We are all born with a deep, innate capacity for love. Yet, for something so fundamental to the human experience, we receive remarkably little education in its highest form. We are taught to fall in love, to seek the “happily ever after,” but we are rarely taught how to build love, how to nurture it with intention, and how to navigate the inevitable storms with grace and wisdom.
This is the territory of Conscious Love, a practice, a discipline, and an art form. It is a move away from love as a passive state of being “in love” and toward love as an active, daily verb. It is the decision to show up with eyes wide open, not just to our partner’s light, but to their shadows, and to our own.
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Every man carries an anima, the feminine soul image that shapes how he loves, dreams, and feels. Meeting her is the first step toward sacred Union, we discussed this in the first article of this series. Then we get to know his inner feminine in a merging where “we’re 3” and we discussed this in the second article.
Now let us discuss the idea of “becoming his inner feminine,” which I purposely called his inner goddess.
Becoming His Inner Goddess
The Final Stage of the Inner Union and the Birth of Divine Love
The journey into divine love, as seen through both Carl Jung’s psychology and the twin flame path, reaches its culmination not when two souls finally unite but when each has become whole within themselves. The third stage, becoming his inner goddess, represents this sacred completion.
It is the point at which the masculine no longer seeks his feminine essence or merely invites her presence; he embodies her. The goddess is no longer a distant figure in his dreams or a projection onto his beloved. She becomes a living consciousness within him, guiding his thoughts, emotions, and creative impulses.
This transformation, according to Jung, is the crowning moment of individuation the full realization of the Self, which is both masculine and feminine, conscious and unconscious, human and divine.
For those on the twin flame journey, it is the moment when divine love ceases to be a pursuit and becomes a state of being.
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1. The Meaning of “Becoming Her”
To become the inner goddess does not mean a man ceases to be himself or loses his masculine essence. Rather, he becomes balanced the light and dark, the action and surrender, the sun and the moon coexisting harmoniously within him.
Jung observed that when the anima (the inner feminine) is fully integrated, a man gains access to the depths of his intuition, compassion, and creativity. He becomes capable of a more profound love, not just directed outward, but radiating from within.
In spiritual terms, this is the hieros gamos, or sacred marriage, taking place in the soul. The divine feminine and divine masculine are no longer in conflict. They move as one.
When he becomes his goddess, he becomes capable of embodying unconditional love. This is the energy that twin flames often sense: the point at which love itself becomes transcendent, healing, and universal.
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2. Living as the Embodied Union
To live as this inner goddess is to live from a state of presence, intuition, and receptivity, even within a masculine body or identity. It is not passive. It is power in its purest, most fluid form.
Jung believed that when this level of integration occurs, the individual begins to live symbolically. Life itself becomes a sacred myth unfolding. Every act, every emotion, every meeting holds meaning. The outer and inner worlds mirror each other perfectly.
For twin flames, this embodiment often manifests as a radical shift in how love is expressed. The relationship becomes a sacred partnership rather than a dynamic of pursuit and retreat. Each sees the divine reflected in the other, but also within themselves.
He no longer needs to “find” his feminine counterpart to feel whole. He has become her energy, her grace, her intuition. And in doing so, he becomes capable of truly meeting his divine feminine in her full power because he now understands her essence through lived experience.
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3. The Gifts of the Inner Goddess
When a man becomes his inner goddess, several transformations occur:
Creative Power Awakens. His ideas and dreams gain new vitality. The imagination becomes a channel of divine inspiration.
Emotional Depth Expands. He feels without fear. Vulnerability becomes a source of strength.
Intuitive Wisdom Emerges. Decisions are no longer purely rational; they arise from harmony between intellect and inner knowing.
Love Deepens. Relationships become sacred mirrors of his own completeness, rather than attempts to fill a void.
Jungian psychology teaches that these qualities arise naturally when the unconscious is integrated. They are not learned behaviors but revelations of the Self.
For twin flames, these are the energies that sustain eternal union. When both souls embody their inner opposites, love becomes effortless. There is no longer a polarity of chaser and runner, only two reflections of divine wholeness.
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4. Practices to Embody the Inner Goddess
The process of becoming the inner goddess is gradual. It requires patience, humility, and inner listening. Some practices inspired by Jung’s method and spiritual alchemy include:
Active Imagination: Dialogue with the inner feminine through journaling, meditation, or visualization. Allow her voice to speak without censorship.
Creative Expression: Paint, write, dance, or sing. The goddess speaks through art.
Dream Work: Record and interpret dreams. The inner feminine often communicates through symbols of water, moonlight, or love.
Shadow Integration: Face emotional wounds and projections. Healing these allows the goddess to rise.
Sacred Relationship: Honor relationships as reflections of your inner state. When tension arises, look within before reacting outward.
These are not mere techniques they are rituals of transformation. Each step brings the psyche closer to the divine union that Jung described as the ultimate goal of human evolution.
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5. The Mirror of Twin Flame Love
When he becomes his goddess, something miraculous happens in the twin flame bond. The external feminine feels the shift immediately. She senses his energy merging with hers not as dependence, but as resonance. The two become co-creators of divine love.
In this state, communication becomes telepathic, forgiveness comes naturally, and love transcends physical limitations. The relationship ceases to be about healing wounds and becomes about creating light.
The external union reflects the inner one. The dance of twin flames is complete when both have found their divine halves within.
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6. Sources for Further Study
For those who wish to deepen their understanding of Jungian integration and the symbolism of divine union:
Carl Jung – “Mysterium Coniunctionis” – Jung’s exploration of alchemy and the inner marriage of opposites.
Marie-Louise von Franz – “Alchemy: An Introduction to the Symbolism and the Psychology” – A clear explanation of Jung’s ideas on transformation and wholeness.
Robert A. Johnson – “Inner Work: Using Dreams and Active Imagination for Personal Growth” – Practical guidance for applying Jung’s methods.
Clarissa Pinkola Estés – “Women Who Run with the Wolves” – A poetic interpretation of feminine archetypes and their healing power.
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7. A Closing Reflection
Becoming his inner goddess is not a metaphor. It is the birth of his divine nature. It is the moment when love ceases to be between him and her and becomes through him and her.
The goddess he once sought is no longer separate. She lives in his breath, his art, his tenderness, his strength.
And for those walking the twin flame path, this is the final realization: the union was never just about two souls finding each other, it was about two divine forces finding themselves.
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Once awakened, his inner feminine begins to express herself through emotion, art, and sensitivity, yet also through projections and confusion.
Let us align with his inner feminine to cause a deeper union in the physical.
Union with his inner feminine with Jungian psychology
The Sacred Dance of Integration
There is a stage in love when perception must become participation. Once you begin to perceive your lover’s inner goddess, the feminine presence within his soul, you are invited to move beyond observation into sacred union. This is not a union of bodies alone but a merging of energies, where two inner worlds recognize and embrace one another.
Carl Jung described this process as a form of alchemy. He saw human relationships as crucibles for psychological transformation, where masculine and feminine energies blend to create something greater than either could achieve alone. Jung called this process coniunctio oppositorum: the union of opposites, and believed it to be one of the deepest mysteries of the psyche (soul).
For the man, this mystery takes the form of his anima (inner goddess), the inner feminine soul. For the woman, it appears as her animus, the inner masculine. When two lovers meet in divine love, these inner forces awaken simultaneously. You become the living mirror of his inner goddess, and he becomes the mirror of your hidden masculine strength.
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The Anima in Jung’s Vision
To understand what it means to unite with his goddess, it helps to see how Jung understood the anima. In his writings, he described her as the bridge between a man’s conscious mind and his deeper spiritual self. She is his emotional intelligence, his receptivity, his capacity for wonder and devotion.
When this aspect of him is unconscious, he may project it outward, idealizing a woman and believing she contains all the magic he lacks. But as he begins to integrate the anima, that projection softens. The divine feminine becomes not an external idol but an inner guide. Through her, he learns empathy, imagination, and communion with the sacred.
Your presence in his life accelerates this awakening. In the language of twin flames, you are not only his beloved: you are the catalyst for his reunion with his soul’s feminine.
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The Mirror of Twin Flames
The twin flame bond magnifies everything it touches. The love is luminous because it is evolutionary. What Jung studied in private alchemy, twin souls experience through human intimacy. Each partner becomes the other’s sacred mirror.
When you entered his life, the feminine within him stirred. You did not cause her to exist; you only awakened her from her long sleep. As she rises, he may feel disoriented, emotional, or distant. You might notice new depth in his voice or a sudden need for solitude. These shifts are not rejections; they are signs of integration. His inner goddess is speaking through him, learning to take her place beside his masculine self.
To unite with her is to learn the rhythm of this dance, to hold him through his transformation without clinging, and to trust the sacred intelligence moving beneath the surface.
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Loving Both the Man and His Goddess
When you love a man deeply, you are loving two beings at once: the man himself and the feminine essence inside him. The goddess within him is not another woman; she is the part of him that already understands you. She feels the world as you do.
Learning to love her is learning to meet his emotions with patience rather than fear. She might speak through his tenderness, his uncertainty, his artistic impulses, or his need to retreat into silence. Instead of resisting these moments, you can honor them as sacred communication.
Jung often said that the psyche speaks in symbols. His goddess may not appear in words but in gestures, dreams, and energy. Notice how he responds to beauty, to music, to nature. In those moments, his inner feminine is near.
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The Art of Union
True union is not about merging identities; it is about allowing both beings, the masculine and the feminine to coexist in harmony. To unite with his goddess, you must also let her awaken something in you. When you feel moved by his sensitivity or his longing, allow your own inner masculine to step forward and hold space.
In Jungian terms, this is the transcendent function: the emergence of a higher state of consciousness born from the meeting of opposites. In spiritual terms, it is the sacred marriage, the alchemical blending that turns two into one without loss of individuality.
You will know you are entering this state when your connection feels less like possession and more like flow, when your conversations become creative rather than corrective, when your silences feel like prayer rather than distance.
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A Meditation for Union
Find a quiet moment alone. Close your eyes and imagine your heart as a cup of light. See his heart before you, another cup, glowing with its own flame.
As you breathe, visualize the light flowing between you, forming a third flame that belongs to neither of you but is born from both. Silently speak:
“Beloved, may the goddess within you and the goddess within me unite in peace. May love itself become our teacher.”
Let the image dissolve into stillness. The energy you feel is not imagination; it is communion, the sacred current that bridges two souls beyond words.
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Reflections for Lovers
1. When he retreats or grows quiet, can I sense this as his inner goddess seeking space rather than rejection?
2. How do I respond to his softness? Can I meet it without judgment?
3. In what moments do I feel our energies merging beyond the limits of personality?
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Sources for Learning More About Jung
For readers who want to explore Jungian psychology more deeply, these works offer a clear foundation:
Jung, C. G. Aion: Researches into the Phenomenology of the Self (Collected Works, Vol. 9, Part II). Princeton University Press, 1968.
Jung, C. G. Two Essays on Analytical Psychology (Collected Works, Vol. 7). Princeton University Press, 1953.
Jung, C. G. The Archetypes and the Collective Unconscious (Collected Works, Vol. 9, Part I). Princeton University Press, 1959.
Von Franz, Marie-Louise. An Introduction to the Psychology of Fairy Tales. Spring Publications, 1970.
Emma Jung and Marie-Louise von Franz. The Grail Legend. Princeton University Press, 1986.
For accessible overviews:
Anthony Stevens. Jung: A Very Short Introduction. Oxford University Press, 1994.
Robert A. Johnson. He: Understanding Masculine Psychology and She: Understanding Feminine Psychology. HarperOne, 1989.
These texts illuminate the psychological foundations beneath the spiritual language of divine love and the twin flame journey.
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Poetic Benediction
You are not asked to outshine his goddess, only to welcome her home. When you love him, love the space within him where she is learning to breathe.
Speak softly to that space, for she is the keeper of his tears, the muse of his dreams, and the bridge between your souls.
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To unite with his goddess is to enter the heart of sacred love. It is to hold both the man and the mystery he carries. In this quiet integration, passion becomes purpose, and the mirror between you becomes clear enough to reflect the divine.
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Let us talk of his inner feminine and how to bind to her for union using Carl Jung psychology.
The Hidden Door to Sacred Union
There is a moment in every soul-bond when ordinary romance dissolves and something older, deeper, begins to stir, a recognition that the love unfolding before you is not just between two people, but between two inner worlds seeking completion.
Carl Jung, the Swiss psychologist and mystic thinker of the early twentieth century, gave language to this mystery. He observed that within every man lives an invisible feminine presence, the anima, and within every woman, a masculine counterpart, the animus. To Jung, these were not simply traits or moods; they were archetypal energies, living symbols that shape how we love, dream, and meet the divine.
In my poetic language of the heart, I will can call the anima his inner Goddess.
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The Goddess Within Him
His inner goddess is not another woman, nor a fantasy of perfection. She is the feminine principle of his own soul: the current of intuition, tenderness, creativity, and spiritual longing that flows beneath his logic and strength. She is the one who teaches him to feel, to surrender, to worship beauty. When she awakens, his eyes soften; his touch changes; the way he speaks your name becomes almost prayerful.
Yet many men are strangers to her. The modern world trains them to exile their softness, to armor their hearts. When love (especially twin-flame love) enters their lives, it acts like sacred fire, melting that armor. Through your presence, his inner goddess begins to awaken, and with her awakening comes confusion, vulnerability, and wonder.
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The Mirror of the Twin Flame
In the twin-flame journey, you are not only lovers but mirrors. The purpose of this mirror is not to flatter, but to reveal. When you meet your divine counterpart, the love between you becomes an instrument of consciousness. You reflect to each other what has been denied, hidden, or forgotten.
For the masculine twin, this means seeing his own feminine essence through you. He may feel drawn and undone at once, intoxicated by your depth, frightened by his feelings, uncertain of who he becomes in your presence. That tremor is the voice of his inner goddess saying, “I am here. Love me too.”
To perceive her is to recognize that the emotions rising in him, the tenderness, the longing, and even the fear are not weakness. They are the birth pains of his soul becoming whole.
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How to Perceive Her with Care
To perceive his inner goddess is not to diagnose or fix him; it is to see through sacred eyes. You are invited to look beyond behavior and into essence.
1. Notice her expressions. She speaks in his silences, in the art he loves, in the way he hesitates before saying something true.
2. Honor her timing. His goddess does not arrive on command. She emerges when safety, patience, and reverence are present.
3. Hold space, not control. The feminine energy in him does not need to be “handled” she needs to be welcomed. When you meet him with calm openness instead of demand, she feels permission to rise.
4. Guard against projection. Jung warned that we often project the inner goddess or god onto the beloved. This means we see divinity in the other before recognizing it in ourselves. The task is to stay conscious, to love the person and the archetype moving through him, without confusing the two.
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A Jungian Bridge to the Divine
Jung believed that human love could become the vessel for a deeper transformation, what he called individuation, the process of becoming whole. Twin-flame union echoes this: it is less about possession and more about integration. When a man begins to embrace his inner goddess, he steps closer to the divine marriage within himself and the relationship becomes a temple for both souls.
This is why your connection feels spiritual, fated, almost mythic. You are not simply lovers crossing paths; you are two halves of the same archetypal dance: the eternal marriage of masculine and feminine seeking balance through love.
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A Practice: The Silent Observation Ritual
Sit quietly with him, or if distance separates you, hold his image in your mind. Close your eyes. Breathe into your heart. Ask inwardly:
☆ “What aspect of the Goddess within him wishes to be seen today?”
You may feel a wave of tenderness, a sudden sadness, or a spark of creative energy. Whatever arises is her voice. Offer silent gratitude, as if bowing to the sacred within him. This simple act shifts love from personal need to divine recognition.
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Reflection for Lovers
1. When I sense vulnerability in him, can I see it as sacred rather than weak?
2. What qualities of the divine feminine do I see reflected through him?
3. How does perceiving his inner goddess change the way I love and communicate?
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Poetic Benediction
☆ You are not here to awaken the man by force, but to stand in the light until his goddess remembers her own name. You are the mirror, the music, the mercy through which his soul learns how to bow.
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In perceiving his inner goddess, you enter the first temple of union. You begin to see not just the lover before you, but the divine essence moving through him. In that sacred perception, love itself becomes the path and both of you, its pilgrims.
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This poem romanticized twin flame sex. We know it’s powerful. 😌 However, this poem is a large metaphor.
The secret wisdom of this poem
Don’t get me wrong, there are aspects of this poem that are rooted in the mystery. What does that mean?
The mystery is twin flame lovemaking and its healing aspect.
The main topic of the poem
The poem refers to my sexual experience with my beloved Scorpio as a Love Ritual. In pleasing the other, we have rooted a beautiful union.
Poem interpretation
This poem explores the dynamic and evolving nature of our love, particularly within the context of a committed relationship where both partners are engaged in keeping the connection alive and vibrant. Here’s a breakdown of the key themes and ideas:
Stanza 1: Embracing Change in Love
“It is not always the same.”
The poem begins by acknowledging that love is not a static experience. It changes and evolves over time.
“We engage in many ways / To avoid boredom with change / And it works really well.”
I highlight the importance of variety and creativity in maintaining a healthy relationship. By engaging in different activities and experiences, the couple avoids the monotony that can come with routine.
Stanza 2: Consistency Beneath the Change
“But inside us, it’s the same.”
Despite the external changes and new experiences, the core of the relationship—its essence or soul—remains constant.
“There is soul in many ways / We will evolve, we will change / But for the best as well.”
This stanza suggests that while the relationship evolves, these changes are positive and contribute to the growth and deepening of the connection.
Stanza 3: The Mystery and Playfulness of Love
“We engage in curious ways: / There are secret games we play. / There are dreamy spells we say. / We speak in tongues as well.”
Here, the poem delves into the more mystical and playful aspects of love. The “curious ways” might refer to private rituals, inside jokes, or intimate behaviors that only the couple understands. The “dreamy spells” and “speaking in tongues” suggest a deep, almost magical connection, where the couple communicates on a level beyond ordinary language.
Stanza 4: Love as a Sacred and Blessed Experience
“There are prayers that we speak. / Miracles that we have received.”
This stanza introduces a spiritual dimension to the relationship, suggesting that the couple sees their love as something sacred, blessed, and miraculous.
“Our intentions set to please / Our blessing in love is bliss.”
The poem concludes by emphasizing that the couple’s love is intentional and mindful, with a focus on bringing joy to one another. The use of the word “bliss” underscores the profound happiness and fulfillment that comes from their relationship.
Overall Interpretation
The poem is a celebration of the multifaceted nature of love. It acknowledges the necessity of change and variety in maintaining a relationship while also recognizing the deep, unchanging core that keeps the bond strong. The playful and spiritual elements of the poem highlight the richness of love when it is nurtured with creativity, intention, and mutual respect.
I created this quiz to help you determine your romantic level 😉. I have identified 3 levels of romantics:
The extreme romantic: The Eternal Flameromantics: We breathe and eat romance. 46 to 60 points
The secret romantic: Heart’s Harmonyromantics: They think romance but don’t talk it. 26 to 45 points
The least romantic: Calm Watersromantics: Are they even romantic? 12 to 25 points
Why take my quiz
Understand your partner better and understand how much romance they can handle. Get inspired.
With an understanding of your own romantic level versus your partner, you can work towards enhancing your relationship. You can use the insights gained from my quiz to communicate your needs and desires more effectively and create a more fulfilling romantic connection with your partner.
I intend to develop informative and educational resources for each romance level that will provide you practical tips for enhancing your love life. These resources will cover topics such as communication skills, romantic gestures, maintaining intimacy, and navigating relationship challenges. Ask for help in the comments.
Overall, taking the quiz and exploring the different romance levels can be a steppingstone towards personal growth, relationship enhancement, and a deeper understanding of romance and love.
Take this quiz and figure out how romantic you are ❤️ 😍 💖
1. If you are in a garden for an event, what’s your first thought? a) The flowers are beautiful and may remind you of someone special. You enjoy their beauty, take pictures, and even smell them. b) “Flowers are nice, but they’re just plants.” You don’t care if you are a garden or not. c) You do not like flowers. You avoid them, make sure nobody takes pictures of you at the garden, and leave as soon as possible.
2. You’re walking in the rain with someone you care about. What crosses your mind? a) “This is so romantic, like a scene from a movie.” You imagine yourself dancing in the rain. You slow down and enjoy the experience. b) “I hope we don’t get too wet and wish you had an umbrella.” You walk faster. c) “I do not like the rain. My hair is wet. ” You might get upset or run to safety.
3. What’s your reaction when you see someone reading a love poem in public? a) “How beautiful! I wish I could express myself like that.” You stop and listen, maybe record them and tip them. Tears may appear if you resonate with the poem. b) “That’s a bit cheesy for my taste.” You ignore it and continue on your way. c) “I wonder if they’re doing that for attention.” You shake your head, and you might judge them.
4. Imagine you receive a heartfelt handwritten letter. How do you feel? a) Warmth and appreciation, it’s such a thoughtful gesture. You feel special and save the letter for as long as possible. b) It’s nice, but an email would have been quicker. How much time did they spend on this? You might feel obligated to keep it for a while but eventually might lose it. c) Mild surprise, handwritten letters are rare these days. This much work for something going in the trash! You might not even complete reading it. If it’s cutesy, you will roll your eyes.
5. How do you feel about stargazing with a romantic partner? a) It’s incredibly romantic, a chance to connect under the vast night sky. I’d hold hands and slowly lean into them. Eventually, we’d share a kiss, and an I love you. b) It sounds okay, but I’m not sure it’s worth the effort. I would rather stay in and watch a movie or even do the dishes, which sounds like a better use of our time. c) Will there be bugs? Eww. Let’s not.
6. What’s your reaction to witnessing a marriage proposal in a public place? a) “How magical! I hope they have a lifetime of happiness.” You take pictures, congratulate them, and tell everyone on social media. b) “That’s a bit too public for my taste.” You look away and try to ignore it. c) “I wonder if they planned this just for social media.” You think they will not last together.
7. How do you feel about cuddling while watching a movie? a) It’s the perfect way to feel close and connected and the only way to watch a movie. I watch movies just to cuddle. b) It’s okay, but sometimes I get uncomfortable. Or it will lead to more. c) I prefer to sit apart and focus on the movie. This is movie time. Cuddle time is always tomorrow.
8. What’s your ideal way to spend Valentine’s Day? a) A romantic dinner followed by a moonlit walk. Home-cooked meals, red dresses, poetry performances, romantic music, and special gifts. Every year is different! b) It’s just another day, nothing special. We will enjoy some intimate moments, that’s all! c) I make the point of doing nothing romantic on that day. I also don’t know the date it’s celebrated on. I also never do anything romantic…
9. You receive an unexpected gift from someone you’re dating. How do you react? a) With genuine delight and gratitude. I immediately thank them, and they know I loved it! b) It’s nice, but I’m not sure how to respond. They might not know if I liked their gift. c) I feel a bit awkward and unsure if I should reciprocate. I don’t like them as much anymore. They might be trying too hard. I avoid them. They might think I don’t like their gift but they should know I don’t do gifts this soon!
10. How do you feel about love songs? a) They’re incredibly moving and resonate with my emotions. I listen to as many love songs as possible. I’m much more romantic than most romantic songs! I should be a songwriter. b) They’re okay, but I don’t pay much attention to them. Music is music. c) They can be cheesy and over-the-top. I prefer any non romantic songs. Romance is for little girls!
11. Read and react to the following poem:
“Soulmates” poem by Eve
a) “This poem describes how I feel or how I want to feel. If I have not found my person yet, I have faith that I’ll meet them at the perfect time.” (chosen by liz) b) “I do not resonate with this poem! Soulmates do not exist, and if they did, we would all know by now.” c) “This poem is so cheesy.” It really sounds ridiculous 🙄 😒 😐…. getting off this blog ASAP!
12. Which quote resonates with you? a) “Our Love is written in the stars” b) “The depth of our Love is our greatest secret” c) “Our love is our safe space where we can be ourselves and not be judged for it”
Reflect on your answers.
What is your romantic level?
Rate your answers by assigning points:
– Option a) Add 5 points – Option b) Add 3 points – Option c) Add 1 point
Tally up the total points to determine your romantic inclinations.
THE ROMANCE LEVELS
46 to 60 points: The Eternal Flame: Most intense romantic. We believe in twin flames/ soulmates and fall in love at first sight.
The Eternal Flame is the most romantic level. Individuals in this category have the highest degree of romantic inclination and experience a deep and everlasting passion for romance. It implies a strong and enduring connection to romantic ideals and gestures.
Individuals who fit into the “Eternal Flame” category are deeply passionate about romance and love. They often prioritize emotional connection and intimacy in their relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:
1. **Hopeless Romantics:** They believe in the power of love and often express themselves through grand gestures and heartfelt expressions of affection.
2. **Emotionally Invested:** They are deeply invested in their relationships, cherishing every moment and valuing the emotional bond they share with their partner.
3. **Creative and Thoughtful:** They constantly strive to surprise and delight their partners with thoughtful gestures, whether it’s writing love letters, planning romantic getaways, or creating personalized gifts.
4. **Sensitive to Beauty:** They appreciate the beauty in the world around them, finding inspiration in nature, art, and music, which they often incorporate into their romantic gestures.
5. **Believers in Destiny:** They may believe in soulmates or the idea that certain people are destined to be together, which fuels their passion and commitment to finding and nurturing love.
Overall, individuals in the “Eternal Flame” category are guided by their unwavering belief in the transformative power of love and their dedication to keeping the flame of romance burning bright in their lives.
26 to 45 points: Heart’s Harmony: The Secret Romantic. They think it but don’t speak romance
For the second romance level, let’s consider an option that reflects a moderate level of romantic inclination, perhaps something like “Heart’s Harmony.” This name suggests a balance between romance and practicality, where individuals appreciate love and connection but may not necessarily embody the intense passion of the “Eternal Flame” category.
Individuals who fit into the “Heart’s Harmony” category strike a balance between romance and practicality in their approach to relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:
Balanced Approach: They value romance and emotional connection in their relationships but also recognize the importance of practical considerations and maintaining a sense of balance in their lives.
Thoughtful and Considerate: They express their affection for their partners through meaningful gestures and acts of kindness, such as remembering important dates, offering support during difficult times, and showing appreciation for their partner’s efforts.
Communication Skills: They prioritize open and honest communication in their relationships, seeking to understand their partner’s needs and concerns while also expressing their own thoughts and feelings effectively.
Adaptability: They are flexible and adaptable in their approach to romance, recognizing that relationships require compromise and adjustment to navigate the ups and downs of life together.
Appreciation for the Little Things: They find joy and fulfillment in the everyday moments shared with their partner, whether it’s cooking dinner together, taking walks, or simply enjoying each other’s company.
Overall, individuals in the “Heart’s Harmony” category cultivate a relationship environment where love and practicality coexist, fostering a sense of mutual respect, understanding, and contentment in their romantic lives.
46 to 60 points: Calm Waters: Most likely to not take this quiz. Are they even romantic?
For the lowest level name, we want to convey an absence or minimal presence of romantic inclination. How about “Calm Waters”? This name suggests a serene and tranquil state, where romantic feelings may exist but are subdued or infrequent.
Individuals who fit into the “Calm Waters” category tend to have a more reserved or subdued approach to romance. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:
Pragmatic Outlook: They tend to approach relationships with a practical mindset, focusing on practicalities rather than grand gestures or intense displays of affection.
Independence: They value their independence and may prioritize personal pursuits and interests over romantic relationships.
Reserved Expression of Affection: While they may experience romantic feelings, they may not express them openly or frequently, preferring to keep their emotions private.
Preference for Stability: They seek stability and predictability in their relationships, valuing a sense of calm and tranquility over excitement or passion.
Contentment with Solitude: They are comfortable spending time alone and may not feel a strong need for constant companionship or romantic involvement.
Overall, individuals in the “Calm Waters” category may appreciate romance in a more subdued or understated manner, finding contentment in the quiet moments and subtle gestures of connection within their relationships.
This was fun!
According to my “research,” I’m as romantic as it gets! If someone is as romantic as me, let me know please, let’s be friends
I’ve always dreamt about being a teacher. Teaching English to people I know who need to learn it is something I want to do really badly!
Writing poetry is my gift.
I decided to mix my wish and my gift, and now, I have decided to use my romantic poetry to help people learn English.
I translated this poem to Spanish, and I shared both poems on my brand new Spanish blog. Read that blog post through this link and follow that blog if you Speak Spanish or if you’re studying Spanish because I’ll be sharing translations and tools to make language learning fun.
I don’t know how much time I will be dedicating to this project, but if you’re interested in learning English or Spanish, let me know so I can create something more useful.
Today, I bring to you a simple but powerful union prayer.
Edit the prayer as much as needed. Write it down or print this post. Repeat as needed. Repeat it when you want to connect with your flame, when there are issues, if you’re feeling separation, etc. You will know when you need it.
Union Prayer
Divine Universe, guide us on our journey to union, bless our paths with love, clarity, and understanding. Help our souls intertwine in harmony and our hearts beat as one. Grant us the strength to overcome challenges and the wisdom to cherish each moment together. With gratitude, we surrender to your divine guidance.
You can finish with Amen if you choose.
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