Tag: spiritual

  • How to cultivate divine love within a relationship. Manifest a deeper Union with these steps.

    How to cultivate divine love within a relationship. Manifest a deeper Union with these steps.

    Dear reader,

    Today I will offer some easy steps for you to cultivate love within your relationship. My beloved and I naturally did all these things together. Our love I believe to be fated, however, you can follow these steps to reverse engineer Union.

    Divine Love

    Divine Love is love which is destined by fate or Love that has a divine aspect. You cannot make a connection to be fated if it isn’t, but you can figure out if a connection has a divine aspect by contemplating the effects the connection has on you, the depth of the connection, the healing the relationship causes, obviously, if getting the opposite, that connection would not be divine.

    For the record, I don’t think that there is no value in connections that are not divine, but my opinion is that if it’s not divine, it might be earthly. In my experience, lots if not most of earthly connections are toxic.

    You can cultivate divine love by connecting to what is divine together, by engaging in acts of kindness together, by reflecting on spiritual beliefs together and especially, if you have similar beliefs and values, bond over them.

    Having compassion for your beloved is a good way to cultivate divine love. Understand your partner’s spiritual journey and help them without judgement and without pushing them. Engage in spiritual practices together and figure out new practices that will foster a deeper connection within you two.

    Having children

    For some people, such as myself, having children together is a very spiritual thing since we’re joining our essence with our partner and going into the future through our children. Additionally, your partner and you will have shared ancestry and that is a big deal. In our spiritual views, there are generational curses and blessings and as such, we want to be very intentional about who we mate with. It is my belief that we should cultivate divine love in our connection before we have children and then, having children will cultivate more divine love in the relationship.

    Gratitude

    Be grateful for each other and express gratitude. Then figure out what other things you can be grateful for as gratitude improves our lives. Anything you’re grateful for, grows. Starting a gratitude journal is a great idea to reflect and manifest more of the same.

    Prayer and blessings

    Pray together and/ or pray for each other. Pray for your union. Bless each other and send each other blessings. See your partner as blessed beyond belief.

    Lovemaking

    A divine connection is one where sex is lovemaking. I define lovemaking as sex that involves the heart. Connect through lovemaking. When your love is divine, it feels as though you’re connecting to a higher consciousness through lovemaking.

    Healing

    When love is divine, healing occurs. To cultivate divine love, heal your inner wounds, especially having to do with love or sex, this will allow to love deeper. You might be able to express previously suppressed energies from within you, especially if you are able to connect to a higher Love energy.

    Forgiveness

    Forgive each other and use that energy of acceptance and forgiveness to forgive the others who have hurt you in the past.

    Journal about it

    Journal about the meaning of divine love to you and how to foster it in your relationship. Come up with ideas of specific things you can do together to cultivate even more divine love.

    Set powerful intentions

    Set an intention to cultivate Divine Love. Set intentions regarding everything you are intentional about: Intend to have open communication. Intend to deepen the connection. Intend on healing through love. Intend that your grandchildren inherit healthy energy from you and your partner, etc.

    Talk to your partner’s higher self

    I stumbled upon this concept by following the Twin Flames 1111 blog by Cassady Cayne. I have now been a long-time follower and have consumed a lot of her content. This idea came from her tools, she offers many higher-level tools, way higher than I am expressing here. If you have already done all the simple steps and are ready for more, give her blog a follow.

    Twin Flames 1111 by Cassady Cayne

    I started communicating with my twin flame higher self in meditation and it was fun but eventually, his higher self started communicating with me in my meditation. Eventually I opened up and I chatted with his spirit. By now, his spirit’s voice is in my mind, answering all of my questions and giving me advice. Like I said, this is higher level than the steps I talked about before. You decide how divine your love will get. What resonates with you?

    Remember that cultivating divine love is a journey that requires patience, commitment, and mutual effort from both partners. It’s about nurturing a deep, spiritual connection that transcends the physical and emotional aspects of your relationship.

    How do you cultivate divine love within your relationship?

    Thank you very much for visiting me today,

    Eve, cultivating Divine Love with my lover, Scorpio

  • Scorpio season: holidays and holy days of the dark.

    Who loves the Scorpio season? I admit I didn’t love it until now because I had noticed that my beloved Scorpio and I got into fights during his birthday season. Of course, I blamed him. But now I know that I was getting triggered by his increased honesty, and perhaps he deals with more heaviness, to which I reacted during the season. And I’m a baby Scorpion during the season…

    During this season, we all become Scorpios. The difference between me being a Scorpio for 1 month out of the year is that I am not in control of this energy. My beloved (and healthy Scorpios everywhere) has been living in this energy for over 40 years. Scorpios are masters of this energy. Their stoicism is their way of not letting this energy control them.

    For example, Scorpios are notorious for being extremely sexual beings, which is true, but you would not know that by being in their presence. They’re not like the weird men I have known who are perverted and all they talk about is sex and are out of control, literally out of alignment, so their thirst for sex is unquenchable. Scorpios got the magic. They don’t need to come off strong like those other weirdos. Those guys don’t have that magic, so they pretend, and their karma is to have fast women manipulate them using their distorted sex needs and weaknesses.

    Scorpio’s love of sex is not their weakness. It’s a strength and a way to connect for them. It is a love language. It’s also their easiest way to union.

    In my country, they say: “a dog who barks doesn’t bite” and in this case, the loud barking dog is the weird guy who acts big and appears very sexual but can’t please a woman… Scorpio is a quiet dog who will watch you, attack if needed, and when they attack, they attack with everything. They have the power and energy to both attack and seriously injure a person or to actually please their woman, but they will not brag. We, the beloved women of Scorpio, do the bragging! I brag about my beloved, but this is my public journal, so please forgive me.

    Scorpio season started on October 23rd and ends Nov 21

    The Scorpio energy is dark, mysterious, sexy, powerful, and transformational. It’s the energy of the Phoenix, the energy of death and rebirth. The energy of lovemaking and union with one’s beloved. The energy of the underworld, our inner depths, our darkness, our shadow, and the energy of the transmutation of our darkness. It’s the energy of mastery of one’s power. It’s a powerful, powerful energy we can use to ascend and to deepen our connections and our union.

    So it’s no surprise (this proves astrology is real) that the days we celebrate during the Scorpio season are the dark, death holidays. Halloween, we’re looking at you. But that’s not it…

    Scorpio season Holidays

    These are not official holidays, but have you ever considered if the celebrations we have during the Scorpio season hold the Scorpio energy? Well, look at this list that intends to prove they do.

    Halloween 🎃 👻 🎃 was fun in 2023

    Halloween is a Scorpio holiday. Not surprisingly, during this time of year, we celebrate the darkness, fear, and spirits. We play tricks and scare others. Some are afraid of the darkness of this holiday. Some even call it demonic, though I don’t agree!

    Dia de Los Muertos (Nov 1 and Nov 2)

    Not surprisingly, a day after Halloween, in Mexico, a similar celebration is happening, Dia de Los Muertos (Day of the Dead) a holiday to celebrate the dead family members and also it is said to be a day when the spirits of our family members are close to us. This was my beloved’s favorite celebration as a kid. So I plan to start celebrating this holiday next year.

    Samhain

    I know you’re not surprised that the Samhain dates coincide with Halloween and Day of the Death because this is said to be the original of the Halloween celebration and the energy is the same all around the world so though people celebrate different holidays, they are all celebrating the amazing and intense energy of death and rebirth or the energy of Scorpio.

    Samhain is a pagan religious celebration. It celebrates the start of the dark part of the year. During this middle point between the light and dark parts of the year, the veil is supposed to be thinner, and thus, we are supposed to be much more likely to perceive spirit.

    During Samhain, people celebrated their dead ancestors just like in Mexico they’re celebrated during the day of the death. People also wore costumes like we do on Halloween (I was a ballerina this year).

    I have slowly started to celebrate Samhain because I see the pagans as the underdog (compared to christianity, certainly but even compared to other major religions), and I always root for the underdog.

    The American presidential election (USA)

    Sorry to ruin the Scorpio fun by reminding everyone about the elections and the political differences of the citizens. But out of the entire year? Why did the American government choose to have elections during the ♏️ season? I will say it’s best not to get involved with the lower Scorpio vibes of jealousy, violence, hatred, and revenge. I have no idea why the elections and politics made me think of those low vibes… oh, it’s because these low vibes are exploited during this season. The election 2020 ruined my beloved’s birthday, so I despise the election time. Horrible timing!

    Veterans Day (USA) Nov/11

    Celebrating veterans during the warrior season of Scorpio ruled by the God of war, Mars? Sometimes, I think the governments use astrology. You know, like how the new king of England was crowded under the powerful eclipse on 5/5/23? Think about it…

    Scorpio celebrations

    I thought Halloween, Dia de Muertos, and Samhain were the only dark Scorpio holidays, but check out these other days celebrated or observed by enough people to land on calendars. I wanted to convince you that Scorpio had dark holidays, but I have actually convinced myself.

    • National day of the deployed. (USA) I see plenty of war celebrations during the season. (Oct 26)
    • Worldwide howl at the moon day. Interesting celebration… (Oct 26)
    • National black cat day. Right before Halloween (Oct 27)
    • Cranky coworker day. Lol. Who comes up with this? A Scorpio might. I have to say I have had cranky Scorpio coworkers. Not all Scorpios like me, I guess. (Oct 27)
    • National text your ex day. What the heck? Please don’t text your ex… It sounds like an obsessive/ obsessed Scorpio ex-girlfriend/ ex-boyfriend or a low vibe Scorpio. (Oct 30)
    • Mischief night. (Oct 30)
    • World vegan day. Interesting, and how many Scorpios are vegan or vegetarian? Please comment (Nov 1)
    • National author day. I wonder how many Scorpios are authors? With such deep emotions, they would make excellentwriters. Omg, Scorpios would make badass poets. Omg, please, where is a Scorpio poet? (Nov 1)
    • National stress awareness day (USA) Scorpio energy (Nov 1)
    • November is the National novel writing month. Super cool. So, how many Scorpios write novels? It’s probably the hottest, sexiest novels that are born during the November Scorpio season. I’ll save my novel writing ideas for November…
    • Plan your epitaph day. Lol 😆 😂 😅 such Scorpio energy. (Nov 2)
    • Pumpkin destruction day. It’s such a hilarious thing to do. (First Saturday after Halloween)
    • Use your common sense day. (Nov 4) This is also Scorpio energy, but honestly… Has anyone created a sex day? It should be on 11/11 if I get to create it..
    • Gunpowder day. Very interesting. Raise your hand if you’re a Scorpio with a strange love for weapons. Does it mean sense? Your ruler planet is the violent ruler of wars, Mars. My lover was obsessed, he told me, with drawing weapons as a child.
    • Chaos never dies day. I am not making this up. Scorpio season has a celebration of chaos in our lives, and the energy of this holiday is… Scorpio energy. I told you… (Nov 9)
    • On the same date, we celebrate world freedom day. Something Scorpio would love, but Scorpio understands there’s is darkness in the world and probably doesn’t believe we can reach freedom on a world scale. (Nov 9)
    • Forget-me-not day. This is not a day dedicated to the flower, but instead, to remembering and getting in touch with loved ones. Not surprisingly, some use it to remember passed on loved ones (a mini day of death). To me, it feels like a Scorpio remembering all their old friends and girlfriends who they have loved. The name of the holiday sounds obsessive to me! Please don’t forget me. 🙏 (Nov 10)
    • World peace day. Again. War and peace are coming into our consciousness during the Scorpio season. Just like death and rebirth, the dark and the light. (Nov 17)
    • Occult day. 😆 🤣 😂 tell me, does this feel like a Scorpio holiday? Scorpio is the ruler of the occult… (Nov 17)
    • Have a bad day day. Who celebrates this day? Well, this is a real thing, and does it not feel like the heaviness of Scorpio noticing all that is heavy and dark in the world? (Nov 19)

    The Scorpio season Holy days

    This being a spiritual blog, let’s talk about the days we spiritual folk celebrate during the Scorpio season.

    Already passed for 2023, but if reading in the future, also use the season’s full moon, and if there are any eclipses for your manifestations.

    1111 is said to be a twin flame number, and the portal is said to be excellent for twin flame union. My beloved was born not on this day but during the portal, which opens before the 11th and closes later. I feel this portal has already opened. I read that starting Nov 11th, the biblical flood waters started to subside. So was it on this day that a rainbow graced the sky, signifying the end of God’s murder by flood?

    See a list of different spiritual/ religious celebrations, holidays, and meaningful days falling during the month of Scorpio. Please help me add to this list. I do not observe all of these at all… this is for research, for fun, and for future reference.

    • Nov 1: All Saints day. Is this the religious version of Halloween/ Samhain/ Dia de Muertos? Same date and also celebrating and remembering dead people?
    • Nov 2: All souls day. Similar to above, but for all souls, I believe in this faith, so not necessarily your soul of mine. So definitely not all souls but Christian souls of passed Christians.
    • November: month of remembrance for catholics. With all saints and Samhain to start the month. Catholics spread the remembrance through the month. I have been a Catholic and celebrate catholicism somewhat. I still used to call myself a Catholic until my Scorpio was like what?
    • Nov 12: Diwali, a Hindu celebration of our inner light. Hindus all over (and I might start observing this day). The victory of good vs. evil is celebrated, and the light is celebrated. Good vs. evil reminds me always of Scorpio. This is a time to turn inwards I read. I’ll have to learn more about this celebration… read about this holiday through the link below this list
    • Nov 21 is supposed to be the day when Noah, his family, and his animals left the Ark. I don’t know where these exact biblical dates come. Obviously, I can’t prove anything here, and my knowledge of the Kabalah is I’ve heard it’s a thing… I will be looking into the Kabalah, Hinduism, budism, and more as I research spirituality but right now, I’m just sharing which days are celebrated during the month of Scorpio and it appears folk celebrate coming off the Ark. In Scorpio terms, this would be a time of rebirth.
    • Nov 10: Hindu festival of Dhanatrayodashi or Dhanteras. I never heard of it, but it’s a grand celebration. Need to learn about Hinduism, and this list is for my reference in the future. I’ll be learning about this one.

    https://www.spiritualityandpractice.com/practices/naming-the-days/view/17562/diwali-a-celebration-of-our-inner-light

    https://www.hindustantimes.com/lifestyle/festivals/festivals-in-october-2023-calendar-gandhi-jayanti-durga-puja-navratri-to-dussehra-check-out-the-complete-list-101696052921089.html

    https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/religion/festivals/dhanteras-2023-date-time-rituals-and-significance-of-dhantrayodashi/articleshow/105057533.cms

    11/11 portal

    Scorpio new moon

    A powerful time indeed. Nov 13 (depends where you are in the world)

    Scorpio new moon. Is this the most powerful day of the year. My monologs deck says to work through our fears

    This card suggests a rebirth says the Moonology oracle book. Think of the rising Phoenix. A new start is coming. Things might get dark, but it will be transforming. Work your magic right now. A sexier time is coming. Emotional intimacy is on the menu. To attune to the moon, have some sexy time, says the book.

    Additional meanings for this card: let go of a grudge. Move on from jealousy. Stop being obsessive. Make an investment. Face your shadows. Transmute your pain.

    New Moon in Scorpio. Nov 2023

    Spiritual days to celebrate in November 2023. I just found this, and I have to check it out. Thoughts about this practice?

    https://www.wofs.com/significant-spiritual-days-for-november-2023/

    October biblical days to celebrate
    November days to celebrate according to the bible
    The biblical flood happened during the Scorpio season, according to the Kabalah

    Scorpio research. Content I used while writing this post

    Getting the best results from the Scorpio season with wisdom from the Kabalah.

    Watch this video about the Scorpio energy, the meaning of the Scorpio month in the Kabalah, and the Scorpio new moon

    The most powerful month of the year: The Scorpio season

    https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/2023/10/11563398/scorpio-season-october-2023-meaning-effects

    https://www.holidayinsights.com/moreholidays/november.htm

    https://www.newgrange.com/samhain.htm

    https://www.daysoftheyear.com/days/occult-day/

    Please let me know of holidays and holy days I missed, I’m interested in foreign as well as ancient celebrations during the Scorpio season. Comment please, and I will add them to this post.

    Thank you for reading and I pray we have the strength of character needed to accept the harsh feedback we will receive during the Scorpio season and I wish that by the time the season is closing, we will feel like the Phoenix associated with Scorpio. ♏️ 😊 😉

    With love and light,

    Eve

  • A new dimension of love and lovemaking. Union update ❤️ 😍 💖

    Dear diary,

    ***Update since 5/5/23: that big Scorpio eclipse which coincided with my anniversary to Scorpio ♏️ ***

    Once expectations are dropped and nothing is expected, union manifests. Of course, this statement would be ridiculous applied to a 3D relationship. Of course, in the “real world” (such as the world my parents live in), there has to be clear expectations, or they will not be met.

    Lucky for me, I don’t live in the real world. In the world I live in, I don’t have to tie my lover down. He willingly comes to me all the time. My lover doesn’t have to “buy me” or do anything special to earn my affection. I am totally free of charge. I know we live in a broken world, and this is why I want to change the it.

    A new dimension of love ❤️ 😍 💖

    Since my last update, my beloved Scorpio and I have become closer than ever. It was unexpected, really, so I’m sure it was divine timing, and perhaps the energy accelerated due to the eclipse. It really doesn’t matter why, the lovely thing happened and now I’m very grateful.

    I’m not going to give the specifics on what happened, too personal and unnecessary, but change started in my mind. Perhaps also in my beloved’s mind, I didn’t ask… In our conversations around this time, we talked about giving more to our connection (I led this conversation). Giving more in a state of gratitude for the continued Love and the increasing depth of our Love. This is totally something I’d say and not Scorpio…

    The change I refer to was reaching a place together where we were more at peace, closer together, and wanting more.

    A new dimension in lovemaking 😋 😋 😋

    A new dimension in lovemaking is obviously yummy 😋 😜 😊 😉 😀 😍. It’s obvious and undeniable when this happens. This is a real phenomenon and not something that can be made up, not something that can be faked. Both partners feel the shift. The shift is positive, of course.

    This positive shift in lovemaking, which I’m calling a new dimension, is not some magical, otherworldly move to the 5D ( 😆 ). This positive shift is a new level. We all started somewhere, let’s say, at level zero. At different rates and for different reasons, we all leveled up our sex life. I’m not assigning levels to skills. What I speak of is an energetic “feeling” thing, not a theoretical learning thing. I didn’t do anything new, I did have a new intention, and I used the power of gratitude to manifest this shift.

    Manifested, or divine timing?

    If I used gratitude to manifest this shift, did I manifest it, or was it divine timing 🤔? I feel like this question is a lot like What came first, the chicken or the egg? Trying to answer it is a good journaling exercise.

    The shift started in my mind. There was probably plenty of assistance from my lover Scorpio. I feel his fantasies, so what I think (about sex) are not my thoughts at all. They’re at the very least shared thoughts, at most, my thoughts are his thoughts, which sounds dangerous ( 😆 🤣 😂) but I’m tuned into that vibe, so there is no harm. The power of tuning into his desires has been helpful for me because I’m the embarrassed little girl type…

    I don’t believe I manifested this. Though I’m certain that you, the reader, can manifest a higher level of love and a higher level of lovemaking, the experience I write about was not manifested by me, there is a chance that it was manifested by my lover! He is Scorpio, and this shift happened under the influence of the Scorpio eclipse, and I believed going into the eclipse that he might be manifesting something… but though my lover likely helped manifest this for us, I believe this was divine timing.

    Does sex get better after 16 years?

    That is such a great question, and we all know the answer is no. Most of us know of couples that fall apart much sooner than that and we ourselves might have gotten tired of someone in the past, most of us also experienced cheating and we assume cheaters cheat because they get bored. We assume that sex with the same person and the same way get boring.

    This is why finding a new dimension of lovemaking elevates the entire union. It suddenly becomes new again. The energy ascends, the feeling gets better, and the desire grows.

    I am excited about this big change in our union and so grateful. Now that I know this is possible, I will explore it even further. More of these posts are coming.

    Dear reader,

    Thank you for visiting and I’m grateful for you. I have been off the blog lots because my life has changed also in the busy area but I will always keep on coming back.

    Much love,

    Eve

  • Sex. Don’t Fake Till You Make it. Do this instead…

    TRIGGER ALERT!!! This post could trigger sexual trauma and open unhealed wounds. I intend this brings you. healing. If you are aware of unhealed sexual trauma, don’t read this, instead message me through the Contact tool under Menu.

    “Fake it till you make it”

    Obviously, when we fake it, we are not being vulnerable, we’re not honestly showing our struggle, or we don’t know how to show our learning progress. Perhaps we feel embarrassed and  though we don’t talk about this, there’s a fake element to faking it.

    Some would fake it to appear smarter, more able to learn or perform, to appear “better” than they feel they are. This, I believe, stems from feeling inadequate, insecure, or not enough. This is, in my humble opinion, putting on a false mask that makes you appear able to do what you’re faking while buying you time to learn at a slower pace.

    The point we miss is that we’re all different and learning is a process. It’s obviously not only ok but expected to not know what you’re learning on day 1. There’s studying and practicing before we’re successful in whatever we’re learning and this includes sex. We will not be a sex god or goddess on day 1! Nor should we be.

    In sex, what does it mean to fake it?

    We fake it when we pretend to be enjoying ourselves during sex. We might act as if we had an orgasm, making the noises and movements that we believe we would make if we were having a real orgasm. We might vocalize, some might scream or say they’re having an orgasm like we see on the movies.

    In pretending to be enjoying ourselves, our partner would falsely believe that they are more able than they are to basically get us off sexually. Typically, when our partner has an amazing time while we have sex, we feel great about ourselves and therefore our self esteem is heightened. When we fake it, our partner might think they’re able to give us an orgasm when in truth they’re unable to or we’re not able to have an orgasm ourselves regardless of their ability.

    Typically and sadly, women fake orgasms. Nowadays, it’s well known that only a small percentage of women can actually achieve an orgasmic reaction to vaginal sex only. Many of us need much more than just vaginal sex to achieve it, some of us have never had one. Some of us, lucky ones, will find a special person later on who will be so incredible that we will finally reach the desired outcome.

    When we fake it, we exaggerate these noises and movements and if we don’t know what an orgasm really feels like, we might look and/ or feel fake. Therefore many are aware that their partner can fake it or might doubt their partner’s overt reactions! Watch out because if you get caught faking it, this might cause your partner’s self esteem to drop as if they’re unable to bring you to the gates of heaven through that most elusive female orgasm and they might be able to give you one if they just knew what to give you and how.

    Why do we fake it?

    I believe that some people might not even realize they are faking it, some people might think that they’re meant to make a bunch of noise or do certain things that might indicate they’re having a great time. It doesn’t help that porn is readily available for free and even movies paint a picture about sex that’s unreal, unnatural, and fake. It also doesn’t help that we’re exposed to that perversion of lovemaking early on. We seem to forget that is acting and obviously not real, and if we imitate it, we might not meet our expectations and/ or our partner’s expectations.

    People imitate the actions of movie stars, who are clearly acting, and not having a real orgasm for several reasons. It might look sexy from the outside looking in but reminder!!! that’s not what sex is like. When we engage in sex, we’re in the inside experiencing, not on the outside looking in! When we experience, we are not making a show for outsiders who can’t feel the act and our partner can feel us so there’s no need to put on a show.

    There’s probably many different reasons why people fake it. Certainly, a reason is we want to please our partner. We might feel that our partner wants the hot porn star, yet, in faking an orgasm, we’re not giving our partner the choice to please us. In truth, if our partner wants some hot movie star, then perhaps this is not the article for you, or if you’re in a soulmate or twin flame relationship, then perhaps you’re out of alignment, I’ve been there too! Finally, if you have been faking it, your partner might think it’s hot because it looks like a movie, yet they might be deprived of giving you the real experience.

    I’ll be honest with you, I’ve never faked it! Ever. First of all, I don’t believe in giving a mediocre partner a sense that they are able to bring me to an orgasm! And you might guess that I have indeed had sex with a mediocre partner and it’s true, I’m in the process of forgiving myself. An orgasm is something that I’ve only been able to achieve with my beloved, the one I call my twin flame, my one true love. It’s not something a woman achieves with anyone.

    Don’t Fake it. Instead do this.

    Females rejoice! We really have it good in sex! We don’t have the pressure males have when it comes to having one massive orgasm where if they fail to have one, they’ll have the hated “blue balls”. The universe blessed us with the incredible ability to have multiple orgasms, even to enjoy orgasm after orgasm and feel like the sex act was one massive orgasm, we have the ability to orgasm from the beginning to the end of the sexual encounter. We’re the orgasm queens and goddesses on this planet. So first of all relax and have fun with this. It can be a project, a self growth goal, a quest even, or something like a new year resolution or goal.

    But even if we’re unable to ask about what we need (I totally understand) there’s really no need to act as if we’re having an orgasm we’re not having and the joke is on us if we make our partner believe we love something we don’t even like and then we get that treatment daily! Instead start little by little indicating what you do love, whether it’s a kiss, a touch, a sight that is delightful. There’s always something truly pleasing if you are in a committed relationship. Our partners respond to what we love by paying close attention to our response and giving us more of what they believe we love and this is why you should not fake it if you want a truly enjoyable and healthy sex life.

    So don’t fake it! If you can, speak up. If you can’t speak up, fantasize! It’s a simple way to manifest what you truly desire. Well, I came to realize after years of fantasizing, that fantasies are not private at all, fantasies are energy that gets shared, just like thoughts are. What you’re fantasizing about, those thoughts are interacting with your partner! Also because when you fantasize, you’re working yourself closer to the place you need to be to reach the desired orgasm. Personally, when I needed to warm up, I go to my special place (in my head) which is our first night together, the night I had my first orgasm, I call this my master fantasy.

    What to do instead of faking it. Tips and tricks.

    • Relax and have fun
    • Be honest and vulnerable
    • Don’t make them think you love something you don’t love
    • Fantasize about what you want in bed
    • Create a master fantasy (for me it’s my first night with my beloved)
    • Respond to what you love in the natural way your body responds
    • Don’t block the natural response: scream or moan if you feel you should, be quiet if that’s more natural. If you’re having a full on body response and start shaking uncontrollably, let that be, and if your body tenses up, then allow that too. If you can speak, say their name or the expression that comes most naturally, and if it’s not possible to say anything, don’t force it. There’s no one size fits all.
    • Don’t watch porn or movies about sex to learn. No judgement if you do or have but figure out your own personal response rather than imitating acting from a movie.
    • Take charge and do what you love most
    • Experiment! You might enjoy even some things you thought you didn’t like

    The spiritual significance of faking it

    My beloved is Scorpio and don’t fake it with Scorpio because not only is Scorpio more than able to “get you off” but they can feel you and when they figure out you have been faking it, they might feel betrayed. Don’t lie to Scorpio! They would question why you did it and they will wonder what else you have been faking. Additionally, they might feel as though you are fake or not trustworthy.

    Spiritually speaking, and for those of us who believe in manifestation, it is possible that we’re manifesting what we don’t love most by faking an orgasm. We might be mistakenly manifesting  not our highest and most rewarding sex life. Additionally, it feels that by faking it, we’re aligning to something that’s not our highest vibe. Perhaps, we have mistakenly calibrated to a lower vibe, perhaps we’ve even calibrated to some perverted porn vibe. And if any perverted vibes have entered our reality, it’s entirely possible that lower, even dark energies (even entities) are feeding off our sexual energy which feels to be our highest creation energy.

    This is nothing to be feared and probably most of us have at some point picked up lower sex vibes. We could have picked up some lower sex vibes from friends, past lovers, abuse, trauma, karma, ancestral energy, curses, or by choosing/ accepting this energy by mistake. I understand, for some, this is crazy superstition but if you read this blog, does that resonate?

    Is it making love if I fake it?

    When we make love we are vulnerable and share ourselves completely with a willing and loving partner. This is the opposite of faking it. Sex can be faked but lovemaking is the real thing.

    If you’re lucky enough to have sex with your twin flame, don’t fake it.

    If you are lucky enough to have sex with your twin flame, don’t fake it! It is a great honor to actually engage in this way with your twin and don’t taint the energy with fake vibes! This might sound harsh but if you’re interested in having an honest relationship with your twin, then please engage with complete honesty. It could be considered running (and us twins don’t like that) from ourselves…

    Respectfully and never in judgement,

    with Love and light,

    Eve

  • Full Moon on Leo. Twin Flame Lovestars Podcast.

    Happy full moon dear friends,

    We have a full moon on Leo today. This could be excellent for us, we could feel like Lions and lionesses, we could shower someone in attention or receive lots of attention, or we could become the life of this party! Heart activations occurring during this time. This is a powerful moon during this as 222 portal.

    Podcasts where I talked about this full moon:

    https://anchor.fm/eve520/episodes/Leo-Full-Moon–Valentines-Challenge–Oracle-Readings–Moon-Book–Intuitive-Messages-e1e8nc5

    https://anchor.fm/eve520/episodes/Full-Moon-in-Leo–Moon-Book-When-the-Full-Moon-is-Hard-for-You–Ancestral-Affirmation-e1efm5v

    Moon Book. Lunar Magic to Change Your Life by Sarah Faith Gottesdiener

    I took my children to the library not expecting to get a book for myself. Then I saw a new book on display about witchcraft and decided to borrow it. Then I looked through the adult non fiction section and found this moon book and borrowed it so I could share with you.

    What I learned so far from this book is that the moon is full for such a tiny amount of time and the energy is available 2 days before and 2 days after, so instead of obsessing over having a ritual on full moon day as I have in the past, it’s best to go through the full moon and see what signs and synchronicities we received, see what we can learn and then work on the full moon ritual after we have processed this information during the next two days after the full moon.

    Today I learned that to avoid burnout during the full moon, it’s best to prepare ahead of time such as to meal prep the week before, to schedule time off, to ensure that we are not very busy on a week or a day or a couple of days where we know we will not be sleeping well and we will be feeling sleepy as I feel today and I typically feel sleepy and full moon days because I am not sleeping well enough. I just learned this today and will be doing this starting next month, this month is already too late for example I left some school work that I was going to help my youngest school daughter with for the day before the full moon, I should have planned ahead and finished this at least a full two days prior. Another idea I got from reading this was to do laundry the previous week, have the house clean going into the full moon week, have a movie night!

    Blessings for you on this full 🌕 and rest as much as you can.

    Much love,

    Eve

  • Using challenges for our ascension. Shadow dreams. Coyote spirit animal. 222 portal. Twin Flame Lovestars Podcast.

    Using challenges for our ascension. Shadow dreams. Coyote spirit animal. 222 portal. Twin Flame Lovestars Podcast.

    Hello friend, I had 2 crazy dreams in a row showing me secret hidden shadow and darkness within my subconscious. I unpacked these dreams, the energies, and what I know about these topics on my newest podcast episode, though the link👇. I talked about info I received from my twin flame (he is a community of beings and I talked about that in this episode). I also talked about how to turn the challenges we’re experiencing during this 222 portal into healing experiences. And, as I saw another coyote, 2 during this portal, I read the meaning from my spirit song Tarot and it was very fitting to the topic of this episode. Thanks for listening and thank you for your support always,

    https://anchor.fm/eve520/episodes/Learning-from-our-challenges–Shadow-dreams–Coyote-spiritual-animal-message-e1e5kjv

    To see the picture of this card and screenshot of the meaning from the book, click on the following link to read my previous post about this cards when I saw the first coyote or listen to the podcast.

    https://loveandlight888.art.blog/2022/02/05/tarot-reading-messages-to-help-with-222-portal-challenges-twin-flame-lovestars-podcast/

    Much Love,

    Eve

  • Tarot reading. Spirit animal messages to help with 222 portal challenges. Twin Flame Lovestars Podcast

    Dear friends,

    During this 222 portal (2/2/2022 – 2/22/2022) challenges abound. I created a podcast episode to give you some divine messages to help navigate through these intense energies and come out the other side of the portal much more aligned with our higher self and spirit and to use these challenges to help with our ascension instead of being overwhelmed by them.

    To get the full message please listen to the podcast through the link 👇

    https://anchor.fm/eve520/episodes/222-portal-challenges–Spirit-animal-tarot-card-reading-messages-e1e03mc

    I used my spirit animal tarot deck, SpiritSong.

    SpiritSong tarot reading for 222 portal challenges
    Four of feathers (swords) Bear. Sanctuary and rest.
    Bear 🐻 card meaning part 1
    Bear meaning part 2
    Ten of acorns. Donkey 🐴. Responsibility and dedication.
    Donkey card meaning part 1
    Donkey card meaning part 2

    The star. ⭐ Swan 🦢. Peace and healing
    The swan meaning part 1
    The swan meaning part 2
    Knight of feathers. Coyote 🐺. Action and focus
    Coyote card meaning from the book.

    Thanks for reading, listening, and supporting this blog. I appreciate you 🤗

    With much Love and light and sending you much healing energy,

    Your friend, Eve

  • Twin Flame Children, diet ascension, and my midwife update. Twin Flame Lovestars podcast

    Dear twin flame,

    I have been busy with a few projects: completing the move from my doctor to midwife, setting appointments, shopping etc. I’m at the phase of my pregnancy when I’m cleaning and organizing the house and I’m planning for the birth. I also have a few projects going for my children and myself, for example, since we last talked, I made 2 hats for my youngest children and I’ve been making a blanket for my youngest daughter. On top of all this as busyness, my 2 oldest children started school post holiday this week and this adds another level to already busy. And I got sick yesterday, so I was unable to blog when my phone let me know it was time for it.

    Today, I had to podcast! On this new episode I gave an update on hiring a midwife and my experience with my first 2 appointments. I talked about twin flames and diet and a big awakening I had (getting sick) and new dietary changes as a result. And I completed the podcast with another chat about twin flame children.

    https://anchor.fm/eve520/episodes/Twin-Flame-Children–My-experience-hiring-a-midwife-and-diet-ascension-e1cr4bl

    Thanks for listening,

    Much Love,

    Eve

  • Latest Rumble Vlogs

    Lovely friends, I would love to share my latest Rumble Vlogs with you. These are every day videos I create with my dear children and some of my newest spiritual videos.

    https://rumble.com/vs0e7a-i-hired-a-midwife.-not-having-this-baby-in-the-hospital-during-covid.html

    https://rumble.com/vrk8py-rainbow-holidays.-great-sight.html

    https://rumble.com/vom8uu-toddler-loves-the-petting-zoo.html

    https://rumble.com/vombc0-alpaca-so-sweet-at-the-petting-zoo.html

    I’m also on YouTube just because I’ve had the channel for years, not uploading spiritual vids but have lots of older poetry videos there. Also the children vlogs. I’m not a fan on YouTube anymore due to their censorship, which is why I chose Rumble. Yet you can find me there as Eve Lovestar if you wish.

    https://youtube.com/c/EveSanchez

    friends, my two oldest daughters also decided to start their own channels, I’ll share my favorite of their vlogs.

    Meet LizzieBarbie Sun Girl

    https://rumble.com/c/c-1264124

    https://rumble.com/vrtitq-young-lizzie-singer-gets-a-glow-up.html

    https://rumble.com/vqsspm-the-spider-and-the-butterfly.-childrens-story-by-lizzie-barbie.html

    https://rumble.com/vqqm9q-lizzie-barbies-hula-hoop-skills.html

    Meet Lilli Barbie Star

    https://rumble.com/c/c-1262924

    https://rumble.com/vrrpxc-the-sunflower-and-lilli.-summer-memories.html

    https://rumble.com/vr5lii-children-poem.-it-rains-all-day-by-lilli-barbie-star.html

    Inhttps://rumble.com/vr15ew-decorating-our-christmas-tree-with-diy-garlands.htinn

    With much Love,

    Eve