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  • The Deepening Bond: How Lovemaking Enhances Connection

    Dear Lovestar,

    In the tapestry of human relationships, lovemaking is a thread that binds hearts, souls, and lives together in profound ways. It is more than just a physical act; it is a dance of intimacy, trust, and vulnerability that deepens the connection between partners. In the quiet, tender moments shared in each other’s embrace, we find the essence of love—an essence that calls for exploration and celebration.

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    The Power of Intimacy

    Lovemaking is the ultimate expression of intimacy, a sacred ritual that transcends the mundane and connects us on a deeply emotional level. When two people come together in this intimate act, they open themselves up to each other in a way that words cannot capture. It is in these moments of vulnerability that true connection flourishes, creating a bond that is resilient and enduring.

    Intimacy in lovemaking goes beyond physical closeness. It involves emotional openness and the willingness to share our innermost thoughts, fears, and desires. This emotional intimacy strengthens the relationship, fostering a sense of security and trust that is essential for deep connection.

    Building Trust and Vulnerability

    Trust and vulnerability are the cornerstones of any meaningful relationship. Lovemaking is a powerful way to build and reinforce these elements. By being physically and emotionally naked with our partners, we show them that we trust them completely and that we are willing to be vulnerable. This mutual trust and vulnerability create a safe space where both partners can be their true selves without fear of judgment or rejection.

    When we trust our partners enough to share our bodies and souls with them, we affirm the depth of our commitment and the strength of our bond. This trust is reciprocated, leading to a virtuous cycle of deeper connection and intimacy.

    The Dance of Passion

    Passion is the spark that keeps the flame of love burning bright. Lovemaking is a celebration of this passion, a way to express our deepest desires and our affection for our partners. The physical pleasure experienced during lovemaking is intertwined with emotional fulfillment, creating a powerful synergy that enhances the overall connection.

    By exploring each other’s bodies and desires, couples can discover new dimensions of their relationship. This exploration keeps the passion alive, ensuring that the relationship remains vibrant and dynamic.

    Communication and Understanding

    Lovemaking is a form of non-verbal communication that can convey love, appreciation, and desire more effectively than words. Through touch, caresses, and shared pleasure, partners communicate their feelings and strengthen their emotional bond. This non-verbal communication can also help resolve conflicts and misunderstandings, as it allows couples to reconnect and reaffirm their love for each other.

    Understanding each other’s needs and desires is crucial for a fulfilling relationship. Lovemaking provides an opportunity to learn about each other in a deeply personal way, fostering empathy and compassion.

    A Call for Exploration

    In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it is easy to neglect the importance of lovemaking. However, it is essential to recognize that this intimate act is not a luxury but a necessity for a healthy, thriving relationship. Couples should make a conscious effort to prioritize their intimate time, exploring each other’s desires and deepening their connection.

    Explore with Curiosity and Openness: Approach lovemaking with a sense of curiosity and openness. Be willing to try new things and discover what brings joy and fulfillment to both partners. This exploration can lead to a deeper understanding and appreciation of each other.

    Communicate Your Desires: Open communication is key to a satisfying lovemaking experience. Share your desires, fantasies, and boundaries with your partner. This transparency fosters trust and ensures that both partners feel valued and respected.

    Create a Romantic Atmosphere: Set the stage for intimacy by creating a romantic atmosphere. Light candles, play soft music, and eliminate distractions. This attention to detail can enhance the overall experience and make lovemaking a special and cherished ritual.

    Prioritize Intimate Time: In the midst of busy schedules, it is important to prioritize intimate time. Set aside regular moments for lovemaking, ensuring that both partners feel connected and appreciated.

    Embrace the Journey

    Lovemaking is a journey of discovery and connection. By embracing this journey with an open heart and a spirit of exploration, couples can deepen their bond and enrich their relationship. It is in these intimate moments that we find the true essence of love—a love that is tender, passionate, and enduring.

    So, take the time to explore, to communicate, and to celebrate the profound connection that lovemaking brings. In doing so, you will create a relationship that is not only fulfilling but also deeply enriching, a testament to the power of love and the beauty of intimacy.

    With love,

    Eve

  • The Timeless Dance of Love: Embracing Intimacy with Your Partner

    Dear Lovestar,

    In the quiet moments of dawn, as the world slumbers and dreams waltz through the minds of the weary, there exists a sacred space where hearts intertwine and souls dance. This is the realm of intimacy, a timeless dance of love, where women hold the power to weave threads of connection, passion, and profound affection with their partners. Embracing this tender art is not just about the physical act of love; it is about nurturing a bond that transcends the ordinary, elevating the relationship to a divine symphony of togetherness.

    The Symphony of Connection

    In the soft glow of candlelight, amidst whispered secrets and gentle caresses, lies the essence of true connection. When a woman chooses to make love with her man, she opens a gateway to an intimate universe where words are unnecessary, and the language of the heart speaks in silken tones. This connection is more than physical; it is a soulful communion, an embrace that says, “I see you, I cherish you, I am yours.”

    The Gift of Vulnerability

    In the act of love, vulnerability becomes a precious gift. It is in these moments of unguarded tenderness that we reveal our true selves, shedding the armor of daily life. For a woman, allowing herself to be vulnerable with her lover is an act of profound trust and love. It is an affirmation that within this sacred space, she feels safe, cherished, and adored. This vulnerability, far from being a weakness, is the very foundation upon which enduring love is built.

    The Dance of Passion

    Passion is the fire that ignites the soul, a fervent expression of desire that transcends the mundane. When a woman embraces her passion, she invites her husband into a world of unbridled emotion and fervent longing. This dance of passion is not just about physical gratification; it is an exploration of the depths of love, a journey into the heart of what it means to be truly alive and profoundly connected.

    The Harmony of Love

    Love, in its purest form, is a harmonious melody that resonates within the hearts of those who embrace it. Making love is an expression of this harmony, a testament to the deep and abiding affection that binds a couple together. For a woman, engaging in this intimate dance with her husband is an affirmation of their bond, a celebration of the life they have built together, and a promise of the love that will carry them through the ages.

    The Canvas of Memory

    Every act of love is a brushstroke on the canvas of memory, a vivid reminder of the moments shared and the dreams woven together. When a woman chooses to make love with her husband, she creates memories that will linger in the quiet corners of their hearts, memories that will be whispered in the twilight of their years. These moments, imbued with tenderness and passion, become the manifestaion of their shared life, a testament to the enduring power of love.

    The Sanctuary of Home

    In a world that often rushes and roars, the act of making love creates a sanctuary, a haven of peace and serenity. For a woman, this intimate space becomes a refuge where she can find solace and strength in the arms of her beloved. It is a reminder that amidst the chaos, there is a place where love reigns supreme, a sanctuary where two hearts beat in unison.

    The Eternal Dance

    Love is an eternal dance, a ballet of hearts that sways to the rhythm of life. When a woman embraces this dance with her husband, she steps into a timeless tradition, a celebration of the union of two souls. This dance, filled with grace and beauty, is a reminder that love, in all its forms, is the most profound expression of our humanity.

    In the end, making love is not just an act; it is a symphony of connection, vulnerability, passion, harmony, memory, sanctuary, and eternity. It is a celebration of the divine union between a woman and her husband, a testament to the power of love to transcend the ordinary and elevate the human spirit. So, let us embrace this dance with open hearts and cherish the sacred space it creates, for in this intimate realm, we find the true essence of love.

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    Were you inspired?

    With love,

    Eve

  • Stage 3 of Scorpio Love: Healing with sex ascension Sex with Scorpio poems, part 2. Pisces + Scorpio twin flames.

    Stage 3 of Scorpio Love: Healing with sex ascension Sex with Scorpio poems, part 2. Pisces + Scorpio twin flames.

    Hello, fellow Lovestar,

    My intention with this series of the stages of Scorpio Love is to demystify Scorpio love. ♏️ I will be making these posts private after Scorpio season because they’re too much for energy other than Scorpio’s, so read now.

    This post is part 2 of my last post, stage 3 healing through sex ascension. I’m sharing more sex poetry. Lovemaking poetry, really, but sex poems is an easier name.

    Stages of Scorpio Love. Read the other 2 stages through the links below
    Stage 1 of Scorpio Love: The Obsession. Love Obsession Poetry. Pisces + Scorpio compatibility 🔥🔥
    Stage 1 of Scorpio love: the obsession
    Stage 2 of Scorpio Love: The Addiction. Love Addiction Poetry. Pisces + Scorpio compatibility 🔥🔥
    Stage 2 of Scorpio love: the addiction
    Stage 3 of Scorpio Love: Healing through sex ascension. Lovemaking with Scorpio poetry. Pisces + Scorpio compatibility
    Stage 3 part 1 of Scorpio love: healing through sex ascension

    My old videos about sex with Scorpio.

    Explaining sex with Scorpio. This juicy secret video only has 8 views as of 10/27/23. There’s a secret sex playlist on my YouTube channel, I’ll add to it and then share it with you.

    Does it surprise you that my little YouTube channel has the most views on my sex poems… apparently, people are searching sex content on YouTube. I believe people are looking to be turned on, though. My intention is to inspire, and if you’re here to get turned on, you’re not a match to this blog! If you’re not a match to this blog, please get off ASAP and go to a different kind of website.

    Turn me on. An old sex poem. This is me, before I became Lovestar. These old poems might have a lower vibe since I’ve grown a lot since then.
    Several sex poems by your fearless sex researcher, I’ll find out what’s good and then write about it for our reading pleasure. These poems are dedicated to my beloved Scorpio, and I share them for females for inspiration.
    Old favorite pieces of my old favorite sex poems. My face has changed in the last few years, but not my love for Scorpio energy. Actually, my love has grown.
    “Good and bad” and “Sex before work” 2 old poems inspired by my lover, Scorpio ♏️
    5 or 6 old sex poems. Total coincidence that it was episode 69…
    I guess I’m kind of a lovemaking blogger…
    Love and sex poems
    More sexy poetry. This is what Scorpio inspires. These old videos were made when I was learning about twin flames. Some were written before I even knew
    We spilled the stars poem. Long ago, I created a beautiful picture, which is on an old YouTube video, to go with this poem.
    Energy transfer. I was starting my spiritual twin flame journey during this poem
    Sex after children poem. Lol 😆 😂 😅 I forgot I wrote this piece. There is more… too many to share. I guess I am a sex writer. Ok, I’m feeling shy now. 🤭 I’ll discuss this with my beloved ♥️ ❤️ and maybe I’ll share less

    Healing with Scorpio poetry by Pisces, beloved of Scorpio

    Thanks for reading and please tell me

    Is there someone special you could dedicate one of these poems to? Would you? How did they react?

    My Scorpio, the stoic, reacts with smiles or silence. It’s hard to get verbally romantic for him. He gets physically romantic.

    With love,

    Eve

  • Lovemaking meditation. Stop overactive mind to reach orgasm.

    TRIGGER ALERT!!! WE DISCUSS SEX,  ORGASMS, AND THE LACK OF ON THIS POST. MEANT FOR FEMALES. READ FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES. ENGAGING SEXUALLY WITH A FEMALE? COME GET INSIGHT. WRITTEN WITH LOVE AND LIGHT FOR THE COLLECTIVE OF FEMALES.

    Dear friend,

    I was in a deep conversation with my beloved ❤️ when he mentioned how many women go their entire lives without experiencing an orgasm. We discussed the topic further and were baffled that only a tiny percentage of females are able to have an orgasm through vaginal intercourse alone. Lucky us, and how do we spread the awareness that this is within reach for many more?

    Why do I care about orgasms?

    There are many reasons. One is my partner believes it’s hot. Whether he vocalizes it or not, my partner gets off getting me off. It not only deepens the connection and makes me open to more sex, but also my partner gets confirmation that he’s doing something very well and that I’m enjoying myself with him.

    During an orgasm, there is a huge release of sexual energy that has interacted with my attentive lover. This energy has manifestation power. It’s a perfect time to set an intention.

    Having an orgasm is a huge self steem boost, and it makes me feel better. My theory is that it also makes me look better, at least while the orgasm has the effect and their spell last a while.

    I believe there are health benefits to having orgasms. Additionally, I believe it helps balance hormones, can help balance feminine and masculine energies within my body, and can help ground me. I can not prove these beliefs. I don’t have orgasms for their health benefits either. They just feel really, really good. They feel like bliss.

    There is a healing power to having orgasms. Energetic, mental, and health manifestations of the two. Regular orgasms can be powerful, like therapy with a good therapist, orgasms can help get stuck energy out of the body, and this has helped me ascend, grow, transform, heal, and become who I am today.

    Regular orgasms help manifest union. With my theory about them helping remove stuck energy out of the body, regular orgasms could trigger running and chasing but ultimately should help bring the lovers to union.

    It’s said that orgasms increase the chances of becoming pregnant. (If not trying to get pregnant, use caution)

    My personal experience

    I, too, have experienced orgasmless sex. That is the sex that sucks that I wish I would have never settled for. I didn’t even think female orgasms existed until I was a woman and read about it in a magazine! I was told and taught about the monumental male orgasm with their creative power but never even informed about the bliss I too could experience and I would not feel that bliss until I met my beloved, and luckily for me, I was only 20.

    If teenage girls were taught about the female orgasm, they would be less likely to give their bodies to undeserving partners and would not go into long-term relationships with mediocre partners.  Girls would grow into women who are confident in their bodies and who are comfortable sharing their opinions and talking openly with their partners. Please do your part and let someone know of the incredible power of having an orgasm as a female.

    My beloved 🔥🔥 who was made for me by God and set up to date me by the universe, is my orgasm giver. It’s his superpower, and I have been blessed, I know. I speak from my experience of what I have noticed in going from not enjoying sex to loving every moment of it and wanting more with the right partner. The right partner was key.

    In my youth, in Cuba, I remember people said that girls fell in love with the first guy they had sex with. I never believed that. I believe that girls fall in love with the first guy who gives them an orgasm. She would be powerless to not fall in love.

    What I believe is that in a relationship, if a girl still doesn’t love a man before he gives her her first orgasm, she will fall in love the moment she feels it.

    Why am I not having orgasms?

    I could be judging myself. If I’m thinking I don’t look good enough during sex, if I’m wondering if I look good or bad, if I’m trying to hide perceived body imperfections, if I’m trying to look a certain way rather than being vulnerably me, I can’t have an orgasm. But I have realized that in any position, we look hot. The imperfections are not noticeable.  He is not looking at my huge belly. He is looking at his favorite part of me, and he does a great job of finding my sexiest side.

    I could be judging my performance. If I’m thinking I’m doing a poor job during sex, I’ll likely not experience bliss. If I’m trying too hard, if I’m competing with his previous lover, or with some idea of what I should be doing, or if I mistakenly believe I have to act like some porn star, I will not have an orgasm. As a woman, I have found that I don’t have to be any of those things for my partner. The only way is to surrender without judgment! If I let go completely, I’ll feel bliss.

    I could be judging my partner. Perhaps we are fighting or mad at each other. I will not have an orgasm if I choose to have sex with the wrong partner. It would not work if I dared compared him to a previous partner. For me, I have to feel safe with a man to even come close. His energy has to feel right. I should not have any questions of whether or not he’s cheating. I’m definitely not cheating. It’s not a one-time stand, a mistake, or a partner I want to break up with. It starts with the right partner, and I’m giving all of me because I trust him.

    I could be judging the experience. If instead of enjoying every second of it, I’m in my mind, concerned if it’s too soon, too late, if I’m overcome by jealousy, if I think I will regret the experience, I would not expect to have an orgasm. However, I have learned in my connection that to enjoy lovemaking, I have to be present in that moment, and that means not thinking about anything that is not part of that experience or that could enhance the experience.

    Tips to reach an orgasm

    As a woman, since I only surrender my body to my beloved, the right guy, and my orgasm giver, only my overactive thinking mind could prevent me from enjoying the lovemaking experience, peaking with an orgasm. My belief is that to have a fulfilling sex life, a female must first have a worthy partner, and once that is accomplished, she needs to simply calm that overactive mind that prevents her from enjoying herself to the max through overthinking.

    Thinking during the sexual act is the biggest thing I’ve noticed that can stop my pleasure. I don’t know how this works for males and only speak about what I know. If, during sex, a woman starts thinking about work or family drama, she will not have an orgasm. If her shopping list pops in her mind or her bills, her pleasure will fade. If a woman becomes preoccupied with anything at all during sex, she will not enjoy it much because, as a woman, this experience is internal.

    For those of us who practice meditation, it’s easy to realize that lovemaking is the perfect meditative experience. After all, being in the moment is not letting our thoughts wander into the past or future, being in our current energy, feeling what we are feeling, being patient, and not rushing the experience, accepting, surrendering to the moment, being in a receptive mode, letting go of judgements…

    Letting go of thoughts is difficult! It might even be impossible to be in a non thinking state unless someone has been practicing for a while. Yet, while making love, when thoughts come through my mind, just like when I meditate, I don’t let that thought become a conversation that would take my concentration out of my beloved. I don’t want to miss a second of my lover’s attention, so I’ve practiced. If my mind is going 1000 miles a second and not being helpful, I use willpower and take my thoughts to an extremely powerful and sexy moment in our connection, such as our first time.

    If my mind is overactive, I visualize my beloved and I making love. This practice tames the overthinking mind and adds another layer of sexy, the mind suddenly working to my benefit.

    Prior to lovemaking

    • Set a romantic and mainly safe stage for lovemaking.
    • Relax body and mind.
    • Set a powerful intention such as to receive as much pleasure as is given, to reach union, to become more aligned.
    • Surrender to lover’s touch. Decide that all of him is worthy of all of me.
    • Calm overactive mind by reassuring that all is well. Remember the first time or a time when total surrender caused an orgasm.

    During lovemaking

    • Don’t hold anything back. When the intention is to reach an orgasm, there is a need to be open to one’s lover.
    • Don’t judge the experience, myself, my lover.
    • Be grateful. Gratitude makes everything sweeter and is a powerful manifestation technique.
    • Be open. During this experience, we might pick up our partner’s thoughts, desires, and fantasies. Accept them without judgment.
    • Be vulnerable.
    • Share the best of me.
    • Curve overactive mind by only engaging with thoughts that promote pleasure in my body. Visualizing my partner and I making love.
    • If thinking too much: open eyes and feast off the view of my beloved.
    • Surrender completely to the experience. Know that this is divine. I am worthy of this experience. I am worthy of feeling this much pleasure.
    • Intend that my lover will receive my love, gratitude, and appreciation from this exchange.
    • This exchange is an energetic one. Intend that our bodies will know how to interact with one another and provide each other the sweetest and most memorable experience.
    • Let go of the need to have an orgasm.  This will be an amazing experience regardless, and if I’m trying to hard, it will not happen.

    After lovemaking

    • Tell him how much I enjoyed it, or if not bold enough, let it be known.
    • Be grateful. Tell him or not, feel gratitude for this experience.
    • Sit in the vibe of lovemaking. A sexy energy was left behind, feel it.
    • Understand I am worth the pleasure felt, and there is nothing wrong with what we did. On the contrary, as a spiritual experience, lovemaking gets us closer to God. .
    • Feel my lover’s gratitude. He might not say it or recognize its gratitude, but he will be feeling it.
    • Decide to do this again.

    Dear friend, as a female, I reclaim my feminine power in the arms of my beloved. Our exchange is a safe experience where I can be my most vulnerable self. We engage with Love, respect, and passion. Our intention is to become closer, to please each other, and to feel pleasure ourselves, and we believe this is a gift from God, we will not judge or reject this gift from God.

    If you’re inspired, I invite you to engage with your beloved in lovemaking with the knowledge that not only can you have the most delicious orgasm but it will make your life more enjoyable and, dare I say, will make the world a better place.

    I pray this post will be useful, and if you find it enjoyable, please share it with a friend.

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    Thanks for reading,

    Please let me know if this was helpful,

    With love and light,

    Eve

  • The power of conscious sex

    Trigger alert! ⚠️🚨⚠️ I will be talking about unconscious sex!!! Read only if you will not have an unwanted response!

    Sex can be many things. It can be sweet lovemaking. It can be deceptive, stolen, and sold. Sex can hurt, or it can heal. Sex can be very unconscious. But can sex be conscious?

    Dear friend, I am not writing this post with  judgment in my heart. I have settled for the lower vibing sex, too. Though I judge myself a bit because we tend to be stricter, tougher on ourselves than others, I am not judging your experience. My intention with this post is to debate this topic. I am journaling. I am also not putting conscious sex on a pedestal because I feel I appreciate conscious sex much more after experiencing unconscious sex.

    What is conscious sex?

    Sex can be very unconscious. So then, by contrast, there has to be conscious sex. Sex is obviously very private, and we don’t get to know, like we know people who are conscious about their diet, conscious about their speech, or conscious about their appearance, but many of the people we know should be engaging in conscious sex. And if they’re not, there’s something wrong with this world. I do believe there’s something wrong with this world, but I believe we can help balance the energies through conscious sex.

    According to the dictionary, to be conscious is to be aware of and respond to our surroundings. In the context of sex, I would say conscious sex is when we engage in sex in a way that we are aware of what we’re doing. There are no tricks played, and both partners engage openly and willingly.  Responding to our surroundings during conscious sex sounds to me, like engaging with a positive intention, responding to our partner, being sensitive, and being open.

    Being conscious can also mean being awake. Awake neaning aware, knowing something that some don’t know exist, to bring that which is unconscious into our consciousness. In the context of sex, and in a more spiritual light, I would say conscious sex can be to engage, knowing secrets about sex that are not available to all (if you have any such secrets, please blow the whistle on the comments). To engage in a ritualistic way (for the light). To perform sexual magic, etc.

    Is conscious sex lovemaking? Conscious sex is lovemaking, but not all lovemaking is conscious.

    My personal experience

    I was all messed up when I was matched by the universe with my beloved twin flame. Previous to meeting him, I didn’t understand, appreciate, or love myself. Unfortunately,  when those things are lacking, we tend to give ourselves easier than when our self-love is strong.

    I was also heartbroken from childhood trauma. My chakras were out of alignment. I was not my healthiest or most beautiful.

    This was until my beloved worked his magic on me. I’m a different woman now that I’ve been touched by him. I believe he shone a light into me. It was a light so bright that anything that was not in alignment with it was obliterated. And so he blessed me from the inside out with the power of conscious sex. This is his superpower and the superpower of twin flame sex.

    The power of conscious sex

    Conscious sex heals. It can heal sexual trauma. It can even help heal us from sexual abuse.

    Conscious sex helps us ascend. It shines a light on low vibing energies within the body and, therefore, it can raise our vibration.

    Conscious sex can free us from heavy, ancestral energies, karma, and even curses. Set up a powerful intention as you engage.

    Conscious sex is a powerful tool for manifestation. Using the energies of the exchange to create the world we want to live in and be a part of.

    Conscious sex can create a beloved family.

    Conscious sex is a way to connect to source, spirit, and the universe. It’s a prayer of love.

    Conscious sex can help ascend the low sex vibes on Earth. The low vibes are all around us, and we’re all interacting with these energies. Through Conscious sex, just like it can support our bodies and get the low sex energies out of our bodies, so to can Conscious sex work the low sex energies in our planet until eventually, if we’re successful in our mission of love, one day there will be more Conscious than unconscious sex on Earth and healing will come. Sex will have ascended on Earth.

    Please tell me on the comments of your experience or opinions about conscious sex.

    Also, share how and what you manifest through conscious sex.

    With love and light,

    Eve

  • Great sex. The secret to a long lasting relationship?

    Trigger alert ⚠️  I talk about sex, lovemaking, and long relationships here. Read only if these topics will not trigger an unwanted response in you. Thank you.

    Dear friends,

    Since I’ve been reunited with my beloved, lovemaking has been a dream. We have been under a spell of attraction, and we’re loving every second of it. If cameras started rolling and a movie was made of our lives, it would be a sexy romance. We were separated not because we wanted to but for work and family travel.

    Today, a thought occurred to me. Is good sex or lovemaking the secret to a long-lasting relationship?

    I was deep in thought, figuring out if lovemaking creates a lasting relationship. A long relationship would not be as fulfilling if the sex was not good for most couples (this post is very basic and does not cover sexless unions, which I know exist, but I’m not an expert in)

    Great sex will cause this in your relationship

    • The better the sex, the least likely a couple is to cheat because we’re less likely to get bored.
    • Having great sex as their fun secret, a couple is likely to feel fun and relaxed to others and, therefore, be magnetic.
    • People who have great sex are likely to have high self steem since their bodies are the object of much pleasure to their partners. And people who have high self steem are likely to have more sex. It’s a sexy cycle.
    • Couples who have great sex are likely to have much more of it than couples who have less than the greatest sex.
    • People who have great sex give each other orgasms and regular orgasms might make the couples more relaxed and laid back.
    • People who have great sex might be in touch with their internal world due to heightened daydreaming and fantasizing.
    • Great sex will make you closer as a couple.
    • Couples who have great sex are probably much more open and honest when talking to each other since they’re very open and vulnerable with their bodies.
    • Couples who have great, regular sex might hold hands, hug, touch, look each other in the eyes, and smile at each other more often because they’re comfortable in their skin and comfortable sharing with their partner, and they crave their partner’s touch.
    • Please let me know in the comments what great sex causes in couples.

    But will great sex cause a relationship to be long-lasting? To extend a relationship that without great sex might break up? Or could two people who are not right for each other stay together due to great sex?

    What is great sex? Great sex is sex you feel lucky to have had. Sex you don’t regret. Sex you look forward to having again. Sex you feel lucky to have in your life. Sex that you remember with a warm smile. 😏 Sex that brings about much pleasure and makes your day better. Sex that results in 2+ orgasms. Sex that you never want to say no to. Sex that relaxes. Sex that makes you closer as a couple. Sex that you dream, daydream, and fantasize about. Conscious sex.

    I don’t think great sex alone should extend a relationship that is meant to end. Also, people don’t only cheat because their sex life is lacking. They also cheat looking for emotional connection and support. I believe everyone should consider all aspects of their relationship when deciding to stay with someone or end a relationship.

    There might be couples who have great sex and are not meant to be with each other. But they might not be as happy. There are many reasons to break up with a person, and I don’t think they should be ignored due to the great sex. People might feel afraid to leave a partner they have great sex with and be left with something worse. Yet again, nobody is perfect, and we should be patient (my lover was very patient with me).

    My personal experience

    Many years ago, before I started calling my partner beloved and started seeing our connection as God sent, we already had great sex. And I remember being quite bothered by our great sex. I wondered if the amazing sex was the best of our relationship because we were going through a rough patch.

    Not that I thought the great sex was a bad thing, I wondered if there was nothing deeper. What would keep us together once the sex is gone? Obviously, I craved the closeness that would be in our future, our now present.

    It’s possible my partner would have dumped me if the sex wasn’t great from the beginning. He is Scorpio, a very passionate lover, and he connects through sex. Without great sex, there is no connection. In fact, our dating would not probably have turned into a relationship if our sex wasn’t mind-blowing.

    However, I thought we would break up because we were not as connected, and that is what I was after. So, both partners might feel differently, and it depends on how high the partners value sex. It depends on the people within the union whether or not to stay together. A partner might value physical connection more, and another partner might value an emotional connection. The partner who values emotional connection might be OK having less than great sex but the person who values physical intimacy would not settle for an emotional connection that lacks in the bedroom department.

    Time to take great sex more seriously

    In my unpacking the question of whether or not great sex extends the life of relationships, one thing I realized is, of course, it does. But more importantly, great sex should be taken more seriously as part of the foundation of a relationship. Later, we will get old, and we can revisit this topic, but while young and energetic, we can enjoy this gift.

    I think great sex is an excellent tool to become more connected with our partner. And we should limit sex with not worthy partners because it can become addicting.

    I will encourage all committed relationships who are not already taking advantage of the power of connecting through sex to start taking steps to a better sex life. There is always another deeper level of connection, and what more connected state of being than making love with your partner? Open up lovers to the power of conscious sex.

    With much Love and respect,

    Eve

  • Sex. Don’t Fake Till You Make it. Do this instead…

    TRIGGER ALERT!!! This post could trigger sexual trauma and open unhealed wounds. I intend this brings you. healing. If you are aware of unhealed sexual trauma, don’t read this, instead message me through the Contact tool under Menu.

    “Fake it till you make it”

    Obviously, when we fake it, we are not being vulnerable, we’re not honestly showing our struggle, or we don’t know how to show our learning progress. Perhaps we feel embarrassed and  though we don’t talk about this, there’s a fake element to faking it.

    Some would fake it to appear smarter, more able to learn or perform, to appear “better” than they feel they are. This, I believe, stems from feeling inadequate, insecure, or not enough. This is, in my humble opinion, putting on a false mask that makes you appear able to do what you’re faking while buying you time to learn at a slower pace.

    The point we miss is that we’re all different and learning is a process. It’s obviously not only ok but expected to not know what you’re learning on day 1. There’s studying and practicing before we’re successful in whatever we’re learning and this includes sex. We will not be a sex god or goddess on day 1! Nor should we be.

    In sex, what does it mean to fake it?

    We fake it when we pretend to be enjoying ourselves during sex. We might act as if we had an orgasm, making the noises and movements that we believe we would make if we were having a real orgasm. We might vocalize, some might scream or say they’re having an orgasm like we see on the movies.

    In pretending to be enjoying ourselves, our partner would falsely believe that they are more able than they are to basically get us off sexually. Typically, when our partner has an amazing time while we have sex, we feel great about ourselves and therefore our self esteem is heightened. When we fake it, our partner might think they’re able to give us an orgasm when in truth they’re unable to or we’re not able to have an orgasm ourselves regardless of their ability.

    Typically and sadly, women fake orgasms. Nowadays, it’s well known that only a small percentage of women can actually achieve an orgasmic reaction to vaginal sex only. Many of us need much more than just vaginal sex to achieve it, some of us have never had one. Some of us, lucky ones, will find a special person later on who will be so incredible that we will finally reach the desired outcome.

    When we fake it, we exaggerate these noises and movements and if we don’t know what an orgasm really feels like, we might look and/ or feel fake. Therefore many are aware that their partner can fake it or might doubt their partner’s overt reactions! Watch out because if you get caught faking it, this might cause your partner’s self esteem to drop as if they’re unable to bring you to the gates of heaven through that most elusive female orgasm and they might be able to give you one if they just knew what to give you and how.

    Why do we fake it?

    I believe that some people might not even realize they are faking it, some people might think that they’re meant to make a bunch of noise or do certain things that might indicate they’re having a great time. It doesn’t help that porn is readily available for free and even movies paint a picture about sex that’s unreal, unnatural, and fake. It also doesn’t help that we’re exposed to that perversion of lovemaking early on. We seem to forget that is acting and obviously not real, and if we imitate it, we might not meet our expectations and/ or our partner’s expectations.

    People imitate the actions of movie stars, who are clearly acting, and not having a real orgasm for several reasons. It might look sexy from the outside looking in but reminder!!! that’s not what sex is like. When we engage in sex, we’re in the inside experiencing, not on the outside looking in! When we experience, we are not making a show for outsiders who can’t feel the act and our partner can feel us so there’s no need to put on a show.

    There’s probably many different reasons why people fake it. Certainly, a reason is we want to please our partner. We might feel that our partner wants the hot porn star, yet, in faking an orgasm, we’re not giving our partner the choice to please us. In truth, if our partner wants some hot movie star, then perhaps this is not the article for you, or if you’re in a soulmate or twin flame relationship, then perhaps you’re out of alignment, I’ve been there too! Finally, if you have been faking it, your partner might think it’s hot because it looks like a movie, yet they might be deprived of giving you the real experience.

    I’ll be honest with you, I’ve never faked it! Ever. First of all, I don’t believe in giving a mediocre partner a sense that they are able to bring me to an orgasm! And you might guess that I have indeed had sex with a mediocre partner and it’s true, I’m in the process of forgiving myself. An orgasm is something that I’ve only been able to achieve with my beloved, the one I call my twin flame, my one true love. It’s not something a woman achieves with anyone.

    Don’t Fake it. Instead do this.

    Females rejoice! We really have it good in sex! We don’t have the pressure males have when it comes to having one massive orgasm where if they fail to have one, they’ll have the hated “blue balls”. The universe blessed us with the incredible ability to have multiple orgasms, even to enjoy orgasm after orgasm and feel like the sex act was one massive orgasm, we have the ability to orgasm from the beginning to the end of the sexual encounter. We’re the orgasm queens and goddesses on this planet. So first of all relax and have fun with this. It can be a project, a self growth goal, a quest even, or something like a new year resolution or goal.

    But even if we’re unable to ask about what we need (I totally understand) there’s really no need to act as if we’re having an orgasm we’re not having and the joke is on us if we make our partner believe we love something we don’t even like and then we get that treatment daily! Instead start little by little indicating what you do love, whether it’s a kiss, a touch, a sight that is delightful. There’s always something truly pleasing if you are in a committed relationship. Our partners respond to what we love by paying close attention to our response and giving us more of what they believe we love and this is why you should not fake it if you want a truly enjoyable and healthy sex life.

    So don’t fake it! If you can, speak up. If you can’t speak up, fantasize! It’s a simple way to manifest what you truly desire. Well, I came to realize after years of fantasizing, that fantasies are not private at all, fantasies are energy that gets shared, just like thoughts are. What you’re fantasizing about, those thoughts are interacting with your partner! Also because when you fantasize, you’re working yourself closer to the place you need to be to reach the desired orgasm. Personally, when I needed to warm up, I go to my special place (in my head) which is our first night together, the night I had my first orgasm, I call this my master fantasy.

    What to do instead of faking it. Tips and tricks.

    • Relax and have fun
    • Be honest and vulnerable
    • Don’t make them think you love something you don’t love
    • Fantasize about what you want in bed
    • Create a master fantasy (for me it’s my first night with my beloved)
    • Respond to what you love in the natural way your body responds
    • Don’t block the natural response: scream or moan if you feel you should, be quiet if that’s more natural. If you’re having a full on body response and start shaking uncontrollably, let that be, and if your body tenses up, then allow that too. If you can speak, say their name or the expression that comes most naturally, and if it’s not possible to say anything, don’t force it. There’s no one size fits all.
    • Don’t watch porn or movies about sex to learn. No judgement if you do or have but figure out your own personal response rather than imitating acting from a movie.
    • Take charge and do what you love most
    • Experiment! You might enjoy even some things you thought you didn’t like

    The spiritual significance of faking it

    My beloved is Scorpio and don’t fake it with Scorpio because not only is Scorpio more than able to “get you off” but they can feel you and when they figure out you have been faking it, they might feel betrayed. Don’t lie to Scorpio! They would question why you did it and they will wonder what else you have been faking. Additionally, they might feel as though you are fake or not trustworthy.

    Spiritually speaking, and for those of us who believe in manifestation, it is possible that we’re manifesting what we don’t love most by faking an orgasm. We might be mistakenly manifesting  not our highest and most rewarding sex life. Additionally, it feels that by faking it, we’re aligning to something that’s not our highest vibe. Perhaps, we have mistakenly calibrated to a lower vibe, perhaps we’ve even calibrated to some perverted porn vibe. And if any perverted vibes have entered our reality, it’s entirely possible that lower, even dark energies (even entities) are feeding off our sexual energy which feels to be our highest creation energy.

    This is nothing to be feared and probably most of us have at some point picked up lower sex vibes. We could have picked up some lower sex vibes from friends, past lovers, abuse, trauma, karma, ancestral energy, curses, or by choosing/ accepting this energy by mistake. I understand, for some, this is crazy superstition but if you read this blog, does that resonate?

    Is it making love if I fake it?

    When we make love we are vulnerable and share ourselves completely with a willing and loving partner. This is the opposite of faking it. Sex can be faked but lovemaking is the real thing.

    If you’re lucky enough to have sex with your twin flame, don’t fake it.

    If you are lucky enough to have sex with your twin flame, don’t fake it! It is a great honor to actually engage in this way with your twin and don’t taint the energy with fake vibes! This might sound harsh but if you’re interested in having an honest relationship with your twin, then please engage with complete honesty. It could be considered running (and us twins don’t like that) from ourselves…

    Respectfully and never in judgement,

    with Love and light,

    Eve

  • Watch “Sex with Scorpio” on YouTube

    On this video, I read my old post Sex with Scorpio!

    This was totally fun, so much so that I’m currently writing another sex article, the one I talked about on this video about not faking it. It will be published by tomorrow hopefully.

    PS. I tried to upload this video to Rumble, my twin flame and spiritual channel but nothing can be uploaded to Rumble since before Christmas so I uploaded to my YouTube channel unlisted. You can watch through the link and I’ll also create a secret playlist for you, my twin flame/ spiritual friend.

    Respectfully, and with Love and light,

    Eve