Dear Lovestar,
I recently read my old blog post about the ancient Greek sunflower myth and wrote this poem abouty the myth.
The Sunflower Myth:
A nympth loved the sun god and at first he desired her too and in the Roman account I read, the writer said the god’s love was never moderate suggesting a big attention shift in the god. Because of some drama, Aphrodite might have made the sun god fall in love with another. The result is he turned his attention away from the nymph. The nymph, in a jealous fit, told the father of the other girl, who murdered his daughter due to her relationship with the god. The god was furious and never looked back at her but she loved him so much, than even then, she could not take her gaze away. She would look at him everyday in the sky and this is how she turned into a sunflower.
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https://wordpress.com/posts/loveandlight888.art.blog?s=meaning+of+sunflower
Twin Flame Separation and the Myth of the Sunflower: A Journey of Eternal Love
The idea of twin flames—two souls split from the same source, destined to find each other—is often described as both beautiful and tragic. The connection is intense, magnetic, and spiritual, but the journey isn’t always one of immediate union. Separation is common in the twin flame journey, a necessary phase of growth, healing, and personal evolution. To understand this profound experience, we can turn to the wisdom of ancient myths, specifically the Greek myth of the sunflower, which beautifully captures the essence of love, longing, and transformation.
The Myth of Clytie and Apollo: An Eternal Gaze
In Greek mythology, the sunflower’s origins are rooted in the tragic love story of the water nymph Clytie and the sun god, Apollo. Clytie, deeply in love with Apollo, admired him endlessly. Every day, as Apollo rode his chariot across the sky, pulling the sun behind him, Clytie would watch him with unwavering devotion. Her love for him was all-encompassing, but it was not reciprocated.
Clytie’s love went unreturned, and in her sorrow, she stopped eating and drinking, sitting in one place, gazing longingly at Apollo as he journeyed across the heavens. The gods, witnessing her unending love and grief, transformed her into a sunflower. Now, as a sunflower, Clytie continues to follow Apollo, turning her face toward him each day as he travels across the sky, forever bound to him in her devotion, yet forever apart.
Twin Flame Separation: The Sunflower’s Lesson of Longing and Growth
Like Clytie and Apollo, twin flames experience a powerful attraction—a love that transcends the physical world, rooted in the soul. However, this intense connection often leads to a period of separation, where the twin flames are forced apart for various reasons: emotional growth, healing of past wounds, or the necessity of individual evolution. During this time, the longing for the other can feel unbearable, much like Clytie’s endless gaze toward Apollo.
But the sunflower myth teaches us something essential about this separation. Clytie’s transformation into a sunflower represents a shift from passive suffering to an active, eternal connection. She becomes something more—her love, though not physically returned, transforms into a new state of being. In this way, twin flame separation is not simply a time of loss; it is a period of personal transformation.
Just as Clytie became the sunflower, her love taking on new life and form, twin flames in separation are given the opportunity to grow. This period is often one of deep introspection, healing past traumas, and developing spiritually. The separation forces each twin to face their own shadows, confront fears, and ultimately become whole within themselves. The myth reminds us that even when physical union isn’t possible, the connection between twin flames remains, evolving and deepening over time.
The Power of Patience and Surrender
Clytie’s unwavering devotion, despite her heartache, mirrors the need for patience in the twin flame journey. The sunflower is a symbol of faith, standing tall even in the face of sorrow, knowing that the sun will rise again. Twin flames, during their time apart, must learn to surrender to the flow of life, trusting that the separation is a necessary step toward eventual reunion or spiritual ascension.
The sunflower myth reminds us that, like the sun and its cycle across the sky, love moves in phases. Twin flames may be apart, but their paths are connected by a deeper spiritual journey. Just as the sunflower continues to follow the sun every day, twin flames are bound to each other, not just by physical proximity but by a soul-level connection.
Reunion and Transformation
For twin flames, the separation is often not the end of the journey. After periods of growth, they are drawn back together, this time with greater understanding, wisdom, and balance. The sunflower, though always apart from Apollo, never loses sight of him. In a similar way, twin flames will eventually find each other again, whether in this life or beyond, their love and connection renewed, transcending the limits of time and space.
In conclusion, the myth of the sunflower is a powerful metaphor for the twin flame journey. It teaches us that separation is not a punishment but a time of transformation. Like Clytie’s eternal gaze toward Apollo, twin flame separation is filled with longing, but it also offers a path toward spiritual growth and self-realization. The myth reminds us that love, though it may be distant at times, is eternal, and even in separation, there is beauty and purpose.
Twin flames, like the sunflower and the sun, will always find their way back to each other. Whether together or apart, their love is a force that continues to grow, transform, and evolve, shining brightly across lifetimes.
Sunflowers, with their golden petals radiating like beams of sunlight, embody beauty in its most natural and radiant form. Their towering stems and broad faces turn daily to follow the sun, a graceful act of devotion that mirrors both strength and elegance. The contrast of their vibrant yellow against the deep green leaves creates a striking visual harmony, and their geometric perfection reflects nature’s artistry. Beyond their appearance, sunflowers symbolize resilience, warmth, and loyalty, reminding us that true beauty often lies in the balance of grace and persistence, blooming brightly even as they reach toward the light.
Sunflower Charm Spell for Ending Separation and Transformation
Purpose: This spell harnesses the energy of the sunflower to end separation between twin flames or loved ones, inviting transformation and unity.
What You’ll Need:
- A small sunflower charm (or a real sunflower head if possible)
- A yellow candle (symbolizing the sunflower’s radiant energy)
- A piece of gold or yellow thread (to bind energies together)
- A small piece of paper and a pen
- A clear quartz crystal (for amplifying your intentions)
- Lavender or sandalwood incense (for spiritual clarity and healing)
Timing: Perform this spell during a waxing or full moon, when the energy is strongest for growth and reunion.
Steps:
- Prepare the Space: Light the incense to cleanse your space. Set up a small altar with the sunflower charm, candle, and quartz crystal. Make sure you are in a quiet, peaceful environment where you can focus.
- Focus on Your Intention: Sit comfortably, holding the sunflower charm in your hands. Close your eyes and visualize the separation you wish to end. Picture the distance, whether emotional or physical, melting away, and see both people transforming and coming together in harmony.
- Write Your Desire: On the small piece of paper, write down the names of the individuals and a brief sentence or two about the transformation you desire. For example: “May our separation end, and may we both transform into stronger, more united souls, bound by love and harmony.”
- Charging the Sunflower Charm: Light the yellow candle and hold the sunflower charm over the flame (but not too close). Say the following words aloud:“Sunflower bright, follow the sun,
Bring us together, let separation be done.
Transform our hearts, make us anew,
In radiant love, unite us true.”Envision the sunflower charm absorbing the light and warmth of the candle, filling with golden energy. - Binding the Energy: Take the gold or yellow thread and wrap it around the charm, visualizing the energy binding the two souls together, bringing unity and transformation. As you wrap the thread, repeat:“Bound by light, bound by flame,
Our paths align, our love the same.
Together we grow, apart no more,
Our hearts transformed, stronger than before.” - Place the Paper Under the Charm: Fold the piece of paper with your written intention and place it under the sunflower charm and quartz crystal. Let the candle burn down completely, knowing that the spell is in motion.
- Keep the Charm: After the candle has finished burning, carry the sunflower charm with you as a reminder of the transformation and reunion energy. Keep the quartz crystal near your bed or in a sacred space to continue amplifying your intention.
Closing:
Thank the universe and the sunflower spirit for their guidance. Blow out the incense and sit quietly for a moment, feeling the connection grow stronger.
Optional:
You can revisit this spell during moments of doubt by holding the charm and repeating the words to reignite the energy of transformation and unity.
This spell taps into the sunflower’s symbolism of loyalty, warmth, and transformation, helping to heal the rift of separation while encouraging personal growth and a stronger bond.
If you try this spell, let me know how it goes. Or let me know if you do something similar.
With Love,
Eve
Lovestar Temple🔥 🔥 