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  • Stage 4 of Scorpio Love: total Union. Union with Scorpio poetry. Pisces Scorpio compatibility 🔥🔥

    Stage 4 of Scorpio Love: total Union. Union with Scorpio poetry. Pisces Scorpio compatibility 🔥🔥

    Welcome to the last of my Scorpio Love stages series. I am excited to finish this, and it has been so fun that I will definitely do something like this again. I am writing more Scorpio posts after this series, so stay tuned if you love a Scorpio or if you are one and you love to hear good things about your ruling energy.

    Let’s talk about Stage 4 (the best): total union. Read my previous stages post through the links below.

    What is Total Union?

    Total Union is the name I gave to a very rare united state between lovers. This state is beyond what we know as love and beyond what we know as lovemaking. The truth is that on Earth, what we’re working with is a very distorted way of love. Blessed people find total union. I do believe total Union is found between twin flames or soulmates. I believe it’s reserved for spiritual love because it goes so deep that it feels like you mix until you become each other almost. This union is not Earthly. It’s spiritual.

    Total Union is a divine right. This is a brand new thought I had. So then, it must be our pain, fear, and egos keeping us in separation.

    Union comes in layers. If a couple is blessed, they will find a sensual physical union that will deepen into a lovely emotional union. If they master energy or get close to spirit, there’s a rare chance of their union developing into an energetic union. Finally, through much healing and prayer with good intentions and never hurting the other person, their union could ascend into a soul union. At this stage, you’re never separated again, and your love will surpass death, giving a new meaning to forever love by breaking the till death do us apart marriage vow.

    Physical Union

    This is, in the modern world, the most likely positive beginning of a relationship. A man and a woman like and desire each other. They date and enter a relationship. They try their best to understand one another. There is a strong chemistry. There’s romance and healthy sex. There are no third parties. They start to develop deep feelings for one another, but they might feel insecure, unsure, doubtful, and/ or jealous due to ego issues or fear.

    Emotional Union

    Emotional Union is the union of our emotions and feelings. After forming a positive physical union and no feelings being hurt, the partners learn to trust each other deeply. They fall in love, and their best time is when they’re together. Healthy sex becomes lovemaking.

    They start thinking of the future and decide if they will marry and have children. In this stage, the partners think of each other and don’t act in ways that hurt their partner. What happens is that to hurt one’s beloved becomes impossible, even the thought of hurting them hurts us more. Even a small offense becomes unthinkable.

    This is the stuff that poems and love songs are written about. The love of movies. It can happen within weeks, months, or years of a physical union being established. And sadly, for worldly relationships, this might never happen if they get a distorted way of love.

    Energetic Union

    Reaching this stage is rare because we have to both align completely. To reach this stage of union, we must raise well above the world’s standards for love and sex. Most couples don’t have a clue that this magic exists. This is when our core energies are united and working together. Some couples might not desire this because, at this stage, there are no secrets, lies, and even mistruths can be felt.

    At this point of union, our Love is so profound and beautiful that it’s like a third entity. This third entity is union. Because at this point, union is so palpable that it can be felt. This union energy I see as the coming together and amplification of our good wishes for one another and the strengthening of our Love and other positive emotions during the entire relationship. In other words, the energetic union is made up of the good vibes we inject into the union during 16 years for my union.

    In case it wasn’t clear, at this stage, love is unconditional because one’s beloved would never do anything to hurt us on purpose anyway, and thus, there need not be any conditions on love. Conditions, I feel, exist to handle romance with the wrong person.

    Loving unconditionally is something that happens naturally. Don’t remove conditions if you are not super compatible with your person.

    During this stage, the union energy is manifesting more union and good things for us. The couple feels and appears to be blessed. Other people will not understand because almost all marriages have a lower vibe than this union.

    By now, lovemaking has ascended into sex magic, and whether consciously or unconsciously, the lovers have started to use their sexual energy to pump so much love and heartfelt emotion into the union that the union deepens yet again. This is healing. Both partners heal during this lovemaking until it feels like there is no other person in the world, no exes or other people you would ever consider being with. At this point, the third energies from the past are cleaned. There is a strange protection that comes with this lovemaking that I can’t explain.

    Soul Union

    In this layer of union (and I feel as though there is another layer which I named on my Lion’s Gate podcast), your souls are united. Union starts with the souls if it’s divine love but, us, humans don’t listen to the soul until we’re mature and wise. This stage of union is when you are connecting with their soul and their soul with you without any darkness.

    Fun fact: I’ve been connecting with my beloved’s soul or higher self for up to 4 years consciously, but I used to complain to his soul about him… soul level drama. 💯 I’m not doing this anymore because now I have reached Soul Union, and I understand I was manifesting separation in our union.

    Union comes in levels. It’s like a game of love. Once you master a level, you realize there’s another level.

    At this point, our missions are united. I don’t complain to his soul anymore 😆 😂 🤣 I now believe that our souls are connected in a mysterious secret way. They have always been connected. However, now we’re leading our union from our souls.

    By the way, his soul always listened to my complaints and gave me solid advice, which I listened to. He behaved as my forever protector, and I believed he had always been with me. Additionally, his soul gave me all sorts of sweet energy. His soul was not nice, but rather showed me tough love and showed me where I was wrong as soon as I was strong enough to handle his criticism.

    His soul was very loving and understanding, though. He explained, for example, that my feminism was hurting my union, which I was not wise enough to realize on my own. I listened to his soul much more than I listened to the person. His soul also taught me the importance of surrendering because it took me sooooooo long to care about surrendering.

    In this stage, we are working to never separate the union between us. This is the union that goes beyond death. We will be buried together, but really, our souls will continue their journey together, and if we happen to come back to this world, it’ll be together. There’s no other soul dead or alive. Only he and I and God… is God the union? Spirit is the union.

    What is not Total Union

    • Marriage is not even close to union. If a marriage is solid (which is rare), that’s emotional union in my book and can ascend
    • Having a family together is not a union because there can be separation within a family, or a union could be broken or damaged
    • A stagnant relationship is not a union because union is forever flowing, evolving, and ascending, and that’s how you reach a higher state of union, a deeper layer
    • Being in love is not a union, and honestly, most humans don’t know what love actually is or how to love. Humans tend to see sexual desire as love, which doesn’t even come close, and maybe that’s why infidelity is such a pandemic because humans keep on marrying the “wrong” person
    • Being faithful is not Total Union (though it could be a physical union) because simply abstaining from sex with others (which is a beautiful thing, of course) doesn’t mean you trust, or deeply know, or understand, and you can hurt your partner in other ways
    • Have patience and trust the process. As they say: surrender (to God’s plan and fate) and wait for perfect timing. Scorpio season could very well be perfect timing for something or someone special in love
    • Total Union happens when our love grows and deepens beyond all the items on this list. Reminder that it is a very rare state reached only through spirit or energy work. It’s the ultimate blessing of love.

    Can I reach Total Union with Scorpio?

    Yes. Scorpio’s higher calling is to find total Union with their beloved. My Scorpio taught me to love this deep. I am a romantic lover now, but I never intended to fall in love because I didn’t believe in love. I guess I was saving my romance and my best energy for my Scorpio.

    Scorpio is known to be a sex god/ goddess, but that’s because we, the people sleeping with Scorpio, only notice how advanced their sex skills are. What we don’t realize is that beyond that sexual power, there is a big, soft heart ♥️ 💓 ❤️ yearning for pure love and beyond love, reaching union. Thank you, God, for creating Scorpio!

    Total Union with a non Scorpio. Is it possible?

    Yes. Maybe between twin flames or soulmates. Maybe during the Scorpio season, it’s possible to get a taste or to upgrade your union. Maybe super compatible couples can find this. Total Union is not something you go to a therapist to figure out how to reach. Total Union is fated if you believe in fate. Then again, with faith that moves mountains, prayer, positive intentions, and manifestation on your side, everything is possible. Simply, don’t settle if you are looking for union.

    Have you found total Union? Please comment and tell us the details you can spare.

    Tips to reach total Union with a Scorpio (or your twin flame)🔥🔥

    This is not easy at all, so this little post will not suffice. However, this entire blog is about me reaching total Union with my beloved Scorpio. If you are interested in manifesting total Union, read all my posts and try the several tactics I have blogged about using. Additionally, I have recorded several podcasts (which are not of excellent sound quality yet the content is very excellent) regarding dealing with issues and reaching total Union with my beloved. Also, see the simplified list below for my greatest tips, especially for Union with a Scorpio.

    • Be open and vulnerable to be your most authentic self. Don’t be afraid to be unique or even perceived as weird or crazy
    • Find a compatible partner. This is the key to a forever relationship. If you marry someone you’re not compatible with, divorce, cheating, grudges, drama, complaining to others about one another, secrets, etc. could happen. At least you might need therapy to handle the differences and to reach understandings.
    • Speak blessings into your union. Manifest it. Pray. Do the energy work. Align your chackras. Be on your mission and find your joy.
    • Always tell the truth to have them trust you. If you have spoken a non true statement, explain and apologize. I did this without knowing out of confusion, and I still need to apologize, and I might write a letter because it’s difficult for me to admit I was wrong. I blog about it to help me loosen up
    • Forgive. This is necessary because nobody is perfect. So if they spoke a false statement without realizing and asked for forgiveness, forgive them and be grateful that they set the record straight and have some remorse
    • Don’t be nice, be kind. Kindness comes from the heart. Niceness probably comes from ego and fear. Say the hard things that need to be said
    • Consider their sexual needs always. Don’t marry someone with a high sex drive who you plan on not having loads of sex with. Compatible sex tendencies are crucial to not be cheated on or have him checking girls out on social media a5 ZaZaxxku0
    • Quality time spent together
    • You must agree on most things, so finding a person you are compatible with is important because total Union is not reached by holding grudges
    • Romance them. We all have different romantic sides. I’m verbally romantic, so sending sexy texts, writing poems, telling him I love him, and saying sweet things to him is my way. He is physically romantic. Others are romantic with dates, flowers, and meaningful gifts. Find your romantic style, and it should be compatible with his romantic needs.
    • Heal together

    Union poetry written for my beloved Scorpio

    Total Union super simplified. Total Union doesn’t fit in a poem…
    This lovely piece describes emotional union. It speaks of understanding my beloved to the point that I have felt the walls, and by now, I have breached the walls, and I can get through to his heart. From his point of view, for him to let me sneak past his walls, he must have learned to truly trust me, not only in a physical sense for example he knows I don’t like any other guys, he need not be jealous. But there’s another level of trust when you trust your person to not hurt you (of course, Scorpios are very afraid to get their loving hearts broken)
    Even God sent love could come with separation. Union is a God sent love where 2 people’s egos are out of their way, and there’s a certain level of flow or non resistance to spirit. Spirit commanded we love each other, so what better way to love spirit than to listen to its love calling?
    Wow
    I had been searching for my mission since I was a child. Now I believe the important thing I was supposed to do on Earth was love this deeply, have children born out of this love, and tell strangers about a love this deep to inspire someone else to love this deep. My mission is about love ascension.
    This love even blessed my past, my ancestors. Fun fact: my mother and grandmother are Scorpios ♏️ who were not lucky in love. My job was to break their cycle of pain and pass down love through my DNA down to the future generations
    This love is strange, so at first, twin flames might run from this intensity. The way to my heart is intensity, though.

    If you are beloved of a Scorpio, you are a lucky person because they love you deep. Please take care of your Scorpio and help them relax, help them calm, let them understand you are not a danger to them. Don’t play games with Scorpio because it’ll start to break your relationship. Love them deeply, and since they might not express their love for you, express your love for them. Go ahead and text them one of my sexy poems, I dare you.

    Finally, are you a Pisces who loves a Scorpio? Please, kindly let me know.

    Thank you very much for reading,

    Please let me know if you love a Scorpio, and did you relate? Did you enjoy the series?

    Do you have any questions regarding loving a Scorpio?

    With love and light,

    Eve in love with a Scorpio ♏️

  • Stage 3 of Scorpio Love: Healing with sex ascension Sex with Scorpio poems, part 2. Pisces + Scorpio twin flames.

    Stage 3 of Scorpio Love: Healing with sex ascension Sex with Scorpio poems, part 2. Pisces + Scorpio twin flames.

    Hello, fellow Lovestar,

    My intention with this series of the stages of Scorpio Love is to demystify Scorpio love. ♏️ I will be making these posts private after Scorpio season because they’re too much for energy other than Scorpio’s, so read now.

    This post is part 2 of my last post, stage 3 healing through sex ascension. I’m sharing more sex poetry. Lovemaking poetry, really, but sex poems is an easier name.

    Stages of Scorpio Love. Read the other 2 stages through the links below
    Stage 1 of Scorpio love: the obsession
    Stage 2 of Scorpio love: the addiction
    Stage 3 part 1 of Scorpio love: healing through sex ascension

    My old videos about sex with Scorpio.

    Explaining sex with Scorpio. This juicy secret video only has 8 views as of 10/27/23. There’s a secret sex playlist on my YouTube channel, I’ll add to it and then share it with you.

    Does it surprise you that my little YouTube channel has the most views on my sex poems… apparently, people are searching sex content on YouTube. I believe people are looking to be turned on, though. My intention is to inspire, and if you’re here to get turned on, you’re not a match to this blog! If you’re not a match to this blog, please get off ASAP and go to a different kind of website.

    Turn me on. An old sex poem. This is me, before I became Lovestar. These old poems might have a lower vibe since I’ve grown a lot since then.
    Several sex poems by your fearless sex researcher, I’ll find out what’s good and then write about it for our reading pleasure. These poems are dedicated to my beloved Scorpio, and I share them for females for inspiration.
    Old favorite pieces of my old favorite sex poems. My face has changed in the last few years, but not my love for Scorpio energy. Actually, my love has grown.
    “Good and bad” and “Sex before work” 2 old poems inspired by my lover, Scorpio ♏️
    5 or 6 old sex poems. Total coincidence that it was episode 69…
    I guess I’m kind of a lovemaking blogger…
    Love and sex poems
    More sexy poetry. This is what Scorpio inspires. These old videos were made when I was learning about twin flames. Some were written before I even knew
    We spilled the stars poem. Long ago, I created a beautiful picture, which is on an old YouTube video, to go with this poem.
    Energy transfer. I was starting my spiritual twin flame journey during this poem
    Sex after children poem. Lol 😆 😂 😅 I forgot I wrote this piece. There is more… too many to share. I guess I am a sex writer. Ok, I’m feeling shy now. 🤭 I’ll discuss this with my beloved ♥️ ❤️ and maybe I’ll share less

    Healing with Scorpio poetry by Pisces, beloved of Scorpio

    Thanks for reading and please tell me

    Is there someone special you could dedicate one of these poems to? Would you? How did they react?

    My Scorpio, the stoic, reacts with smiles or silence. It’s hard to get verbally romantic for him. He gets physically romantic.

    With love,

    Eve

  • Twin flame poetry 🔥🔥 “Only You” You. You. And more you!

    Twin flame poetry 🔥🔥 “Only You” You. You. And more you!

    Oh, Lovestar,

    I have caught a bad case of love obsession! It’s been 16 years, but it only keeps on growing stronger! What could I do if not indulge? This September, I have indulged in sexy love poems.

    I’m sharing my last 3 poems with you. WARNING! Very sexy sex poems ahead! If you don’t want to get a bit turned on, go read this post about cleaning the park, please, and thank you:

    Enhancing the natural spaces around us. Mother Earth Love.

    Or let’s connect on social media:

    If you are brave enough (especially if you have a significant other who makes you feel like this), then read on. The first thing that was curious to me was how hot these poems turned out! My beloved literally made me tune the heat down! Yes, I sent him a XXX version of one of these 3 poems! Can you guess which poem I sent my flame a “dirty” version of? Only 1 word changed.

    Then I noticed they were all about YOU (he is my beloved Scorpio twin flame). August and the union manifesting Lion’s Gate is over, but here is the rest of the year, when we experience the great vibes we manifested or the light vibes we anchored from elsewhere in August. In August, I was manifesting a deeper union, and now I get to indulge in it!

    And it was hard to ignore the down to Earth vibes on these pieces as well. In August, I was writing heartfelt, very emotional poems with a channeled vibe to them, union manifesting poems, but the season has changed now. There is definitely fire on these new September 2023 poems, probably from leftover Leo fire. These poems bridged the Leo season with the Virgo season for me.

    The third thing I noticed from these poems is that the Virgo energy is hot, too! 🔥🔥 This might only be for people in relationships or for everyone. What do you feel of the sexiness of Virgo energy? I know I have to clean my house…

    I hope you enjoy these pieces, and as always, I dare you to dedicate one to someone who makes you feel like this!

    I am all giggles as I reached the end of this post (if you’ve listened to some of my podcasts, you have heard how much I giggle).

    I appreciate your visit to the blog today,

    Blessings, and please tell me,

    Which poem did you love most? Which poem would/ did you dedicate?

    With Love and Light,

    Eve

  • Union stages, union manifestation, and union poetry Lovestars podcast

    Sweet friend,

    I published a new Lovestars podcast episode. On it, I discussed the stages of my union, why the Lion’s Gate is the perfect time to manifest union, twin flame union poetry, and I discussed the energy of the upcoming super full moon blue moon in Pisces which has the potential to manifest union and how in my belief, we can use this rare moon to extend the energy of the Lion’s Gate 2023 which was inmense. I talked a bit of my heart healing during the Lion’s Gate 2020 and a lot of other stuff.

    Stages of Union. How many have you reached?

    • Recognition (5/5/2007)
    • Sexual Union
    • Physical Union
    • Heart Union (Lion’s Gate 2020)
    • Energetic Union (Lion’s Gate 2023)
    • Next step: soul union (set the intention during Lion’s Gate 2023)
    • Next next step: Total union

    What is twin flame Union?

    Union is much more than being in Love. Union is much more than being in a relationship. Union grows. Union is healing between the counterparts. Union is enlightenment (if we could achieve this…) in Love. Union is the Ascension of love. Union comes after an ego death because the ego can only be at rest or shattered for Union to happen.

    Thank you for being here, and if you enjoyed this podcast (I think it was my best yet), please let me know what Union is to you.

    How did you manifest union during the Lion’s Gate 2023 or prior years?

    With love and light,

    Your friend, Eve

  • August, The Lion’s Gate, and Union. Is this divine timing? Yes, it is!

    Dear Lovestar,

    Divine timing is always, but there are energies that assist in the manifestation of union. When we’re under the influence of these energies, we attract what we want so much easier, we might become master manifestors, if we are open to the energy. The energy is not everything, though! Even in the ideal energy of union, we have to take some steps to manifest this union into the physical. In other words, we must do mundane things here in the 3D to manifest our perfect union.

    I only wanted to share with you these 3 amazing readings on YouTube. Partly because I can listen to whatever at work (perfect job), I have been indulging in hours of spoken content, and these videos will help! But there’s something else I want to address.

    This season, if you are open, honest, and vulnerable with yourself and you work with the energies, you will find secret, hidden truths about yourself. It’s important to ensure these things are coming from your soul, which will bring you closer to union and not coming from ego, which will manifest separation.

    If you have not discovered anything new about yourself and you want that, set the powerful intention and do the work that will help you learn these things about yourself.

    If you’re in a twin flame relationship, it is important to understand that your beloved helped design you to be his/ her perfect lover. It is important to not feel fear at the things we discover within us. And something I have learned from experience is don’t be afraid, much less ashamed about exposing your inner truth to your beloved. This person might be waiting for you to embody your inner lioness/ lion! Your person is manifesting who you are becoming, and don’t be afraid of changing (transformation is in the air) because it will likely manifest union.

    And now I have to talk to my beloved partner. I need to take my advice up there, and it is very scary, though extremely 😬 😳 😐 freeing to finally be who I am rather than trying to be too safe and nice, which is so fake… no offense here because I’m speaking about myself, and this is how I beat myself into submission. 😌 😎 ✨️

    Finally, I’m having a tough time right now saying what I need to say, and you know I’m a weirdo, so I’m writing a long letter to explain my feelings to my beloved. You will not get to read it! But I’m thinking of writing a post about how to write a letter from the soul!

    My fav spiritual influencers on August and Lion’s Gate energy.

    Have you learned something new about yourself?

    How has union improved for you during August or the Lion’s Gate season?

    With love,

    Eve

  • A new dimension of love and lovemaking. Union update ❤️ 😍 💖

    Dear diary,

    ***Update since 5/5/23: that big Scorpio eclipse which coincided with my anniversary to Scorpio ♏️ ***

    Once expectations are dropped and nothing is expected, union manifests. Of course, this statement would be ridiculous applied to a 3D relationship. Of course, in the “real world” (such as the world my parents live in), there has to be clear expectations, or they will not be met.

    Lucky for me, I don’t live in the real world. In the world I live in, I don’t have to tie my lover down. He willingly comes to me all the time. My lover doesn’t have to “buy me” or do anything special to earn my affection. I am totally free of charge. I know we live in a broken world, and this is why I want to change the it.

    A new dimension of love ❤️ 😍 💖

    Since my last update, my beloved Scorpio and I have become closer than ever. It was unexpected, really, so I’m sure it was divine timing, and perhaps the energy accelerated due to the eclipse. It really doesn’t matter why, the lovely thing happened and now I’m very grateful.

    I’m not going to give the specifics on what happened, too personal and unnecessary, but change started in my mind. Perhaps also in my beloved’s mind, I didn’t ask… In our conversations around this time, we talked about giving more to our connection (I led this conversation). Giving more in a state of gratitude for the continued Love and the increasing depth of our Love. This is totally something I’d say and not Scorpio…

    The change I refer to was reaching a place together where we were more at peace, closer together, and wanting more.

    A new dimension in lovemaking 😋 😋 😋

    A new dimension in lovemaking is obviously yummy 😋 😜 😊 😉 😀 😍. It’s obvious and undeniable when this happens. This is a real phenomenon and not something that can be made up, not something that can be faked. Both partners feel the shift. The shift is positive, of course.

    This positive shift in lovemaking, which I’m calling a new dimension, is not some magical, otherworldly move to the 5D ( 😆 ). This positive shift is a new level. We all started somewhere, let’s say, at level zero. At different rates and for different reasons, we all leveled up our sex life. I’m not assigning levels to skills. What I speak of is an energetic “feeling” thing, not a theoretical learning thing. I didn’t do anything new, I did have a new intention, and I used the power of gratitude to manifest this shift.

    Manifested, or divine timing?

    If I used gratitude to manifest this shift, did I manifest it, or was it divine timing 🤔? I feel like this question is a lot like What came first, the chicken or the egg? Trying to answer it is a good journaling exercise.

    The shift started in my mind. There was probably plenty of assistance from my lover Scorpio. I feel his fantasies, so what I think (about sex) are not my thoughts at all. They’re at the very least shared thoughts, at most, my thoughts are his thoughts, which sounds dangerous ( 😆 🤣 😂) but I’m tuned into that vibe, so there is no harm. The power of tuning into his desires has been helpful for me because I’m the embarrassed little girl type…

    I don’t believe I manifested this. Though I’m certain that you, the reader, can manifest a higher level of love and a higher level of lovemaking, the experience I write about was not manifested by me, there is a chance that it was manifested by my lover! He is Scorpio, and this shift happened under the influence of the Scorpio eclipse, and I believed going into the eclipse that he might be manifesting something… but though my lover likely helped manifest this for us, I believe this was divine timing.

    Does sex get better after 16 years?

    That is such a great question, and we all know the answer is no. Most of us know of couples that fall apart much sooner than that and we ourselves might have gotten tired of someone in the past, most of us also experienced cheating and we assume cheaters cheat because they get bored. We assume that sex with the same person and the same way get boring.

    This is why finding a new dimension of lovemaking elevates the entire union. It suddenly becomes new again. The energy ascends, the feeling gets better, and the desire grows.

    I am excited about this big change in our union and so grateful. Now that I know this is possible, I will explore it even further. More of these posts are coming.

    Dear reader,

    Thank you for visiting and I’m grateful for you. I have been off the blog lots because my life has changed also in the busy area but I will always keep on coming back.

    Much love,

    Eve

  • Lovemaking meditation. Stop overactive mind to reach orgasm.

    TRIGGER ALERT!!! WE DISCUSS SEX,  ORGASMS, AND THE LACK OF ON THIS POST. MEANT FOR FEMALES. READ FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES. ENGAGING SEXUALLY WITH A FEMALE? COME GET INSIGHT. WRITTEN WITH LOVE AND LIGHT FOR THE COLLECTIVE OF FEMALES.

    Dear friend,

    I was in a deep conversation with my beloved ❤️ when he mentioned how many women go their entire lives without experiencing an orgasm. We discussed the topic further and were baffled that only a tiny percentage of females are able to have an orgasm through vaginal intercourse alone. Lucky us, and how do we spread the awareness that this is within reach for many more?

    Why do I care about orgasms?

    There are many reasons. One is my partner believes it’s hot. Whether he vocalizes it or not, my partner gets off getting me off. It not only deepens the connection and makes me open to more sex, but also my partner gets confirmation that he’s doing something very well and that I’m enjoying myself with him.

    During an orgasm, there is a huge release of sexual energy that has interacted with my attentive lover. This energy has manifestation power. It’s a perfect time to set an intention.

    Having an orgasm is a huge self steem boost, and it makes me feel better. My theory is that it also makes me look better, at least while the orgasm has the effect and their spell last a while.

    I believe there are health benefits to having orgasms. Additionally, I believe it helps balance hormones, can help balance feminine and masculine energies within my body, and can help ground me. I can not prove these beliefs. I don’t have orgasms for their health benefits either. They just feel really, really good. They feel like bliss.

    There is a healing power to having orgasms. Energetic, mental, and health manifestations of the two. Regular orgasms can be powerful, like therapy with a good therapist, orgasms can help get stuck energy out of the body, and this has helped me ascend, grow, transform, heal, and become who I am today.

    Regular orgasms help manifest union. With my theory about them helping remove stuck energy out of the body, regular orgasms could trigger running and chasing but ultimately should help bring the lovers to union.

    It’s said that orgasms increase the chances of becoming pregnant. (If not trying to get pregnant, use caution)

    My personal experience

    I, too, have experienced orgasmless sex. That is the sex that sucks that I wish I would have never settled for. I didn’t even think female orgasms existed until I was a woman and read about it in a magazine! I was told and taught about the monumental male orgasm with their creative power but never even informed about the bliss I too could experience and I would not feel that bliss until I met my beloved, and luckily for me, I was only 20.

    If teenage girls were taught about the female orgasm, they would be less likely to give their bodies to undeserving partners and would not go into long-term relationships with mediocre partners.  Girls would grow into women who are confident in their bodies and who are comfortable sharing their opinions and talking openly with their partners. Please do your part and let someone know of the incredible power of having an orgasm as a female.

    My beloved 🔥🔥 who was made for me by God and set up to date me by the universe, is my orgasm giver. It’s his superpower, and I have been blessed, I know. I speak from my experience of what I have noticed in going from not enjoying sex to loving every moment of it and wanting more with the right partner. The right partner was key.

    In my youth, in Cuba, I remember people said that girls fell in love with the first guy they had sex with. I never believed that. I believe that girls fall in love with the first guy who gives them an orgasm. She would be powerless to not fall in love.

    What I believe is that in a relationship, if a girl still doesn’t love a man before he gives her her first orgasm, she will fall in love the moment she feels it.

    Why am I not having orgasms?

    I could be judging myself. If I’m thinking I don’t look good enough during sex, if I’m wondering if I look good or bad, if I’m trying to hide perceived body imperfections, if I’m trying to look a certain way rather than being vulnerably me, I can’t have an orgasm. But I have realized that in any position, we look hot. The imperfections are not noticeable.  He is not looking at my huge belly. He is looking at his favorite part of me, and he does a great job of finding my sexiest side.

    I could be judging my performance. If I’m thinking I’m doing a poor job during sex, I’ll likely not experience bliss. If I’m trying too hard, if I’m competing with his previous lover, or with some idea of what I should be doing, or if I mistakenly believe I have to act like some porn star, I will not have an orgasm. As a woman, I have found that I don’t have to be any of those things for my partner. The only way is to surrender without judgment! If I let go completely, I’ll feel bliss.

    I could be judging my partner. Perhaps we are fighting or mad at each other. I will not have an orgasm if I choose to have sex with the wrong partner. It would not work if I dared compared him to a previous partner. For me, I have to feel safe with a man to even come close. His energy has to feel right. I should not have any questions of whether or not he’s cheating. I’m definitely not cheating. It’s not a one-time stand, a mistake, or a partner I want to break up with. It starts with the right partner, and I’m giving all of me because I trust him.

    I could be judging the experience. If instead of enjoying every second of it, I’m in my mind, concerned if it’s too soon, too late, if I’m overcome by jealousy, if I think I will regret the experience, I would not expect to have an orgasm. However, I have learned in my connection that to enjoy lovemaking, I have to be present in that moment, and that means not thinking about anything that is not part of that experience or that could enhance the experience.

    Tips to reach an orgasm

    As a woman, since I only surrender my body to my beloved, the right guy, and my orgasm giver, only my overactive thinking mind could prevent me from enjoying the lovemaking experience, peaking with an orgasm. My belief is that to have a fulfilling sex life, a female must first have a worthy partner, and once that is accomplished, she needs to simply calm that overactive mind that prevents her from enjoying herself to the max through overthinking.

    Thinking during the sexual act is the biggest thing I’ve noticed that can stop my pleasure. I don’t know how this works for males and only speak about what I know. If, during sex, a woman starts thinking about work or family drama, she will not have an orgasm. If her shopping list pops in her mind or her bills, her pleasure will fade. If a woman becomes preoccupied with anything at all during sex, she will not enjoy it much because, as a woman, this experience is internal.

    For those of us who practice meditation, it’s easy to realize that lovemaking is the perfect meditative experience. After all, being in the moment is not letting our thoughts wander into the past or future, being in our current energy, feeling what we are feeling, being patient, and not rushing the experience, accepting, surrendering to the moment, being in a receptive mode, letting go of judgements…

    Letting go of thoughts is difficult! It might even be impossible to be in a non thinking state unless someone has been practicing for a while. Yet, while making love, when thoughts come through my mind, just like when I meditate, I don’t let that thought become a conversation that would take my concentration out of my beloved. I don’t want to miss a second of my lover’s attention, so I’ve practiced. If my mind is going 1000 miles a second and not being helpful, I use willpower and take my thoughts to an extremely powerful and sexy moment in our connection, such as our first time.

    If my mind is overactive, I visualize my beloved and I making love. This practice tames the overthinking mind and adds another layer of sexy, the mind suddenly working to my benefit.

    Prior to lovemaking

    • Set a romantic and mainly safe stage for lovemaking.
    • Relax body and mind.
    • Set a powerful intention such as to receive as much pleasure as is given, to reach union, to become more aligned.
    • Surrender to lover’s touch. Decide that all of him is worthy of all of me.
    • Calm overactive mind by reassuring that all is well. Remember the first time or a time when total surrender caused an orgasm.

    During lovemaking

    • Don’t hold anything back. When the intention is to reach an orgasm, there is a need to be open to one’s lover.
    • Don’t judge the experience, myself, my lover.
    • Be grateful. Gratitude makes everything sweeter and is a powerful manifestation technique.
    • Be open. During this experience, we might pick up our partner’s thoughts, desires, and fantasies. Accept them without judgment.
    • Be vulnerable.
    • Share the best of me.
    • Curve overactive mind by only engaging with thoughts that promote pleasure in my body. Visualizing my partner and I making love.
    • If thinking too much: open eyes and feast off the view of my beloved.
    • Surrender completely to the experience. Know that this is divine. I am worthy of this experience. I am worthy of feeling this much pleasure.
    • Intend that my lover will receive my love, gratitude, and appreciation from this exchange.
    • This exchange is an energetic one. Intend that our bodies will know how to interact with one another and provide each other the sweetest and most memorable experience.
    • Let go of the need to have an orgasm.  This will be an amazing experience regardless, and if I’m trying to hard, it will not happen.

    After lovemaking

    • Tell him how much I enjoyed it, or if not bold enough, let it be known.
    • Be grateful. Tell him or not, feel gratitude for this experience.
    • Sit in the vibe of lovemaking. A sexy energy was left behind, feel it.
    • Understand I am worth the pleasure felt, and there is nothing wrong with what we did. On the contrary, as a spiritual experience, lovemaking gets us closer to God. .
    • Feel my lover’s gratitude. He might not say it or recognize its gratitude, but he will be feeling it.
    • Decide to do this again.

    Dear friend, as a female, I reclaim my feminine power in the arms of my beloved. Our exchange is a safe experience where I can be my most vulnerable self. We engage with Love, respect, and passion. Our intention is to become closer, to please each other, and to feel pleasure ourselves, and we believe this is a gift from God, we will not judge or reject this gift from God.

    If you’re inspired, I invite you to engage with your beloved in lovemaking with the knowledge that not only can you have the most delicious orgasm but it will make your life more enjoyable and, dare I say, will make the world a better place.

    I pray this post will be useful, and if you find it enjoyable, please share it with a friend.

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    Please let me know if this was helpful,

    With love and light,

    Eve

  • The power of conscious sex

    Trigger alert! ⚠️🚨⚠️ I will be talking about unconscious sex!!! Read only if you will not have an unwanted response!

    Sex can be many things. It can be sweet lovemaking. It can be deceptive, stolen, and sold. Sex can hurt, or it can heal. Sex can be very unconscious. But can sex be conscious?

    Dear friend, I am not writing this post with  judgment in my heart. I have settled for the lower vibing sex, too. Though I judge myself a bit because we tend to be stricter, tougher on ourselves than others, I am not judging your experience. My intention with this post is to debate this topic. I am journaling. I am also not putting conscious sex on a pedestal because I feel I appreciate conscious sex much more after experiencing unconscious sex.

    What is conscious sex?

    Sex can be very unconscious. So then, by contrast, there has to be conscious sex. Sex is obviously very private, and we don’t get to know, like we know people who are conscious about their diet, conscious about their speech, or conscious about their appearance, but many of the people we know should be engaging in conscious sex. And if they’re not, there’s something wrong with this world. I do believe there’s something wrong with this world, but I believe we can help balance the energies through conscious sex.

    According to the dictionary, to be conscious is to be aware of and respond to our surroundings. In the context of sex, I would say conscious sex is when we engage in sex in a way that we are aware of what we’re doing. There are no tricks played, and both partners engage openly and willingly.  Responding to our surroundings during conscious sex sounds to me, like engaging with a positive intention, responding to our partner, being sensitive, and being open.

    Being conscious can also mean being awake. Awake neaning aware, knowing something that some don’t know exist, to bring that which is unconscious into our consciousness. In the context of sex, and in a more spiritual light, I would say conscious sex can be to engage, knowing secrets about sex that are not available to all (if you have any such secrets, please blow the whistle on the comments). To engage in a ritualistic way (for the light). To perform sexual magic, etc.

    Is conscious sex lovemaking? Conscious sex is lovemaking, but not all lovemaking is conscious.

    My personal experience

    I was all messed up when I was matched by the universe with my beloved twin flame. Previous to meeting him, I didn’t understand, appreciate, or love myself. Unfortunately,  when those things are lacking, we tend to give ourselves easier than when our self-love is strong.

    I was also heartbroken from childhood trauma. My chakras were out of alignment. I was not my healthiest or most beautiful.

    This was until my beloved worked his magic on me. I’m a different woman now that I’ve been touched by him. I believe he shone a light into me. It was a light so bright that anything that was not in alignment with it was obliterated. And so he blessed me from the inside out with the power of conscious sex. This is his superpower and the superpower of twin flame sex.

    The power of conscious sex

    Conscious sex heals. It can heal sexual trauma. It can even help heal us from sexual abuse.

    Conscious sex helps us ascend. It shines a light on low vibing energies within the body and, therefore, it can raise our vibration.

    Conscious sex can free us from heavy, ancestral energies, karma, and even curses. Set up a powerful intention as you engage.

    Conscious sex is a powerful tool for manifestation. Using the energies of the exchange to create the world we want to live in and be a part of.

    Conscious sex can create a beloved family.

    Conscious sex is a way to connect to source, spirit, and the universe. It’s a prayer of love.

    Conscious sex can help ascend the low sex vibes on Earth. The low vibes are all around us, and we’re all interacting with these energies. Through Conscious sex, just like it can support our bodies and get the low sex energies out of our bodies, so to can Conscious sex work the low sex energies in our planet until eventually, if we’re successful in our mission of love, one day there will be more Conscious than unconscious sex on Earth and healing will come. Sex will have ascended on Earth.

    Please tell me on the comments of your experience or opinions about conscious sex.

    Also, share how and what you manifest through conscious sex.

    With love and light,

    Eve

  • Great sex. The secret to a long lasting relationship?

    Trigger alert ⚠️  I talk about sex, lovemaking, and long relationships here. Read only if these topics will not trigger an unwanted response in you. Thank you.

    Dear friends,

    Since I’ve been reunited with my beloved, lovemaking has been a dream. We have been under a spell of attraction, and we’re loving every second of it. If cameras started rolling and a movie was made of our lives, it would be a sexy romance. We were separated not because we wanted to but for work and family travel.

    Today, a thought occurred to me. Is good sex or lovemaking the secret to a long-lasting relationship?

    I was deep in thought, figuring out if lovemaking creates a lasting relationship. A long relationship would not be as fulfilling if the sex was not good for most couples (this post is very basic and does not cover sexless unions, which I know exist, but I’m not an expert in)

    Great sex will cause this in your relationship

    • The better the sex, the least likely a couple is to cheat because we’re less likely to get bored.
    • Having great sex as their fun secret, a couple is likely to feel fun and relaxed to others and, therefore, be magnetic.
    • People who have great sex are likely to have high self steem since their bodies are the object of much pleasure to their partners. And people who have high self steem are likely to have more sex. It’s a sexy cycle.
    • Couples who have great sex are likely to have much more of it than couples who have less than the greatest sex.
    • People who have great sex give each other orgasms and regular orgasms might make the couples more relaxed and laid back.
    • People who have great sex might be in touch with their internal world due to heightened daydreaming and fantasizing.
    • Great sex will make you closer as a couple.
    • Couples who have great sex are probably much more open and honest when talking to each other since they’re very open and vulnerable with their bodies.
    • Couples who have great, regular sex might hold hands, hug, touch, look each other in the eyes, and smile at each other more often because they’re comfortable in their skin and comfortable sharing with their partner, and they crave their partner’s touch.
    • Please let me know in the comments what great sex causes in couples.

    But will great sex cause a relationship to be long-lasting? To extend a relationship that without great sex might break up? Or could two people who are not right for each other stay together due to great sex?

    What is great sex? Great sex is sex you feel lucky to have had. Sex you don’t regret. Sex you look forward to having again. Sex you feel lucky to have in your life. Sex that you remember with a warm smile. 😏 Sex that brings about much pleasure and makes your day better. Sex that results in 2+ orgasms. Sex that you never want to say no to. Sex that relaxes. Sex that makes you closer as a couple. Sex that you dream, daydream, and fantasize about. Conscious sex.

    I don’t think great sex alone should extend a relationship that is meant to end. Also, people don’t only cheat because their sex life is lacking. They also cheat looking for emotional connection and support. I believe everyone should consider all aspects of their relationship when deciding to stay with someone or end a relationship.

    There might be couples who have great sex and are not meant to be with each other. But they might not be as happy. There are many reasons to break up with a person, and I don’t think they should be ignored due to the great sex. People might feel afraid to leave a partner they have great sex with and be left with something worse. Yet again, nobody is perfect, and we should be patient (my lover was very patient with me).

    My personal experience

    Many years ago, before I started calling my partner beloved and started seeing our connection as God sent, we already had great sex. And I remember being quite bothered by our great sex. I wondered if the amazing sex was the best of our relationship because we were going through a rough patch.

    Not that I thought the great sex was a bad thing, I wondered if there was nothing deeper. What would keep us together once the sex is gone? Obviously, I craved the closeness that would be in our future, our now present.

    It’s possible my partner would have dumped me if the sex wasn’t great from the beginning. He is Scorpio, a very passionate lover, and he connects through sex. Without great sex, there is no connection. In fact, our dating would not probably have turned into a relationship if our sex wasn’t mind-blowing.

    However, I thought we would break up because we were not as connected, and that is what I was after. So, both partners might feel differently, and it depends on how high the partners value sex. It depends on the people within the union whether or not to stay together. A partner might value physical connection more, and another partner might value an emotional connection. The partner who values emotional connection might be OK having less than great sex but the person who values physical intimacy would not settle for an emotional connection that lacks in the bedroom department.

    Time to take great sex more seriously

    In my unpacking the question of whether or not great sex extends the life of relationships, one thing I realized is, of course, it does. But more importantly, great sex should be taken more seriously as part of the foundation of a relationship. Later, we will get old, and we can revisit this topic, but while young and energetic, we can enjoy this gift.

    I think great sex is an excellent tool to become more connected with our partner. And we should limit sex with not worthy partners because it can become addicting.

    I will encourage all committed relationships who are not already taking advantage of the power of connecting through sex to start taking steps to a better sex life. There is always another deeper level of connection, and what more connected state of being than making love with your partner? Open up lovers to the power of conscious sex.

    With much Love and respect,

    Eve