This poem romanticized twin flame sex. We know it’s powerful. 😌 However, this poem is a large metaphor.
The secret wisdom of this poem
Don’t get me wrong, there are aspects of this poem that are rooted in the mystery. What does that mean?
The mystery is twin flame lovemaking and its healing aspect.
The main topic of the poem
The poem refers to my sexual experience with my beloved Scorpio as a Love Ritual. In pleasing the other, we have rooted a beautiful union.
Poem interpretation
This poem explores the dynamic and evolving nature of our love, particularly within the context of a committed relationship where both partners are engaged in keeping the connection alive and vibrant. Here’s a breakdown of the key themes and ideas:
Stanza 1: Embracing Change in Love
“It is not always the same.”
The poem begins by acknowledging that love is not a static experience. It changes and evolves over time.
“We engage in many ways / To avoid boredom with change / And it works really well.”
I highlight the importance of variety and creativity in maintaining a healthy relationship. By engaging in different activities and experiences, the couple avoids the monotony that can come with routine.
Stanza 2: Consistency Beneath the Change
“But inside us, it’s the same.”
Despite the external changes and new experiences, the core of the relationship—its essence or soul—remains constant.
“There is soul in many ways / We will evolve, we will change / But for the best as well.”
This stanza suggests that while the relationship evolves, these changes are positive and contribute to the growth and deepening of the connection.
Stanza 3: The Mystery and Playfulness of Love
“We engage in curious ways: / There are secret games we play. / There are dreamy spells we say. / We speak in tongues as well.”
Here, the poem delves into the more mystical and playful aspects of love. The “curious ways” might refer to private rituals, inside jokes, or intimate behaviors that only the couple understands. The “dreamy spells” and “speaking in tongues” suggest a deep, almost magical connection, where the couple communicates on a level beyond ordinary language.
Stanza 4: Love as a Sacred and Blessed Experience
“There are prayers that we speak. / Miracles that we have received.”
This stanza introduces a spiritual dimension to the relationship, suggesting that the couple sees their love as something sacred, blessed, and miraculous.
“Our intentions set to please / Our blessing in love is bliss.”
The poem concludes by emphasizing that the couple’s love is intentional and mindful, with a focus on bringing joy to one another. The use of the word “bliss” underscores the profound happiness and fulfillment that comes from their relationship.
Overall Interpretation
The poem is a celebration of the multifaceted nature of love. It acknowledges the necessity of change and variety in maintaining a relationship while also recognizing the deep, unchanging core that keeps the bond strong. The playful and spiritual elements of the poem highlight the richness of love when it is nurtured with creativity, intention, and mutual respect.
I understand perfectly if you do not believe in goddesses and deities. I myself, did not until I had an experience with Venus.
However, if you do not believe in goddesses, here is how you can see Venus.
Discovering Venus: Embracing the Essence of Beauty, Love, and Femininity
For many, the name Venus evokes images of the ancient Roman goddess of love, beauty, and desire. But what if you don’t believe in goddesses or deities? Can Venus still hold significance in your life? Absolutely. Venus represents much more than mythology; she embodies universal energies that we can all connect with—beauty, love, femininity, and the powerful force of attraction, also our sexual energy.
Venus Beyond Mythology
You don’t need to believe in deities to feel the influence of Venus in your life. Think of Venus as a symbol, an archetype that represents certain aspects of our human experience. She’s the embodiment of love’s warmth, the glow of beauty that surrounds us, and the gentle yet potent energy of femininity. These are qualities we all recognize and can nurture within ourselves, regardless of our spiritual beliefs.
Venus as the Energy of Beauty
Beauty is one of the most accessible ways to connect with the essence of Venus. It’s not just about physical appearance but about finding and appreciating beauty in the world around you. When you take a moment to notice the colors of a sunset, the elegance of a flower, or the harmony in a piece of music, you’re tapping into Venus’s energy. Beauty enriches our lives, lifts our spirits, and connects us to something greater than ourselves.
Venus as the Force of Love
Love is another powerful way Venus manifests in our lives. It’s in the love we give and receive from others, the kindness we show to strangers, and the compassion we feel for those in need. Venus reminds us that love is a force that binds us together, making our lives richer and more meaningful. By cultivating love in all its forms—romantic, familial, platonic—we invite Venus’s energy into our hearts.
Venus as the Embrace of Femininity also lives in our smile
Venus also represents the energy of femininity, which is not confined to any particular gender. It’s about embracing qualities like nurturing, intuition, creativity, and softness. These traits are often undervalued in a world that prizes hard edges and fast results, but they are essential for balance and wholeness. By honoring and nurturing our feminine side, we bring Venus’s influence into our daily lives.
Observing Venus in the Sky
If you want to connect with Venus on a more tangible level, look to the night sky. Venus is the brightest planet and often visible just after sunset or before sunrise, known as the “Evening Star” or the “Morning Star.” Observing Venus can be a grounding experience, reminding us of the vastness of the universe and our place within it. It’s a moment to reflect on the beauty, love, and femininity that Venus symbolizes.
How to Connect with Venus’s Energy
Whether or not you believe in Venus as a goddess, you can still invite her energy into your life. Here are a few ways to do so:
Surround Yourself with Beauty: Create an environment that pleases your senses. This could be through art, nature, music, or anything that makes you feel more connected to the beauty of the world.
Practice Acts of Love: Whether it’s showing kindness to others, expressing gratitude, or simply spending time with loved ones, let love be a guiding force in your actions.
Honor Your Feminine Side: Embrace qualities like intuition, creativity, and empathy. This can be as simple as allowing yourself to be gentle and compassionate with yourself and others.
Observe Venus in the Sky: Take a moment to step outside during her visibility and gaze up at the planet. Let this be a time of reflection and connection to the energies she represents.
Smile more: The goddess lives in the smile.
Embracing Venus in Your Life
Venus is more than a mythological figure; she’s a symbol of the beauty, love, and femininity that enrich our lives. By consciously connecting with these aspects of ourselves and the world, we can invite more joy, harmony, and love into our everyday experiences. So, the next time you think about Venus, take a moment to reflect on the beauty, love, and feminine energy that she represents. Let her inspire you to live a life filled with these wonderful qualities.
Love is often portrayed as a powerful force, essential for creating life. Yet, its creative influence extends far beyond the act of procreation. One of the most delightful and overlooked aspects of love’s creativity is its ability to generate smiles.
When we think of love, we might first imagine the profound bond between partners or the nurturing care of parents for their children. However, love’s creativity manifests in many subtle and charming ways, one of which is the way it effortlessly brings smiles to our faces.
Love as a Catalyst for Joy
Smiles are a universal language of happiness, and love is their primary inspiration. When we are in love, our emotional state naturally shifts towards positivity. This state of joy is contagious, often resulting in smiles that brighten our days and those around us. Consider the simple yet profound effect of a loving gesture—whether it’s a thoughtful compliment, a warm embrace, or a shared laugh. These moments create a ripple effect of joy, turning into smiles that express our inner happiness.
The Science Behind Love and Smiling
Psychologically and biologically, love stimulates the release of feel-good hormones such as oxytocin, serotonin, and dopamine. These chemicals promote feelings of happiness and contentment, which often manifest as smiles. Smiling itself can reinforce these positive feelings, creating a loop of joy where love leads to smiling, and smiling, in turn, amplifies the love we feel.
Love’s Creative Expression Through Smiles
Love’s creativity isn’t confined to grand gestures or monumental moments. Often, it is found in the everyday expressions of affection and connection. Smiles that are born out of love can transform routine interactions into memorable experiences. They can bridge gaps, mend misunderstandings, and build stronger relationships.
A smile shared between friends can strengthen a bond, while a smile from a loved one during a tough day can provide much-needed comfort. These small, creative acts of affection showcase how love’s influence extends into the art of living and interacting.
Smiling: A Reflection of Love’s Impact
When we think of love as a creative force, it’s clear that its power is not solely about creating new life but also about enriching our daily lives. Smiles are a testament to love’s enduring impact, reflecting joy, connection, and the deep satisfaction that comes from nurturing and being nurtured.
In essence, love is a continuous source of creativity, and one of its most charming creations is the smile. It’s a simple, yet profound expression of our emotional landscape, made all the more beautiful by the love that inspires it.
So next time you smile, remember that it is a creative gift of love—an expression of joy that enriches both your life and the lives of those around you. Embrace love’s ability to make you smile and let that smile be a testament to the creative power of affection in your life.
I have been listening to Shaman Durek (fun fact, my lover is a shaman), and I tried this tell me more trick while sitting in nature.
I immediately heard my twin flame say I love you, which triggered a beautiful heart-opening reaction.
I then asked tell me more and beautiful, loving, and some private thoughts came through increasing the warmth I was feeling in my heart.
It was a beautiful mini meditation that left me smiling.
Coming soon: note on the smiling. I’m starting a smile more challenge ☺️ 😊 😄
It is for Venus and I will be talking about this soon.
I also received a request from Spirit to talk about my spiritual view of why our monthly running (or moon connecting blood offering) can be extremely after profound spiritual work.
I tried to make this post private, and password protected but my computer skills are limited, so you get to read it. I will learn, though. Do not be offended, please, when you notice password protected posts consisting of my sex journal. This is private stuff so it cannot be openly available.
This Lillith poem was inspired by a podcast by the Middle Age Witch podcast, I linked it below.
I shared this beautiful poem on X, then added a secret third stanza for my lover who likes kinky poetry
This just happened, and thus, the third stanza doesn’t have rhyme or rhythm. This was not for the poetics. It’s for the meaning.
It’s the Lion’s Gate fault! I wish I could stop time. if it was the Lion’s Gate every day of the year, I’d always be this sassy.
I got so many divine messages for divine spirit work to complete (That is the upgrade this year, full on magic work with spirits, I am graduating into a witch lol), and I’ve been divinely guided into goddess work and, for some reason, shadow work leading to Lillith. It was Scorpio, my lover, who suggested that sex is a way to work the shadows, yes, Scorpio would say that. However, for me, miss Pisces, bound by church as a girl, sex play is a big shadow for me.
It could be that Lillith wants a poem; I will write some. The lady on the middle-aged witch podcast said that Lillith came to her when she was ready, that Lillith would only work with people who are ready to be unapologetically themselves, and I have in fact grown in this way. I don’t post this to X, actually, too many normal people, but I dip my toes. Maybe that is the sign, once I am more open on X (or Facebook, where my family is, I entered Pagan on my FB bio). Find me on FB as Eve Sanchez but I mostly post on Spanish.
I was listening on the Middle-Aged witch podcast (I love that podcast) that Lillith loves an orgasm as an offering, and I’m wondering if she would be willing to communicate with me for some poetry creations using some sex magic.
I work with Venus – Aphrodite
Venus is the Roman name for the Greek Aphrodite, and they are the same goddess. Below, I will share some of my poetry for her and one day I will tell you of my work with her. I have been working with her for months. Later, I will tell you how you can work with Aphrodite – Venus, too.
This poem talks of the cause of the Troyan war, when Aphrodite offered Paris the most beautiful woman in the world, the married queen Helen (long story).
I have actually communicated with Venus Aphrodite, and I loved our interactions. I have a plan to ask a thing from my friend Aphrodite, just need to find the right offering for her. The poem below is of a convo with Dite, she expressed that men can’t forget (in my word play) the orgasms they give their lady. This is a drug you’re providing for your man.
We wrote several poems together, Aphrodite – Venus and I. The below poem talks of a historical poem I read while studying Latin. This event was a yearly Venus festival. Tips for Venus work from her ancient festival: get nude, dancing barefoot, also beauty is an offering. Oh, and Bacchus (Dionysus in Greek pantheon) always leads to Aphrodite. This was the ancient way: parties and drinking (the ancients also put drugs in their drinks, though I am not telling you to do this) always lead to the Aphrodite work which is sex. They had sex cults; we have a cult of 2. ok I will have to tell you more.
I jokingly told my man I was going to sacrifice him to the goddess, put him on my Aphrodite altar. The sign in that is that the orgasm offering is well received by her. Oh, I certainly invoke her into our bedroom play. I am indeed ok with a spirit third party; I can share with the goddess.
This love spell was inspired by Roman Love magic, something I will continue to research and write about. The Romans didn’t believe in twin flames, but the Greeks did. But the romans were so afraid of Love magic that they made forms of it illegal.
Indeed, knot magic has always been used for love, sex, and fidelity magic (Read about knot magic on my blog and purchase my $1 ebook on Etsy to start practicing knot magick today) PS. I have used knot magic with Venus, for sex magic, twin flame magic with my Scorpio lover’s permission, for an offering to the fae, for personal empowerment, for sexual freedom…) Knot Magic Ebook linked below:
Ebook introducing knot magic with history, ideas, mantras, and more
I have to tell you, my sex life with my beloved Scorpio exploded after my communications with the goddess. Why? Because I became more open as I realized that sex magic attracts the sex goddess, and she loosened me up a bit.
This poem explains it best. I call the goddess into my space, I connect to Love, then he connects to me. This is sex magic and bringing a very sexy spirit into our bed for play. You wonder if Scorpio has an issue with this? lol Scorpio lives to connect to a mysterious feminine essence, he needs this, he is hooked. He has been looking for the goddess, he didn’t realize it like that, but he has been working with her, is what she said to me.
I guess my next magic ebook will be about sex magic, but sorry, I will not be selling it for $1! These are my secrets, and anyone interested will have to pay up! My mouth is starting to part to tell my secrets but they will not be widely available.
Why the threesome theme?
My darling Scorpio is a very hot guy, and he gets chased by women on top of the obvious, if one tastes him, can’t forget the guy, has to come back on her knees. He kind of hides from women in the way I hide from men, except that I believe he gets a kick out of it, he is not afraid of being held down by a woman…
Being a Scorpio, he wants a very, extremely loyal woman, and he gets hurt by lack of loyalty. Thus, his lineup of exes have in fact hurt him deeply.
I don’t have to tell you that he’s extremely sexual and great in bed. That’s obvious. His exes are constantly trying to connect to him in this way and I had to tell him to get those cords under control because they bother me, the feeler of everything. I have been cutting the chords to his pesky exes, energy vampires, who regret having lost him. They’re the third parties in our union, the ghosts of girlfriends’ past. His heartbreak over those bad girls has stopped our union growth.
He’s honest and open, so he tells me about the threesomes he declined 😆 🤣 😂
I was very young and sexually inexperienced when I met him, and I had never met a sincere man, so I freaked out wondering if that most gorgeous man would dare ask me to do something like that.
Upon my experience recognizing his soul as my boyfriend (I was 20), I decided I was going to be the woman to fulfill all his sexual needs (he manifested that, also), however, I was too shy to say anything. Once I heard the word threesome, I was shocked in disbelief and chose to not please his secret desires.
This happened in our usual misunderstanding type of way.
But how lucky am I that my man is so honest and straightforward? After years of holding back my sexual gratification, we talked about this and he has no intention of putting me in a difficult position and he is very grounded in his feeling for one partner. Yay
But how lucky if he had another me? Even three! Lol
The problem with threesomes is that they are cultural and a man who wasn’t pervy enough to lead women into those questionable encounters, can feel like they missed out. A good man like mine knows they didn’t miss on anything good. And a woman like me is unafraid to play tricks on my man’s mind. Lol
After Scorpio expressed that he wanted 2 mes, I needed years to integrate that. After a lot of self growth I told him one of my naughtiest best dreams ever, a dream in which I saw about 12 hims, one after another after another kept coming and I was simply amazed. Nothing sexual happened, I just basked in their energy but Scorpio got so excited and he expressed it would have been much different had he been the dreamer. And now I am telling you how I have finally injected a sense of fantasy into my sex life. He dreams about threesomes? Good, you can have two mes or you can have me and my goddess.
The Middle-Aged Witch’s podcasts about the Divine Feminine, masculine, the dark feminine, and Lillith
Spellcasting
Spirit communication
Divine Feminine
Divine Masculine
Dark Feminine
Lillith
One day, I will email this beloved witch to tell her about my experiences with sex and love magic, my communication with Aphrodite, and the secret power of poetry.
I remember distinctly she said she doesn’t know the history of why poetry is used in spellcasting. She isn’t a poet. As a poet myself, I want to offer my insight about the secret power of poetry.
I’d be an idiot to act as if the relationship with my divine masculine has been pure joy. I do my best not to spread darkness. However, I talk about our challenges, fights, etc.
We got into another huge fight. It wasn’t my intention or his. But we have horrible misunderstandings, and we’re both pretty sensitive.
Out of nowhere, 1 sentence I say will be taken horribly out of context, and I do the same to him.
But this time, it was different. Not surprisingly, this happened during the Lion’s Gate. I’m no stranger to telling you that Lion’s Gate is a time for union. I’ll collect my Lion’s Gate writings next to share with you this magic.
Lion’s Gate
Every year, I rave about the spiritual activity during this time. I’ve only been able to talk to spirit openly (hear, feel the presence, talk) during this time. I communicated with my twin flames soul/higher self first during the Lion’s Gate. My lover and I always deepen our union during this time. I was healed of a broken heart by spirit during this time. And I receive incredible poetry gifts also. Oh, that’s cool because amazing poetry is incoming.
I am very much the “runner” in our relationship now. If you’re a twin flame, you know what I mean. I have matured and removed the love addiction. 😆 🤣 😂 I really meant the toxic part of me that was afraid he would leave me (when I was the chader). My lover is not really a chaser. He just tells me, what, you’re leaving me again? I told him, “I’m always looking for a reason to disqualify him. Of course, that’s a lie.”
Remember that I’m a poet and, as such, use words in an exaggerated manner! But spirit talk and spirit healing is 💯 what happened! It would be awful karma to spread disinformation of this kind, I feel.
Well, I’m embroiled in a fight with my lover, over, words…
Scorpio uses strong words in the opposite way as me. I’m a sensitive and soft Pisces Cuban with a natural distrust of males (my trauma), and he’s one of those outgoing American males who is very strong-willed, king of the hill, and short of words, action fueled. I love it, and I needed him to teach me since I come from a community based culture.
I pulled a card in the middle of my fight and got this baby. I was hoping spirit would say, run away, and I will not lie, in my worst moments of being triggered by my lover (not his fault at all), I wonder if I’m correct, I doubt my intuition. But then I remember all the healing I’ve experienced on his arms (figuratively and literally) and my spirit voice comes through and simply says “you’ll regret it” and I believe that voice every time.
Two of cups, Union card
After I pulled this card, I knew I had to drop my triggers (it’s how we heal). By then, Scorpio had come around me to make up with me. We had the deepest chat in a long time and resolved old drama with communication.
I then journaled and cane up with some mantras. See below and use them for your healing and union as needed.
What I most want now/ is to come close to him,/ To smile, fall at his feet,/ And ask him to forgive me, please.Over the pen, I forgot to finish the t 😅 *spiritual growth*Scorpio shadow work is sexual. 😆 🤣 😂 Finally, I made friends with Angel May Charm on X. She has this fabulous e-book that would be fabulous for sexy healing this time. Follow her on X for cool goddess empowerment poetry, tweets, and more. Below, I linked this e-book.
Did I tell you I’m dipping my toes into spell poetry?
Poems are vehicles of energy.
Receive my offering of these delicious energies.
May you embody the love you desire. 😍
Because you attract what you are. Now, let’s become Union.
I have to keep my mind busy to not he driven mad with desire. So I’m studying Latin, Italian, and Ancient Greek. I’m doing well in the first two. Tip. Occupy your mind. Give your mind jobs to balance the intensity of love. (more…)
That means that I have a gift to hear and I write what I hear.
I have several muses: real entities or thought forms 🤔 that give me not only ideas but entire thought poems while I drive, entire story plots while I desperately try to sleep, visuals of arts I’m not skilled enough to create, complex ideas for writing topics, and more.
It also means I have the gift to translate. I can translate Spanish English, and I’m studying 3 other languages, Latin, Italian, and Ancient Greek, for new poetry to translate… 🙃
But aside from the self-promotion of my nerd ego… 🤓 🤪 😜
I possess the gift of translating feelings and energies into words. I write what I feel and what I perceive. And of course, this “gift” is overwhelming…
But now, I’m experimenting with new kinds of poetry
In our fast-paced, technology-driven world, we often find ourselves rushing through interactions, barely scratching the surface of meaningful communication. Amid the hustle and bustle, the art of romance seems to have taken a back seat, confined to special occasions or grand gestures. However, romance isn’t just about candlelit dinners or extravagant gifts during our anniversary; it’s about infusing our day-to-day conversations with warmth, sincerity, and a touch of magic.
Romance is the language of love, a way to express deep affection and appreciation for that person who matters most to us. It creates an emotional connection, fosters intimacy, and strengthens the relationship. By incorporating romance into our daily dialogues, we remind our loved one that they are cherished and valued, not just during significant moments but every single day.
Simple Ways to Be More Romantic
Express Genuine Compliments: Compliments can brighten anyone’s day, especially when they come from the heart. Instead of generic praises, focus on specific traits or actions that you genuinely admire. A heartfelt compliment like, “I love how you always know how to make me smile,” carries much more weight than a simple “You look nice.”
Practice Active Listening: Being truly present in a conversation is a powerful way to show someone you care. Listen attentively, make eye contact, and respond thoughtfully. This not only makes the other person feel heard but also deepens your connection.
Use Affectionate Language: Terms of endearment, like “darling,” “love,” or “sweetheart,” can add a romantic touch to your conversations. While it might feel awkward at first, these words can quickly become natural and comfortable, enhancing the emotional warmth of your interactions.
Share Small Acts of Kindness: Romance isn’t always verbal. Simple gestures, like leaving a sweet note, preparing a favorite meal, or giving a spontaneous hug, can speak volumes. These actions convey love and thoughtfulness, reinforcing the sentiment behind your words.
Revisit Happy Memories: Talking about shared experiences and cherished memories can reignite feelings of closeness and nostalgia. Reminiscing about your first date or a memorable trip can bring a smile and remind your partner of the bond you share.
Express Gratitude: Never underestimate the power of saying “thank you.” Acknowledging and appreciating the little things your loved one does fosters a positive atmosphere and shows that you don’t take them for granted.
Be Spontaneous: Surprise your partner with an unexpected compliment, a spontaneous date, or an impromptu dance in the living room. These moments of unpredictability add excitement and keep the romance alive.
The Impact of Romantic Conversations
Integrating romance into daily conversations transforms the mundane into something special. It elevates everyday interactions, making them more meaningful and enriching. Over time, these small but significant efforts can lead to a stronger, more loving relationship. They create a foundation of trust and affection, ensuring that both partners feel valued and connected.
In conclusion, romance shouldn’t be reserved for special occasions. By weaving it into our daily conversations, we can nurture our relationships and keep the spark alive. So, take a moment today to say something sweet, listen intently, and show your appreciation. The art of romance is within our reach, ready to enrich our lives and the lives of those we love.
I created this quiz to help you determine your romantic level 😉. I have identified 3 levels of romantics:
The extreme romantic: The Eternal Flameromantics: We breathe and eat romance. 46 to 60 points
The secret romantic: Heart’s Harmonyromantics: They think romance but don’t talk it. 26 to 45 points
The least romantic: Calm Watersromantics: Are they even romantic? 12 to 25 points
Why take my quiz
Understand your partner better and understand how much romance they can handle. Get inspired.
With an understanding of your own romantic level versus your partner, you can work towards enhancing your relationship. You can use the insights gained from my quiz to communicate your needs and desires more effectively and create a more fulfilling romantic connection with your partner.
I intend to develop informative and educational resources for each romance level that will provide you practical tips for enhancing your love life. These resources will cover topics such as communication skills, romantic gestures, maintaining intimacy, and navigating relationship challenges. Ask for help in the comments.
Overall, taking the quiz and exploring the different romance levels can be a steppingstone towards personal growth, relationship enhancement, and a deeper understanding of romance and love.
Take this quiz and figure out how romantic you are ❤️ 😍 💖
1. If you are in a garden for an event, what’s your first thought? a) The flowers are beautiful and may remind you of someone special. You enjoy their beauty, take pictures, and even smell them. b) “Flowers are nice, but they’re just plants.” You don’t care if you are a garden or not. c) You do not like flowers. You avoid them, make sure nobody takes pictures of you at the garden, and leave as soon as possible.
2. You’re walking in the rain with someone you care about. What crosses your mind? a) “This is so romantic, like a scene from a movie.” You imagine yourself dancing in the rain. You slow down and enjoy the experience. b) “I hope we don’t get too wet and wish you had an umbrella.” You walk faster. c) “I do not like the rain. My hair is wet. ” You might get upset or run to safety.
3. What’s your reaction when you see someone reading a love poem in public? a) “How beautiful! I wish I could express myself like that.” You stop and listen, maybe record them and tip them. Tears may appear if you resonate with the poem. b) “That’s a bit cheesy for my taste.” You ignore it and continue on your way. c) “I wonder if they’re doing that for attention.” You shake your head, and you might judge them.
4. Imagine you receive a heartfelt handwritten letter. How do you feel? a) Warmth and appreciation, it’s such a thoughtful gesture. You feel special and save the letter for as long as possible. b) It’s nice, but an email would have been quicker. How much time did they spend on this? You might feel obligated to keep it for a while but eventually might lose it. c) Mild surprise, handwritten letters are rare these days. This much work for something going in the trash! You might not even complete reading it. If it’s cutesy, you will roll your eyes.
5. How do you feel about stargazing with a romantic partner? a) It’s incredibly romantic, a chance to connect under the vast night sky. I’d hold hands and slowly lean into them. Eventually, we’d share a kiss, and an I love you. b) It sounds okay, but I’m not sure it’s worth the effort. I would rather stay in and watch a movie or even do the dishes, which sounds like a better use of our time. c) Will there be bugs? Eww. Let’s not.
6. What’s your reaction to witnessing a marriage proposal in a public place? a) “How magical! I hope they have a lifetime of happiness.” You take pictures, congratulate them, and tell everyone on social media. b) “That’s a bit too public for my taste.” You look away and try to ignore it. c) “I wonder if they planned this just for social media.” You think they will not last together.
7. How do you feel about cuddling while watching a movie? a) It’s the perfect way to feel close and connected and the only way to watch a movie. I watch movies just to cuddle. b) It’s okay, but sometimes I get uncomfortable. Or it will lead to more. c) I prefer to sit apart and focus on the movie. This is movie time. Cuddle time is always tomorrow.
8. What’s your ideal way to spend Valentine’s Day? a) A romantic dinner followed by a moonlit walk. Home-cooked meals, red dresses, poetry performances, romantic music, and special gifts. Every year is different! b) It’s just another day, nothing special. We will enjoy some intimate moments, that’s all! c) I make the point of doing nothing romantic on that day. I also don’t know the date it’s celebrated on. I also never do anything romantic…
9. You receive an unexpected gift from someone you’re dating. How do you react? a) With genuine delight and gratitude. I immediately thank them, and they know I loved it! b) It’s nice, but I’m not sure how to respond. They might not know if I liked their gift. c) I feel a bit awkward and unsure if I should reciprocate. I don’t like them as much anymore. They might be trying too hard. I avoid them. They might think I don’t like their gift but they should know I don’t do gifts this soon!
10. How do you feel about love songs? a) They’re incredibly moving and resonate with my emotions. I listen to as many love songs as possible. I’m much more romantic than most romantic songs! I should be a songwriter. b) They’re okay, but I don’t pay much attention to them. Music is music. c) They can be cheesy and over-the-top. I prefer any non romantic songs. Romance is for little girls!
11. Read and react to the following poem:
“Soulmates” poem by Eve
a) “This poem describes how I feel or how I want to feel. If I have not found my person yet, I have faith that I’ll meet them at the perfect time.” (chosen by liz) b) “I do not resonate with this poem! Soulmates do not exist, and if they did, we would all know by now.” c) “This poem is so cheesy.” It really sounds ridiculous 🙄 😒 😐…. getting off this blog ASAP!
12. Which quote resonates with you? a) “Our Love is written in the stars” b) “The depth of our Love is our greatest secret” c) “Our love is our safe space where we can be ourselves and not be judged for it”
Reflect on your answers.
What is your romantic level?
Rate your answers by assigning points:
– Option a) Add 5 points – Option b) Add 3 points – Option c) Add 1 point
Tally up the total points to determine your romantic inclinations.
THE ROMANCE LEVELS
46 to 60 points: The Eternal Flame: Most intense romantic. We believe in twin flames/ soulmates and fall in love at first sight.
The Eternal Flame is the most romantic level. Individuals in this category have the highest degree of romantic inclination and experience a deep and everlasting passion for romance. It implies a strong and enduring connection to romantic ideals and gestures.
Individuals who fit into the “Eternal Flame” category are deeply passionate about romance and love. They often prioritize emotional connection and intimacy in their relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:
1. **Hopeless Romantics:** They believe in the power of love and often express themselves through grand gestures and heartfelt expressions of affection.
2. **Emotionally Invested:** They are deeply invested in their relationships, cherishing every moment and valuing the emotional bond they share with their partner.
3. **Creative and Thoughtful:** They constantly strive to surprise and delight their partners with thoughtful gestures, whether it’s writing love letters, planning romantic getaways, or creating personalized gifts.
4. **Sensitive to Beauty:** They appreciate the beauty in the world around them, finding inspiration in nature, art, and music, which they often incorporate into their romantic gestures.
5. **Believers in Destiny:** They may believe in soulmates or the idea that certain people are destined to be together, which fuels their passion and commitment to finding and nurturing love.
Overall, individuals in the “Eternal Flame” category are guided by their unwavering belief in the transformative power of love and their dedication to keeping the flame of romance burning bright in their lives.
26 to 45 points: Heart’s Harmony: The Secret Romantic. They think it but don’t speak romance
For the second romance level, let’s consider an option that reflects a moderate level of romantic inclination, perhaps something like “Heart’s Harmony.” This name suggests a balance between romance and practicality, where individuals appreciate love and connection but may not necessarily embody the intense passion of the “Eternal Flame” category.
Individuals who fit into the “Heart’s Harmony” category strike a balance between romance and practicality in their approach to relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:
Balanced Approach: They value romance and emotional connection in their relationships but also recognize the importance of practical considerations and maintaining a sense of balance in their lives.
Thoughtful and Considerate: They express their affection for their partners through meaningful gestures and acts of kindness, such as remembering important dates, offering support during difficult times, and showing appreciation for their partner’s efforts.
Communication Skills: They prioritize open and honest communication in their relationships, seeking to understand their partner’s needs and concerns while also expressing their own thoughts and feelings effectively.
Adaptability: They are flexible and adaptable in their approach to romance, recognizing that relationships require compromise and adjustment to navigate the ups and downs of life together.
Appreciation for the Little Things: They find joy and fulfillment in the everyday moments shared with their partner, whether it’s cooking dinner together, taking walks, or simply enjoying each other’s company.
Overall, individuals in the “Heart’s Harmony” category cultivate a relationship environment where love and practicality coexist, fostering a sense of mutual respect, understanding, and contentment in their romantic lives.
46 to 60 points: Calm Waters: Most likely to not take this quiz. Are they even romantic?
For the lowest level name, we want to convey an absence or minimal presence of romantic inclination. How about “Calm Waters”? This name suggests a serene and tranquil state, where romantic feelings may exist but are subdued or infrequent.
Individuals who fit into the “Calm Waters” category tend to have a more reserved or subdued approach to romance. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:
Pragmatic Outlook: They tend to approach relationships with a practical mindset, focusing on practicalities rather than grand gestures or intense displays of affection.
Independence: They value their independence and may prioritize personal pursuits and interests over romantic relationships.
Reserved Expression of Affection: While they may experience romantic feelings, they may not express them openly or frequently, preferring to keep their emotions private.
Preference for Stability: They seek stability and predictability in their relationships, valuing a sense of calm and tranquility over excitement or passion.
Contentment with Solitude: They are comfortable spending time alone and may not feel a strong need for constant companionship or romantic involvement.
Overall, individuals in the “Calm Waters” category may appreciate romance in a more subdued or understated manner, finding contentment in the quiet moments and subtle gestures of connection within their relationships.
This was fun!
According to my “research,” I’m as romantic as it gets! If someone is as romantic as me, let me know please, let’s be friends
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