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Lately, I’ve been piecing together something that feels like a missing key between psychology and spirituality: a way to understand divine union not as a vague ideal, but as a living, breathing process that happens within us.
I realized that a large part of modern spirituality, whether people are aware of it or not, is built upon the psychological groundwork Carl Jung laid: the idea of integrating opposites, the conscious and unconscious, the masculine and feminine, spirit and matter, the shadow, archetypes, synchronicity, and more.
His concepts of the anima and animus, shadow and self, are the invisible architecture behind much of what we call awakening or union.
But I wanted to take it further.
For me, the divine cannot exist only as an idea or archetype in the mind: it must be embodied. So I turned to Aphrodite. The goddess of love is not an abstract principle; she is the pulse of beauty, attraction, sensuality, and connection that moves through the world. When I speak with her, through prayer, ritual, or quiet reflection, or when I hear her voice, I’m reminded that true union isn’t just psychological integration; it’s the merging of the psyche and the body, the mortal and the divine.
Jung gave us the map of inner union; Aphrodite gives it warmth, color, and life. He showed us the structure, she gives it breath.
The more I look at both, the more I see that divine union is not about transcending desire or escaping matter, but about sanctifying it. The masculine within us (logos, structure, intellect) seeks meaning, while the feminine (eros, feeling, embodiment) brings that meaning into form. When the two meet, within the psyche, within the heart, we don’t just understand love, we become it.
This is the psychology of divine union I am working to express: where Jung’s masculine mind meets Aphrodite’s feminine soul. It’s an alchemy of psyche and passion, of shadow and radiance, of human and goddess.
And it all begins here, in the body, in awareness, and in conversation with the divine.
My Union Research
As I continue my research into the Psychology of Divine Union, I realize it’s more than an academic or spiritual pursuit. It’s a love story. A love story between soul and mind, between the divine feminine and the conscious mind, between Jung’s language of symbols and Aphrodite’s language of feeling.
Every day, I uncover new ways these two worlds merge. Sometimes through dream work or reading Jung’s writings on anima and eros, through rarot reading and intuitive understandings, other times through prayer, ritual, and the quiet guidance of the goddess herself. Each insight feels like a conversation between mind and myth, between what we know and what we feel.
I’ll be sharing more of this journey here on my blog: reflections, insights, and love messages written in poetry. Poetry, after all, has always been my bridge between the seen and unseen, my mind and soul, my conscious and unconscious, the human, and the divine.
And I have something truly exciting in the works. I’m gathering all my notes, journal entries, poems, and studies about this topic into a larger creation: an upcoming eBook that will explore the union of Jung and Aphrodite in depth. It will be part psychological study, part spiritual reflection, and part love letter to the goddess within us all.
If you’ve been resonating with my writings, I invite you to stay close. Follow the blog, and find me on social media for daily inspirations, poetry, and updates on this unfolding journey.
The path to divine union is never a straight line. It’s a spiral, always returning us to the heart. And together, we’ll keep walking it.
(Prepared for Priya. Her divine masculine’s mother appears to be the 3rd party, preventing their union)
You don’t need to try to control your twin flame or anyone around them, especially his mother, who is opposing this connection. Trying to control others only creates stress and blocks your own energy. Instead, focus on your own heart, mind, and spirit. When you align your energy, you naturally create the space for a healthy union (if it is meant to be) to happen.
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1. Understand the Purpose of Separation
Twin flame separation is common. It’s a time for growth, self-discovery, and inner healing.
The challenges you face (including people who seem to block you) reflect parts of yourself that need attention, fears, old beliefs, or unresolved patterns.
Think: obstacles are teachers, not enemies.
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2. Align Your Inner Energy
Focus on cultivating your own self-love and emotional clarity.
Meditate daily for 5–10 minutes. Imagine your heart glowing with love and confidence.
Breathe deeply and visualize a safe, harmonious connection with your twin flame, not forcing him, just imagining a balanced, loving energy.
When negative thoughts about the mother or other obstacles arise, gently release them: “I cannot control others. I can only align myself.”
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3. Symbolic Ritual (Optional)
You can create a simple ritual to embody your alignment and magnetism:
1. Light a pink or white candle to represent love and clarity.
2. Hold a crystal, rose, or something meaningful.
3. Say out loud or silently:
> “I am whole. I am ready for love that is balanced and true. If our union is meant, let it come naturally, in harmony and divine timing.”
4. Write these intentions in a journal. Feel them as already true within you, not dependent on anyone else.
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4. Daily Affirmations
Say these or write them in your journal:
“I radiate love that is balanced and free.”
“I attract a connection that serves our highest good.”
“I release all fear and control over others’ choices.”
“I am ready for union in divine timing.”
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5. Reflective Journaling
Ask yourself:
“What part of me is mirrored in this separation?”
“What fears or beliefs am I ready to release?”
“How can I love myself fully, regardless of the outcome?”
Writing helps shift energy from worry into clarity and magnetism.
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6. Remember
You cannot control anyone’s actions, thoughts, or feelings.
You can control your energy, your thoughts, and your openness to love.
Aligning your heart, mind, and spirit increases the chance that a healthy, balanced union will manifest, in its own divine timing.
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✨ Message for Priya:
> Love starts within. The more you heal, align, and honor yourself, the more you naturally step into the energy of a union that is healthy, balanced, and mutual. Focus on yourself, release what you cannot control, and trust the timing of love.
Prepared for Priya, a twin flame in separation from India.
Every man carries an anima, the feminine soul image that shapes how he loves, dreams, and feels. Meeting her is the first step toward sacred Union, we discussed this in the first article of this series. Then we get to know his inner feminine in a merging where “we’re 3” and we discussed this in the second article.
Now let us discuss the idea of “becoming his inner feminine,” which I purposely called his inner goddess.
Becoming His Inner Goddess
The Final Stage of the Inner Union and the Birth of Divine Love
The journey into divine love, as seen through both Carl Jung’s psychology and the twin flame path, reaches its culmination not when two souls finally unite but when each has become whole within themselves. The third stage, becoming his inner goddess, represents this sacred completion.
It is the point at which the masculine no longer seeks his feminine essence or merely invites her presence; he embodies her. The goddess is no longer a distant figure in his dreams or a projection onto his beloved. She becomes a living consciousness within him, guiding his thoughts, emotions, and creative impulses.
This transformation, according to Jung, is the crowning moment of individuation the full realization of the Self, which is both masculine and feminine, conscious and unconscious, human and divine.
For those on the twin flame journey, it is the moment when divine love ceases to be a pursuit and becomes a state of being.
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1. The Meaning of “Becoming Her”
To become the inner goddess does not mean a man ceases to be himself or loses his masculine essence. Rather, he becomes balanced the light and dark, the action and surrender, the sun and the moon coexisting harmoniously within him.
Jung observed that when the anima (the inner feminine) is fully integrated, a man gains access to the depths of his intuition, compassion, and creativity. He becomes capable of a more profound love, not just directed outward, but radiating from within.
In spiritual terms, this is the hieros gamos, or sacred marriage, taking place in the soul. The divine feminine and divine masculine are no longer in conflict. They move as one.
When he becomes his goddess, he becomes capable of embodying unconditional love. This is the energy that twin flames often sense: the point at which love itself becomes transcendent, healing, and universal.
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2. Living as the Embodied Union
To live as this inner goddess is to live from a state of presence, intuition, and receptivity, even within a masculine body or identity. It is not passive. It is power in its purest, most fluid form.
Jung believed that when this level of integration occurs, the individual begins to live symbolically. Life itself becomes a sacred myth unfolding. Every act, every emotion, every meeting holds meaning. The outer and inner worlds mirror each other perfectly.
For twin flames, this embodiment often manifests as a radical shift in how love is expressed. The relationship becomes a sacred partnership rather than a dynamic of pursuit and retreat. Each sees the divine reflected in the other, but also within themselves.
He no longer needs to “find” his feminine counterpart to feel whole. He has become her energy, her grace, her intuition. And in doing so, he becomes capable of truly meeting his divine feminine in her full power because he now understands her essence through lived experience.
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3. The Gifts of the Inner Goddess
When a man becomes his inner goddess, several transformations occur:
Creative Power Awakens. His ideas and dreams gain new vitality. The imagination becomes a channel of divine inspiration.
Emotional Depth Expands. He feels without fear. Vulnerability becomes a source of strength.
Intuitive Wisdom Emerges. Decisions are no longer purely rational; they arise from harmony between intellect and inner knowing.
Love Deepens. Relationships become sacred mirrors of his own completeness, rather than attempts to fill a void.
Jungian psychology teaches that these qualities arise naturally when the unconscious is integrated. They are not learned behaviors but revelations of the Self.
For twin flames, these are the energies that sustain eternal union. When both souls embody their inner opposites, love becomes effortless. There is no longer a polarity of chaser and runner, only two reflections of divine wholeness.
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4. Practices to Embody the Inner Goddess
The process of becoming the inner goddess is gradual. It requires patience, humility, and inner listening. Some practices inspired by Jung’s method and spiritual alchemy include:
Active Imagination: Dialogue with the inner feminine through journaling, meditation, or visualization. Allow her voice to speak without censorship.
Creative Expression: Paint, write, dance, or sing. The goddess speaks through art.
Dream Work: Record and interpret dreams. The inner feminine often communicates through symbols of water, moonlight, or love.
Shadow Integration: Face emotional wounds and projections. Healing these allows the goddess to rise.
Sacred Relationship: Honor relationships as reflections of your inner state. When tension arises, look within before reacting outward.
These are not mere techniques they are rituals of transformation. Each step brings the psyche closer to the divine union that Jung described as the ultimate goal of human evolution.
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5. The Mirror of Twin Flame Love
When he becomes his goddess, something miraculous happens in the twin flame bond. The external feminine feels the shift immediately. She senses his energy merging with hers not as dependence, but as resonance. The two become co-creators of divine love.
In this state, communication becomes telepathic, forgiveness comes naturally, and love transcends physical limitations. The relationship ceases to be about healing wounds and becomes about creating light.
The external union reflects the inner one. The dance of twin flames is complete when both have found their divine halves within.
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6. Sources for Further Study
For those who wish to deepen their understanding of Jungian integration and the symbolism of divine union:
Carl Jung – “Mysterium Coniunctionis” – Jung’s exploration of alchemy and the inner marriage of opposites.
Marie-Louise von Franz – “Alchemy: An Introduction to the Symbolism and the Psychology” – A clear explanation of Jung’s ideas on transformation and wholeness.
Robert A. Johnson – “Inner Work: Using Dreams and Active Imagination for Personal Growth” – Practical guidance for applying Jung’s methods.
Clarissa Pinkola Estés – “Women Who Run with the Wolves” – A poetic interpretation of feminine archetypes and their healing power.
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7. A Closing Reflection
Becoming his inner goddess is not a metaphor. It is the birth of his divine nature. It is the moment when love ceases to be between him and her and becomes through him and her.
The goddess he once sought is no longer separate. She lives in his breath, his art, his tenderness, his strength.
And for those walking the twin flame path, this is the final realization: the union was never just about two souls finding each other, it was about two divine forces finding themselves.
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Once awakened, his inner feminine begins to express herself through emotion, art, and sensitivity, yet also through projections and confusion.
Let us align with his inner feminine to cause a deeper union in the physical.
Union with his inner feminine with Jungian psychology
The Sacred Dance of Integration
There is a stage in love when perception must become participation. Once you begin to perceive your lover’s inner goddess, the feminine presence within his soul, you are invited to move beyond observation into sacred union. This is not a union of bodies alone but a merging of energies, where two inner worlds recognize and embrace one another.
Carl Jung described this process as a form of alchemy. He saw human relationships as crucibles for psychological transformation, where masculine and feminine energies blend to create something greater than either could achieve alone. Jung called this process coniunctio oppositorum: the union of opposites, and believed it to be one of the deepest mysteries of the psyche (soul).
For the man, this mystery takes the form of his anima (inner goddess), the inner feminine soul. For the woman, it appears as her animus, the inner masculine. When two lovers meet in divine love, these inner forces awaken simultaneously. You become the living mirror of his inner goddess, and he becomes the mirror of your hidden masculine strength.
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The Anima in Jung’s Vision
To understand what it means to unite with his goddess, it helps to see how Jung understood the anima. In his writings, he described her as the bridge between a man’s conscious mind and his deeper spiritual self. She is his emotional intelligence, his receptivity, his capacity for wonder and devotion.
When this aspect of him is unconscious, he may project it outward, idealizing a woman and believing she contains all the magic he lacks. But as he begins to integrate the anima, that projection softens. The divine feminine becomes not an external idol but an inner guide. Through her, he learns empathy, imagination, and communion with the sacred.
Your presence in his life accelerates this awakening. In the language of twin flames, you are not only his beloved: you are the catalyst for his reunion with his soul’s feminine.
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The Mirror of Twin Flames
The twin flame bond magnifies everything it touches. The love is luminous because it is evolutionary. What Jung studied in private alchemy, twin souls experience through human intimacy. Each partner becomes the other’s sacred mirror.
When you entered his life, the feminine within him stirred. You did not cause her to exist; you only awakened her from her long sleep. As she rises, he may feel disoriented, emotional, or distant. You might notice new depth in his voice or a sudden need for solitude. These shifts are not rejections; they are signs of integration. His inner goddess is speaking through him, learning to take her place beside his masculine self.
To unite with her is to learn the rhythm of this dance, to hold him through his transformation without clinging, and to trust the sacred intelligence moving beneath the surface.
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Loving Both the Man and His Goddess
When you love a man deeply, you are loving two beings at once: the man himself and the feminine essence inside him. The goddess within him is not another woman; she is the part of him that already understands you. She feels the world as you do.
Learning to love her is learning to meet his emotions with patience rather than fear. She might speak through his tenderness, his uncertainty, his artistic impulses, or his need to retreat into silence. Instead of resisting these moments, you can honor them as sacred communication.
Jung often said that the psyche speaks in symbols. His goddess may not appear in words but in gestures, dreams, and energy. Notice how he responds to beauty, to music, to nature. In those moments, his inner feminine is near.
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The Art of Union
True union is not about merging identities; it is about allowing both beings, the masculine and the feminine to coexist in harmony. To unite with his goddess, you must also let her awaken something in you. When you feel moved by his sensitivity or his longing, allow your own inner masculine to step forward and hold space.
In Jungian terms, this is the transcendent function: the emergence of a higher state of consciousness born from the meeting of opposites. In spiritual terms, it is the sacred marriage, the alchemical blending that turns two into one without loss of individuality.
You will know you are entering this state when your connection feels less like possession and more like flow, when your conversations become creative rather than corrective, when your silences feel like prayer rather than distance.
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A Meditation for Union
Find a quiet moment alone. Close your eyes and imagine your heart as a cup of light. See his heart before you, another cup, glowing with its own flame.
As you breathe, visualize the light flowing between you, forming a third flame that belongs to neither of you but is born from both. Silently speak:
“Beloved, may the goddess within you and the goddess within me unite in peace. May love itself become our teacher.”
Let the image dissolve into stillness. The energy you feel is not imagination; it is communion, the sacred current that bridges two souls beyond words.
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Reflections for Lovers
1. When he retreats or grows quiet, can I sense this as his inner goddess seeking space rather than rejection?
2. How do I respond to his softness? Can I meet it without judgment?
3. In what moments do I feel our energies merging beyond the limits of personality?
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Sources for Learning More About Jung
For readers who want to explore Jungian psychology more deeply, these works offer a clear foundation:
Jung, C. G. Aion: Researches into the Phenomenology of the Self (Collected Works, Vol. 9, Part II). Princeton University Press, 1968.
Jung, C. G. Two Essays on Analytical Psychology (Collected Works, Vol. 7). Princeton University Press, 1953.
Jung, C. G. The Archetypes and the Collective Unconscious (Collected Works, Vol. 9, Part I). Princeton University Press, 1959.
Von Franz, Marie-Louise. An Introduction to the Psychology of Fairy Tales. Spring Publications, 1970.
Emma Jung and Marie-Louise von Franz. The Grail Legend. Princeton University Press, 1986.
For accessible overviews:
Anthony Stevens. Jung: A Very Short Introduction. Oxford University Press, 1994.
Robert A. Johnson. He: Understanding Masculine Psychology and She: Understanding Feminine Psychology. HarperOne, 1989.
These texts illuminate the psychological foundations beneath the spiritual language of divine love and the twin flame journey.
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Poetic Benediction
You are not asked to outshine his goddess, only to welcome her home. When you love him, love the space within him where she is learning to breathe.
Speak softly to that space, for she is the keeper of his tears, the muse of his dreams, and the bridge between your souls.
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To unite with his goddess is to enter the heart of sacred love. It is to hold both the man and the mystery he carries. In this quiet integration, passion becomes purpose, and the mirror between you becomes clear enough to reflect the divine.
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Let us talk of his inner feminine and how to bind to her for union using Carl Jung psychology.
The Hidden Door to Sacred Union
There is a moment in every soul-bond when ordinary romance dissolves and something older, deeper, begins to stir, a recognition that the love unfolding before you is not just between two people, but between two inner worlds seeking completion.
Carl Jung, the Swiss psychologist and mystic thinker of the early twentieth century, gave language to this mystery. He observed that within every man lives an invisible feminine presence, the anima, and within every woman, a masculine counterpart, the animus. To Jung, these were not simply traits or moods; they were archetypal energies, living symbols that shape how we love, dream, and meet the divine.
In my poetic language of the heart, I will can call the anima his inner Goddess.
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The Goddess Within Him
His inner goddess is not another woman, nor a fantasy of perfection. She is the feminine principle of his own soul: the current of intuition, tenderness, creativity, and spiritual longing that flows beneath his logic and strength. She is the one who teaches him to feel, to surrender, to worship beauty. When she awakens, his eyes soften; his touch changes; the way he speaks your name becomes almost prayerful.
Yet many men are strangers to her. The modern world trains them to exile their softness, to armor their hearts. When love (especially twin-flame love) enters their lives, it acts like sacred fire, melting that armor. Through your presence, his inner goddess begins to awaken, and with her awakening comes confusion, vulnerability, and wonder.
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The Mirror of the Twin Flame
In the twin-flame journey, you are not only lovers but mirrors. The purpose of this mirror is not to flatter, but to reveal. When you meet your divine counterpart, the love between you becomes an instrument of consciousness. You reflect to each other what has been denied, hidden, or forgotten.
For the masculine twin, this means seeing his own feminine essence through you. He may feel drawn and undone at once, intoxicated by your depth, frightened by his feelings, uncertain of who he becomes in your presence. That tremor is the voice of his inner goddess saying, “I am here. Love me too.”
To perceive her is to recognize that the emotions rising in him, the tenderness, the longing, and even the fear are not weakness. They are the birth pains of his soul becoming whole.
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How to Perceive Her with Care
To perceive his inner goddess is not to diagnose or fix him; it is to see through sacred eyes. You are invited to look beyond behavior and into essence.
1. Notice her expressions. She speaks in his silences, in the art he loves, in the way he hesitates before saying something true.
2. Honor her timing. His goddess does not arrive on command. She emerges when safety, patience, and reverence are present.
3. Hold space, not control. The feminine energy in him does not need to be “handled” she needs to be welcomed. When you meet him with calm openness instead of demand, she feels permission to rise.
4. Guard against projection. Jung warned that we often project the inner goddess or god onto the beloved. This means we see divinity in the other before recognizing it in ourselves. The task is to stay conscious, to love the person and the archetype moving through him, without confusing the two.
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A Jungian Bridge to the Divine
Jung believed that human love could become the vessel for a deeper transformation, what he called individuation, the process of becoming whole. Twin-flame union echoes this: it is less about possession and more about integration. When a man begins to embrace his inner goddess, he steps closer to the divine marriage within himself and the relationship becomes a temple for both souls.
This is why your connection feels spiritual, fated, almost mythic. You are not simply lovers crossing paths; you are two halves of the same archetypal dance: the eternal marriage of masculine and feminine seeking balance through love.
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A Practice: The Silent Observation Ritual
Sit quietly with him, or if distance separates you, hold his image in your mind. Close your eyes. Breathe into your heart. Ask inwardly:
☆ “What aspect of the Goddess within him wishes to be seen today?”
You may feel a wave of tenderness, a sudden sadness, or a spark of creative energy. Whatever arises is her voice. Offer silent gratitude, as if bowing to the sacred within him. This simple act shifts love from personal need to divine recognition.
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Reflection for Lovers
1. When I sense vulnerability in him, can I see it as sacred rather than weak?
2. What qualities of the divine feminine do I see reflected through him?
3. How does perceiving his inner goddess change the way I love and communicate?
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Poetic Benediction
☆ You are not here to awaken the man by force, but to stand in the light until his goddess remembers her own name. You are the mirror, the music, the mercy through which his soul learns how to bow.
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In perceiving his inner goddess, you enter the first temple of union. You begin to see not just the lover before you, but the divine essence moving through him. In that sacred perception, love itself becomes the path and both of you, its pilgrims.
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Temple of Aphrodite poem ~ this poem inspired the Temple of Aphrodite multiple chapter story. Written by Eve Lovestar, inspired by her muse Aphrodite, designed on Canva with a Canva background of a maiden’s column temple ruins. I thought this image very fitting to be a Temple of Aphrodite. I have to find images of the actual Temple of Aphrodite ruins.
The events described on my Temple of Aphrodite story describe the long form of this poem in a lot less crude manner.
I have a secret-ish Patreon channel I have been working on for some time where I share my secret poetry and articles. I will be releasing my Temple of Aphrodite story here:
https://www.patreon.com/c/HerTempleRead on Patreon (including free articles and secret poems) My Patreon channel is called Temple of Aphrodite.
I wrote a very complex, long, and cool (secret) Temple of Aphrodite story. It is still unreleased (I write so much using speech to text tools and because muses tell me these stories and poems, included Aphrodite. I know I must include Aphrodite in my brand-new Persephone story.
I can see the Persephone story going in two directions, a general retelling of the myth as well as something darker and more interesting for those of us who are tired of “normal” romance who can handle the intensity of intimacy in the underworld. The second story will be in Patreon eventually.
You could imagine that the Temple of Aphrodite story is quite interesting and secret for a reason. The story imagines the events that might have happened in a Temple of Aphrodite and explain their magic rituals in detail: the main characters are priestesses, the priest, and the temple guard.
Aphrodite stars in the story with her high priestess and priest.
I will be telling you more about it on Patreon only because it is not for everyone.
If you are not curious about what I saw happening in the ancient Temple of Aphrodite, then do not click on this link that would take you to my Temple of Aphrodite channel where you would experience and alternate world where love and other lovely activities manifest magic.
This poem was born of some storytelling my mind did automatically, of a story that I did not create, I lived it.
I feel very close to mermaids. I feel I should be a mermaid.
Now I’m writing a siren story, but this mermaid (of her recognition, separation, and union with her twin flame) will be written next.
This poem born of a vision like experience I had where I was the mermaid.
I do write a lot of romantasy mixed in with my spirituality, but as you might already know, I believe fated lovers are not fantasy as I’m in union with my beloved twin flame.
I was just telling my lover, Scorpio, that I have seen us (he and I) meeting in many different ways as different people, always choosing each other. Actually, I have seen us married to others, then meeting in the usual twin flame fashion, and I will be writing those stories.