Of all the things we say about our twin flame union, which things are positive? Which are negative? Does it really make a difference?
Everything is made of energy, including our words. The words we speak have a certain vibration. In our twin flame connection, if we’re manifesting union, we must keep the vibration high between the twin flames.
If we’re speaking lowly of our twin flame, our connection, or talking about ourselves lacking love and respect, we’re sending those low vibes directly to our connection and might be manifesting separation.
Because the connection is made of the two twins which appear to be separate and the connection is the line that unites us, talking negatively about either your twin or yourself affects union just like talking negatively about the connection is most likely to manifest separation unless there’s an energetic change.
The words we regularly speak of our connection are a clue of whether we’re manifesting union, separation, or something in between.
But I believe it’s not simply that our languages manifest, though we use our languages to bless the things we dearly love, to curse thd things we’re afraid of or dislike, to banish what we don’t believe or understand, to excert power and manipulate, to gossip, even to abuse, etc.Ā
Languages give us spells that powerfully transform our surroundings, spells we use all day long. Conversations and interactions need to be kept vibing high so they can become a powerful tool for theĀ manifestation of union. I personally love sweet and sexy rhyming spells to manifest union, and if you feel curious about those, find my poetry and see what I mean.
The low vibes. Complaining and gossiping in a relationship
When we gossip about others, we’re sending them a low vibration, and we’re receiving their bad response energetically. Gossiping about another person all the time is like waging an energetic war. We send them crappy energy and receive a response. Gossip is like a drug, very addictive and difficult to change for the better.
When we gossip about others, others might gossip about us because, energetically and subconsciously, the person we’re gossiping about picked up on our gossip and if they are addicted to gossip, they will start gossiping about us. Both people will feed off the other person’s bad energy. I know this will resonate with those who know two people who constantly gossip about each other.
Within couples, gossip has very negative effects. When a couple gossips about others, not only are they getting negative responses from those they gossip about, but the union will likely become rocky. People who gossip are not trustworthy and ultimately, your twin might become suspicious even if you don’t gossip about him because he reacts to the energy of gossip and he wants your energy to be a safe space for him.
I’m writing an entire post about gossip, and I’ll speak more about gossip as it relates to relationships and especially twin flames.
Negativity and drama in the twin flame connection.
The negativity and drama we experience are part of the energetic baggage we carry around. Unless we’re very familiar with cleaning our energy, we carry lots of negativity and drama because we find it everywhere. Our twin flames react to the baggage we carry because they know our soul, which is pure light. Our twin flame would react to negativity and drama vibes we carry around, even if say vibes have nothing to do with our flame.
When we are manifesting union, we must become conscious of the baggage we carry. This is the healing we do in our connection where we become as close as possible to our higher self, who is our twin flame’s ideal lover. Our higher self would not gossip or participate in drama.
Since our twin can feel this negativity and drama as low vibes and this causes running, it makes sense that when we stop gossiping, our vibration rises, and then we might become aligned with and therefore manifest union.
Imagine then if, for some reason, I decided to gossip or speak maliciously of my twin to family, friends, coworkers, and the internet. We all know someone who talks about their partner and as twin flames, I’m sure we’ve all seen the comments on videos and posts where negativity about the twin flame connection are spread. It happens, and it manifests separation.
Our twin knows what we think about them deep down. Depending on their level of awareness, he might not even realize it’s your belief that they’re picking up. They might feel our judgements of them as self-doubt or not feel worthy, which would certainly manifest separation because they don’t feel worthy of you.
The high vibes. Blessings sent
If gossiping about our flame can manifest separation, then it makes sense that speaking positively about our twin flame and our connection can help us manifest union. Speaking is how we use spells to manifestĀ whatever we’re creating, often unconsciously. I’m suggesting that we create a habit of consciously speaking words of love, respect, and loyalty about our partner and our connection.
I don’t suggest we lie about our connection. I am speaking to those twins who have decided to manifest union, twins that know beyond any doubt their partner is their twin flame, and they believe they can reach union. In other words, I believe a lot of those twins flame complaints left on comments are from people who are not twin flames at all. I believe there is something to be grateful about in every real twin flame union.
Gratitude is a high vibe, and sending gratitude to your twin is a sure way to manifest warm thoughts for you in your twin’s heart. Just like he (or she) can feel when you talk or think negatively about him or the connection, he can feel when you speak or think words of gratitude.
When we openly tell our flame, “I’m so lucky to have you,” or ” Thank you for coming into my life,” or “I’m so grateful you are mine”, his reaction will be that of someone feeling loved (unless he’s running), my insight is even when we tell those words to our mom, sister, friend, whoever, our twin will feel them and they will be a lot more willing to open their hearts to union. Even further, I’m suggesting that our twin will even feel our thinking of these high vibrational thoughts.
I’m suggesting we use the power of our connection consciously. Our connection has two ends, mine and his. I could feed my connection lies, disrespect, drama, and my Twin would send me the same low vibe back in the form of running and separation. Or I could choose to feed gratitude, love, and acceptance consciously into my connection to which my beloved would have to react with the same high vibe, perhaps in the way of union.
Speak blessings on your twin flame union
Start practicing to always send love and light to your union by speaking positively about your twin and the connection. Then, see yourself through your twin’s eyes and feel the love they feel for you and start speaking about yourself in the positive way your twin speaks or thinks about you.
Understand that your union exists. Even if you’re currently in separation. There is a time, a place, a dimension whereĀ you and your twin are in union. If it’s difficult to bless your union in the physical, connect to this magical place where your union is pure and full of love. Connect to this place and recognize what you feel. Feel gratitude for the feeling, for that union, for that place.
When you speak to your flame, be kind. Not fake kind. That’s the 3D low vibes, and they can feel if you’re not genuine. Feel within yourself that you can trust your twin and allow the feeling of warmth, appreciation, and love for this person to bubble to the surface, then transform that vibe into words and have a vulnerable conversation where you are not rude, judgemental, or short with your twin. Even if you don’t get romantic (if either of you is attached to a karmic partner), your twin will remember your kindness and will start to compare all potential lovers to your sweet and kind energy.
Finally, literally send blessings by intending your twin will be, well, blessed. Visualize your twin receiving love, strength, gratitude from the universe, and everyone they care about. See, in your mind’s eye, your twin receiving abundance, praise, and rewards. See them being fulfilled, happy, healed. Say a prayer for them. Ask angels to surround and care for them. Send them love. Intuitively, do what you feel will send the highest vibes.
If you have any additional tips on how to bless our twin flame unions, please share on the comments.Ā If you know anyone who needs this, please kindly share.
I intend this information will assist you in your union.
With much respect and lots of Love,
Eve
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