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  • How to Write a Gratitude Letter to a Beloved Partner and Will my lover like one? How to appreciate without smothering


    (For the Living, the Departed, and the One You’re Calling In This Thanksgiving)

    In a world overflowing with fleeting texts and hurried conversations, a gratitude letter is a gift of presence. It is a moment of pause. A soulful acknowledgment of love. A devotion in ink.

    As we approach Thanksgiving, a season rooted in reflection, appreciation, and communal warmth, writing a gratitude letter to your beloved can become a transformative ritual. Whether your love is beside you, in spirit beyond this world, or still on their way into your life… this letter is a sacred offering.

    My tip for your letter being welcomed? Write it in their language. Let us discuss this.

    Below, you’ll find structure, inspiration, and gentle instructions for creating a gratitude letter tailored to where your heart is right now.

    ☆☆☆

    Why a Gratitude Letter?

    Because love deserves language.
    Because feelings deserve form.
    Because gratitude deepens connection.

    Gratitude doesn’t have to be emotional. The idea is finding the things we are truly grateful for, not being demanding or manipulating through false gratitude.

    A gratitude letter:

    strengthens intimacy

    softens vulnerabilities

    heals emotional distance

    honors memory

    invites future love into existence


    It is prayer and poetry combined.

    it creates more of what you appreciate.

    ☆☆☆

    How to Begin

    Before you write… Create a moment.

    Light a candle
    Pour tea or wine
    Sit somewhere comfortable
    Slow your breathing

    And ask yourself:

    What have they given me, emotionally, spiritually, and experientially, that changed me for the better? Then feel good about what you find.

    You’re ready.

    ☆☆☆

    Structure of a Gratitude Letter

    You can follow this simple flow:

    1. Opening & Address
    Speak to them by name or with a term of endearment.

    2. Acknowledgment of Presence
    Where are you in life, emotionally? Where are they in relation to you?

    3. Thank you for…
    List specific things. Not generic. Specific.

    4. Memory or Moment
    Recall a detail or shared experience.

    5. The way they changed you:
    Describe the shift in your heart or your worldview.

    6. What you wish for them
    Blessings, intentions, love but only mention things you know they would appreciate.

    7. Closing sentiment
    Something personal.

    ☆☆☆

    If Your Partner is With You Now

    Write to them directly.

    Focus on:

    small kindnesses

    humor shared

    resilience

    growth together

    the mundane beauty

    the extraordinary tenderness


    Example starters:

    Thank you for the way you look at me when I’m tired…

    Thank you for choosing me, again and again…

    I love how safe I feel with you…


    Tell them what you appreciate that you rarely say.

    ☆☆☆

    If Your Beloved Has Passed Away ☆ sorry for your loss, and may you feel their presence through your gratitude. 🙏

    This is sacred ground.

    Writing to a departed love is a form of grief alchemy.

    You can:

    thank them for the life you shared

    reflect on lessons that remain alive in you

    acknowledge the pain of their absence

    celebrate the eternal nature of your connection

    express what you never got to say


    Example starters:

    I miss how your laughter filled the room…

    Your love made me braver…

    Thank you for the years that shaped me…

    I carry you in every sunrise and every quiet night…


    This letter becomes: honor + remembrance + healing. This is a ritual and may assist in healing. You will cry, focus on healing. You may place this letter in your Union Altar.

    ☆☆☆

    If You’re Writing to a Future Partner

    This is manifestation work.

    A gratitude letter for the partner who has not yet arrived is one of the most powerful tools for intentional love.

    Write as if they already exist. As if they are already on their way.

    Thank them as though they are already loving you beautifully.

    Example starters:

    Thank you for choosing me with your heart wide open…

    Thank you for the laughter we will share…

    Thank you for being the partner I prayed for…

    Thank you for cherishing my soul…


    This creates:

    energetic alignment

    emotional clarity

    subconscious preparation

    spiritual invitation


    A love letter as spellwork.

    ☆☆☆

    For Thanksgiving

    Here are prompts you can include:

    Write about…

    the love you have received this year

    the lessons love taught you

    how love expanded you

    how you have grown in giving love

    what you are grateful love will bring next


    Add a blessing, like: May warmth find us always.
    May love light the way forward.
    May gratitude multiply what we cherish.

    ☆☆☆

    End With a Ritual

    After you finish the letter:

    fold it carefully

    press it to your heart

    whisper a blessing

    store it in a special place
    or
    read it aloud to your partner
    or
    leave it under your pillow


    Our words become altars.

    ☆☆☆

    A gratitude letter is more than written appreciation.

    It is: a mirror of the heart,
    a celebration of love,
    a bridge between worlds, past, present, and future.

    May this Thanksgiving bring you warmth, memory, and beautiful expectation.
    May love find you wherever you are.

    Thank you for reading,

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    Talk again soon,

    Eve

  • Low vibe fem to divine feminine

    Hello 👋 🫂 👋 and welcome to my public journal,

    Dear younger Eve,

    I apologize for having let you down.

    I love you deeply and you are loved by many. You too are able to love.

    With the utmost respect, please be informed that your heart was not just guarded, your heart was broken, and therefore you were unable to love. Don’t fear, this is for your protection as you are vulnerable.

    You heal.

    Embracing the Journey: Steps to Becoming a Healthy Feminine

    Embarking on the path to a healthy, empowered version of yourself is a profound and transformative journey. Here are some steps to guide you along the way:

    1. Acknowledge and Heal: Start by recognizing and accepting the wounds of the past. Allow yourself to feel and process these emotions without judgment. Healing begins with understanding and embracing your pain.
    2. Self-Compassion: Practice self-compassion by treating yourself with kindness and understanding. Replace self-criticism with supportive self-talk and affirmations that nurture your self-worth.
    3. Set Boundaries: Learn to set healthy boundaries in relationships and environments. Protect your emotional and physical well-being by defining what is acceptable and what is not.
    4. Embrace Vulnerability: Allow yourself to be vulnerable. Sharing your true self and expressing your needs and desires can foster deeper connections and personal growth.
    5. Cultivate Self-Love: Engage in activities that promote self-love and self-care. This could include journaling, meditating, exercising, or indulging in hobbies that bring you joy.
    6. Seek Support: Surround yourself with a supportive community. Whether it’s friends, mentors, or a therapist, having a network of understanding individuals can aid in your healing process.
    7. Reconnect with Your Feminine Energy: Explore practices that help you reconnect with your feminine energy. This might include creative pursuits, nurturing activities, or embracing your intuition.
    8. Empower Yourself: Set goals and take steps toward personal empowerment. Embrace your strengths, talents, and passions, and use them to create a life that aligns with your values and aspirations.
    9. Practice Gratitude: Cultivate a gratitude practice to shift your focus from what is lacking to what is present and positive in your life. This can foster a sense of abundance and contentment.
    10. Celebrate Progress: Recognize and celebrate your growth and achievements, no matter how small. Acknowledge your journey and honor the progress you’ve made along the way.

    Remember, the journey to becoming a healthy feminine self is unique to each individual. Be patient with yourself and embrace each step as a valuable part of your transformation.

    With Love,

  • A new dimension of love and lovemaking. Union update ❤️ 😍 💖

    Dear diary,

    ***Update since 5/5/23: that big Scorpio eclipse which coincided with my anniversary to Scorpio ♏️ ***

    Once expectations are dropped and nothing is expected, union manifests. Of course, this statement would be ridiculous applied to a 3D relationship. Of course, in the “real world” (such as the world my parents live in), clear expectations are needed, or they will not be met.

    Lucky for me, I don’t live in the real world. In the world I live in, I don’t have to tie my lover down. He willingly comes to me all the time. My lover doesn’t have to “buy me” or do anything special to earn my affection. I am totally free of charge. I know we live in a broken place, and this is why I want to change the world.

    A new dimension of love ❤️ 😍 💖

    Since my last update, my beloved Scorpio and I have become closer than ever. It was unexpected, really, so I’m sure it was divine timing, and perhaps the energy accelerated due to the eclipse. It really doesn’t matter why, the lovely thing happened and now I’m very grateful.

    I’m not going to give the specifics on what happened, too personal and unnecessary, but change started in my mind. Perhaps also in my beloved’s mind, I didn’t ask… In our conversations around this time, we talked about giving more to our connection. Giving more in a state of gratitude for the continued Love and the increasing depth of our Love.

    Long story short, I felt what I could only explain as a new dimension of love. More specifically, this change manifested as a new dimension in lovemaking.

    A new dimension in lovemaking 😋 😋 😋

    A new dimension in lovemaking is obviously yummy 😋 😜 😊 😉 😀 😍. It’s obvious and undeniable when this happens. This is a real phenomenon and not something that can be made up, not something that can be faked. Both partners feel the shift. The shift is positive, of course.

    This positive shift in lovemaking, which I’m calling a new dimension, is not some magical, otherworldly move to the 5D ( 😆 ). This positive shift is a new level. We all started somewhere, let’s say, at level zero. At different rates and for different reasons, we all leveled up our sex life. I’m not assigning levels to skills. What I speak of is an energetic “feeling” thing, not a theoretical learning thing. I didn’t do anything new, I did have a new intention, and I used the power of gratitude to manifest this shift.

    Manifested, or divine timing?

    If I used gratitude to manifest this shift, did I manifest it, or was it divine timing 🤔? I feel like this question is a lot like What came first, the chicken or the egg? Trying to answer it is a good journaling exercise.

    The shift started in my mind. There was probably plenty of assistance from my lover Scorpio. I feel his fantasies, so what I think (about sex) are not my thoughts at all. They’re at the very least shared thoughts, at most, my thoughts are his thoughts, which sounds dangerous ( 😆 🤣 😂) but I’m tuned into that vibe, so there is no harm. The power of tuning into his desires has been helpful for me because I’m the embarrassed little girl type…

    I don’t believe I manifested this. Though I’m certain that you, the reader, can manifest a higher level of love and a higher level of sex, the experience I write about was not manifested by me, there is a chance that it was manifested by my lover! He is Scorpio, and this shift happened under the influence of the Scorpio eclipse.

    Gratitude manifests a higher love

    My takeaway from this journaling exercise is if something manifested this new dimension of love was my gratitude 🥹 🙏 🙌 for my beloved and his love for me as well as my gratitude for the universe for bringing us together and I feel more and more grateful everyday!

    Today, during the summer solstice, ☀️ 🌞 ☀️ I plan on picking yellow flowers, picking pinecones, drawing suns with my children, and hope to make a fire.

    Thank you for your visit, and I wish you a lovely solstice and cancer season,

    Eve

  • Valentine’s Love Letters save the day.

    Valentine’s Love Letters save the day.

    Dear Lovestars,

    What a terrible day I had today with family drama.

    In my panic, my beloved called. Immediately, I felt relaxed and protected,  like surrounded by an angel even though he’s many thousands of miles away, and he could not physically help me. But his good vibes made me feel safe.

    When I started writing about my trauma over my family’s situation, I deleted a post I wanted to share with you, but I was kind of embarrassed and on a different,  much lower vibe and didn’t share the lovey post. It was called Valentine’s Love Letters and on it I was going yo tell you while I was away from my beloved on Valentine’s, I jokingly said I would write him a Love letter. Then I decided I would and I sent him 3. 

    I ended up writing 3 letters, which I took pictures of to share with you. I inserted a rose petal in each and put a drop of my signature doTERRA oils on each letter as pictured below.

    I deleted the post when I fell into a depression and started writing about my trauma. But then, as the situation worsened, my beloved called to raise my vibe. This is why I believe in twin flames.

    He asked if I only sent him 3 letters. I said yes, and why did he ask. He said he didn’t want to miss one because they were what he really needed to hear, and they went right to his heart. I was so touched that I cried. I shared my last letter with him, the gratitude Love letter I share last on this post. One I have not sent him yet, but I’ll deliver to him personally since I’m finally going home!

    Valentine’s Love Letter
    Sexy and Romantic Valentine’s Love Letter
    10 Things I Love Most About You Love Letter
    10 Things I Love Most About You Love Letter
    Gratitude Love Letter
    Gratitude Love Letter

    I wrote these letters in the middle of the night. I wrote at 2, 3, 4 in the morning.  I wrote while my head rested on my pillow, and  my penmanship really suffered. I was so embarrassed about the look of my letters that I considered not sending them to him. I was embarrassed to show them to you because of how really ugly they look. I thought my beloved might get offended that I’d send him such poor work, and I was concerned that I could have done so much better. 

    Yet, I overcame my embarrassment, and I sent the letters anyway. The letters touched his heart. Since I’ve been away for such a long time, he was feeling alone and even doubtful, and it just so happened that I answered his questions with my letters.

    I hope you enjoyed this lighthearted post and that you feel inspired to share your love with your beloved also.

    With much Love,

    Eve

  • Gratitude Journal

    Dear friend,

    As high intentions as I had for the 222 portal, I have let my heart become quite close. I now am going through the “side effects” of this closing of my heart chakra.

    I talk plenty of my powerful and miraculous heart chakra healing in 2020 with spirit and I thought that my heart was healed after that but now I’ve come to the realization that this is forever ongoing work for me as I close my heart off myself and then deal with much pain.

    This comes not at the best time as I’m going into labor any time now, which is really exciting for me and I’m putting all my energy into labor and bringing this baby into the world but I must be at my best for the birth experience to be the best.

    As I realized today (technically yesterday because it’s past midnight) that I have yet again closed my heart, I immediately turned to meditation and hypnosis, searching for a heart chakra opening hypnosis. I found a great one by Joe Tracy (linked 👇), the first time I did it, I fell asleep enjoying a tiny relaxation as my ego has taken over (I let it get so bad). Woke up and did it a second time and still it was extremely difficult to get out of my mind but I can’t go back to sleep. I’ll talk about this more friends, just in case my experience might benefit someone. At the end of the meditation Joe encouraged keeping a gratitude journal to help the heart open. So here I am, working on my healing. It’s super benefits right now as I’m finding it hard to even be grateful.

    https://youtu.be/VTYc8eLNJ-g

    Things I’m grateful for right now

    • The baby about to be born out of me
    • My children growing and becoming quite helpful
    • My midwife (not going to the hospital) who comes see me at home
    • My mom who showers me with love and gifts and her coming to visit for new baby
    • My birthday coming in 1 week
    • I just talked to both my sister and brother, it had been a while and my brother will be coming to visit soon
    • Grateful much for my health and my children’s health
    • Very grateful for nesting
    • So so grateful for all the DIY projects I’ve finished and I’m working on (if interested in this see my other new blog)
    • Grateful grateful grateful it’s Pisces season
    • So very grateful I can see the Pleiades and Sirius star in the early night sky
    • Grateful for the new moon and a new beginning for me
    • Grateful for this blog so I don’t have to actually get a journal
    • Grateful for spirit always supporting me through signs and synchronicities and letting me know what I need to work on for my healing
    • Grateful for YouTube free meditations and hypnosis
    • Grateful for YouTube hypno birthing and doula videos
    • Grateful for the rushes of energy I get here and there
    • Grateful for my doTERRA oils that just came in the mail today

    In the end, I realize I have so much to be grateful for! God bless all of you reading and may you feel grateful about your life and situation no matter what you’re going through.

    Thank you for being here,

    Eve

  • Gratitude Challenge. What I’m grateful for

    There’s so much to be grateful for this season! This has been an amazing time and I’ve been very blessed!

    I’m grateful for my mom and her skills. Check out the lovely clothes she’s made for my new baby, due in 2022!

    Handmade Crochet baby clothes

    I’m also super grateful for the outfits she made for my 3 older girls!

    Handmade Crochet matching outfits

    And I’m so grateful for my mom’s generosity! She sent the 3 big girls beautiful dresses for Christmas 🎄

    And yes, she sent Christmas presents for all the children and myself. She sent me a sewing machine, which I’m already using. I’m so grateful for all of this.

    I’m very grateful for my mother in law’s generosity. She wanted to send us a gift card so we asked for our favorite store for the children, so we took them shopping for the clothes they wanted and needed! Always my favorite present.

    I’m very grateful for my health and that the baby in my tummy is healthy as well. I’m feeling my best at 6 months pregnant!

    I’m grateful for my new podcast Twin Flame Lovestars which is about 2 weeks old and I love to podcast so much! Check it out!  https://anchor.fm/eve520

    I’m very grateful that the school semester ended and my children doing really well on their tests (if you wonder, they’re in K12 online school). I’m also grateful that they have school online so they don’t need to go to a masked school or be asked to vax!

    I’m very grateful for my oldest daughter growing up. Yes, I like babies and toddlers but I love having conversations with the  big girl. She suddenly wants to be real clean and make her bedroom much better. I offered to remove the 2 young girls who, well, make huge messes in the bedroom but she doesn’t feel right about kicking her younger messier sister out of her bedroom, she’s just sweet 🧁

    I’m very grateful for my 2 oldest daughters getting into writing. My oldest just wrote a children’s story (link below) and the second wrote a poem in school! I’m very proud and love the fact they love to share!

    Children poem written by a child

    I’m also grateful that they want to have their own channels, so I started both my oldest girls on Rumble.

    I’m really grateful for finding a midwife who can come to my house for my baby’s delivery. Her service seems divine and I cried talking to her for the first time. I have to still tie some loose ends but I’m most excited to have the birth experience of my dreams!

    Talking about mom again, I’m so so grateful for her! She gifted us a Christmas tree, we’re grateful for the tree! I’m grateful for having lots of energy this holiday season, we have decorated and made DIY decorations. I’ve been sleeping little…

    I’m very grateful for all of you that have visited me this week and the fact that I had many more readers on my blog. Grateful that suddenly I want to blog so much more and I’m so creative.

    I made beautiful napkins in red as part of my Christmas decorations, they’re so pretty. Today I watched my toddler boy get a small napkin and put his bowl of food on top. It was the cutest thing! I’m very grateful for my hands and their abilities and my inspiration.

    Talking about the sewing machine, I’m so grateful to have it that I didn’t waste any time. I made a dress and skirt so far as Christmas presents and a lovely holiday dress for myself, planning on making a shirt as a Christmas present also and intend to never stop.

    My twin flame and I are very grateful for manifestations of wealth coming to us at the moment.

    I’m very grateful for my new transition glasses, loving them

    I’m super grateful that it has been raining. We don’t get snow but when it snows up North, we get rain.

    So grateful for my mom, the best gift giver. She even knows what to gift my twin flame. She made these booties for my baby.

    Crochet Unicorn Baby Booties
    Crochet Unicorn Baby Booties
    Crochet Unicorn Baby Booties

    And dear reader, I’m most grateful for you. Have a blessed day and an awesome holiday.

    Check out my Rumble videos https://rumble.com/vr5koi-oracle-cards-journey-to-the-goddess-realm.html

    Also follow me on Telegram

    Twin Flame Lovestars
    Twin Flame inspiration and insights.
    https://t.me/twinflamelovestar

    With much Love,

    Eve

  • Spiritual poetry by Eve Lovestar video.

    Spiritual poetry by Eve Lovestar video.

    Dear friend,

    I have been podcasting spiritual poems and decided to create a video about it. On here I read “Blessings Sent” and the quote “Manifest through gratitude”. Please use these poems as you wish, I only ask that you don’t edit them. On this video I show you the Yule/ winter solstice yellow dress I made and my huge pregnant belly.

    Blessed sent spiritual poem by Eve Lovestar
    Manifest through gratitude spiritual quote by Eve Lovestar

    I speak about both on the video. For the twin flame inspo regarding these 2 poems, wait for my podcast episode coming tonight.

    Thanks for your support, 💖

    With Love,

    Eve

  • I manifest what I’m grateful for. Gratitude challenge.

    I manifest what I’m grateful for. Gratitude challenge.

    I found myself in the presence of an older lady yesterday, I was telling her about my recent loss experience, she was encouraging. There was a sign on her wall though which really inspired me and I thought that’s exactly what I was there for. It was about gratitude.

    “What if you wake up tomorrow with only the things you were grateful for today?”

    I was super moved by this quote and was inspired to be even more grateful

    So I decided to continue with my gratitude challenge and this sign must have been the sign for me.

    What I’m grateful for today:

    • My twin flame connection. When I think of him, I think how could I be so asleep to take him for granted? He’s the best soul and the only one for me. Being without him would not work out.
    • My children.
    • My house, my car, my wealth
    • My garden
    • I’m very grateful for you reading this also, thanks for being here.
    • My garden: did you see my blooming sunflower 🌻?
    • Arts and crafts, I finished a crochet blanket for my toddler while I was going through the miscarriage
    • I’m grateful for friends who send me sweet texts and say sweet things, I’m grateful for presents and long talks.
    • I’m grateful for poetry and inspiration coming back.
    • What are you grateful for?
    Manifest through gratitude poem by Eve Lovestar

  • Moldavites love flowers, take them for a spring flower hike

    Moldavite pendant
    Moldavites like to get close and personal with flowers.
    Spring flowers.

    Ever since I started wearing my 2 moldavite rings, I have been feeling a desire to hike and be in nature, even in my garden. Since it’s spring, flowers abound! It’s a win win!

    Now I am so grateful for my moldavite pendant, pictured above.

    I’ve been walking a lot, I felt that the moldavites were giving me the energy to walk and when I found myself with my hands in a flowery bush I knew it was no coincidence!

    In my video about Moldavite, linked below, I talked about the moldavites liking the soil. I found myself transplanting a plant and with my rings stuck in the dirt, I wanted to protect the rings and not bury them in soil! So when this happened, so fast, and so naturally, I paused and I understood that the moldavites wanted to be buried in the dirt! The moldavites wanted Earth, so I gave them Earth; the moldavites wanted flowers so I gave them flowers. Now whenever I see my flowers, I let the rings mingle with them. Our relationship (mine with the stones) has been very interesting! And I still have more to share about them too! They have such powerful personalities and I feel they can help me (and maybe you) accomplish the goals we set before, or meet the intentions we set previously, which would mean we also manifest the things we have been working on manifesting. I have noticed this in about 3 weeks of working with them.

    Please support me on Rumble if you’re there. I share twin flame, starseed type of videos, now talking about crystals, and soon to talk about tarot and more as I get comfortable with sharing my personal practices.

    And just to be clear, I was wearing my moldavites when I started grieving (per my recent post), they will not shelter you from pain completely, and they can’t protect you from yourself (my experience) but they will assist you and give you the energy to go on no matter what happens in the outside of you!

    With much love,

    Eve

  • What I’m grateful for today. The time when I fell hard on my face.

    I started writing this post on Sunday, it’s Thursday now… I was unwell then, now I am in the worse predicament of my life. But I will not ever stop seeing the light. The farther I fall, the stronger my come back!

    Today (Sunday) I’m grateful to be alive and mostly well. I’m very grateful for my spiritual and healing tools such as my tarot cards, my crystals, and essential oils. I’m grateful for epsom salts baths, and candles. I’m grateful for prayer and meditation.

    I’m mostly grateful for my children. I’ve spent so much time with them this weekend! Playing with Legos and paper dolls, drawing and coloring paper dolls, gardening, and creating a new garden relax hangout play area.

    Bad news stroke me yesterday, so I had to look at what I do have and be grateful for that. I was pregnant, went to have my first ultrasound and found the baby had no heartbeat. Now I’m expecting a miscarriage. It’s very sad.

    I’m actually grateful that I’m doing as well as I’m doing right now. I have really stay as calm as possible. I have my spiritual team and my tools to thank for how good I’ve done. (Sunday)

    (Thursday) now though, things have escalated. It started with my body being really sad. I could not feel it with my head, only my body felt it. I knew I was sad because my body was showing the symptoms, I was unable to smile or laugh, unable to sing or dance. I was just getting by… I guess I forgot to take care of myself during this crucial time and I just descended as low as I could. Now today’s lowest is not as low as this would have been 5 or gosh, 10 years ago! I’m so much stronger now but I still forget to take care of myself and my needs.

    My connection is safe and strong, I will remain in union. And I will beat all the odds as I always do. Bit I have to dig myself out of a hole I dug. I don’t even know how to talk about this and I don’t know if I will to you, and I don’t want to bother you with my issues.

    I will however continue posting as much as I can bear and in fact, I had really fell in love with blogging prior to my bad news on Saturday and so I shall blog as therapy also.

    Love and light to all reading this, thanks for caring,

    Eve