Welcome to the last of my Scorpio Love stages series. I am excited to finish this, and it has been so fun that I will definitely do something like this again. I am writing more Scorpio posts after this series, so stay tuned if you love a Scorpio or if you are one and you love to hear good things about your ruling energy.

What is Total Union?
Total Union is the name I gave to a very rare united state between lovers. This state is beyond what we know as love and beyond what we know as lovemaking. The truth is that on Earth, what we’re working with is a very distorted way of love. Blessed people find total union. I do believe total Union is found between twin flames or soulmates. I believe it’s reserved for spiritual love because it goes so deep that it feels like you mix until you become each other almost. This union is not Earthly. It’s spiritual.

Union comes in layers. If a couple is blessed, they will find a sensual physical union that will deepen into a lovely emotional union. If they master energy or get close to spirit, there’s a rare chance of their union developing into an energetic union. Finally, through much healing and prayer with good intentions and never hurting the other person, their union could ascend into a soul union. At this stage, you’re never separated again, and your love will surpass death, giving a new meaning to forever love by breaking the till death do us apart marriage vow.
Physical Union
This is, in the modern world, the most likely positive beginning of a relationship. A man and a woman like and desire each other. They date and enter a relationship. They try their best to understand one another. There is a strong chemistry. There’s romance and healthy sex. There are no third parties. They start to develop deep feelings for one another, but they might feel insecure, unsure, doubtful, and/ or jealous due to ego issues or fear.
Emotional Union
Emotional Union is the union of our emotions and feelings. After forming a positive physical union and no feelings being hurt, the partners learn to trust each other deeply. They fall in love, and their best time is when they’re together. Healthy sex becomes lovemaking.
They start thinking of the future and decide if they will marry and have children. In this stage, the partners think of each other and don’t act in ways that hurt their partner. What happens is that to hurt one’s beloved becomes impossible, even the thought of hurting them hurts us more. Even a small offense becomes unthinkable.
This is the stuff that poems and love songs are written about. The love of movies. It can happen within weeks, months, or years of a physical union being established. And sadly, for worldly relationships, this might never happen if they get a distorted way of love.
Energetic Union
Reaching this stage is rare because we have to both align completely. To reach this stage of union, we must raise well above the world’s standards for love and sex. Most couples don’t have a clue that this magic exists. This is when our core energies are united and working together. Some couples might not desire this because, at this stage, there are no secrets, lies, and even mistruths can be felt.
At this point of union, our Love is so profound and beautiful that it’s like a third entity. This third entity is union. Because at this point, union is so palpable that it can be felt. This union energy I see as the coming together and amplification of our good wishes for one another and the strengthening of our Love and other positive emotions during the entire relationship. In other words, the energetic union is made up of the good vibes we inject into the union during 16 years for my union.
In case it wasn’t clear, at this stage, love is unconditional because one’s beloved would never do anything to hurt us on purpose anyway, and thus, there need not be any conditions on love. Conditions, I feel, exist to handle romance with the wrong person.

During this stage, the union energy is manifesting more union and good things for us. The couple feels and appears to be blessed. Other people will not understand because almost all marriages have a lower vibe than this union.
By now, lovemaking has ascended into sex magic, and whether consciously or unconsciously, the lovers have started to use their sexual energy to pump so much love and heartfelt emotion into the union that the union deepens yet again. This is healing. Both partners heal during this lovemaking until it feels like there is no other person in the world, no exes or other people you would ever consider being with. At this point, the third energies from the past are cleaned. There is a strange protection that comes with this lovemaking that I can’t explain.
Soul Union
In this layer of union (and I feel as though there is another layer which I named on my Lion’s Gate podcast), your souls are united. Union starts with the souls if it’s divine love but, us, humans don’t listen to the soul until we’re mature and wise. This stage of union is when you are connecting with their soul and their soul with you without any darkness.
Fun fact: I’ve been connecting with my beloved’s soul or higher self for up to 4 years consciously, but I used to complain to his soul about him… soul level drama. 💯 I’m not doing this anymore because now I have reached Soul Union, and I understand I was manifesting separation in our union.

At this point, our missions are united. I don’t complain to his soul anymore 😆 😂 🤣 I now believe that our souls are connected in a mysterious secret way. They have always been connected. However, now we’re leading our union from our souls.
By the way, his soul always listened to my complaints and gave me solid advice, which I listened to. He behaved as my forever protector, and I believed he had always been with me. Additionally, his soul gave me all sorts of sweet energy. His soul was not nice, but rather showed me tough love and showed me where I was wrong as soon as I was strong enough to handle his criticism.
His soul was very loving and understanding, though. He explained, for example, that my feminism was hurting my union, which I was not wise enough to realize on my own. I listened to his soul much more than I listened to the person. His soul also taught me the importance of surrendering because it took me sooooooo long to care about surrendering.
In this stage, we are working to never separate the union between us. This is the union that goes beyond death. We will be buried together, but really, our souls will continue their journey together, and if we happen to come back to this world, it’ll be together. There’s no other soul dead or alive. Only he and I and God… is God the union? Spirit is the union.
What is not Total Union
- Marriage is not even close to union. If a marriage is solid (which is rare), that’s emotional union in my book and can ascend
- Having a family together is not a union because there can be separation within a family, or a union could be broken or damaged
- A stagnant relationship is not a union because union is forever flowing, evolving, and ascending, and that’s how you reach a higher state of union, a deeper layer
- Being in love is not a union, and honestly, most humans don’t know what love actually is or how to love. Humans tend to see sexual desire as love, which doesn’t even come close, and maybe that’s why infidelity is such a pandemic because humans keep on marrying the “wrong” person
- Being faithful is not Total Union (though it could be a physical union) because simply abstaining from sex with others (which is a beautiful thing, of course) doesn’t mean you trust, or deeply know, or understand, and you can hurt your partner in other ways
- Have patience and trust the process. As they say: surrender (to God’s plan and fate) and wait for perfect timing. Scorpio season could very well be perfect timing for something or someone special in love
- Total Union happens when our love grows and deepens beyond all the items on this list. Reminder that it is a very rare state reached only through spirit or energy work. It’s the ultimate blessing of love.
Can I reach Total Union with Scorpio?
Yes. Scorpio’s higher calling is to find total Union with their beloved. My Scorpio taught me to love this deep. I am a romantic lover now, but I never intended to fall in love because I didn’t believe in love. I guess I was saving my romance and my best energy for my Scorpio.
Scorpio is known to be a sex god/ goddess, but that’s because we, the people sleeping with Scorpio, only notice how advanced their sex skills are. What we don’t realize is that beyond that sexual power, there is a big, soft heart ♥️ 💓 ❤️ yearning for pure love and beyond love, reaching union. Thank you, God, for creating Scorpio!
Total Union with a non Scorpio. Is it possible?
Yes. Maybe between twin flames or soulmates. Maybe during the Scorpio season, it’s possible to get a taste or to upgrade your union. Maybe super compatible couples can find this. Total Union is not something you go to a therapist to figure out how to reach. Total Union is fated if you believe in fate. Then again, with faith that moves mountains, prayer, positive intentions, and manifestation on your side, everything is possible. Simply, don’t settle if you are looking for union.
Have you found total Union? Please comment and tell us the details you can spare.
Tips to reach total Union with a Scorpio (or your twin flame)🔥🔥
This is not easy at all, so this little post will not suffice. However, this entire blog is about me reaching total Union with my beloved Scorpio. If you are interested in manifesting total Union, read all my posts and try the several tactics I have blogged about using. Additionally, I have recorded several podcasts (which are not of excellent sound quality yet the content is very excellent) regarding dealing with issues and reaching total Union with my beloved. Also, see the simplified list below for my greatest tips, especially for Union with a Scorpio.
- Be open and vulnerable to be your most authentic self. Don’t be afraid to be unique or even perceived as weird or crazy
- Find a compatible partner. This is the key to a forever relationship. If you marry someone you’re not compatible with, divorce, cheating, grudges, drama, complaining to others about one another, secrets, etc. could happen. At least you might need therapy to handle the differences and to reach understandings.
- Speak blessings into your union. Manifest it. Pray. Do the energy work. Align your chackras. Be on your mission and find your joy.
- Always tell the truth to have them trust you. If you have spoken a non true statement, explain and apologize. I did this without knowing out of confusion, and I still need to apologize, and I might write a letter because it’s difficult for me to admit I was wrong. I blog about it to help me loosen up
- Forgive. This is necessary because nobody is perfect. So if they spoke a false statement without realizing and asked for forgiveness, forgive them and be grateful that they set the record straight and have some remorse
- Don’t be nice, be kind. Kindness comes from the heart. Niceness probably comes from ego and fear. Say the hard things that need to be said
- Consider their sexual needs always. Don’t marry someone with a high sex drive who you plan on not having loads of sex with. Compatible sex tendencies are crucial to not be cheated on or have him checking girls out on social media a5 ZaZaxxku0
- Quality time spent together
- You must agree on most things, so finding a person you are compatible with is important because total Union is not reached by holding grudges
- Romance them. We all have different romantic sides. I’m verbally romantic, so sending sexy texts, writing poems, telling him I love him, and saying sweet things to him is my way. He is physically romantic. Others are romantic with dates, flowers, and meaningful gifts. Find your romantic style, and it should be compatible with his romantic needs.
- Heal together
Union poetry written for my beloved Scorpio







If you are beloved of a Scorpio, you are a lucky person because they love you deep. Please take care of your Scorpio and help them relax, help them calm, let them understand you are not a danger to them. Don’t play games with Scorpio because it’ll start to break your relationship. Love them deeply, and since they might not express their love for you, express your love for them. Go ahead and text them one of my sexy poems, I dare you.
Finally, are you a Pisces who loves a Scorpio? Please, kindly let me know.
Thank you very much for reading,
Please let me know if you love a Scorpio, and did you relate? Did you enjoy the series?
Do you have any questions regarding loving a Scorpio?
With love and light,
Eve in love with a Scorpio ♏️

