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Tag: I’m a romantic

  • Romance (1). How I meet my unmet need for romance. Intro

    Dear Lovestar,

    I am feeling so romantic today! I want to lounge on the couch with my lover. I want to kiss and be kissed so gently. I want a warm embrace, and I want to make love under a full moon.

    I want to receive a love letter. I want someone to dedicate me a song. I want to receive a poem.

    I want to dance around in a red ruffle dress. I want to wear a flower or my already romantically long hair. I want pearls on my neck.

    This is starting to sound like a poem…

    I want to hold hands. I want to look into someone’s eyes and discover their soul. I want to feel even deeper.

    That is why I come online and talk to you. Thank you, fellow romantic, for receiving my bold yet humble gift of romance.

    Romance is an unmet need that I have. My lover is not romantic like that. He accepts attention, but he’s a stoic…

    I’m guessing that lots of humans have an unmet need around romance, and I have a solution.

    You be romantic!

    I’m feeling romantic, so I did this:

    • I went for a little walk in the park
    • I let my hair down and felt cute
    • I went under the sun
    • I took pictures of bugs I shared with my lover, and we talked about them
    • I sat against my favorite tree, which I’ve blogged about before in the clean-up of the park post I shared
    • I took pictures of myself on this tree
    • I sent my lover’s the pictures
    • I shared a joke with him
    • And I talked to you. Thank you for listening
    We believe it’s the spotless lady beetle
    Oh, I should have smiled. No worries, I am smiling now. šŸ˜Š
    I am not taking my shoes off here, but oh how I wish I was in my private garden. 
    My best friend, the tree, is such a romantic! We’re perfect for each other.

    I have decided to romance myself and to share my gift of romance with other romantics.

    In other words, Scorpio, my dear partner, doesn’t have to change to meet my need! I’ll meet my own romantic need. He does meet my Love and certainly lovemaking needs. Also, my friendship and conversation needs.

    I am not blaming my beloved Scorpio for not being a romantic, and I understand him for it 100 percent. He is but a victim of this cruel world.

    The problem is not the individual people who are not romantic. The problem is the setting we’re playing in.

    This is a huge topic for me. To not bore you, I’ll continue on another post.

    Are you a romantic, too?

    How do you meet your need for romance?

    Is your person a romantic?

    With love and light,

    Eve, creating tools to satisfy my hunger for romance.