, cherishing every moment and valuing the emotional bond they share with their partner.

    3. **Creative and Thoughtful:** They constantly strive to surprise and delight their partners with thoughtful gestures, whether it’s writing love letters, planning romantic getaways, or creating personalized gifts.

    4. **Sensitive to Beauty:** They appreciate the beauty in the world around them, finding inspiration in nature, art, and music, which they often incorporate into their romantic gestures.

    5. **Believers in Destiny:** They may believe in soulmates or the idea that certain people are destined to be together, which fuels their passion and commitment to finding and nurturing love.

    Overall, individuals in the “Eternal Flame” category are guided by their unwavering belief in the transformative power of love and their dedication to keeping the flame of romance burning bright in their lives.

    26 to 45 points: Heart’s Harmony: The Secret Romantic. They think it but don’t speak romance

    For the second romance level, let’s consider an option that reflects a moderate level of romantic inclination, perhaps something like “Heart’s Harmony.” This name suggests a balance between romance and practicality, where individuals appreciate love and connection but may not necessarily embody the intense passion of the “Eternal Flame” category.

    Individuals who fit into the “Heart’s Harmony” category strike a balance between romance and practicality in their approach to relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:

    1. Balanced Approach: They value romance and emotional connection in their relationships but also recognize the importance of practical considerations and maintaining a sense of balance in their lives.
    2. Thoughtful and Considerate: They express their affection for their partners through meaningful gestures and acts of kindness, such as remembering important dates, offering support during difficult times, and showing appreciation for their partner’s efforts.
    3. Communication Skills: They prioritize open and honest communication in their relationships, seeking to understand their partner’s needs and concerns while also expressing their own thoughts and feelings effectively.
    4. Adaptability: They are flexible and adaptable in their approach to romance, recognizing that relationships require compromise and adjustment to navigate the ups and downs of life together.
    5. Appreciation for the Little Things: They find joy and fulfillment in the everyday moments shared with their partner, whether it’s cooking dinner together, taking walks, or simply enjoying each other’s company.

    Overall, individuals in the “Heart’s Harmony” category cultivate a relationship environment where love and practicality coexist, fostering a sense of mutual respect, understanding, and contentment in their romantic lives.

    46 to 60 points: Calm Waters: Most likely to not take this quiz. Are they even romantic?

    For the lowest level name, we want to convey an absence or minimal presence of romantic inclination. How about “Calm Waters”? This name suggests a serene and tranquil state, where romantic feelings may exist but are subdued or infrequent.

    Individuals who fit into the “Calm Waters” category tend to have a more reserved or subdued approach to romance. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:

    1. Pragmatic Outlook: They tend to approach relationships with a practical mindset, focusing on practicalities rather than grand gestures or intense displays of affection.
    2. Independence: They value their independence and may prioritize personal pursuits and interests over romantic relationships.
    3. Reserved Expression of Affection: While they may experience romantic feelings, they may not express them openly or frequently, preferring to keep their emotions private.
    4. Preference for Stability: They seek stability and predictability in their relationships, valuing a sense of calm and tranquility over excitement or passion.
    5. Contentment with Solitude: They are comfortable spending time alone and may not feel a strong need for constant companionship or romantic involvement.

    Overall, individuals in the “Calm Waters” category may appreciate romance in a more subdued or understated manner, finding contentment in the quiet moments and subtle gestures of connection within their relationships.

    This was fun!

    According to my “research,” I’m as romantic as it gets! If someone is as romantic as me, let me know please, let’s be friends

    Please share your romantic level

  • Romance (2). What is romance and Why are people not romantic?

    Dear Lovestar,

    Continuing yesterday’s conversation here.

    You know I’m a romantic, and I bet you’re a romantic (unless you’re here to be a critic). Welcome to this very romantic blog experience. My intention is to share my copious amount of romantic energy with the world, to make romance cool again, and to help people deepen their love connections using, you guessed it, ROMANCE!

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    What is romance? A feeling, an energy, and a verb

    How the dictionary simplifies romance…

    Romance is also an energy. Romance promotes positive vibes, happiness, and friendship. Romance is inspirational and motivational. Romance can deepen a love connection and enhances our creative expression.

    Romance is also spiritual. It helps us be in the present as we feel sensations in our body and as we engage with a romantic partner. It can help connect us to our spirit and our beloved’s spirit. Through romance, we can make a connection to the universe or God.

    Why are people not romantic today?

    Such an excellent question, and I’m thinking of another question, were people ever romantic before? πŸ€”

    Here is my intention: we become more romantic people and ascend love on the planet. I am doing my part. Will you join me in this romantic project?

    There could be various reasons why some people aren’t interested in romance. It could be due to personal preferences, past experiences, focus on other priorities like career or personal development, or simply not feeling ready for it at the moment. Everyone’s preferences and priorities are different.

    However, as I explored in my previous post on this subject, we can be romantic without a romantic partner. We can be romantic by and for ourselves. I have decided to romance myself.

    Misconceptions about romance

    Some misconceptions about romance and romanticism include:

    1. **Romance is always grand gestures**: While grand gestures can be a part of romance, it’s often the small, everyday gestures of thoughtfulness and affection that sustain relationships.

    2. **Romantic relationships are always easy and effortless**: In reality, relationships require effort, communication, and compromise from both partners.

    3. **Romance is solely about passion and intensity**: While passion is important, lasting romance also involves companionship, trust, and emotional intimacy.

    4. **Romance is only for young people**: People of all ages can experience and enjoy romance. Love and connection are not limited by age.

    5. **Romance is only for beautiful, good looking, of attractive people**: this is what we see in movies. However, just like with age, this doesn’t apply. Romance is for anyone who wants to engage with love.

    6. **Romance is always spontaneous**: While spontaneity can be exciting, planned romantic gestures or dates can be just as meaningful.

    7. **Romance should always mirror what’s depicted in movies or books**: Real-life romance often looks different from what’s portrayed in media, and that’s perfectly normal. Each relationship is unique.

    8. **Romance can fix all problems in a relationship**: While romance can strengthen a relationship, it’s not a solution for all problems. Communication and addressing underlying issues are crucial.

    Understanding these misconceptions can help individuals have more realistic expectations and healthier attitudes towards romance and romantic relationships.

    How can we make romance cool again?

    Making romance “cool” again involves shifting societal perceptions and attitudes towards romance in a positive way. Here are some ways to do that:

    1. **Celebrate diverse expressions of romance**: Recognize that romance can look different for everyone. Embrace and celebrate various forms of romantic expression, whether it’s through gestures, words, or actions.

    2. **Promote healthy relationship dynamics**: Encourage open communication, respect, and kindness within relationships. Highlight the importance of mutual support, understanding, and compromise.

    3. **Challenge stereotypes and misconceptions**: Address and debunk myths about romance and relationships. Encourage conversations that emphasize the complexity and depth of romantic connections.

    4. **Showcase positive examples**: Highlight real-life examples of healthy, loving relationships in media, literature, and popular culture. Celebrate stories that depict authentic, respectful, and fulfilling romantic partnerships.

    5. **Emphasize emotional intelligence**: Foster emotional intelligence and empathy, which are essential for building and maintaining strong romantic relationships. Encourage individuals to understand and express their emotions effectively.

    6. **Promote self-love and self-care**: Remind people that self-love and self-care are fundamental aspects of healthy relationships. Encourage individuals to prioritize their own well-being and happiness.

    7. **Encourage creativity and spontaneity**: Embrace creativity and spontaneity in romantic gestures and activities. Encourage people to think outside the box and tailor their expressions of romance to their unique preferences and personalities.

    8. **Normalize vulnerability**: Create a culture where vulnerability is seen as a strength rather than a weakness. Encourage honest communication and the willingness to be emotionally vulnerable with partners.

    By promoting these attitudes and behaviors, we can help make romance not only “cool” again but also healthy, fulfilling, and meaningful for individuals and society as a whole.

    Was romance ever cool in the first place?

    Yes, romance has been considered “cool” or culturally celebrated at various points in history and in different societies. Throughout literature, art, music, and cultural traditions, romance has often been idealized and romanticized as a source of beauty, passion, and inspiration. In many cultures, romantic gestures and expressions of love have been highly valued and admired.

    For example, during the Romantic era in the late 18th and early 19th centuries, there was a widespread fascination with love, nature, and intense emotions. Romanticism, as an artistic and intellectual movement, celebrated individualism, imagination, and the power of the human spirit, often expressed through themes of love and longing.

    Similarly, in modern times, romantic love has been a central theme in popular culture, with countless books, movies, songs, and other media dedicated to depicting romantic relationships and experiences. These portrayals have often contributed to the perception of romance as something desirable and aspirational.

    Except now, there has been a darkening of this theme with free sex for all, threesomes and sexual perversion, porn, etc.

    Of course, perceptions of romance can vary widely depending on cultural, societal, and individual factors. What is considered “cool” or celebrated in one context may not be the same in another. However, it’s fair to say that romance has held significance and cultural appeal for many people throughout history.

    Dear friend, Thank you for engaging with me in this exploration of romance.

    I pray that you received something useful from this.

    We will discuss this topic again. At length.

    As always, I intend to inspire you to be more romantic. Have I succeeded? Please let me know. I have many plans to inspire and motivate you to be more romantic and loving.

    Do you have any tips to help make romance cool again? 😎 let’s do it together.

    With love and light,

    Eve, on a romantic mission

  • The importance of matching my lover’s celebration style. As a woman, it’s not looks that matter most

    Dear Lovestar,

    I blew it on Valentine’s! Let’s talk of a few things.

    I created a personalized Valentine’s card for a friend

    Time capsule

    I loved creating a personalized Valentine’s card! It was a very fun and rewarding experience. I loved creating generic E-cards to share with you, but those poems speak of how I feel. They might not reflect how you feel.

    This experience was fun because as soon as my friend answered a few questions, I knew what the poem should be about as if he wrote it. I channeled him!

    25 year old marriage. What keeps him in love?

    This friend of mine is quite the character! He’s smart, funny, and creative, too. He is a Capricorn. So I asked what he likes about his wife so I could write a poem for her that felt very personal. I believe she’s an Aquarius.

    He said: he jokes to her that he married her for the physical aspects he loves about her, but in truth, what he loves is her personality. Her infectious crazy laugh, the way she daydreams about their future, how awesome a mom she is, how much she takes care of her family. She is a sweet feminine woman, and her cooking is restaurant style.

    What I learned from this interaction is that strong men love soft women who are kind. It’s not her looks that matter most contrary to what we have been led to believe. My entire life, I thought I was not beautiful enough to attract men, and later in life, I attracted the hottest alpha male I have ever met. I felt so uncomfortable because I thought he was way out of my league. Of course, I call this man Scorpio today, and he loves me deeper than he knows how to express. I guess this is a topic for another time, but reminder to the ladies:

    Life lesson I have learned. Download this Eve quote from my poetry collection. Link below

    http://www.mobileapp.app/to/duCowXa?ref=cl download these quotes, poetry, and E-cards from my poetry collection through this link.

    Why does Scorpio not celebrate Valentine’s?

    Scorpio loves me without a doubt (he might or might not like me πŸ˜†). Yet, he has never celebrated Valentine’s with me. I asked to make sure it was not just me and LOL it sounded like this is his most romantic stage. πŸ˜‚ It was so hilarious. He said that for a short period of time, he tried to take girls out on dates and be normal. It was a very short period of time when he was trying to fit in. It didn’t work for him. Scorpio is unconventional and does not like to fit in. πŸ™ƒ Scorpio doesn’t celebrate Hallmark holidays. Don’t tell him/ her how to celebrate.

    Some Scorpio memes to explain this lol moment

    Scorpio men think too much and were very attached to their exes a lot. It took a lot for them to break up with their toxic exes. They spend a lot of time revisiting their old relationships. This appears to be healing for them.
    This is a true story, and we both laughed out loud. It was sort of a joke but sort of true. Scorpio people are notorious for not telling you what they like about you. Their girlfriends might not know how they feel about us.

    These two Scorpio memes can be downloaded from my poetry collection (together with quotes, poems, and E-cards). Scorpio lobe art gallery. Link below:

    http://www.mobileapp.app/to/duCowXa?ref=cl

    I’m forgetting the points I was trying to make…

    But Scorpio doesn’t only not celebrate Valentine’s (which is a silly celebration anyway), he doesn’t celebrate Christmas, even birthdays. His non celebration of my birthday was the hardest thing for me because I’ve always been celebrated…

    To the point that I might not know how to celebrate myself. I blew it this Valentine’s. I feel as though I’m unconsciously returning to my childhood when others would celebrate me. But can I learn to celebrate myself without expecting this from others?

    My plan was to cook and bake as well as do Valentine’s crafts with my children. Well, I dressed up in a red dress in the evening, and then my kids did not care to dress up or do Valentine’s stuff. I let them do what they wanted because, after all, I observe Valentine’s by myself (and with you), but I have a plan to change this for the future. I plan to celebrate Valentine’s with my daughters. Truly, we celebrate love all year round, so it’s not even a big deal. Oh, Scorpio cooked and fed the family! It might have been his way to celebrate, and he kissed me like he had not seen me in months. This kiss was extremely sweet and very well received.

    Scorpio felt he should write me a letter

    Remember the AI vs. me letter contest I posted yesterday? The letter I wrote for Scorpio and I sent it to him. Of course, I have always sent him poetry, and I post it around the house, but he usually doesn’t even acknowledge my romantic efforts. He is a stoic. This is how come I’m learning telepathy. I’m in his mind now, so he can’t keep secrets. I also made friends with his higher self. I have secret abilities, too! Scorpio better watch out!

    At night, having dinner, he told me he thought he wasn’t doing enough. With a chuckle, I explained that, in fact, I don’t want a Valentine’s celebration (I’d like that, but it would not be genuine for Scorpio yo be doing that. He’s not fake, and I don’t like fake) I would not settle for a fake celebration. And he’s Scorpio. He can’t be fake. I understand that very perfectly, which is why I celebrate by myself.

    What would a Scorpio letter be like? I really hope he writes it! Would he swear, talk about the economy, politics, and aliens? Will he joke? Will the tone be serious? I’m very curious πŸ€” πŸ‘€ 😏

    Letter writing tip: spiritual beats romantic

    I sent Scorpio my love letter from yesterday, and he said it was sweet. He has expressed his love for my letters in the past. I already knew he would appreciate it. Then he pointed out a punctuation mistake πŸ˜† 🀣 πŸ˜‚ which I appreciated because I fixed it before I shared my letter with you. But even though he did not say more until dinner time, he had been thinking… πŸ€”

    Then there was this huge sincronicity! Yesterday, on my Eve vs. AI letter post I shared links to all my previous letter writing posts, and as I looked for such posts, I was reminded about the union letter I wrote for him: an insanely long 17 page letter speaking of our union connection.

    This letter is the real deal with a drawing of us and a poem I did share. This letter is so secret that it’s the one I’ve not shared. For that letter, I dropped into a very receptive state, I prayed and intended that what I wrote would bring us closer, then I asked spirit to take my hand and write. I wrote for hours at night until the morning. Things so secret that I didn’t know came out. I honestly was a bit embarrassed and hoped he would not read that letter, but somehow, 2 pages showed up on the couch. πŸ˜…

    It’s possible that I swiped this letter because it made me feel so vulnerable and because I talk about twin flame stuff, which is still something I’m trying to figure out, I don’t want to be a liar by saying something I think which might not be the full truth. But, I got those letter pages and I’ll read them again. It’ll be a very enlightening experience to read them again, and I hope I can use them for inspiration to write a twin flame union post.

    I guess I just rambled…

    Thank you for reading, and I pray you took something positive from this chat.

    Do you need help writing letters? Read yesterday’s post.

    Eve, writing so much I don’t have enough time to share.

  • How To Write The Perfect Valentine’s Day Love Letter – Express Your Deepest Feelings And Appreciation For Your Partner

    Perchance thou art seeking the art of inscribing a missive of love this Valentine’s Day, fear not, for with this guidance, thou shalt master the craft of composing the most perfect love letter to thy beloved. As thou initiate on this journey of pouring thy heart onto parchment, let these words be a testament to…

    How To Write The Perfect Valentine’s Day Love Letter – Express Your Deepest Feelings And Appreciation For Your Partner
  • Spice Up Your Valentine’s Card with These Romantic Ideas

    Spice Up Your Valentine’s Card with These Romantic Ideas

    Dear Lovestar,

    Tomorrow is Valentines! Is your Valentine’s card ready? Let’s talk about what to write on your card after yesterday I told you what not to write on your card.

    Of course, if you need to, copy one of my romantic or sexy poems onto your card. If you dedicate one of my poems, please let me know. It’d make my day!

    http://wix.to/duCowXa?ref=cl

    Download my free Valentine’s E-cards through this link:

    https://www.wix.app/one-app-pro-gallery/gallery/Component150/3ec06e2d-87fa-4732-83d9-baa744c54460/e6c66516-0948-4bdb-a79c-7379623cfac8

    Spice up your Valentine’s card

    • Glue a picture to your card, such as a cute picture of both of you, a sexy picture of you… it depends on what feelings you want to awaken in your card’s receiver
    • Calligraphy or cursive. Can you practice and practice and write your names together in a gorgeous way?
    • Add one of my sexy poems. Obviously, this would spice up a rock!
    • Practice again and draw hearts or use your creativity in other ways: cut a heart so it’s perfect, print stock photos of hearts, even use AI to give you a picture of a heart, print, cut, and glue it to your card
    • Remind them of a sexy time you had together on the card such as: I will never forget the way you made me feel when you took me camping, sitting around the fire with you, listening to your music, and finally, I never forget the moments inside that tent! Wow πŸ‘Œ this would burn the card into ashes!
    • Write a to-do list on the card for future sexy things to do together
    • Write a list of things you love about them
    • Wrote them a list of the things you live about them
    • Read my previous posts about writing a letter to my beloved and copy that

    It was meant to be a short list of ideas.

    How do you spice up your Valentine’s card?

    I, too, will be happy once Valentine’s passes to stop blogging about this. I will be back next year with much more Valentine’s content!

  • I reacted to lame Valentine’s messages. Eve’s 10 roses are red poems and hilarious Valentine’s πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜ƒ πŸ˜„

    I reacted to lame Valentine’s messages. Eve’s 10 roses are red poems and hilarious Valentine’s πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜ƒ πŸ˜„

    Hi Lovestar,

    If you’re tired of Valentine’s content, no worries, it’s about to be over this week, which means we’re on the final and most intense Valentine’s Day explosion of content. I will plan Valentine’s content for next year and years to come much more carefully.

    This is meant to be a fun and lighthearted post with my sprinkle of sexy poetry on it!

    Lame things people say on Valentine’s cards and my reactions:

    Don’t be one of the weirdos who say:

    • “Roses are red, violets are blue, I’m terrible at poetry, but I love you. (Nothing starting with Roses are red should go on a Valentine’s card…) but if lame poems are ok with you, check out my 10 Roses are red poems below…
    • I ❀️ U (ok, what genius did you copy for this, an elementary school lover?)
    • “I love you more than pizza… and that’s saying something.” (I’d dump a dummie who compared me to pizza…)
    • Let’s get married! (I’m bored)
    • “You’re the peanut butter to my jelly, the cheese to my macaroni, and the love of my life.” (Probably too fat for my liking)
    • You’re the woman of my life (very unoriginal, let’s change the channel)
    • “I’d give you the last slice of cake… maybe.” (Too selfish for me, I’ll return this card, save your money next year, or you will not have me as your girlfriend next year!)
    • I don’t know what to say, so here is some money (oh, trying to buy me, I’ll find another man… in secret)
    • “My love for you is like a candle… it’s hot and melts away quickly.” (Sex with this one probably is short-lived, too)
    • Today is Valentines Day. What men call extortion day (minus 1 000 000 points for romance, but this would be said by a guy with no game within the sheets) women only want money if he’s no good in bed…
    • “You’re sweeter than a box of chocolates… and way less fattening.” (Thinks too much)
    • If I had feelings, I would have them for you (I would be depressed if I got this card… if narcissists were honest…)
    • “I love you even though you leave your socks on the floor.” (Below the belt, has no idea of divine timing)
    • You suck less than most people (is this referring to oral? I’d give him a mouth massage and teach him a new way to kiss), but I’d never receive this card…
    • “You’re the reason I check my phone every five minutes.” (You need therapy)
    • You are my favorite husband (this is a terrible, horrible wife who is projecting on her husband and will get divorced)
    • “I promise to always tolerate your terrible puns.” (You are no fun at all, I’ll save my jokes)
    • You’re the only one I answer the phone for (means I have nobody else to trust or nobody to be there for me, nobody cares about me… you would have to deal with πŸ’― percent of my drama.
    • “You’re my favorite notification to receive.” (You are boring and they do all the work)

    Eve’s roses are red poems 10X. Lame but hilarious πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜ƒ πŸ˜„ 😁 🀣 πŸ˜†

    Since lame is in the name of this post, I’ll give you a lame but hilarious (and sexy poem).  Hilarious πŸ˜‚ I dare you to dedicate it… that would be what my Valentine’s card to Scorpio would say if I was lame.

    Roses are red
    Violets are blue
    You please me in bed
    That's why I am with you

    Or what about this πŸ˜† 🀣 πŸ˜‚

    Roses are red
    Violets are blue
    Before I was lame
    But now I am with you!

    Awww…

    Roses are red
    Violets are blue.
    If I chose again,
    Again I'd choose you!

    I could change this, but I’m most amused right now:

    Roses are red 
    Violets are blue
    On Valentine's Day
    I want to be with you!

    Mine should totally say this:

    Roses are red
    Violets are blue.
    I suck in bed
    Good thing I have you!

    What the heck…

    Roses are red 
    Violets are blue
    I am a mess
    When I'm not with you!

    If I were a Leo, I’d say this

    Roses are red
    Violets are blue.
    Im hot as hell
    Better with you!

    If I were a Scorpio, I’d say this! They would be brave enough to swear on their card… my partner would not give me a Valentine’s card but if he did, it should say this: lol

    Roses, still sad
    Violets of gloom
    When I see your a*s
    I feel less like doom.

    If I was a Sagittarius, I’d say this:

    Roses are red 
    The color of my bed.
    Violets are blue
    Now let's undress you!

    If I were a Pisces, I’d say this:

    Hello, my name is Pisces and I am a happy go lucky mermaid

    Roses are red
    For you, my heart bled.
    Violets are blue
    Because my love is true.
    I might be complex
    Lile the Daisy flower.
    My petals are white
    I am the softest lover.
    My core is yellow
    And I'm soft like jello.
    I give you my love
    Im not selfish nor jealous.
    And I'll give you my body
    Without pride or ego.

    Ok that was a good piece to end this fun word play game. Of course, I’m Pisces. This was most fun! Good thing I’m not a Scorpio (or a Leo) no offense, I’m just better as a Pisces! And Scorpio likes me very Pisces, thank you God 😊 ☺️ 😘 for my Pisces nature otherwise, who would write these cheesy poetry?

    I pray you enjoyed this.

    Of course, skip all this silliness and download one or many of my Valentine’s E-cards. They’re totally free and without my pen name, perfect to share:

    https://www.wix.app/one-app-pro-gallery/gallery/Component32/3ec06e2d-87fa-4732-83d9-baa744c54460/e6c66516-0948-4bdb-a79c-7379623cfac8

    Or copy one of my love or sex cards or one of the other cards of topics too hot to handle on this lame blog. Visit my poetry collection and copy your favorite. No, these lame poetry are not going to my poetry collection! πŸ˜’ Poetry collection through this link:

    http://wix.to/duCowXa?ref=cl

    With much love and light,

    Eve, laughing out loud πŸ˜† πŸ˜„ 🀣