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Dear Lovestar,

I created this quiz to help you determine your romantic level 😉. I have identified 3 levels of romantics:

1. The extreme romantic: The Eternal Flame romantics: We breathe and eat romance. 46 to 60 points
2. The secret romantic: Heart’s Harmony romantics: They think romance but don’t talk it. 26 to 45 points
3. The least romantic: Calm Waters romantics: Are they even romantic? 12 to 25 points

Why take my quiz

Understand your partner better and understand how much romance they can handle. Get inspired.

With an understanding of your own romantic level versus your partner, you can work towards enhancing your relationship. You can use the insights gained from my quiz to communicate your needs and desires more effectively and create a more fulfilling romantic connection with your partner.

I intend to develop informative and educational resources for each romance level that will provide you practical tips for enhancing your love life. These resources will cover topics such as communication skills, romantic gestures, maintaining intimacy, and navigating relationship challenges. Ask for help in the comments.

Overall, taking the quiz and exploring the different romance levels can be a steppingstone towards personal growth, relationship enhancement, and a deeper understanding of romance and love.

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Take this quiz and figure out how romantic you are ❤️ 😍 💖

1. If you are in a garden for an event, what’s your first thought?
   a) The flowers are beautiful and may remind you of someone special. You enjoy their beauty, take pictures, and even smell them.
   b) “Flowers are nice, but they’re just plants.” You don’t care if you are a garden or not.
   c) You do not like flowers. You avoid them, make sure nobody takes pictures of you at the garden, and leave as soon as possible.

2. You’re walking in the rain with someone you care about. What crosses your mind?
   a) “This is so romantic, like a scene from a movie.” You imagine yourself dancing in the rain. You slow down and enjoy the experience.
   b) “I hope we don’t get too wet and wish you had an umbrella.” You walk faster.
   c) “I do not like the rain. My hair is wet. ” You might get upset or run to safety.  

3. What’s your reaction when you see someone reading a love poem in public?
   a) “How beautiful! I wish I could express myself like that.” You stop and listen, maybe record them and tip them. Tears may appear if you resonate with the poem.
   b) “That’s a bit cheesy for my taste.” You ignore it and continue on your way.
   c) “I wonder if they’re doing that for attention.” You shake your head, and you might judge them.

4. Imagine you receive a heartfelt handwritten letter. How do you feel?
   a) Warmth and appreciation, it’s such a thoughtful gesture. You feel special and save the letter for as long as possible.
   b) It’s nice, but an email would have been quicker. How much time did they spend on this? You might feel obligated to keep it for a while but eventually might lose it.
   c) Mild surprise, handwritten letters are rare these days. This much work for something going in the trash! You might not even complete reading it. If it’s cutesy, you will roll your eyes.

5. How do you feel about stargazing with a romantic partner?
   a) It’s incredibly romantic, a chance to connect under the vast night sky. I’d hold hands and slowly lean into them. Eventually, we’d share a kiss, and an I love you.
   b) It sounds okay, but I’m not sure it’s worth the effort. I would rather stay in and watch a movie or even do the dishes, which sounds like a better use of our time.
   c) Will there be bugs? Eww. Let’s not.

6. What’s your reaction to witnessing a marriage proposal in a public place?
   a) “How magical! I hope they have a lifetime of happiness.” You take pictures, congratulate them, and tell everyone on social media.
   b) “That’s a bit too public for my taste.” You look away and try to ignore it.
   c) “I wonder if they planned this just for social media.” You think they will not last together.

7. How do you feel about cuddling while watching a movie?
   a) It’s the perfect way to feel close and connected and the only way to watch a movie. I watch movies just to cuddle.
   b) It’s okay, but sometimes I get uncomfortable. Or it will lead to more.
   c) I prefer to sit apart and focus on the movie. This is movie time. Cuddle time is always tomorrow.

8. What’s your ideal way to spend Valentine’s Day?
   a) A romantic dinner followed by a moonlit walk. Home-cooked meals, red dresses, poetry performances, romantic music, and special gifts. Every year is different!
   b) It’s just another day, nothing special. We will enjoy some intimate moments, that’s all!
   c) I make the point of doing nothing romantic on that day. I also don’t know the date it’s celebrated on. I also never do anything romantic…

9. You receive an unexpected gift from someone you’re dating. How do you react?
   a) With genuine delight and gratitude. I immediately thank them, and they know I loved it!
   b) It’s nice, but I’m not sure how to respond. They might not know if I liked their gift.
   c) I feel a bit awkward and unsure if I should reciprocate. I don’t like them as much anymore. They might be trying too hard. I avoid them. They might think I don’t like their gift but they should know I don’t do gifts this soon!

10. How do you feel about love songs?
   a) They’re incredibly moving and resonate with my emotions. I listen to as many love songs as possible. I’m much more romantic than most romantic songs! I should be a songwriter.
   b) They’re okay, but I don’t pay much attention to them. Music is music.
   c) They can be cheesy and over-the-top. I prefer any non romantic songs. Romance is for little girls!

11. Read and react to the following poem:

  a) “This poem describes how I feel or how I want to feel. If I have not found my person yet, I have faith that I’ll meet them at the perfect time.” (chosen by liz)
  b) “I do not resonate with this poem! Soulmates do not exist, and if they did, we would all know by now.”
  c) “This poem is so cheesy.” It really sounds ridiculous 🙄 😒 😐…. getting off this blog ASAP!

12. Which quote resonates with you?
   a) “Our Love is written in the stars”
   b) “The depth of our Love is our greatest secret”
   c) “Our love is our safe space where we can be ourselves and not be judged for it”

Reflect on your answers.

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What is your romantic level?

Rate your answers by assigning points:

– Option a) Add 5 points
– Option b) Add 3 points
– Option c) Add 1 point

Tally up the total points to determine your romantic inclinations.

THE ROMANCE LEVELS

46 to 60 points: The Eternal Flame: Most intense romantic. We believe in twin flames/ soulmates and fall in love at first sight.

The Eternal Flame is the most romantic level. Individuals in this category have the highest degree of romantic inclination and experience a deep and everlasting passion for romance. It implies a strong and enduring connection to romantic ideals and gestures.

Individuals who fit into the “Eternal Flame” category are deeply passionate about romance and love. They often prioritize emotional connection and intimacy in their relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:

1. **Hopeless Romantics:** They believe in the power of love and often express themselves through grand gestures and heartfelt expressions of affection.

2. **Emotionally Invested:** They are deeply invested in their relationships, cherishing every moment and valuing the emotional bond they share with their partner.

3. **Creative and Thoughtful:** They constantly strive to surprise and delight their partners with thoughtful gestures, whether it’s writing love letters, planning romantic getaways, or creating personalized gifts.

4. **Sensitive to Beauty:** They appreciate the beauty in the world around them, finding inspiration in nature, art, and music, which they often incorporate into their romantic gestures.

5. **Believers in Destiny:** They may believe in soulmates or the idea that certain people are destined to be together, which fuels their passion and commitment to finding and nurturing love.

Overall, individuals in the “Eternal Flame” category are guided by their unwavering belief in the transformative power of love and their dedication to keeping the flame of romance burning bright in their lives.

26 to 45 points: Heart’s Harmony: The Secret Romantic. They think it but don’t speak romance

For the second romance level, let’s consider an option that reflects a moderate level of romantic inclination, perhaps something like “Heart’s Harmony.” This name suggests a balance between romance and practicality, where individuals appreciate love and connection but may not necessarily embody the intense passion of the “Eternal Flame” category.

Individuals who fit into the “Heart’s Harmony” category strike a balance between romance and practicality in their approach to relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:

1. Balanced Approach: They value romance and emotional connection in their relationships but also recognize the importance of practical considerations and maintaining a sense of balance in their lives.
2. Thoughtful and Considerate: They express their affection for their partners through meaningful gestures and acts of kindness, such as remembering important dates, offering support during difficult times, and showing appreciation for their partner’s efforts.
3. Communication Skills: They prioritize open and honest communication in their relationships, seeking to understand their partner’s needs and concerns while also expressing their own thoughts and feelings effectively.
4. Adaptability: They are flexible and adaptable in their approach to romance, recognizing that relationships require compromise and adjustment to navigate the ups and downs of life together.
5. Appreciation for the Little Things: They find joy and fulfillment in the everyday moments shared with their partner, whether it’s cooking dinner together, taking walks, or simply enjoying each other’s company.

Overall, individuals in the “Heart’s Harmony” category cultivate a relationship environment where love and practicality coexist, fostering a sense of mutual respect, understanding, and contentment in their romantic lives.

46 to 60 points: Calm Waters: Most likely to not take this quiz. Are they even romantic?

For the lowest level name, we want to convey an absence or minimal presence of romantic inclination. How about “Calm Waters”? This name suggests a serene and tranquil state, where romantic feelings may exist but are subdued or infrequent.

Individuals who fit into the “Calm Waters” category tend to have a more reserved or subdued approach to romance. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:

1. Pragmatic Outlook: They tend to approach relationships with a practical mindset, focusing on practicalities rather than grand gestures or intense displays of affection.
2. Independence: They value their independence and may prioritize personal pursuits and interests over romantic relationships.
3. Reserved Expression of Affection: While they may experience romantic feelings, they may not express them openly or frequently, preferring to keep their emotions private.
4. Preference for Stability: They seek stability and predictability in their relationships, valuing a sense of calm and tranquility over excitement or passion.
5. Contentment with Solitude: They are comfortable spending time alone and may not feel a strong need for constant companionship or romantic involvement.

Overall, individuals in the “Calm Waters” category may appreciate romance in a more subdued or understated manner, finding contentment in the quiet moments and subtle gestures of connection within their relationships.

This was fun!

According to my “research,” I’m as romantic as it gets! If someone is as romantic as me, let me know please, let’s be friends

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