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  • Building a Temple in the Middle of Real Life

    Dear Lovestar,

    If you imagine a priestess starting a spiritual business, you might picture endless free time, silent mornings, long baths, and perfectly staged altars. That is not my reality. My reality is five kids who need breakfast, a sink that never empties, and a brain that holds grocery lists and goddess invocations at the same time. My reality is feeling the moon pulling on my emotions, wanting to honour her with ritual, and then realizing it is already midnight and I am exhausted. For a long time, I used that as proof that I could not be “properly spiritual” or “ready” for my own business.​

    Then I noticed something: the women I wanted to serve were living the same kind of life. They were not waiting in monasteries with nothing to do; they were working, parenting, caregiving, healing from religion, rediscovering their bodies after trauma or shame. They did not need a priestess who lived in a tower of perfection; they needed a priestess who knew how to pray while stirring the pot, to invoke Aphrodite while folding laundry, to speak with Persephone while brushing her teeth, to call on Hekate at the crossroads of everyday decisions. They needed a temple that would fit inside a human schedule.​

    This is where Lovestar Temple comes in. It is my answer to the question: “How can I keep ritual in my life forever, not just when things are easy?” For 2026, I created a Full Moon Goddess calendar and journal, not because I am organized by nature, but because I know that without a plan, my rituals will be the first thing sacrificed to exhaustion. The calendar pre-plans the altars, the archetypes, the questions, so that when life is loud, ritual is still possible. Ten minutes at the sink becomes a moon bath. A single page in a journal becomes a temple floor on which you can kneel. Ritual becomes sustainable, not fragile.​

    Fear still whispers: “What if no one comes? What if they judge you? What if you fail in public?” But when those fears surface, something deeper answers: “This was never just about success. This was about creating a home for women who feel the same ache you do.” If you are reading this and your body longs for ritual but your life feels too full, Lovestar Temple was built with you in mind. You are invited, not as a perfect devotee, but as you are: messy, tired, hopeful, holy. In this temple, every imperfect attempt at showing up counts as worship.​

    Enter the Temple:

    https://www.patreon.com/c/HerTemple

    With love,

    Eve

  • The Day I Decided My Body Was a Temple

    Dear Lovestar,

    There was a moment when I realized that if I waited to feel “ready,” Lovestar Temple would never exist. I would keep writing love poems in the cracks of my day, mothering five children, scrolling past other people’s dreams, and telling myself I needed more time, more money, more structure, more permission. But under all of that, there was a softer, truer confession: I was afraid of being seen as what I really am, a priestess of the feminine body-temple, a woman who turned her own desire for ritual into a living sanctuary.​

    I grew up in the church, where ritual had a time, a place, and a building. I miss that sometimes: the predictable rhythm, the way you always knew when the candles would be lit and the songs would rise. That cadence shaped my nervous system. It taught me that ritual is not just “woo”; it is structure, medicine, calendar, container. But as a working mother of five, those old forms of ritual no longer fit my life. I do not have two hours to prepare elaborate altars every week. I have ten minutes in my bathroom. I have the walk from the kitchen to the laundry. I have the curve of my own hip and the softness of my own voice. Somewhere along the line, I realized: what if my body is the sanctuary now?​

    Lovestar Temple was born from that question. It is my mission-led, ongoing experiment in turning a human woman’s life into a temple of love. The “Temple” is not a distant marble building; it is the way I treat my body when I am tired, the way I speak to my reflection, the way I write to you about love, goddess, and desire. It is the poetry I share on Facebook and Threads, the free ebooks I give away, the romantasy tales and goddess activations that invite you back into your own softness and power. Lovestar Temple is my promise to keep choosing this path publicly, even when my voice shakes.​

    Starting this business terrifies me because it is not a mask; it is my real heart. There is no safe distance between “brand” and “being.” So I made a quiet oath for 2026: to stop using fear as proof I should wait, and start using fear as proof that I am entering holy ground. Every time the fear voice says, “Who do you think you are?” I answer, “I am the woman who was lonely for ritual and built herself a temple.” And I offer that temple to you, not as something you must believe in, but as a mirror. Your body is a temple, too. Your longing is an altar. Your daily life can become a ritual of love. Lovestar Temple is simply one way I am learning to live that truth out loud, so you never have to walk back to your own temple alone.

    Hugs,

    Eve

  • HOW TO TURN A FULL MOON INTO A 10‑MINUTE SACRED PAUSE

    A lot of women say: “I love to work with the moon, but by the time it’s full, I’m too tired to do any kind of ritual.”

    That’s why my 2026 Full Moon Goddess Calendar is created for busy people in the real world.

    You do not need to do a 90‑minute ritual to be in relationship with the moon.

    Here is a simple outline you can use for any full moon when all you have is ten minutes:

    Light a candle and take three deep breaths. Say the name of the goddess of that moon out loud, even if you feel silly.

    Write down one sentence about what hurts or feels heavy right now.

    Write down one sentence about what you want to feel instead.

    Say one affirmation that feels like a bridge between those two truths.

    Blow out the candle and trust that you were heard.

    The calendar gives you the specifics so you don’t have to invent them: the exact goddess, the exact journal question, a suggested affirmation, and a small physical gesture that anchors the energy in your body.

    For example, on the Nike Blue Moon, your Hearth ritual might simply be: stand with your arms open like wings, name one thing you survived that you never got credit for, and say, “I move forward with confidence and purpose.”

    That is enough for one full moon.

    If you want all of these Hearth / Circle / Temple versions written out for every full moon of 2026, you can purchase the Full Moon Goddess Calendar ebook for $7. It is designed so that even on your hardest nights, there is always a version you can do.

    If you crave being held in a group, my Moon Goddess Temple on Patreon offers guided live rituals for each full moon, along with written texts, prompts, and ongoing messages. You just show up; I lead us through the steps.

    And if you are in a season where you can only manage a small touch-in, my Ko‑fi Full Moon Goddess Messages are perfect. You receive a short message and affirmation from the goddess of that moon. You can read it in bed and whisper the words as your entire ritual.

    The moon doesn’t ask for perfection. She asks for presence. Ten minutes counts.

    Full Moon Goddess Calendar

    Spiritual people who feel the moon’s pull but are too exhausted to “do it right”, what if a $7 full moon goddess calendar handed you ready-made rituals for every 2026 moon so you just light a candle and follow the words?

    Enter the 2026 Full Moon Goddess Ritual Calendar with over 100 pages of full moon goddess ritual, prayers, affirmations, specials for the blue moon and eclipses and full moon goddess inspiration.

    https://payhip.com/b/6DQor

    Eve

  • January 3, 2026 – Full Moon in Cancer – Goddess Ritual

    On the night of the first full moon of the year, when the Moon enters the watery house of Cancer and climbs high as the Wolf Moon, you are summoned to the inner temple of Selene, She‑of‑the‑Silver‑Chariot, Queen of Night and Tides. Lay aside the garments of haste and duty; cross this threshold as one who remembers that rest is a rite and tenderness a law older than empires. In this chapter, you do not merely observe the Moon, you present yourself before the Moon Herself, veiled in white, crowned with light, watching over oceans, shores, and sleeping hearts.​

    Enter your chamber as if entering a sanctuary. Let the lamps be dim, the air cool and soft, the noise of the world left beyond the door. Spread white or pale blue cloth upon a chosen surface and set there a single white candle, a clear bowl of water, and, if it pleases you, a stone that has tasted the Moon, moonstone, selenite, or clear quartz, cool beneath your fingers. Around them you may place symbols of home and belonging: a small key, a shell, a photograph of those to whom your heart returns. In this temple, your body is not a machine of labor; it is a vessel awaiting luminous filling.

    When the hour feels ripe and night has settled, sit before this altar. Place one hand upon your heart and the other upon your belly, seat of waters and tides. Draw nine slow breaths, each an offering. With each inhale, imagine the pale glow of Selene descending from the high vault of the sky, pouring into your chest; with each exhale, let the weight of the last year slip down your spine and into the earth. Then take fire to wick, and as the candle awakens, speak softly, yet with the authority of one who calls a goddess by her true name:

    “Selene, white‑robed Lady of the Night,
    Rider of the silver‑shining path,
    Watcher of seas and sleepers,
    I kindle this flame in your honor.
    Look upon me with gentle eyes.
    Make of my heart a quiet shore beneath your Moon.”

    Get the premium ritual through the link.

    Happy Full Moon,

    In the comments, if you are so called, share your full moon experiences and rituals if any.

    Click for the premium ritual:

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    Altternatively,

    This ritual is part of the 2026 Full Moon Goddess Calendar

    Full Moon Goddess Calendar

    Spiritual people who feel the moon’s pull but are too exhausted to “do it right”, what if a $7 full moon goddess calendar handed you ready-made rituals for every 2026 moon so you just light a candle and follow the words?

    Enter the 2026 Full Moon Goddess Ritual Calendar with over 100 pages of full moon goddess ritual, prayers, affirmations, specials for the blue moon and eclipses and full moon goddess inspiration.

    https://payhip.com/b/6DQor

    Eve

  • Full Moon Goddess Messages – Jan 3rd – Selene

    Beloved, for this January 3 Full Moon in Cancer, Selene is moving close, asking you to let your heart be cradled instead of constantly holding everything together for everyone else.

    Tonight’s Full Moon in Cancer is a Selene moon: soft, tender, mothering, and fiercely protective of your emotional body. This is the kind of moon that brings everything up to the surface, not to overwhelm you, but to finally be soothed.

    Here is your free Full Moon Goddess Message from Selene:

    “Beloved, put the weight down for a moment. You are not failing because you are tired; you are tired because you have carried too much alone. Under this Cancer full moon, you are allowed to rest in my light like a child in safe arms. Breathe. The to‑do lists, the roles, the expectations can wait while your heart remembers what softness feels like.

    You do not have to earn my presence. You do not have to be ‘caught up’ to be worthy of comfort. Right now, your only task is this: exhale what you have been holding in your chest for weeks and let the tears or the silence come. I am here for all of it.”

    If this message lands for you, place a hand on your heart, take three slow breaths, and whisper: “Selene, please hold me while I rest.” That alone can be your ritual tonight.

    Premium Full Moon Goddess Message

    https://ko-fi.com/post/Full-Moon-Goddess-Messages–Jan-3rd–Selene-X8X61RLBBH

    Come closer, moon‑child. Your nervous system has been operating in survival mode for so long that calm feels suspicious. You keep telling yourself, ‘Once things slow down, I’ll rest,’ but the truth is, you’ve been building a life that never slows down. Your inner tides are begging you to stop treating rest like a reward and start treating it like oxygen.

    Under this Cancer full moon, I am not asking you to fix your entire life. I am asking you to tell yourself the truth: where are you abandoning your own needs in order to keep the peace? Where do you tuck your emotions away so no one else is ‘inconvenienced’ by your humanity?

    Your body remembers every time you pushed past your limits. The headaches, the tight shoulders, the late‑night scrolling, the numbness, these are not random. They are love letters from your cells, saying: ‘We cannot live like this forever.’

    Tonight, I invite you into a different kind of devotion.

    Place one hand on your heart and one on your belly. Feel where your breath stops. Let it deepen slowly, without force. Then ask:

    Where do I need mothering in my own life? What kind of care do I always give others but never allow myself?

    Do not rush to fix the answers. Simply let them be seen in my light.

    (Read the entire premium message through the link)

    https://ko-fi.com/post/Full-Moon-Goddess-Messages–Jan-3rd–Selene-X8X61RLBBH

    Eve

  • Why Busy Women Need Pre-Planned Moon Rituals in 2026 and what I am doing

    The first full moon of 2026 is tomorrow, Jan 3rd.

    If the moon already pulls on your emotions, but your life is too full to “do ritual properly,” this is for you.

    I am a working mother of five who grew up in the church. I miss the feeling of ritual, the way it gave my nervous system rhythm and my soul a place to land. But in my real life, I don’t have two hours to set up an elaborate altar for every full moon. I have bedtime, dishes, work, and the constant hum of responsibility.

    So, for 2026, I created something I needed: a Full Moon Goddess Calendar that does the planning for me.

    Every full moon of the year is mapped out with:

    • The date and sign of the moon.
    • A specific goddess who holds the energy of that moon.
    • A tiered ritual: a short “Hearth” version, a deeper “Temple” version.
    • An affirmation and journal prompt to focus the work.

    Instead of staring at the sky feeling guilty that “I should be doing something spiritual,” I can open my calendar, light a candle, and follow the words. I don’t want to waste time thinking up a ritual. I just enter one.

    For example, the Scorpio full moon with Persephone asks you to tell the truth about a transformation you are resisting and why.

    The Blue Moon with Nike asks you to reframe your “defeats” as training and claim your victory under a rare, double full moon. The work is already written. You just show up.

    If you’ve ever felt the moon stirring something in you but didn’t know what to do with it, this is the point of the calendar: to give your feelings a container, your longing a structure, and your spiritual life a rhythm that fits your actual life.

    If this speaks to you, you can get the 2026 Full Moon Goddess Calendar as a digital ebook for $7. It contains all thirteen full moon rituals, eclipse and blue moon specials, journal prompts, affirmations, and goddess messages.

    There is also a free calendar with the important stuff so you can still do your full moon rituals in 2026. Download for free on Payhip, find the download through my shop also through this link.

    https://payhip.com/b/6DQor

    For those who don’t want to do this alone, I also host a Moon Goddess Temple on Patreon. Every full moon, we gather for live ritual, deeper guidance, and ongoing messages so you feel supported, not isolated, in your practice.

    https://www.patreon.com/11921326/join

    And if all you want for now is a small monthly touch, I offer Full Moon Goddess Messages on Ko‑fi: short, potent transmissions from the goddess of that moon that you can use as your entire ritual if that’s what you have capacity for. No ritual needed.

    https://www.patreon.com/11921326/join

    You get to choose the level of depth your season allows. The important part is this: your soul doesn’t have to wait for a “better year.” You can start with the next full moon.

    Eve

  • 2026 Full Moon Goddess Calendar

    Dear Lovestar,

    Let us plan our full moon rituals for 2026.

    I created a full moon calendar to help. Download the free calendar and if goddess ritual for the full moon is your style, consider the premium calendar, a $7 ebook download from Payhip.

    Do not worry, though, I plan on blogging about all the full moons in 2026 and the only way I can do that in my busy life is to prepare this ahead of time.

    It is the holiday season of 2025 and I gift you:

    Free 2026 Full Moon Goddess Ritual Calendar

    Download the free calendar either by downloading the images or download the free PDF from my ebook shop on Payhip:

    https://payhip.com/b/SRmCi

    Purchase the premium 2026 full moon goddess calendar for $7

    https://payhip.com/b/6DQor

    Full Moons in 2026 and a goddess to celebrate (From the 2026 Full Moon Goddess Calendar)

    January 3 – Cancer – Selene

    Mini ritual: Light a white candle at night. Sit quietly and breathe with the moon. Place a hand over your heart and another over your womb or chest. Meditate, relax, pray.


    February 1 – Leo – Venus

    Mini ritual: Adorn yourself intentionally: jewelry, perfume, silk, or color. Gaze into a mirror and smile gently at yourself.


    March 3 – Virgo (Total Lunar Eclipse) – Isis

    Mini ritual: Cleanse your space. Write something you are ready to release, then tear the paper and thank it for what it taught you.


    April 1 – Libra – Aphrodite

    Mini ritual: Offer fresh water or flowers. Speak gratitude for beauty, connection, and desire.


    May 1 – Scorpio – Persephone

    Mini ritual: Sit in darkness or candlelight. Place something symbolic of rebirth nearby (seed, stone, pomegranate).


    May 31 – Sagittarius (Blue Moon) – Nike

    Mini ritual: Stand barefoot if possible. Stretch your arms wide and set an intention for expansion or courage.


    June 29 – Capricorn – Ishtar

    Mini ritual: Write one goal that matters deeply to you. Touch the page and commit to steady devotion rather than urgency.


    July 29 – Aquarius – Hekate

    Mini ritual: At a crossroads (literal or symbolic), light a candle and ask for clarity. Listen rather than force answers.


    August 27 – Pisces (Partial Lunar Eclipse) – Nyx

    Mini ritual: Turn off lights. Sit in silence. Let darkness be a womb, not a threat.


    September 26 – Aries – Athena

    Mini ritual: Write a question you need clarity on. Answer it honestly without softening your words.


    October 25 – Taurus – Demeter

    Mini ritual: Prepare nourishing food or drink with care. Eat slowly and gratefully.


    November 24 – Gemini – The Morrigan

    Mini ritual: Speak aloud what you are no longer willing to tolerate. Let your voice be firm.


    December 23 – Cancer – Artemis

    Mini ritual: Spend time alone under the sky if possible. Set boundaries for the coming year.

    Full Moon Goddess Calendar

    Spiritual people who feel the moon’s pull but are too exhausted to “do it right”, what if a $7 full moon goddess calendar handed you ready-made rituals for every 2026 moon so you just light a candle and follow the words?

    Enter the 2026 Full Moon Goddess Ritual Calendar with over 100 pages of full moon goddess ritual, prayers, affirmations, specials for the blue moon and eclipses and full moon goddess inspiration.

    https://payhip.com/b/6DQor

    Eve

  • 1111 Inspiration

    Dear friends,

    My time was great and then we had a sad accident in the family. Sometimes we try and the lessons do not stop. Sometimes all we can do is grieve.

    But if grieving is something we have to do, then we must grieve. I believe now that keeping the grieving in is dangerous, even.

    11 Messages for the 11/11 Portal

    1. The Message of Alignment

    “You are standing at the gateway. Feel the powerful alignment of your mind, body, and spirit. This harmony is your natural state. Breathe into it and know you are exactly where you are meant to be.”

    2. The Message of Release

    “The portal is open. Release what no longer serves you, old fears, outdated stories, and heavy attachments. Let the light of 11:11 burn them away, making space for the new and miraculous.”

    3. The Message of Intention

    “Your thoughts and intentions are magnified now. Choose them wisely and with great love. Plant the seeds of your deepest desires in the fertile soil of this moment. The universe is listening intently.”

    4. The Message of Awakening

    “You are awakening to the master within. This is a call to remember your true power and spiritual sovereignty. Trust the wisdom of your soul; it is your most reliable guide.”

    5. The Message of Faith

    “You are being divinely guided. The synchronicities you see are winks from the universe, confirming you are on the right path. Let go of the need to control every step and walk in faith.”

    6. The Message of New Beginnings

    “A new cycle is dawning for you. This portal offers a clean slate. Step through it with courage and an open heart, ready to co-create the next, most beautiful chapter of your life.”

    7. The Message of Connection

    “You are a bridge between the earthly and the spiritual. Use this energy to strengthen your connection to your higher self, your guides, and the universal source. You are never alone.”

    8. The Message of Lightwork

    “You are a beacon of light. As you align with this high-frequency energy, you automatically uplift the collective consciousness. Your peace, your joy, and your love have a powerful ripple effect.”

    9. The Message of Gratitude

    “Anchor the high vibrations of this portal with the energy of gratitude. Give thanks for the blessings already on their way. A grateful heart is a powerful magnet for miracles.”

    10. The Message of Inner Truth

    “Your soul’s purpose is calling. Listen to the quiet whisper within. It is leading you toward your highest expression and most authentic life. Have the courage to answer.”

    11. The Message of Co-creation

    “You are a powerful creator. The universe is not something that happens to you, but with you. Partner with this divine energy to manifest a reality filled with love, abundance, and joy.”

    For more intuitive messages, follow me on ko-fi

    https://ko-fi.com/evelovestar

    I am sharing an 11/11 ritual and work on Patreon:

    https://www.patreon.com/cw/HerTemple

    Eve

  • Persephone Messages as she Descends Into the Underworld. Intuitive Messages.

    The air turns cool, the leaves begin their golden fall, and the veil of the world grows thin. This is the season when Persephone descends into the Underworld: not as a victim, but as a queen returning to her throne. Her story is one of cycles: light and dark, innocence and wisdom, life and death and she invites us to walk beside her as we, too, turn inward for the winter.

    Persephone’s descent is not an ending: it is a transformation. When she steps beneath the earth, the world above grows quiet so that we can listen. She teaches that every soul must descend at times to face what lies beneath the surface, to find beauty even in shadow, to trust that spring will return.

    If these messages serve you, consider following me on Ko-fi for divinations articles and readings (free and daily) and premium weekly/ monthly messages.

    https://ko-fi.com/evelovestar

    I have a goal to create my own tarot deck, and you can help me reach this goal through this link:

    Below are 8 messages from Persephone, to guide your spirit as the world slips into the deep stillness of the dark months.

    1. The Descent Is Sacred

    Do not fear your descent (the moments when life feels quiet, uncertain, or heavy). Every cycle of growth begins in darkness: like a seed beneath the soil.

    2. You Are Both Light and Shadow

    You are not meant to choose between the two. Balance is found in embracing both the radiance and the mystery within you.

    3. Transformation Is Not Gentle

    Growth often asks for surrender. When you feel undone, remember that you are being reshaped into something stronger.

    4. Rest Is a Ritual

    Nature rests now: so must you. Stillness is not laziness, it is preparation. The body and soul both need time to regenerate.

    5. Remember Your Power

    In myth, Persephone returns each year crowned as Queen. Let that remind you: what once felt like loss can become sovereignty when you own your story.

    6. Honor the Ancestors

    This is the time to speak their names (to remember where you come from, to let gratitude heal what history has broken).

    7. The Darkness Is a Teacher

    Do not run from it. The shadows you face are not punishments; they are invitations to wisdom.

    8. Spring Awaits, But Not Yet. First, we must face the cold snow.

    Be patient. The seeds of your renewal are growing quietly beneath the surface. Trust that your light will rise again in its own perfect time.

    As Persephone descends, so do we: into reflection, into silence, into depth. This is the season to honor endings and embrace stillness, to let go of what no longer serves and prepare for what will bloom again.

    Light your candle, whisper her name, and remember: descent is not defeat. It is initiation.

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    Thank you for being here,

    I appreciate your support,

    Eve

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  • Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now? British Vogue Article

    Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now? | British Vogue

    When Love Feels Embarrassing: A Sacred Turn in Romance

    There’s a curious new whisper rippling through the world of relationships: having a partner, a “boyfriend” in particular is, for some, becoming less glamorous. The Vogue piece notes how many women feel uneasy about posting about their partner online, or even acknowledging the relationship in the way once expected. British Vogue

    Why is this shift happening, and what does it mean for the mystical, romantic souls who believe in the sacred spark of twin flames?

    The Shift in the Narrative of “Being With”

    In the article, Joseph describes “Boyfriend Land”, a place where women’s online identities once largely centred around their partner. British Vogue
    But now:

    • There’s an increasing desire to avoid looking too “couple-obsessed” or defined by a partner. British Vogue
    • Some reveal fear of the “evil eye” (jealousy) or of being vulnerable by showing the relationship publicly. British Vogue
    • Strength and freedom are being found in singledom or in less conventional relationship portraits. British Vogue

    For me, the poet-mystic, this is a potent moment. It asks: what if our romantic maps need rewriting?

    The Divine in the Relationship & the Relational in the Divine

    In our world, where poetry meets spirituality, and twin-flame connection meets mythic metaphor, relationships are not just about “having a boyfriend.” They are about sacred communion, mirror souls, inner alchemy.

    What happens when society begins to view the “boyfriend” model with embarrassment or as outdated? What if the very notion we’ve anchored on needs transmuting?

    Here’s what this invites:

    • The relational as inner work: Your partner can still reflect your shadow and your light, but the focus shifts from external image to internal awakening.
    • Sacred self-possession: The article shows many women resist being defined by their partner. British Vogue In your context: being in union does not mean losing individual voice, flame or poetry.
    • Twin-flame style: The twin-flame or divine-soul-union archetype is less about “having someone” and more about meeting the other within you. It makes the relationship mystical, not mundane.

    Embarrassment or Reclamation?

    “Is having a boyfriend embarrassing now?” The answer the article leans toward: yes, for many, but only in the sense that the old script feels ill-fitting. The shame isn’t about love itself, it’s about the public performance of it. British Vogue

    From my spiritual and poetic lens:

    • If love is treated as a status symbol, it becomes shallow.
    • If love is treated as a mirror for growth, a portal to divine union, it becomes sacred.
    • Embarrassment fades when we stop performing and start becoming.
    • Whether single, partnered or “in union,” the real question is: is your heart awake?

    For the Lovers, the Seekers, the Twin Flames

    If you are navigating romance, spiritual union, or twin-flame dynamics, I invite you to these reflections:

    • When you say “my partner,” who you are first? Is your voice still present, as bold as ever?
    • In your union, are you partners in myth-making, ritual, and poetry, or simply co-inhabitants of a label?
    • If you were to remove the word “boyfriend” and call the relationship something mythic (“sacred mirror”, “soul-companion”, “co-shaper of flame”), how would that feel?
    • Whether you post your love online or keep it sacred, what matters is your intention, your presence, your growth.

    A Poetic Closing

    Love is not an accessory to be worn on the feed.
    It is a flame to be tended in the temple of self.
    When the world shifts, maybe what changes is not love, but our understanding of it.
    Maybe “having a boyfriend” is less important than being in sacred partnership.
    Maybe the embarrassment dissolves when we dance in the light of our own soul, whether alone or with another.

    What do you think?

    Is romance dead?

    Boyfriends, of course they are embarrassing, but not beloveds.

    This must be my calling, to make the world a little more romantic, like Sappho was meant to bring us love songs.

    Eve