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  • If You Believe in Love, You Probably Have These 10 Rare Traits

    Let’s be real: believing in love in the 21st century can feel like a radical act. In a world of swipe-left culture, ghosting, and cynical rom-coms, saying “I believe in love” can sometimes feel like admitting you still believe in unicorns.

    But here’s a little secret: believing in love isn’t naive. It’s not about ignoring heartbreak or waiting for a knight in shining armor. It’s a profound and powerful worldview, backed by a unique set of emotional and psychological skills. If you’re someone who holds this belief close to your heart, you likely possess these 10 rare and beautiful traits.

    1. You’re a Realistic Optimist (Not a Hopeless Romantic)

    Forget the “hopeless romantic” label. You’re something far more powerful: a realistic optimist. You don’t believe love is a magic wand that erases all problems. You’ve seen heartbreak, you know relationships require work, and you understand that Prince Charming probably leaves his socks on the floor. Your belief isn’t blind; it’s a conscious choice to focus on the potential for beauty and connection, even with a clear-eyed view of the challenges. Science is on your side here; studies show that realistic optimists are more resilient and have healthier, more lasting relationships because their expectations are grounded in reality, not fantasy.

    2. You Have a High “Emotional Pain Tolerance”

    This might sound strange, but stick with us. Believing in love requires a tremendous capacity to feel, and that includes the painful stuff. You don’t see heartbreak as a reason to build a fortress around your heart. Instead, you process the grief, learn from it, and somehow keep your heart open. This is a superpower. It means you understand that love and loss are two sides of the same coin, and you’ve decided the joy is worth the risk of pain. This trait is the bedrock of emotional resilience.

    3. You’re a Master of “Negative Alchemy”

    No, not dark magic. “Negative Alchemy” is the rare ability to transform relationship conflicts into connection. When you believe in love, you see arguments not as battles to be won, but as puzzles to be solved together. You’re more likely to use “I feel” statements, to seek to understand before being understood, and to see your partner not as an opponent, but as a teammate on the fritz. This is a skill most people aren’t taught, but you’ve likely cultivated it through intuition and a genuine desire for harmony.

    4. You See People’s “Future Selves”

    You don’t just love people for who they are; you have an uncanny ability to see and love who they are becoming. You see the potential, the tiny seeds of greatness, the hidden kindness beneath a rough exterior. You hold a safe, nurturing space for your partner, friends, and even yourself to grow. This trait is deeply tied to secure attachment, the ability to provide a “secure base” from which your loved ones can explore the world and become their best selves.

    5. You Practice “Active Appreciation”

    For you, gratitude isn’t just a journaling exercise. It’s an active verb. You notice the small things: the way they make you tea just how you like it, the dumb joke that always makes you laugh, the quiet comfort of their presence. And you voice it. This constant drip-feed of appreciation is like emotional compound interest; it builds a massive wealth of goodwill and connection over time. Research from the Gottman Institute shows that happy couples maintain a 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions, and your active appreciation is the engine of that positivity.

    6. You Have Strong Personal Boundaries (Seriously!)

    This is the biggest misconception about people who believe in love. Your open heart isn’t a doormat. In fact, your belief in love is why you have strong boundaries. You understand that true love cannot thrive in an environment of disrespect, enmeshment, or constant self-sacrifice. You know your worth, and you’re able to say “no” and “this is not okay for me” precisely because you value the sanctity of a healthy connection. Your boundaries aren’t walls; they’re the gates that define the beautiful garden you’re tending.

    7. You’re Deeply Curious About Others

    You’re the person who asks the good questions. “What was the highlight of your week?” “What’s a dream you’ve never told anyone?” You believe that every person is a universe of stories, and you find genuine joy in exploring them. This curiosity keeps your relationships fresh and exciting, moving beyond surface-level small talk into the deep, nourishing waters of true intimacy.

    8. You Embrace “Loving Detachment”

    You understand that the deepest form of love is not possessive. It’s the ability to love someone without needing to control them. You can give your partner space to have their own hobbies, friends, and emotions without feeling threatened. This “loving detachment” is the opposite of indifference; it’s a confident, secure love that says, “I love you, and I trust you to be yourself.” This is freedom, and it’s the air that long-term love needs to breathe.

    9. You Find Love in the “Micro-Moments”

    While you believe in the grand, sweeping gestures of love, your true magic lies in finding it in the micro-moments. A shared glance across a crowded room. A silent, comfortable car ride. A hand on your back when you’re stressed. You understand what psychologist Barbara Fredrickson found in her research: that love is not a constant state, but a series of micro-moments of positive connection that, when woven together, create an unbreakable bond.

    10. You’re a Love Story Architect

    You don’t just wait for a love story to happen to you; you actively co-create it. You plan the adventures, you initiate the difficult conversations, you suggest the silly dance parties in the kitchen. You understand that love is a verb, and you are its willing, enthusiastic architect. You believe that a great love story isn’t found, it’s built, brick by intentional brick, day by beautiful day.

    So, if you see yourself in these traits, don’t ever let anyone tell you you’re “too much” or “naive.” Your belief in love isn’t a weakness; it’s your greatest strength. It’s a sophisticated, resilient, and powerfully rare way of moving through the world. Keep believing. The world needs your kind of magic.

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  • Love Poems, Valentine’s art, e-cards, & Poemas de Amor

    Next in my list is designing Valentine’s e-cards, something I love to do every year. If you need e-cards for your love or to share on social media, I will deliver in early February.

    If you need a personalized Valentine’s card, I’d love to design one for you. Visit my Etsy shop where you can purchase yours.

    https://www.etsy.com/us-es/listing/1773177695/tarjeta-electronica-romantica

    Dear person who visited and read about 90 blog posts this week: I do this for you, and I appreciate your support so much. I am grateful for your time, and I want to share more content you might benefit from. If you feel called to do so, leave a comment and let me know which content you appreciate most.

    Love Images (Valentine’s backgrounds for February poetry)

    I created these gorgeous backgrounds with Canva, and I share them for free on our Facebook SPANISH poetry page Alma Poeta. You’re free to download and use them for your Valentine’s cards or crafts. Please share your creations back with us.

    My beloved, Scorpio, will act as though he doesn’t care about Valentine’s, but he will come on that morning and kiss me more tenderly than the previous day! And then he will softly make l❤️ve to me, unlike his usual ways. I can read his mind, so what he says is not what I hear. (((Oh, I was supposed to tell this to Scorpio. He is wondering why I’m already talking about Valentine’s))).

    The truth is that as a content creator, I have a Valentine’s posting schedule, and I’m prepared since last year.

    Previous Year Valentine’s Poetry

    Excerpt of a longer poem for the personalized card I created for a friend’s to gift his wife in 2024

    Poemas de Amor – Spanish Love Poems

    I have been writing a lot in Spanish lately, but no worries, English poetry is never going out of style.

    Love potion, translation, and marriage of the 3 Love Potion poems I wrote in English
    Él es la copa y yo soy el vino

    With love,

    Eve

  • Old Poems Week: Perfect Me

    Dear Lovestar,

    Let us dive into my archive of old poems:

    In “Perfect Me,” the poem speaks to the idea that my essence was divinely crafted to perfectly match my beloved’s, who I call Scorpio. He is drawn to me or sees something special in me because, before my soul came into this world, he and God (or the universe/ spirit) co-created the version of me that he would meet—a version made just for them. 🌟

    I am his perfect match. Surprisingly for me, I am his exact type, which is mind-blowing to me because of his excessive good looks.

    For twin flames, it’s a reminder that our connection transcends time and space. Long before we even met, our souls were designed to fit perfectly together, divinely guided to unite in this life. 🔥

    For pagans, this speaks to the sacred connection between the divine and the natural world—your spirit is like a perfectly crafted work of nature, co-created with the cosmos. Whether in love or in life, your existence is intentional and full of purpose. 🌿

    I am perfect for him

    He is perfect for me

    You are perfect as you are too for some divine purpose.

    With love and light,

  • How Love Heals

    Dear Lovestar,

    In a world that often feels chaotic, we can easily forget this simple truth: Love heals. It’s a force that transcends time, space, and even the physical realm, connecting us deeply to one another and to the divine. For spiritual seekers, Love is more than an emotion—it is an energy, a source of profound transformation that can guide us toward inner peace, joy, and wholeness.

    But how exactly does Love heal? And how can we tap into this power to bring healing into our lives and the lives of others?

    1. Love as a Vibrational Energy

    Love is often described as the highest vibrational frequency even though there is a vibrational scale that places other vibrations higher than Love. When we love and are loved, we raise our energetic frequency, aligning ourselves with positivity, light, and the divine essence of the universe. When we operate from a place of love—whether it’s self-love, romantic love, or unconditional love for humanity—we become magnets for healing. Our bodies, minds, and spirits begin to harmonize with this elevated vibration, leading to physical, emotional, and spiritual healing.

    By simply tuning into love, we are tuning into a force that can melt away fear, dissolve pain, and restore balance. Love, in its purest form, is the essence of the universe’s healing power.

    I once went through the Love and Above Mindvalley course and learned this very fact: the vibration of love and higher is health, wealth, hope, safety….

    2. Healing Through Self-Love

    One of the most profound ways that love heals is through self-love. When we Love and honor ourselves, we create a sanctuary within. Self-love is the foundation of all healing because it allows us to nurture our inner being, recognizing our worth, and embracing the sacredness of our existence.

    Self-love is not just about pampering or treating ourselves—it is about forgiving ourselves, speaking kindly to ourselves, and creating space for growth. When we learn to Love ourselves, we release the toxic patterns that hold us back and begin to experience healing on the deepest level.

    3. Love as a Path to Emotional Healing

    Our hearts carry wounds—old hurts, grief, and unresolved emotions—that weigh us down and prevent us from fully experiencing life. Love has the unique ability to bring those buried emotions to the surface, allowing us to heal. Whether through the loving support of others, the embrace of a romantic partner, or the compassion we show ourselves, Love soothes the soul.

    When we share our burdens, speak our truth, and allow ourselves to be vulnerable with those we trust, we begin to release emotional pain. Love holds space for us to be seen and heard without judgment. It reminds us that we are never alone in our suffering, and that healing is not only possible but inevitable when we open our hearts.

    4. Love in Relationships: A Healing Bond

    Relationships built on love, trust, and compassion offer profound opportunities for healing. Through meaningful connections with others—whether it be with a partner, family, or friends—we experience Love as a mirror that reflects both our light and our shadows. In these relationships, we are challenged to grow, heal old wounds, and evolve.

    Romantic Love, in particular, can be a powerful vehicle for healing. It teaches us about vulnerability, acceptance, and the art of giving and receiving love. When we love someone deeply, we begin to see the sacredness in both ourselves and them. Healing happens when we embrace Love in its many forms—compassion, patience, forgiveness, and kindness.

    5. Love Heals the Collective Spirit

    Love doesn’t just heal individuals; it heals communities and even the world. When we extend Love beyond ourselves—when we show kindness, offer a helping hand, or simply hold space for others—we contribute to the healing of the collective spirit. The ripple effect of Love is powerful: one act of Love can inspire countless others.

    By embodying Love in our daily actions, we not only heal ourselves but also help to heal the world around us. Love has the power to break down barriers, mend broken hearts, and restore balance to a planet in need of deep healing.

    6. Love as a Spiritual Practice

    For those of us on a spiritual journey, Love is the cornerstone of our practice. Whether we are meditating, praying, or simply being mindful, Love is the energy that connects us to the divine. It reminds us that we are all interconnected, all part of the same sacred web of life.

    Through spiritual practices we can cultivate Love as a healing force in our lives. By sending Love to ourselves, our loved ones, and even those we find difficult to Love, we participate in the flow of healing energy that transforms both our inner and outer worlds.

    7. Opening Your Heart to the Healing Power of Love

    Healing through Love requires us to open our hearts, even when it feels vulnerable or scary. It asks us to trust that Love is always present, even in moments of pain or uncertainty. When we open ourselves to Love, we allow the universe to work through us, guiding us toward our highest good.

    So how can you open your heart to Love’s healing power? Here are a few practices:

    • Practice Self-Compassion: When you feel overwhelmed, speak to yourself kindly, as if you were comforting a dear friend.
    • Express Gratitude: Focus on the people, experiences, and moments that bring Love into your life. Gratitude helps cultivate a loving heart.
    • Connect Deeply with Others: Spend time with loved ones, listen deeply, and offer your love without expectation.
    • Cultivate a Loving Mindset: See challenges as opportunities for Love to grow. Approach difficulties with compassion rather than fear.
    • Meditate on Love: Practice sending love to yourself and others in your meditation. Visualize healing light surrounding you and those you Love.
    • Read a Love Poem. I have a few of those.

    In Closing: Love as Medicine for the Soul

    At the core of every spiritual journey is Love. It is the force that guides us home, heals our deepest wounds, and reminds us of our divine nature. Whether we are healing ourselves or helping others, Love is the medicine that nourishes the soul.

    In a world that often seems broken, Love offers hope. Love shows us that healing is not only possible, but it is our birthright. So, let’s walk this path together, sharing Love, offering kindness, and trusting that through Love, we will all heal.

    How do you use Love in your healing or spiritual journey?

    With Love,

  • Smile Challenge: My Love Life Upgraded

    Dear Lovestar,

    It appears I did not know the power of smiling in relationship to Love.

    Since I started willing myself to smile as a challenge, I did not that joy was coming as a result of my smiling.

    Things simply turned around for me and everything became better.

    Now whenever I remember, I smile and smiling at my beloved is easiest. Whenever I look at him and smile he smiles or holds me and things just get better.

    The Surprising Power of a Smile: How I Rediscovered Joy in Love

    You know how sometimes you stumble upon something so simple yet so powerful that it feels like magic? Well, that happened to me recently when I discovered the power of smiling in my relationship. It all started as a little challenge to myself—a fun experiment, really. I decided to start smiling more, just to see what would happen. I never expected it to transform my life and my love so profoundly.

    The Challenge: Smile More

    It sounds almost too easy, right? Just smile more. But trust me, there’s something magical about it. I had read somewhere that smiling can trick your brain into feeling happier, even when you’re not particularly in the mood. So, I thought, why not give it a shot? Whenever I caught myself in a neutral or pensive mood, I’d remind myself to smile. It wasn’t forced; it was more like a gentle nudge to myself to find the little joys in the moment.

    The Unexpected Results: Joy Sneaking In

    Here’s the thing: I didn’t realize how quickly and dramatically things would change. At first, it felt a bit strange, like I was just going through the motions. But then, something incredible happened. As I smiled, joy started creeping into my life in the most delightful ways. It was as if my smile was a signal to the universe that I was open to happiness, and it responded generously.

    Love and Smiles: A Perfect Pair

    But the best part? The impact it had on my relationship. Smiling at my beloved became the easiest and most natural thing in the world. Every time I looked at him and smiled, I noticed a spark in his eyes—a mirror of the joy I was feeling. He’d smile back, or sometimes he’d just pull me into a warm embrace, and in those moments, everything felt perfect.

    It was as if my smile was a secret key that unlocked a deeper connection between us. We communicated more with our eyes and smiles than with words, and it brought us closer than ever. The little annoyances and stresses of daily life seemed to melt away whenever we shared a smile.

    The Takeaway: Smile, and the World Smiles Back

    Now, whenever I remember, I smile. It’s become a habit, a way of life, and it’s made everything better. I’ve learned that a smile is more than just an expression; it’s a powerful tool for cultivating joy, love, and connection. It’s a way to invite happiness into your life and to share it with those you love.

    So, if you’re ever feeling down or disconnected, try it out. Just smile. Smile at yourself, smile at the world, and especially smile at the ones you love. You might be surprised at how much brighter and sweeter life becomes.

    Smiling is simple, but its effects are profound. And the best part? It’s contagious. So go ahead—start smiling and watch as the world smiles back at you.

  • Love you always. Poetry of the most romantic kind

    Dear Lovestar,

    The most romantic will love sex magick, click to read more
    Newest English poem. If you speak Spanish, I just wrote a gem in Spanish!
    Not new. The title was flagged as sensitive 🥺 😂 🤣
    This is an old poem and one of the very few I learned. Maybe because of its power and meaning.

    Eve

  • Promote Love, Connection, and Union with these tips

    Dear Lovestar,

    Twin Flame sex magick through here

    Here are some relatively easy steps to promote love, connection, and union in a relationship:

    1. Communication: Foster open and honest communication. Share your thoughts, feelings, and desires openly with your partner.
    2. Active Listening: Practice active listening skills. Show genuine interest in what your partner is saying without interrupting or planning your response.
    3. Quality Time: Make time for each other regularly. Schedule dates or activities that you both enjoy to strengthen your bond.
    4. Express Appreciation: Show gratitude and appreciation for your partner’s efforts, both big and small. Acknowledge and celebrate each other’s strengths and qualities.
    5. Physical Touch: Physical affection, such as hugs, kisses, and hand-holding, helps maintain intimacy and connection.
    6. Support Each Other’s Goals: Encourage and support each other’s personal and professional goals. Be each other’s cheerleader.
    7. Manage Conflict Constructively: Disagreements are normal. Learn healthy ways to resolve conflicts, such as using “I” statements and avoiding blame.
    8. Shared Interests: Explore and participate in activities or hobbies together. Discovering new things as a couple can deepen your connection.
    9. Surprise Gestures: Surprise your partner with small gestures of kindness or thoughtfulness. It could be as simple as leaving a sweet note or preparing their favorite meal.
    10. Laugh Together: Find humor in everyday situations and share laughter. It lightens the mood and strengthens your emotional connection.
    11. Respect Boundaries: Respect each other’s boundaries and individual space. It’s important to maintain a sense of independence within the relationship.
    12. Plan for the Future: Discuss your dreams, aspirations, and future plans together. It helps align your goals and build a shared vision.
    13. Celebrate Milestones: Celebrate important milestones in your relationship, such as anniversaries or achievements, to cherish your journey together.
    14. Stay Positive: Focus on the positive aspects of your relationship and express optimism about your future together.
    15. Seek Help When Needed: If challenges arise that you can’t resolve on your own, consider seeking guidance from a therapist or counselor. Professional support can strengthen your bond.

    By incorporating these steps into your relationship, you can nurture love, connection, and union with your partner.

    Tell me if this helped,

    Eve

  • The Romance Levels Quiz

    Dear Lovestar,

    I created The Romance Level Quiz to help readers understand their romantic inclinations. I might consider creating a quiz to shed light on your partner’s romantic level.

    Why take my quiz

    Taking the “Determine your Romantic Level” quiz can be a valuable and enlightening experience for readers for several reasons:

    1. **Self-Reflection:** By exploring your romantic inclinations through the quiz, you can gain insight into your own attitudes and behaviors towards romance. Understanding your romantic level can help you better understand yourself and your relationship preferences.

    2. **Relationship Awareness:** Learning about different romance levels can increase your awareness of the various ways people approach romantic relationships. This knowledge can help you understand your partner better and navigate relationships more effectively.

    3. **Personal Growth:** Exploring the different romance levels and their associated characteristics can serve as a catalyst for personal growth and development. You may identify areas where you want to cultivate more romance in your life or learn how to strike a balance between romance and practicality.


    4. **Relationship Enhancement:** Armed with a deeper understanding of your own romantic level and the different approaches to romance, you can work towards enhancing your relationship. You can use the insights gained from my quiz to communicate your needs and desires more effectively and create a more fulfilling romantic connection with your partner.

    5. **Educational Resources:** I intend to develop informative and educational resources for each romance level that will provide you with valuable insights and practical tips for enhancing your love life and improving your romantic relationships. These resources can cover topics such as communication skills, romantic gestures, maintaining intimacy, and navigating relationship challenges. Ask for help in the comments.

    Overall, taking the quiz and exploring the different romance levels can be a steppingstone towards personal growth, relationship enhancement, and a deeper understanding of romance and love.

    If you have not taken the quiz yet, click on this link and find out your romance level and what it means about you.

    The romance level quiz. I am an Eternal Flame & my lover is a Heart Harmony romantic.
    Take my Romance Level Quiz and find out your level

    Resources and tools for the different romance levels I’ve created so far:

    Scorpio poetry. The secret romantic feels deep. Romance Levels Quiz
    Heart Harmony romantic poetry and how I got his attention as an Eternal Flame Romantic 🔥

  • The romance level quiz. I am an Eternal Flame & my lover is a Heart Harmony romantic.

    Dear Lovestar,

    The Romance Level Quiz by Eve Lovestar

    I created this quiz to help you determine your romantic level 😉. I have identified 3 levels of romantics:

    1. The extreme romantic: The Eternal Flame romantics: We breathe and eat romance. 46 to 60 points
    2. The secret romantic: Heart’s Harmony romantics: They think romance but don’t talk it. 26 to 45 points
    3. The least romantic: Calm Waters romantics: Are they even romantic? 12 to 25 points

    Why take my quiz

    Understand your partner better and understand how much romance they can handle. Get inspired.

    With an understanding of your own romantic level versus your partner, you can work towards enhancing your relationship. You can use the insights gained from my quiz to communicate your needs and desires more effectively and create a more fulfilling romantic connection with your partner.

    I intend to develop informative and educational resources for each romance level that will provide you practical tips for enhancing your love life. These resources will cover topics such as communication skills, romantic gestures, maintaining intimacy, and navigating relationship challenges. Ask for help in the comments.

    Overall, taking the quiz and exploring the different romance levels can be a steppingstone towards personal growth, relationship enhancement, and a deeper understanding of romance and love.

    Take this quiz and figure out how romantic you are ❤️ 😍 💖


    1. If you are in a garden for an event, what’s your first thought?
       a) The flowers are beautiful and may remind you of someone special. You enjoy their beauty, take pictures, and even smell them.
       b) “Flowers are nice, but they’re just plants.” You don’t care if you are a garden or not.
       c) You do not like flowers. You avoid them, make sure nobody takes pictures of you at the garden, and leave as soon as possible.

    2. You’re walking in the rain with someone you care about. What crosses your mind?
       a) “This is so romantic, like a scene from a movie.” You imagine yourself dancing in the rain. You slow down and enjoy the experience.
       b) “I hope we don’t get too wet and wish you had an umbrella.” You walk faster.
       c) “I do not like the rain. My hair is wet. ” You might get upset or run to safety.  


    3. What’s your reaction when you see someone reading a love poem in public?
       a) “How beautiful! I wish I could express myself like that.” You stop and listen, maybe record them and tip them. Tears may appear if you resonate with the poem.
       b) “That’s a bit cheesy for my taste.” You ignore it and continue on your way.
       c) “I wonder if they’re doing that for attention.” You shake your head, and you might judge them.

    4. Imagine you receive a heartfelt handwritten letter. How do you feel?
       a) Warmth and appreciation, it’s such a thoughtful gesture. You feel special and save the letter for as long as possible.
       b) It’s nice, but an email would have been quicker. How much time did they spend on this? You might feel obligated to keep it for a while but eventually might lose it.
       c) Mild surprise, handwritten letters are rare these days. This much work for something going in the trash! You might not even complete reading it. If it’s cutesy, you will roll your eyes.

    5. How do you feel about stargazing with a romantic partner?
       a) It’s incredibly romantic, a chance to connect under the vast night sky. I’d hold hands and slowly lean into them. Eventually, we’d share a kiss, and an I love you.
       b) It sounds okay, but I’m not sure it’s worth the effort. I would rather stay in and watch a movie or even do the dishes, which sounds like a better use of our time.
       c) Will there be bugs? Eww. Let’s not.

    6. What’s your reaction to witnessing a marriage proposal in a public place?
       a) “How magical! I hope they have a lifetime of happiness.” You take pictures, congratulate them, and tell everyone on social media.
       b) “That’s a bit too public for my taste.” You look away and try to ignore it.
       c) “I wonder if they planned this just for social media.” You think they will not last together.

    7. How do you feel about cuddling while watching a movie?
       a) It’s the perfect way to feel close and connected and the only way to watch a movie. I watch movies just to cuddle.
       b) It’s okay, but sometimes I get uncomfortable. Or it will lead to more.
       c) I prefer to sit apart and focus on the movie. This is movie time. Cuddle time is always tomorrow.

    8. What’s your ideal way to spend Valentine’s Day?
       a) A romantic dinner followed by a moonlit walk. Home-cooked meals, red dresses, poetry performances, romantic music, and special gifts. Every year is different!
       b) It’s just another day, nothing special. We will enjoy some intimate moments, that’s all!
       c) I make the point of doing nothing romantic on that day. I also don’t know the date it’s celebrated on. I also never do anything romantic…

    9. You receive an unexpected gift from someone you’re dating. How do you react?
       a) With genuine delight and gratitude. I immediately thank them, and they know I loved it!
       b) It’s nice, but I’m not sure how to respond. They might not know if I liked their gift.
       c) I feel a bit awkward and unsure if I should reciprocate. I don’t like them as much anymore. They might be trying too hard. I avoid them. They might think I don’t like their gift but they should know I don’t do gifts this soon!

    10. How do you feel about love songs?
       a) They’re incredibly moving and resonate with my emotions. I listen to as many love songs as possible. I’m much more romantic than most romantic songs! I should be a songwriter.
       b) They’re okay, but I don’t pay much attention to them. Music is music.
       c) They can be cheesy and over-the-top. I prefer any non romantic songs. Romance is for little girls!

    11. Read and react to the following poem:

    “Soulmates” poem by Eve

      a) “This poem describes how I feel or how I want to feel. If I have not found my person yet, I have faith that I’ll meet them at the perfect time.” (chosen by liz)
      b) “I do not resonate with this poem! Soulmates do not exist, and if they did, we would all know by now.”
      c) “This poem is so cheesy.” It really sounds ridiculous 🙄 😒 😐…. getting off this blog ASAP!

    12. Which quote resonates with you?
       a) “Our Love is written in the stars”
       b) “The depth of our Love is our greatest secret”
       c) “Our love is our safe space where we can be ourselves and not be judged for it”



    Reflect on your answers.

    What is your romantic level?

    Rate your answers by assigning points:

    – Option a) Add 5 points
    – Option b) Add 3 points
    – Option c) Add 1 point

    Tally up the total points to determine your romantic inclinations.

    THE ROMANCE LEVELS

    46 to 60 points: The Eternal Flame: Most intense romantic. We believe in twin flames/ soulmates and fall in love at first sight.

    The Eternal Flame is the most romantic level. Individuals in this category have the highest degree of romantic inclination and experience a deep and everlasting passion for romance. It implies a strong and enduring connection to romantic ideals and gestures.

    Individuals who fit into the “Eternal Flame” category are deeply passionate about romance and love. They often prioritize emotional connection and intimacy in their relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:

    1. **Hopeless Romantics:** They believe in the power of love and often express themselves through grand gestures and heartfelt expressions of affection.

    2. **Emotionally Invested:** They are deeply invested in their relationships, cherishing every moment and valuing the emotional bond they share with their partner.

    3. **Creative and Thoughtful:** They constantly strive to surprise and delight their partners with thoughtful gestures, whether it’s writing love letters, planning romantic getaways, or creating personalized gifts.

    4. **Sensitive to Beauty:** They appreciate the beauty in the world around them, finding inspiration in nature, art, and music, which they often incorporate into their romantic gestures.

    5. **Believers in Destiny:** They may believe in soulmates or the idea that certain people are destined to be together, which fuels their passion and commitment to finding and nurturing love.

    Overall, individuals in the “Eternal Flame” category are guided by their unwavering belief in the transformative power of love and their dedication to keeping the flame of romance burning bright in their lives.

    26 to 45 points: Heart’s Harmony: The Secret Romantic. They think it but don’t speak romance

    For the second romance level, let’s consider an option that reflects a moderate level of romantic inclination, perhaps something like “Heart’s Harmony.” This name suggests a balance between romance and practicality, where individuals appreciate love and connection but may not necessarily embody the intense passion of the “Eternal Flame” category.

    Individuals who fit into the “Heart’s Harmony” category strike a balance between romance and practicality in their approach to relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:

    1. Balanced Approach: They value romance and emotional connection in their relationships but also recognize the importance of practical considerations and maintaining a sense of balance in their lives.
    2. Thoughtful and Considerate: They express their affection for their partners through meaningful gestures and acts of kindness, such as remembering important dates, offering support during difficult times, and showing appreciation for their partner’s efforts.
    3. Communication Skills: They prioritize open and honest communication in their relationships, seeking to understand their partner’s needs and concerns while also expressing their own thoughts and feelings effectively.
    4. Adaptability: They are flexible and adaptable in their approach to romance, recognizing that relationships require compromise and adjustment to navigate the ups and downs of life together.
    5. Appreciation for the Little Things: They find joy and fulfillment in the everyday moments shared with their partner, whether it’s cooking dinner together, taking walks, or simply enjoying each other’s company.

    Overall, individuals in the “Heart’s Harmony” category cultivate a relationship environment where love and practicality coexist, fostering a sense of mutual respect, understanding, and contentment in their romantic lives.

    46 to 60 points: Calm Waters: Most likely to not take this quiz. Are they even romantic?

    For the lowest level name, we want to convey an absence or minimal presence of romantic inclination. How about “Calm Waters”? This name suggests a serene and tranquil state, where romantic feelings may exist but are subdued or infrequent.

    Individuals who fit into the “Calm Waters” category tend to have a more reserved or subdued approach to romance. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:

    1. Pragmatic Outlook: They tend to approach relationships with a practical mindset, focusing on practicalities rather than grand gestures or intense displays of affection.
    2. Independence: They value their independence and may prioritize personal pursuits and interests over romantic relationships.
    3. Reserved Expression of Affection: While they may experience romantic feelings, they may not express them openly or frequently, preferring to keep their emotions private.
    4. Preference for Stability: They seek stability and predictability in their relationships, valuing a sense of calm and tranquility over excitement or passion.
    5. Contentment with Solitude: They are comfortable spending time alone and may not feel a strong need for constant companionship or romantic involvement.

    Overall, individuals in the “Calm Waters” category may appreciate romance in a more subdued or understated manner, finding contentment in the quiet moments and subtle gestures of connection within their relationships.

    This was fun!

    According to my “research,” I’m as romantic as it gets! If someone is as romantic as me, let me know please, let’s be friends

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