Sapho is the poetess of poetesses. I wrote a love poem for her to honor her since she is famous for writing love poems for women.
Sappho is said to have inspired the term lesbian because she was from the island of Lesbos and wrote poems for other ladies. She also wrote for men and there is not much history.
On this post, I will share all my personal magick, spellcasting tools.
I recently joined Woo Wednesday, an amazing X community to talk about where are the witches at? They meet once a month and it was such a healing and blessed space.
Our last Poetry lights meeting where amazing poetry is read. I read Interdimensional Travel” and my new “Poetry Lights” poem.
Talking to the host, Vennie, an amazing poetess witch, I told her about my new spellcasting journey, which is a new development, yet, was spirit led. Vennie decided to have spellcaating as the topic for the next Woo Wednesday and I am gathering all my spellcasting tools on this post so I can be prepared and read from here.
My magick ebooks
The Art of Knot Magick, an introductory ebook on my Stay shop $1.11. See some magick from the book below Knots for Venus. Ritual included in my Knot Magick eBook $1.11 on my Etsh shop From my Knot Magick eBook for sale on my Etsy shop
I tried to make this post private, and password protected but my computer skills are limited, so you get to read it. I will learn, though. Do not be offended, please, when you notice password protected posts consisting of my sex journal. This is private stuff so it cannot be openly available.
This Lillith poem was inspired by a podcast by the Middle Age Witch podcast, I linked it below.
I shared this beautiful poem on X, then added a secret third stanza for my lover who likes kinky poetry
This just happened, and thus, the third stanza doesn’t have rhyme or rhythm. This was not for the poetics. It’s for the meaning.
It’s the Lion’s Gate fault! I wish I could stop time. if it was the Lion’s Gate every day of the year, I’d always be this sassy.
I got so many divine messages for divine spirit work to complete (That is the upgrade this year, full on magic work with spirits, I am graduating into a witch lol), and I’ve been divinely guided into goddess work and, for some reason, shadow work leading to Lillith. It was Scorpio, my lover, who suggested that sex is a way to work the shadows, yes, Scorpio would say that. However, for me, miss Pisces, bound by church as a girl, sex play is a big shadow for me.
It could be that Lillith wants a poem; I will write some. The lady on the middle-aged witch podcast said that Lillith came to her when she was ready, that Lillith would only work with people who are ready to be unapologetically themselves, and I have in fact grown in this way. I don’t post this to X, actually, too many normal people, but I dip my toes. Maybe that is the sign, once I am more open on X (or Facebook, where my family is, I entered Pagan on my FB bio). Find me on FB as Eve Sanchez but I mostly post on Spanish.
I was listening on the Middle-Aged witch podcast (I love that podcast) that Lillith loves an orgasm as an offering, and I’m wondering if she would be willing to communicate with me for some poetry creations using some sex magic.
I work with Venus – Aphrodite
Venus is the Roman name for the Greek Aphrodite, and they are the same goddess. Below, I will share some of my poetry for her and one day I will tell you of my work with her. I have been working with her for months. Later, I will tell you how you can work with Aphrodite – Venus, too.
This poem talks of the cause of the Troyan war, when Aphrodite offered Paris the most beautiful woman in the world, the married queen Helen (long story).
I have actually communicated with Venus Aphrodite, and I loved our interactions. I have a plan to ask a thing from my friend Aphrodite, just need to find the right offering for her. The poem below is of a convo with Dite, she expressed that men can’t forget (in my word play) the orgasms they give their lady. This is a drug you’re providing for your man.
We wrote several poems together, Aphrodite – Venus and I. The below poem talks of a historical poem I read while studying Latin. This event was a yearly Venus festival. Tips for Venus work from her ancient festival: get nude, dancing barefoot, also beauty is an offering. Oh, and Bacchus (Dionysus in Greek pantheon) always leads to Aphrodite. This was the ancient way: parties and drinking (the ancients also put drugs in their drinks, though I am not telling you to do this) always lead to the Aphrodite work which is sex. They had sex cults; we have a cult of 2. ok I will have to tell you more.
I jokingly told my man I was going to sacrifice him to the goddess, put him on my Aphrodite altar. The sign in that is that the orgasm offering is well received by her. Oh, I certainly invoke her into our bedroom play. I am indeed ok with a spirit third party; I can share with the goddess.
This love spell was inspired by Roman Love magic, something I will continue to research and write about. The Romans didn’t believe in twin flames, but the Greeks did. But the romans were so afraid of Love magic that they made forms of it illegal.
Indeed, knot magic has always been used for love, sex, and fidelity magic (Read about knot magic on my blog and purchase my $1 ebook on Etsy to start practicing knot magick today) PS. I have used knot magic with Venus, for sex magic, twin flame magic with my Scorpio lover’s permission, for an offering to the fae, for personal empowerment, for sexual freedom…) Knot Magic Ebook linked below:
Ebook introducing knot magic with history, ideas, mantras, and more
I have to tell you, my sex life with my beloved Scorpio exploded after my communications with the goddess. Why? Because I became more open as I realized that sex magic attracts the sex goddess, and she loosened me up a bit.
This poem explains it best. I call the goddess into my space, I connect to Love, then he connects to me. This is sex magic and bringing a very sexy spirit into our bed for play. You wonder if Scorpio has an issue with this? lol Scorpio lives to connect to a mysterious feminine essence, he needs this, he is hooked. He has been looking for the goddess, he didn’t realize it like that, but he has been working with her, is what she said to me.
I guess my next magic ebook will be about sex magic, but sorry, I will not be selling it for $1! These are my secrets, and anyone interested will have to pay up! My mouth is starting to part to tell my secrets but they will not be widely available.
Why the threesome theme?
My darling Scorpio is a very hot guy, and he gets chased by women on top of the obvious, if one tastes him, can’t forget the guy, has to come back on her knees. He kind of hides from women in the way I hide from men, except that I believe he gets a kick out of it, he is not afraid of being held down by a woman…
Being a Scorpio, he wants a very, extremely loyal woman, and he gets hurt by lack of loyalty. Thus, his lineup of exes have in fact hurt him deeply.
I don’t have to tell you that he’s extremely sexual and great in bed. That’s obvious. His exes are constantly trying to connect to him in this way and I had to tell him to get those cords under control because they bother me, the feeler of everything. I have been cutting the chords to his pesky exes, energy vampires, who regret having lost him. They’re the third parties in our union, the ghosts of girlfriends’ past. His heartbreak over those bad girls has stopped our union growth.
He’s honest and open, so he tells me about the threesomes he declined 😆 🤣 😂
I was very young and sexually inexperienced when I met him, and I had never met a sincere man, so I freaked out wondering if that most gorgeous man would dare ask me to do something like that.
Upon my experience recognizing his soul as my boyfriend (I was 20), I decided I was going to be the woman to fulfill all his sexual needs (he manifested that, also), however, I was too shy to say anything. Once I heard the word threesome, I was shocked in disbelief and chose to not please his secret desires.
This happened in our usual misunderstanding type of way.
But how lucky am I that my man is so honest and straightforward? After years of holding back my sexual gratification, we talked about this and he has no intention of putting me in a difficult position and he is very grounded in his feeling for one partner. Yay
But how lucky if he had another me? Even three! Lol
The problem with threesomes is that they are cultural and a man who wasn’t pervy enough to lead women into those questionable encounters, can feel like they missed out. A good man like mine knows they didn’t miss on anything good. And a woman like me is unafraid to play tricks on my man’s mind. Lol
After Scorpio expressed that he wanted 2 mes, I needed years to integrate that. After a lot of self growth I told him one of my naughtiest best dreams ever, a dream in which I saw about 12 hims, one after another after another kept coming and I was simply amazed. Nothing sexual happened, I just basked in their energy but Scorpio got so excited and he expressed it would have been much different had he been the dreamer. And now I am telling you how I have finally injected a sense of fantasy into my sex life. He dreams about threesomes? Good, you can have two mes or you can have me and my goddess.
The Middle-Aged Witch’s podcasts about the Divine Feminine, masculine, the dark feminine, and Lillith
Spellcasting
Spirit communication
Divine Feminine
Divine Masculine
Dark Feminine
Lillith
One day, I will email this beloved witch to tell her about my experiences with sex and love magic, my communication with Aphrodite, and the secret power of poetry.
I remember distinctly she said she doesn’t know the history of why poetry is used in spellcasting. She isn’t a poet. As a poet myself, I want to offer my insight about the secret power of poetry.
Let’s mix ancient magic with modern spirituality. ✨️
Knot magic, a practice rich in symbolism and tradition, has intrigued scholars and practitioners alike for centuries. While the exact origins of knot magic are difficult to pinpoint with precision, we can trace its historical roots through various cultures and practices. This article delves into the known history of knot magic, exploring its ancient origins and evolution through time. Then I’ll give you tips for a modern knot magic practice that is powerful and fashionable.
Ancient Origins and Cultural Significance
Knot magic is an ancient practice found in diverse cultures, each adding its unique twist to the art of tying knots with intent. Here’s what we know about its historical development:
Prehistoric Roots: Evidence suggests that the practice of knotting dates back to prehistoric times. Archaeological finds, such as knotted cords and textiles, indicate that early humans used knots for practical purposes, such as securing items or recording information. Over time, these practical knots evolved into symbolic and magical practices.
Ancient Egypt: In ancient Egypt, knot magic played a significant role in rituals and protective charms. The “knot of Isis,” a symbol often depicted in Egyptian art, was believed to offer protection and healing. This knot, also known as the “Isis knot” or “tyet,” was often used in amulets and talismans to invoke the goddess Isis’s power.
Greek and Roman Traditions: Knot magic also appeared in ancient Greek and Roman practices. The Greeks used knots in various rituals, including those related to love and binding spells. Roman magicians and practitioners of folk magic often employed knots in their rites, with specific knots symbolizing different deities or intentions.
Native American Practices: Indigenous cultures across the Americas have long incorporated knot magic into their spiritual practices. The use of knotted cords, such as the Inca khipus, was a sophisticated method of record-keeping and communication. These knotted strings were believed to hold sacred knowledge and were used in ceremonial contexts.
Medieval Europe: During the medieval period, knot magic was integrated into European folk practices and witchcraft. Knots were used in spells and charms to influence outcomes, protect against malevolent forces, or bind and unbind love and relationships. The symbolism of knots continued to evolve, often blending with local folklore and magical traditions.
The Evolution of Knot Magic
Throughout history, knot magic has adapted to changing cultural contexts and spiritual practices. Here are some key points in its evolution:
Ritualistic Use: Knot magic has been employed in various rituals, from protection spells to fertility rites. Each culture has adapted the practice to fit its spiritual beliefs and needs.
Symbolic Meanings: The meanings associated with specific knots have varied. In some traditions, knots symbolize binding and unbinding, while in others, they represent unity, protection, or the cyclical nature of life.
Modern Revival: In contemporary times, knot magic has experienced a revival within modern spiritual practices. Practitioners integrate it into personal rituals, using knots to manifest intentions and connect with ancient traditions. Modern interpretations often combine traditional knot magic with new-age practices, creating a fusion of the old and the new.
Conclusion
Knot magic, with its rich history, offers a glimpse into the spiritual and practical lives of our ancestors. From ancient Egypt to medieval Europe and beyond, the practice of tying knots with intention has been a significant part of human spirituality. As we continue to explore and reinterpret these ancient practices, knot magic remains a powerful tool for connecting with the sacred and manifesting our desires.
Thank you for joining us on this historical journey through knot magic. May this knowledge enrich your understanding and appreciation of this timeless art.
Please tell me if you have practiced knot magic.
Modern Mantras
Here are eight rhyming mantras focused on feminine power and releasing negativity:
1. “With grace, I rise, my spirit flies, releasing fears and casting ties.”
2. “Embracing strength, my heart’s pure light, I shed the shadows, shine so bright.”
3. “In my power, I find peace, all negativity I release.”
4. “Goddess within, my soul’s delight, I banish doubts with light and claim my might.”
5. “With each breath, I let go, reclaiming strength in every flow.”
6. “Feminine fire, strong and true, I release the past and start anew.”
7. “I am whole, I am free, negativity fades, leaving only me.”
8. “Through my essence, I transcend, embracing power, my fears amend.”
These mantras can serve as affirmations to enhance self-empowerment and promote a positive mindset. These mantras will then aid the manifestation of union.
Here are some garments and ideas for incorporating knot magick into crafts and personal adornments:
Mermaid Tie Necklaces. I remove this one, I’ll set an intention depending on the need. Crafted on 8/8Twin anklets tied on Lion’s Gate with intention of extending the Lion’s gate energy and, of course, twin flame union. The other anklet tied months ago.Mermaid tie twin anklets and necklaces crafted 8/8I have two of these necklaces that I’ve been wearing for a while. I tie those with a sexy intention (they are part of my mermaid collection of lingerie). This necklace I tied while setting a simple intention of beauty. Crafted on 8/8.
Tie Necklaces: Create necklaces you can tie or with knots as focal points, using cord, thread, or leather. Incorporate charms or crystals for added intention.
Braided Belts: Use braided belts to symbolize strength and unity. Knots and braids can be infused with personal or magical significance.
Knot Bracelets: Craft bracelets with knots to represent binding spells or personal empowerment. Choose colors and materials that resonate with your intention.
Hair Braids: Braid hair with intentional knots or ribbons to signify personal goals, protection, or connection with spiritual energy. Or set the intention while braiding the hair.
Knot Tapestries: Create wall hangings or tapestries with intricate knot designs, infusing them with intention for protection or harmony.
Embroidered Symbols: Use knotting techniques in embroidery to create protective symbols or spells on garments.
Decorative Scarves: Tie scarves with specific knots for symbolic meanings, such as protection or attraction.
Pouches and Bags: Sew or knot small pouches for carrying magical items or talismans. These can be worn or carried as a form of protection or empowerment.
Those cute cut and tied tops: making one out of a t-shirt while setting an intention would be cool.
An apron: it’s not popular, but I wear one. From now on, I’ll set the intention of finishing the task I’m working on fast and accurately.
A tied headband, any outfits with a tie feature, those sweetknotted blankets etc.
Each of these ideas allows for personal expression while integrating the symbolism and intention behind knot magick.
If you’re interested in wearing one of my tie mermaid necklaces, purchase yours in my Etsy shop through this link:
My knot magic mermaid necklace: intention set: Pisces Scorpio union. Purchase one like this through my Etsy shop, link below
Video of me tying the twin anklets and notice that I have an old one on my left ankle. I said a twin flame union mantra and a Lion’s Gate power mantra. I never take the old one off. The twin ones will remain until they break or next 8/8
What is Knot Magic and How It’s Done
Knot magic, also known as knot magick, is a form of spellcraft that involves using knots in cords, ribbons, or other materials to manifest intentions and desires. This practice leverages the symbolic power of knots to bind, release, or amplify energy in a focused and tangible way.
Understanding Knot Magic
Knot magic works on the principle that tying a knot can symbolize the binding of energy or intentions. The process involves infusing a cord or string with a specific intention or desire, and the act of tying the knots is believed to crystallize that intention. Each knot can represent a different aspect of the spell, such as a particular goal or outcome.
How to Perform Knot Magic
1. Choose Your Material: Select a cord, ribbon, or string. The color and material can be significant, depending on the intention. For example, red might be used for passion or courage, while green could symbolize growth or prosperity.
2. Set Your Intention: Clearly define what you want to achieve. Your intention should be specific and positive. Whether it’s love, protection, or personal growth, being clear about your goal is crucial.
3. Focus and Infuse Energy: Hold the cord in your hands and concentrate on your intention. Visualize your goal coming to fruition as you channel your energy into the material. This step is essential for imbuing the knot with your desired outcome.
4. Tie the Knots: As you tie each knot, focus on your intention for that specific knot. You might tie one knot for each aspect of your desire or goal. For example, if you’re working on manifesting love, you might tie a knot for attraction, another for harmony, and a third for communication.
5. Seal the Spell: Once you’ve tied all the knots, you can use a ritual or affirmation to seal your spell. This could be a spoken affirmation, a prayer, or simply a moment of gratitude and intention.
6. Use or Display Your Knot Magic: Keep the cord with you, place it on an altar, or hang it somewhere significant. Its presence will act as a constant reminder and reinforcement of your intention. I like to wear mine.
Knot magic is a versatile and accessible form of spellcraft that can be adapted to various needs and intentions. By focusing your energy through the act of tying knots, you create a tangible and personal tool to help manifest your desires and goals.
Repeat a mantra or affirmation while you tie each knot.
Sample mantras
Divine Feminine Connection “As I tie this sacred knot, I honor the Divine Feminine’s grace, embracing the wisdom and love that guide my sacred space.”
Tree hugging 🫂Exchanging energy with the tree. I perfumed it, and it gave me a baby pinecone. Homemade flower perfume for the tree. I believe trees are more able than us to pick up suttle energy changes Oh, the bottle I reused, but i made the perfume with flower essential oilsKnot Magia: tied mermaid anklets, been wearing for monthsTied hair band
It all started with my yearly Valentine’s Day obsession, and this year, I designed several free e-cards, and I loved it so much.
I expressed my wish to create Love cards. It has been a dream for years.
I went ahead and made my dream a reality with Etsy.
Sample Love Cards for any occasion: birthday, anniversary, Valentine’s, thank you note, just because…
These are sample cards just to show what I could do. Your card would be personalized to your and their interest.I threw this poem together really quickly. Your poem will be more thought out. I’ll write it within 3 days of purchase and I’ll take my time. Do you have heartfelt words you can’t quite express to your lover, if you answer a few questions, I’ll read between your lines and pull the right words out of your soul, I’ll create a poem This is the poem I wrote for a friend to dedicate to his wife last Valentine’s. By text, I asked him to tell me what he loved about her, then created this personalized poem. This is a short version of the previous poem, without the personalization. With this card, I was exploring themes to show some options for inspiration. You knew I had to have some suggestive examples! Perhaps you have a suggestion you would like to make to your love. ❤️ 😍 💖 Perhaps, after years together, it’s time to explore each other further, and if you can’t find the right words to say, I can.
Discover the Magic of Personalized Poetry Cards – Now on Etsy!
Are you looking for a unique and heartfelt gift that stands out from the rest? Look no further! I’m thrilled to introduce my newest Etsy listing:
Personalized Poetry Cards, where each card is a canvas for your own bespoke poem and design.
What Makes These Cards Special?
– Custom Poetry: Each card features a personalized poem crafted specifically for you or your loved one. Within just three days, I’ll create a poem that reflects your chosen theme, sentiment, or occasion. Whether it’s a birthday, anniversary, or just because, your poem will be a one-of-a-kind piece of art.
– Design Your Card: You have complete control over the design of your card. Choose your style, colors, and layout to make sure your card is as unique as the poem inside. Let your creativity shine and craft a card that perfectly complements your special message.
How It Works:
1. Purchase the card from my Etsy shop 2. Personalize Your Poem: Provide details about the recipient and the occasion, and I’ll work my poetic magic to create a personalized poem just for you. 3. Customize the Design: Tell me your preferred design elements and let me know how you envision your card. 4. Receive Your Card: Within three days, you’ll receive a beautifully crafted card with your unique poem and design, ready to share and cherish.
Why Personalized Poetry Cards?
In a world filled with generic greetings, a personalized poetry card offers a deeply personal touch that can’t be matched. It’s not just a card; it’s a reflection of your feelings and thoughts, transformed into art that can be kept and cherished for years to come.
Ready to Create Your Own Poetry Card?
Head over to my Etsy shop today and start the journey of crafting a truly memorable gift. If you have any questions or need help with customization, feel free to reach out. I’m here to ensure your poetry card is nothing short of perfect!
Thank you for supporting my work, and I can’t wait to bring your poetic vision to life!
With love,
Eve, hoping you’ll find your next card with me.
Gratitude card for a lover.
If you can’t purchase and need help knowing what to write on a card for your lover, let me know in the comments, and I’ll be happy to share the right poem for you.
Flirting doesn’t always have to involve grand gestures or rehearsed lines. Often, it’s about weaving a touch of charm and playfulness into everyday conversations. Here’s a guide to transforming your interactions into flirtatious exchanges that feel natural and engaging.
1. Start with Genuine Interest
Authentic curiosity about your partner’s interests, experiences, and passions sets the stage for effective flirting. Ask open-ended questions about their hobbies, recent achievements, or dreams. For instance, if they mention a recent trip, ask, “What was the most exciting part of your trip? I’d love to hear more about it.” This not only shows that you’re attentive but also creates an opportunity for playful banter based on their responses.
2. Use Light Teasing
Playful teasing can be a fun way to flirt if done with care. It’s about striking the right balance between humor and affection. For example, if they boast about their cooking skills, you might say, “Oh, I’m intrigued! Are you sure you’re not trying to impress me with your secret recipe?” This kind of teasing can build rapport and keep the conversation lively.
3. Employ Compliments Wisely
Compliments are a powerful tool in flirting, but they should feel sincere and specific. Instead of generic praise, focus on unique aspects that you genuinely appreciate. If they’re wearing a striking accessory, say, “That necklace is stunning. It really complements your style. Is there a special story behind it?” Tailoring your compliments to their personality or achievements adds a personal touch.
4. Incorporate Playful Challenges
Introducing a light-hearted challenge can inject flirtation into the conversation. For example, “I’m on a mission to find the best [type of food] in town. Care to join me on this culinary adventure and see if we can find a winner together?” This approach not only creates an opportunity for further interaction but also adds an element of fun.
5. Use Humor to Your Advantage
Humor is an excellent way to make flirting feel natural. Share a funny anecdote or playfully exaggerate a mundane experience. For example, “I tried baking last weekend and ended up with what can only be described as ‘artistic’ bread. Do you have any baking disasters to share?” Humor can break the ice and make the conversation more enjoyable.
6. Create a Sense of Mystery
Subtly introducing a sense of mystery can be intriguing. Instead of revealing everything about yourself immediately, share snippets and invite curiosity. For instance, “I’ve always had this quirky little hobby that not many people know about. Maybe I’ll share it if you’re lucky!” This piques interest and keeps the conversation engaging
7. Respond with Enthusiasm
When your partner shares something about themselves, respond with genuine enthusiasm. Showing excitement about their stories or interests can be very flattering. For example, “Wow, that’s amazing! I’ve always admired people who can [do something impressive]. You’re really inspiring!”
8. Use Body Language
Flirting isn’t just about words; body language plays a crucial role. Maintain eye contact, smile warmly, and use subtle gestures like leaning in slightly or nodding encouragingly. These non-verbal cues can convey interest and attraction without the need for explicit statements.
9. Balance the Conversation
While it’s important to show interest in your partner, balancing the conversation by sharing a bit about yourself can make the interaction feel reciprocal. For example, if they talk about their love for hiking, you might respond with, “I’ve always wanted to try hiking. What’s your favorite trail? Maybe I could join you sometime.”
10. Gauge Their Reactions
Pay attention to your partner’s responses and body language. If they seem engaged and reciprocate your playful banter, you’re on the right track. If they seem uncomfortable or disinterested, it’s important to respect their boundaries and adjust your approach.
Conclusion
Turning conversations into flirtatious exchanges involves blending genuine interest, playful teasing, and thoughtful compliments. By integrating these elements into your interactions, you create a dynamic and engaging dialogue that can spark romance and deepen your connection. Remember, the key to successful flirting is authenticity and respect—always approach with a genuine desire to connect and enjoy the process.
I think some have no idea how to flirt or are using their “flirting skill” so wrong,
I wrote my first song! It has been the highlight of my writing career (since yesterday) and I’m very excited to share this work with you.
“Interdimensional Travel” spoken song by Eve Lovestar
I am looking for a different type of creative who could help me sing the song and/or add music to this song. I am a total beginner in that arena. And I want the finished work to be perfect, so I can’t do it by myself. Are you a musician or singer? Would you like to sing my song? Please, if you do, let me know. You can leave me a comment or talk to me on my poetry collection site. The link is below: we can email privately through my poetry collection app.
It’s Pisces season, and I’m inspired, so a great poem was born. This poem might have just become my new favorite. I had earlier today chosen a favorite poem, “Interdimensional Travel,” and now it has lost its spot! But it’s a wonderful thing! It means I’m flowing not just with filler poetry, I’m overflowing with good poetry. Enough to make any poet smile.
In my heart
"In my heart"
In my heart There are mountains, There are valleys, There are deserts.
In my heart Are dimensions Both of measure And my ghost.
You arrived at my heart And you made yourself king. Now I dream to forever Be yours.
Eve Lovestar
If I were married, I’d say: With a ring And a rock.
Or use home if king is not preferred.
Are you inspired too?
With much excitement,
I wrote my first song today, and my best poem 😌 ✨️ 💓
If you like poetry, especially the sexy kind, I found the mother lode, and I’m honored to flow these energies to you.
People coming through this blog really love the poetry. I need the journal, but I love the poetry most, so I’m happy it’s this way.
Hello, I am Pisces, and being organized is not one of my gifts. I lose lots of my poems, and I don’t remember them. I always dreamt of collecting all my poetry, but some might be lost for good. I admit, not all my poetry is great, especially the old ones. I’m not going to publish the bad ones, and I might pull ones I don’t resonate with anymore.
My poetry portfolio
There are only galleries there and nothing else so far. The public union journal link is to this blog
Portfolio is such a formal word that it doesn’t describe the fun energies of my poetry. Rather, I am creating a collection of my poetry mostly for me. However, I found a really fun way to share these poems, and this is an invitation to join.
Join only if you’re a true fan of this blog and if you’re a true fan of poetry. Reminder that this is only my poetry, so join only if you like my poetry.
Join if you’re a romantic, a lover, a twin flame, or how I like to call people like me a Lovestar.
Join if you need inspiration in love.
Join if you’re open-minded because there will only be my art on here, and not everyone agrees with me.
The poetry collection is available through an app. This is just wonderful for me, and I know it’ll not be for everyone, but if you would like to open an app on your phone and connect with my poetry, then it’s for you.
The app has poetry and not these blog posts. It’s my love art
There’s a secret topic on there with some new art that’s being born as we speak
The entire catalog of poetry will be available and separated by topics such as love poetry, sex poetry, inspirational poetry, spiritual poetry, Spanish poetry, Scorpio love art, a secret topic poetry, and something entirely new I’m not telling you about here…
The secret is I’m sharing my previously unpublished works… the really naughty stuff. This year, I’m certainly not getting a present from Santa! I was never going to publish these creations, but I decided my app would be for a small group of true supportes so I decided to let them indulge.
If you join, I can email you, and I’ll email you for certain to say thanks for your support, and this is the easy way now to get ahold of me.
On this app, I can also assign badges, and I just created my first badge, a Lovestar badge, which I assigned to my first supporter, who is my beloved.
This is brand new, but I hope to upload my videos to this app.
And on the dreams part. I have decided to show you the amazing lingerie I design and make by hand on this blog.
All the sensitive stuff, I’ll post there.
From this app, you can share any poem that’s not sensitive, and I have made many poems available for download totally free.
For future supporters: I will expect feedback on what kind of art you enjoy most and create that.
Finally, I really intend to connect with the other Lovestars out there, but obviously, be respectful and don’t dare hit on me or burn in hell. Sorry, but I felt that was necessary. Some idiot on my poetry creation app, Miraquill, literally commented to ask I talk to him in private and my hair or whatever. You know im totally taken and respect me as such, or my beloved will not share me with you anymore.
I really appreciate your support, and please let me know what you think.
Eve, hiding the naughtiest poetry and a lots of other stuff
I don’t like to tell people what to do, so I usually only talk about my experience and leave it at that, but today, I had the brightest realization. I understand the title of this post sounds click baity, yet I will give you my formula for deep connection, which promotes healing and loyalty. That was a tall promise, but I’ll deliver. Some readers have come across the secrets by themselves and don’t need this. Some readers are very confused about how to connect with the opposite sex. 🤔
I realized these posts are too much, so after Scorpio season is over, I will make them private. Enjoy for now.
It’s day 4 of Scorpio season, and not only did the temperature already drop, but the energy shifted, and guess what already got better? Did you guess the sex? Omg did you already indulge? The energy of Mars is in the air, and Mars is a sexy, powerful planet. Expect your lover to be thinking of the things they want to do with you and expect to have the energy to make magic on your bed!
I just wrote this hilarious poem for this post. The winner of his heart, I meant. Between he and I, there is no competition.
Breaking down the stages of loving a Scorpio has been so much fun, and so far, I spoke about the obsession and addiction that a Scorpio’s lover most likely will feel.
I made up these stages, and I’m not a psychologist. If you are suffering from a love addiction, please seek proper help. All I know is when a Scorpio addiction creeps in, the only solution is more Scorpio energy, and then we get more addicted… I don’t know how to break this addiction… nor do I want to…
And now, I want to speak (kind of shy by now speaking of these potent and very personal feelings but it’s Scorpio season now, so shyness aside) of the second best stage of loving a Scorpio ♏️: healing through sex ascension. I’ll leave the best for last.
Let’s talk about sex ascension with Scorpio. Read through the links below my previous 2 posts about stages 1 and 2. ♏️
I’ll start this with my thinking mind, then drop into my feelings for some depth.
What is sex?
Sex is the very natural, animalistic drive to have intercourse for most of us with the opposite sex with the instinctual purpose of reproduction. I don’t understand the drive to have sex with the same sex, I don’t judge it, I simply don’t know, and therefore, I can’t speak about it.
Sex is overrated. Animals do it, and they don’t care.
What is ascension?
Ascension is the process of ever getting better. An upward spiral. Leaving what is holding us down behind. Forever growth. There’s a spiritual connection to God or the Universe for spiritual folk as we grow into a being who can hold more light.
Scorpio brings a different type of transformation to sex as it’s known in the modern world. This transformation is what I started to call sex ascension.
What is sex ascension?
Scorpio will understand this term because they are transformation. Sex ascension is a term I made up to explain my experience with my beloved. It is the upward spiral of sex, it’s positive transformation after positive transformation. This is a growth mentality applied to our sexuality. It’s the forever getting better of sex. The leveling up of it. It’s a new kind of sex you didn’t know existed. You will be wondering if you just created something brand new and you will have!
Sex ascension happens when sex becomes lovemaking because you have fallen in love and accepted your partner fully. Then, lovemaking goes even deeper beyond what you thought was possible. This will be the best sex of your life but better.
This sex ascension was natural for me because I have that growth mentality anyway, but I believe you can work on it consciously, too. For Scorpio, though, I don’t think he’s consciously doing it, but I think it’s his nature, his blueprint. His highest calling is to merge with his beloved, and this is done through sex ascension, healing, and Union.
I am Pisces and lovemaking is very energetic for me, so I understand but this is an extremely subtle thing and if you’re not a feeler like an empath or us water signs, or if you’re blocked somehow, you will miss it.
The closest that others might get to this Scorpio type of lovemaking is if you have Scorpio somewhere in your chart other than your sun sign or by taking advantage of the Scorpio season because the light in this energy promotes healthy sex, a cleansing/ healing through lovemaking, union/ reunion, reconnecting if we’re strong enough to handle the intensity and the truths that inevitably come out during Scorpio season which tend to cause fights in couples, and more. I feel very shy to speak of this energy! This energy also promotes obsession and addiction, and there’s a dark side, too…
Is lovemaking sex ascended?
Yes, but sex ascends beyond lovemaking into sex healing, sex magic… I will not be explaining all the details, but Scorpio would understand, and if you’ve been making love with a Scorpio for a long time (16 + years for me), then you will understand.
I define lovemaking as sex initiated from the heart opposite sex that initiates from instinct, which is just sex. Sex that is initiated from someone’s darkness is abuse, whether this is abuse of another or abuse of the self. Sex initiated with the purpose of connecting with the heart of one’s beloved is lovemaking. When lovemaking gets so deep that you heal or connect to a higher power during sex, that is sex ascension. Using the sexual energy for manifestation is sex magic.
How sex ascension with Scorpio heals
Scorpios are known to be healers. Their energy is healing as long as they’re not a creep (there’s good and not so good in every sign, I write about a healthy Scorpio)
Scorpios are truth tellers, so when they speak, my advice would be to listen, even though we might not like what they say because they’re certainly not nice. It’s happened to me that I thought he was mean for saying something, then realizing he was right and I was wrong. Yes; this can be applied to sexuality even though I will not explain further. Actually, a no sexual truth has already come through for me, and guess what? I have to apologize to Scorpio… ♏️ 😪 😔
It is the Scorpio sexual energy that is so healing. Scorpio’s intention, together with his healing energy, heals whatever blocks you might have. You might not even be aware of the healing being performed, but you will grow and become a new, healed person.
This healing comes in levels, first healing the obvious traumas, then dropping deeper until there’s no darkness left. Essentially, this is forever healing. Some people will not like this because to heal.this darkness, you have to feel it again, but once the “treatment ” has worked you will be renewed.
Yes, sex with Scorpio most likely will kickstart a dark night of the soul. Again, though difficult and scary, once it’s over, you will be healed, healing, and much stronger. This love is not for everyone…
What does sex ascension with Scorpio heal?
It can heal a broken heart
It will relax your body, which is healing because stress is a killer
It can cut cords to past lovers, leaving you energized
Scorpio will leave some energy with you as spy energy to protect you from other people you encounter away from them. It feels like a giant bear behind you. I have a theory that their unexplained jealousy might have to do with them picking up energetic cords attached to us by others, whether on purpose or not. This is healing because it’s protecting. For example, i had never felt safer in my life, so I’m more relaxed, open, vulnerable, I’m more me, and have much more fun
Scorpio can cleanse your body with his intention and his sexual energy
Sex magic is natural for Scorpio. With their intention, they can do what they want. If they love you, they would use this power for good, such as to claim you or imprint you to protect you. They can also impregnate us this way. This can heal traumas of neglect, not feeling loved, feeling unworthy, abandonment issues…
Scorpio freely gives me his power for my empowerment and protection. As a dainty Pisces, being empowered this way makes me feel secure, thus relaxed, and that is healing because I can be who I am now and I’m not afraid of getting into a fight like before.
This lovemaking is so powerful that it can bless your bloodline, past, present, and future.
Getting weird is normal for Scorpio – Pusces relationships: this kind of lovemaking can break family curses related to love and sex at the very least
Funny names I use for these experiences that imply healing: internal massage (he laughed so much at this one, I can feel a poem being born…) and the full treatment 😀 😄 😉
Scorpio will know what kind of healing you need and personalize your “treatment”
Please let me know in the comments what I’m missing and I’ll add it to this list
Lovemaking with Scorpio poems by a Pisces, beloved of a Scorpio.
This time, I wrote new poems for our reading pleasure
He laughed when I called it this. I’m afraid to admit what I identify as on here. But this is my journal. But anyone can read it. But this will become private after Scorpio season. I identify as his favorite vehicle, the 1995 red convertible Lamborghini, which name I forgot. This is actually an old piece I might delete…Brand new piece. My thoughts have feelings, too! Sex magic is not hot. It’s divinely pure. It makes you closer to spirit. It’s like 2 spirits making love. This reminds me of a poem I once wrote where I said that lovemaking was our way of touching each other’s souls. Deep but not in a sexual way, in an energetic, soulful way.
Thank you for visiting. Please share and tell me what you think about this topic.
This Scorpio sex series will become private after the season ends, so read and enjoy right now!
Aphrodite crashed my oracle today. She has a message about your love life that will shift everything.
(Imagine her: golden roses crowning blonde waves, sea foam gown, doves circling, words blazing: “Radiate love from within; beauty is your soul’s reflection.”)
She’s not here for your dating app drama.
She’s here to wake up the goddess in YOU.
The Aphrodite truth nobody told you 💗
Forget “goddess of romance.” This queen:
Rose naked from sea chaos → claimed her power
Turns desire into destiny, not desperation
Says your beauty = your soul’s mirror (not Instagram filters)
Love isn’t something you chase. It’s your energy.
(Your current love story? It’s reflecting how you treat YOURSELF.)
Try this 60-second Aphrodite hack (results GUARANTEED)
No crystals, no moon water. Just you:
Hand on heart → “I am whole. I am the love.”
Mirror gaze → “My beauty radiates from within.”
Wear red/slip on something that makes you feel irresistible.
People will notice. Doors will open. Watch.
(Energy shifted = reality shifts. Simple as that.)
This is your personal invitation, beloved…
I’m Eve from Lovestar Temple ~ your Goddess Messages guide.
Aphrodite just dropped a full channeled transmission that stopped me cold.
Thousands of women are walking this path. Your seat is waiting.
P.S. Comment below if this stirred something in you. I read every one.
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If 5 of Water and 8 of Fire had a voice together, it would be whispering, “You are so much closer to your next chapter than you think.”
5 of Water is that tender moment when you look at your life and see the places where you tried your best and it still did not turn out the way you hoped. It is the echo of old heartbreak, lost opportunities, and timelines that melted away like ice. It is the part of you that wonders if you are asking for too much in love, in your work, in your spiritual path. This card cups your face and says, “You are not asking for too much. You are asking in the wrong places.”
8 of Fire is the answer. It is the rush of warmth after a long winter. It is the messages, invitations, insights, and synchronicities that arrive the moment you admit to yourself what is no longer working. It carries the feeling of “suddenly”: suddenly I know what I want, suddenly the right person appears, suddenly this project takes off. It is not random luck. It is your soul finally aligned with the speed of your desires.
Together they tell a story: you are stepping off the lonely ice and into a path of living fire. The grief is real, but it is not the final scene.
A little free magic you can do today
Here is a simple practice you can try after reading this.
Take a quiet moment and place a hand over your heart.
Ask yourself gently, “Where have I been standing on thin ice in my life?” It might be a relationship, a job, a habit, or an old dream.
Whisper to yourself, “Thank you for getting me this far. I am ready to move toward warmth now.”
Then, before you go to sleep tonight, set the intention:
“I am ready for my 8 of Fire moment. Show me one clear sign of where my energy wants to move next.”
Notice what conversations, ideas, or invitations show up in the next few days. They are not accidents.
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If you are feeling strangely clear, a bit raw, or suddenly intolerant of crumbs in love, friendship, or money, this energy is already working in you. Old roles, outdated love contracts, and self-punishing loops have been burned in that ring of fire, even if your mind is still catching up.
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These patterns guard our hearts but now repel what we crave. Recognize yours? Healing one unlocks waves of others.
Guarded Heart Block You shut down fast after hurt. Love feels risky, so walls rise. Dates fizzle from unspoken fear. Partners seem unavailable because you pull back first.
Prover Block You hustle to earn love. Over give, overperform, shape-shift. One-sided bonds drain you. Inner voice whispers “not enough” unless you do more.
Dimmer Switch Block Mute your intensity to fit. Hide big emotions, needs, desires. Surface connections feel safe but empty. True self stays dim, repelling bright matches.
Controller Block Grip tight from anxiety. Obsess over texts, replay words, check socials. Pursuit turns to doubt. Flow blocks when you try to force outcomes.
These are not flaws. They protected you once. Eclipse energy amplifies their release. Self-healing here magnetizes real love: mutual, effortless, whole.
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Spend 10 minutes total. Write raw. Feel shifts stir. This tastes the freedom ahead.
My top love block shows up daily as.
One old wound feeding this block happened when.
Without this pattern, a loving conversation sounds like.
I accept and release this block by affirming.
Today I invite love that feels.
The Healing Possible
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You invoke Aphrodite energy any time you treat love, beauty, and your own heart as sacred, not optional. Think “small acts of devotion that make life softer and more honest,” instead of complicated ritual.
Simple space for her
Create a tiny beauty spot: a candle, a flower, maybe a shell or a mirror. Light the candle when you want to connect and sit for a few minutes in gratitude for love already in your life.
Soft self care
Turn baths, skincare, choosing clothes, or putting on perfume into a quiet love offering to your body. Move, stretch, or dance in a way that feels good from the inside and let that be enough.
Self love and compassion
Speak to yourself kindly, especially in the mirror. Practice forgiving your own mistakes and choosing rest or nourishment instead of punishment. Treat yourself the way you would treat someone you adore.
Relationships and kindness
Let your words, messages, and small acts of care be consciously infused with warmth. Compliment people sincerely, say thank you often, and show up for friends as a loving presence.
Boundaries and choices
Say no to what dims you and yes to what makes you feel alive, respected, and seen. Every time you choose relationships and situations that honor your heart, you are choosing Aphrodite.
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I am a cuban poetess and self made author and I am known for writing about goddesses. I write in Spanish also.
Know Eve is a mini series I do on social media where I share a quote of something about myself, so I decided to create journal type blog posts with the same topic that way you can know more about me and why I do what I do.
First of all, I have a secret, I am pregnant with my 6th baby. I am so hungry that I am loving cooking and baking. Being a mom to many was part of my thing this life around.
I am spiritual because church didn’t work for me.
I do not explain myself much. It is not to be rude or anything, but really, outside opinions are extremely rude themselves, so why would I bend over backwards for some rude person trying to take advantage of my time and energy? I am not nice anymore, though I am still kind.
Know Eve
19 yearlong commitment in Love
Everyone here knows I believe he is my twin flame and he likes it
I have been reciting poetry since I was a child
I moved to USA from Cuba at 18
I am a political refugee from Cuba. My father got into trouble with communism and his father before him
My children are also creative
I study Latin and Italian and have a dream of learning ancient Greece
Men often resent Valentine’s Day with a quiet intensity that goes unspoken. It arrives like an ambush: a single day demanding grand gestures, expensive dinners, and proof of devotion on command. Society scripts it as a test of manhood, where love must be purchased in roses, jewelry, or reservations, all wrapped in pink perfection. Fail to deliver, and you risk sulking silence or accusations of neglect. Succeed, and it feels like checking a box rather than kindling a flame. The pressure is relentless: perform or be labeled uncaring, cheap, or worse. No wonder many men push back, seeing it as a commercial trap that reduces their year-round efforts to one high-stakes spotlight.
Their argument carries real wisdom: love should not be confined to February 14. True devotion shows in the unglamorous daily acts, the steady hand on a back during stress, the quiet listening after a long day, the choice to stay when it is easier to drift. Forcing romance into a 24-hour spectacle cheapens it, turning intimacy into obligation. Men intuitively grasp this. They build love through consistency, not calendars, and resent the implication that their ongoing presence means nothing without a receipt. This stance is not coldness. It is clarity: real union thrives on authenticity, not artificial deadlines.
Consider Lupercalia instead, the ancient festival on February 15 that strips away the shopping and scripts. No chocolates required, no credit card swiped. Emerging from Rome’s primal roots, it celebrates wild desire, purification, and life force through raw, embodied rituals: runners shedding clothes and shame, lovers claiming each other under wolf moon light, blood blessings that honor essence over expense. Men can lead here, invoking strength as sacred hunters or devoted priests, without spending a penny. A simple red candle, shared words, naked dance in private, or a vow to your lover’s untamed heart boosts the union instantly. Desire awakens. Stagnation sheds. Closeness deepens. Celebrate Lupercalia in your temple, and watch love run free.
Lupercalia Temple Ritual is now yours in the Patreon shop, but hear this: it is not for everyone. This primal, Venus-blessed rite stirs blood, desire, and wild union in ways that demand care, consent, and reverence. For goddess lovers, romantics, and those ready to shed shame for sacred hunger, it awakens profound shifts. Approach with respect, or step away. Enter the temple only if your heart can hold its fire. ($8.88)
Lupercalia was an ancient Roman festival held annually on February 15, dedicated to fertility, purification, and the protection of livestock and women from barrenness. Its origins trace back to the earliest days of Rome, possibly as early as the 5th century BCE, and it was presided over by the Luperci, a brotherhood of priests selected from noble families. The festival took place in the Lupercal cave on the Palatine Hill, sacred to Lupa, the she-wolf who nursed Rome’s twin founders Romulus and Remus. This primal location set the tone for a rite that celebrated raw life force, wildness, and the beginnings of human civilization.
The core rituals were strikingly visceral. Young men from the Luperci ran naked or scantily clad through the streets of Rome, striking women with februa, thongs made from the freshly sacrificed hides of goats and a dog. These whips were believed to promote fertility and ease childbirth; women eagerly sought the blows, seeing them as blessings from the gods. The sacrifices themselves were graphic: goats for purification and a dog for protection, their blood used to anoint the priests’ foreheads with a blood-soaked knife, then wiped away with milk-soaked wool to symbolize cleansing. Amid the chaos, there were also lotteries for pairing young men and women, a precursor to romantic matchmaking that some historians link to later Valentine’s traditions.
Lupercalia’s wild energy persisted until the late 5th century CE, when Pope Gelasius I banned it, likely due to its pagan intensity clashing with Christian values. Yet echoes remain: February as a month of purification (februa means “purifications”), the romantic pairing customs, and even the feast of St. Valentine on February 14 as a Christian overlay. For modern observers, it offers a glimpse into Rome’s unpolished devotion to life’s cycles: blood, desire, fertility, and renewal, far removed from sanitized holidays.
Lupercalia Temple Ritual is now yours in the Patreon shop, but hear this: it is not for everyone. This primal, Venus-blessed rite stirs blood, desire, and wild union in ways that demand care, consent, and reverence. For goddess lovers, romantics, and those ready to shed shame for sacred hunger, it awakens profound shifts. Approach with respect or step away. Enter the temple only if your heart can hold its fire. ($8.88)
Valentine’s season can feel like a test. Are you loved enough, chosen enough, postable enough. For many sensitive, romantic souls, it is also the time when old wounds ache and secret desires get louder. Beneath the roses and restaurant bookings, there is a deeper longing: to feel truly seen, to speak from the heart without feeling foolish, to let love be something sacred again instead of a performance.
What if Valentine’s was less about what you receive and more about what you express. Not in a self-sacrificing way, but in a way that lets your heart come back into the center of the story. One of the simplest, most powerful ways to do this is also one of the oldest: the love letter.
Why love letters still matter
In an age of fast texts and disappearing messages, a love letter is a small act of rebellion. It says, “I am willing to slow down. I am willing to choose my words. I am willing to be seen.” For the writer, it is a moment of clarity. For the receiver, it becomes a keepsake, something that can be held, reread, pressed against the heart on a difficult day.
Love letters matter because they:
Anchor your feelings in something real and tangible.
Help you access your own truth about love, instead of copying a script.
Create connection: with yourself, with a partner, or with the future love you are calling in.
You do not need perfect handwriting or poetic training. You only need a willingness to be honest and kind.
A simple heart-opening practice before you write
Before you write anything, take three minutes to shift out of anxiety and into presence.
Sit comfortably, place one hand on your heart and one on your lower belly.
Breathe in slowly for four counts, hold briefly, and breathe out for six counts. Repeat three times.
Ask yourself: “How do I truly feel right now.” Let one word or sensation arise, even if it is messy: hopeful, tired, tender, scared, grateful.
Imagine a soft light in your chest, growing warmer with each breath. Silently say, “I am willing to be honest. I am willing to be gentle.”
Only then pick up your pen or open your document. You are not writing from panic or performance. You are writing from a heart that has been invited to the table.
Honest, non-toxic love letters
Many people avoid love letters because they are afraid of two things: sounding cringe or handing someone too much power. Both fears come from the same place old patterns of love that included games, tests, and unspoken expectations.
A healthy love letter:
Speaks in “I” language: “I feel,” “I remember,” “I hope,” rather than attacking or blaming.
Focuses on appreciation, truth, and desire, not on guilt, manipulation, or ultimatums.
Shares vulnerability without collapsing: you reveal your heart while still respecting your own worth.
Your job is not to impress or convince. Your job is to let your inner truth find a clear, kind voice.
Prompts to help you start
Here are a few grounded prompts you can use whether you are writing to yourself, a current partner, or a future beloved:
“Right now, when I think of you, I feel…”
“A moment I still carry with me is…”
“What I appreciate about you (or about myself) is…”
“The kind of love I want to grow into looks like this…”
“One truth I am finally ready to admit is…”
You can take just one of these, write a single honest paragraph, and call that your letter. It does not have to be long to be powerful.
For couples: turning letters into a quiet ritual
If you share your life with someone, you can turn letter writing into a simple ritual evening instead of another obligation.
Each of you writes a short letter before or during the evening.
Light a candle, turn off notifications, and take turns reading (or quietly handing over) your letter.
After reading, the receiver does not need to give a speech. A simple “Thank you. I will sit with this,” is enough.
The goal is not to fix everything in one night. The goal is to create softness, to let tenderness back into the room. Many people, especially men, quietly keep love letters for years. Your words may become an anchor they return to many times.
For singles: letters as manifestation
If you are single, love letters can become a gentle manifestation practice that is rooted in self-respect instead of desperation.
You might write:
A letter to your present self, thanking yourself for every time you chose not to abandon your own heart.
A letter to a future beloved, describing the atmosphere of the relationship you are inviting in: mutual respect, laughter, slow mornings, shared growth.
A letter releasing an old pattern or past relationship, closing that door with gratitude and honesty so another can open.
The point is not to force a specific person into your life, but to align your words, your body, and your choices with the kind of love you truly want to live.
When vulnerability reveals the wrong person
There is a truth many of us avoid: sometimes, a sincere love letter reveals that the person in front of us cannot meet us. If someone mocks your sincerity, uses it against you, or shows contempt for your openness, that reaction is a gift of clarity. Painful, but clarifying.
Let your letters be both offerings and lanterns. Offerings of your real heart, and lanterns that show you who is capable of holding that heart with care.
A temple for real romantics: my Patreon offering
If your whole being is humming a little reading this, you might be one of the quiet romantics I created a special space for.
Inside my Patreon temple, I just opened a Valentine’s collection devoted entirely to this work. In it, you will find:
A guided heart-softening meditation to help you drop into your body before you write.
Channeled goddess-of-love messages for different love states: romantic, single, long-term, and heart-healing.
In-depth, practical guidance on writing love letters that are honest, non-toxic, and soul-aligning.
Writing prompts, examples, and reflection questions you can use again and again.
Simple rituals for couples and singles to turn letters into living acts of devotion and manifestation.
It is a small, accessible offering designed to feel like stepping into a candlelit temple of love for an evening, then carrying that energy back into your real, imperfect life.
If you feel that tug in your chest, that soft “this is for me,” you are warmly invited into the Patreon temple. Bring your pens, your questions, your romantic heart. We will let the goddess of love meet you exactly where you are and help you write your next chapter with more honesty, tenderness, and courage than ever before.