Tag: femininity

  • Polka Dot Dress – A Fashionable Feminine Lejend – Poetry

    Dear Lovestar,

    I finally saw the actual news about the polka dots dress, and I have to say I am a fashion lover but do not actually own a polka dress. I am now wearing a long red dress. I am also Cuban, and you do know Latinas dress up, I am currently dressed up in my own living room. I write a lot about fashion, also. I am loving this topic.

    The news is that this brave lady stood up to ICE looking fabulous, apparently women want to look like her and there is an awfully hateful debate which helps nobody. In this case, the dreadful debate focused on existing hate for others and not this woman, the news, and definitely, no focus on actions or change.

    For me, this is about the power of femininity, and I bet you that Aphrodite was with her for her to look fabulous in tragedy and Athena was also there for her to be this powerful. We, modern women in safety choose the Aphrodite, she however is Athena’s child, bold, powerful, unafraid, commanding.

    Sending great vibes to this boss, the polka dot lady, I hope she actually loves the polka dot look.

    This lady deserves poetry, also it is the best I can do right now:

    Here is a poem for the Polka Dot Lady:

    In a world that offers ice
    to those left out in the cold,
    in a world where masculinity
    is a law; there are women just like you
    who have the balls that some lack
    in the cutest polka dots.

    Eyes see you and do not understand
    if you were making a stance for peace
    or for fashion’s sake. I see a feminine boss
    who makes the news without guns,
    I see a mother’s warm touch,
    I see a wife and a woman of Love,
    for only Love makes us go against
    the tyrannical world.

    Eve

    Polka Dot Lady

    She knew full well her intentions,
    I assume.
    She went out with persuasion
    in her mind:
    "I go out to make a stand"
    She might have realized,
    though likely she was pissed off
    at the cruel state of the world.

    But how do you make a stance
    in the cold, masculine world?
    Ah, wear a dress, make it look good,
    bring your best jacket to the test,
    do your hair and look your best,
    make a statement with red shoes
    to then go out and put a pig in its place.

    Eve
    This isn't about politics
    for me,
    it isn't about taking sides
    to forever fight,
    I don't want to look like her,
    I only wish to nurture within me
    a tiny fire that might resemble
    her lioness in the streets.
    Inspiration is her power:
    If we think she is the dress,
    we have failed to understand
    femininity.
    This is the rage that I feel
    in a world where justice
    has a birthplace and a cost
    and the rest of us
    we endure, we defend ourselves
    and we request rights
    that apparently were not ours to claim
    at birth.

    Eve
    How may you treat a woman animal
    when she feels hate within her body?
    Bring more force?

    Hers was a reaction
    to the ways of the world and her stand,
    his hands though, are much too close
    to her breasts like she had weapons there.

    Women are not weaker because
    they wear a polka dot dress,
    but yes, if they become the dress.

    Eve
    Watch a woman make a stand.
    This is not new, not at all.
    Women all over the world
    give their lives to deep causes.

    But let us diminish her depth.
    her rough courage, and her strength,
    and reduce her to her looks
    and her polished dress.

    Perhaps she was the lioness
    In the angry, screaming crowd,
    but also, she was best dressed,
    what makes the news is her dress.

    This shows nothing about her:
    it is the public who is shallow,
    watching drama with their popcorn
    and judging women for looks.

    Eve

    Ode to polka dots (before I read the deepness of the news, I saw polka dots trending and wrote about their style)

    On this weekend,
    I shall wear
    A cute polka dot dress,
    My long hair in two braids,
    And I'll go out sun or rain
    To have fun and decompress.

    Eve
    I have little black dresses
    and little red dresses.
    I have long, flowing dresses,
    and colorful dresses,
    and soft, cozy dresses
    that inspire caresses.

    But I have yet to buy
    a polka dot dress.
    One with romantic sleeves
    with ruffles and waves
    and the interesting pattern
    that makes you look its way.

    Thank you for reading.

    If you would like to voice your opinion on this matter, I welcome the debate. However, I have noticed a toxic tendency for political debate online to be very hateful and never producing any good effect.

    Because if we debate someone in that hate, the person will become defensive and not actually listen. No change comes from a debate that is charged with hate. Many online debates are forceful conversations rather that.

    Please state your opinion from a place of awareness and I will be happy to read them.


    This post was inspired on Threads by Instagram where I share my poetry and book content as well as Spanish posts, and tarot/ goddess stuff.

    Follow me on Threads:

    https://www.threads.com/@eve.sanchez87

    Eve

  • The Well-Being Journey: A Mindful Weight Loss Journal Nourish Your Body, Understand Your Mind, Celebrate Your Progress – Payhip

    Dear Lovestar,

    I created this journal for a friend who was interested in starting a shop to sell it, then she decided the shop owner life was not for her and gifted me her project.

    I would not have created something like this myself, so I am giving this journal to you for free. Download available on my new shop on Payhip.

    The Well-Being Journey: A Mindful Weight Loss Journal Nourish Your Body, Understand Your Mind, Celebrate Your Progress – Payhip

    https://payhip.com/b/0MCBJ

    Download today and give me some feedback to make it even better.

    Transform your weight loss journey into a celebration of well-being with this mindful printable journal. Instead of obsessing over numbers, this journal helps you connect with your body, track non-scale victories, and cultivate sustainable habits.

    I pray you find use in this free offer.

    Thank you for reading,

    Eve

  • Divine Feminine Energy

    I am the feeling you get
    When you're feeling very well,
    When you're relaxed,
    When you are cared for,
    When you are feeling no stress.
    I am the caress of my breast,
    I am the skin under my dress,
    And the thoughts around my head.
    I am divine. I am her.


    The "divine feminine" is a concept that represents the feminine qualities, energies, and archetypes that exist within the universe, humanity, and nature. Rooted in spiritual and philosophical traditions, the divine feminine is often associated with qualities like compassion, intuition, nurturing, receptivity, creativity, and connection to nature. While the term may have different interpretations across cultures, religions, and philosophies, it generally honors and celebrates the presence of feminine energies that balance the traditionally masculine ones.

    Here are some core aspects commonly associated with the divine feminine:

    1. Archetypes and Goddesses
    The divine feminine is often represented by archetypes or goddesses from various spiritual traditions, such as Aphrodite (Greek goddess of love), Isis (Egyptian goddess of magic and motherhood), Kali (Hindu goddess of transformation and destruction), and Mary (Christian figure of compassion and grace). These figures embody various aspects of femininity, from love and sensuality to strength, wisdom, and spiritual nurturing.

    2. Inner Qualities and Energies
    It emphasizes qualities like:

    Nurturing and Compassion: Caring and supportive aspects, often linked to motherhood or caregiving, and an innate desire to help others.
    Intuition and Wisdom: Seeing beyond the physical and connecting to inner knowing or emotional intelligence.
    Creativity and Birth (Literal or Symbolic): The power to create, not just in terms of childbirth but also in manifesting ideas, art, and change.

    3. Connection to Nature and Cycles

    The divine feminine is often linked to nature and the earth, with an appreciation for natural cycles, seasons, and rhythms. This connection is seen as a reminder of renewal, growth, and death, as well as the cycles within the human experience, such as life transitions, emotions, and phases of personal growth.

    4. Healing and Balance

    Embracing the divine feminine is also about healing and balancing within ourselves and society. It encourages balancing both masculine and feminine qualities, creating harmony, and valuing traits that are often underrepresented or undervalued.

    5. Spirituality and the Sacred

    Many view the divine feminine as a sacred force that can help people connect to something greater than themselves, whether through spirituality, inner reflection, or connection with others. It’s a way of experiencing spirituality that is rooted in empathy, compassion, and interconnectedness, celebrating the unity and diversity of life.

    In Modern Spirituality

    In modern times, the divine feminine is often explored as part of self-discovery, self-care, and empowerment practices, such as meditation, journaling, rituals, and retreats. Many people seek to reconnect with the divine feminine as a way of rediscovering their inner power, learning self-love, and embracing a holistic approach to personal growth.

    Reconnecting with the divine feminine can also be seen as reclaiming values traditionally associated with femininity, celebrating them as powerful, vital, and necessary for a balanced and fulfilled life.

  • I tried belly dance again and even introduced my daughters

    Dear Lovestar,

    I started learning Greek and I tried listening to Greek music but my ffamily did not like it. I study Italian and for learning, I listen to Italian music and do Italian karaoke. But the Greek music was a huge no for them, but I liked it. Anyway, while I was on the international music energy, I told my kids about my old belly dance obsession. It is howevver, not surprising at all that I just rediscovered bellydancing when I just started to work with Venus!

    There was a time, when I was an arts and craft blogger when I used to call myself the belly dancer. I used to draw belly dancers, took a video class, made belly dance costumes, and had a belly dance playlist before I had kids. Now, my oldest kid is 11. It has been a long time. And just like that, I found a belly dance lesson on Youtube. My secind daughter started the lesson with me but stopped because it was hard. During part of the lesson, my son asked to be held while I danced.

    Rediscovering the Joy of Belly Dancing: A Fun and Empowering Workout for Women

    There’s something magical about finding a form of exercise that not only gets your body moving but also nourishes your soul. That’s exactly what happened to me when I decided to give belly dancing another try. I had been reading about its benefits for women—how it’s great for fitness, boosts confidence, and even connects us with our feminine energy. Curious and excited, I jumped in, and it turned out to be one of the best decisions I’ve made for myself—and for my daughter said it as fun, it really was.

    A Workout That Feels Like Fun

    To me working out feels like a chore. But belly dancing? It’s a whole different experience. From the moment I started moving, I felt a sense of joy and freedom. The music, the movements, the rhythm—it all comes together in a way that’s not just about exercise but about celebrating my body. It’s like a dance party where I was the star, and the best part is, it doesn’t feel like work at all!

    Belly dancing engaged muscles I didn’t even know you had, and by the end of it, I realized I’d had a serious workout. But instead of feeling exhausted, I felt energized and more in tune with my body. The flowing movements work wonders for your core, hips, and even your posture. It’s a full-body workout wrapped in fun and creativity. My daughter did not believe me when I told her this teacher will help with her posture. I finished the class with a smile and ready to do some work.

    Connecting with Feminine Energy

    One of the things that drew me back to belly dancing was its deep connection to feminine energy. It’s a dance form that has been celebrated by women for centuries, and it’s easy to see why. The movements are all about embracing and enhancing your natural curves, moving with grace, and feeling confident in your own skin.

    As I danced, I felt a strong connection to the women who have danced this way throughout history. There’s something incredibly empowering about reclaiming this ancient art form and making it your own. It reminded me that movement isn’t just about fitness—it’s also about expression, joy, and connecting with the feminine energy that flows within us all.

    Ever Considered Belly Dancing?

    If you’ve been thinking about trying belly dancing—or if this is the first time it’s crossed your mind—I can’t recommend it enough. It’s a workout that’s good for your body, mind, and spirit. Whether you’re dancing alone, with friends, or sharing the experience with your daughters, it’s an activity that brings joy, confidence, and a deep connection to your feminine energy.

    So, put on some music, let your body move, and see where the dance takes you. You might just find that belly dancing becomes one of your favorite ways to stay fit, feel fabulous, and celebrate the beautiful, powerful woman that you are. And if you’ve got daughters, nieces, or friends, invite them to join in the fun. There’s nothing quite like the joy of dancing together and embracing the power of being a woman.

  • The Creative Power of Love: Beyond Baby-Making and Into Smiles

    Dear Lovestar,

    Let’s discuss Love and smiles:

    Smile Challenge for Venus

    Love is often portrayed as a powerful force, essential for creating life. Yet, its creative influence extends far beyond the act of procreation. One of the most delightful and overlooked aspects of love’s creativity is its ability to generate smiles.

    When we think of love, we might first imagine the profound bond between partners or the nurturing care of parents for their children. However, love’s creativity manifests in many subtle and charming ways, one of which is the way it effortlessly brings smiles to our faces.

    Love as a Catalyst for Joy

    Smiles are a universal language of happiness, and love is their primary inspiration. When we are in love, our emotional state naturally shifts towards positivity. This state of joy is contagious, often resulting in smiles that brighten our days and those around us. Consider the simple yet profound effect of a loving gesture—whether it’s a thoughtful compliment, a warm embrace, or a shared laugh. These moments create a ripple effect of joy, turning into smiles that express our inner happiness.

    The Science Behind Love and Smiling

    Psychologically and biologically, love stimulates the release of feel-good hormones such as oxytocin, serotonin, and dopamine. These chemicals promote feelings of happiness and contentment, which often manifest as smiles. Smiling itself can reinforce these positive feelings, creating a loop of joy where love leads to smiling, and smiling, in turn, amplifies the love we feel.

    Love’s Creative Expression Through Smiles

    Love’s creativity isn’t confined to grand gestures or monumental moments. Often, it is found in the everyday expressions of affection and connection. Smiles that are born out of love can transform routine interactions into memorable experiences. They can bridge gaps, mend misunderstandings, and build stronger relationships.

    A smile shared between friends can strengthen a bond, while a smile from a loved one during a tough day can provide much-needed comfort. These small, creative acts of affection showcase how love’s influence extends into the art of living and interacting.

    Smiling: A Reflection of Love’s Impact

    When we think of love as a creative force, it’s clear that its power is not solely about creating new life but also about enriching our daily lives. Smiles are a testament to love’s enduring impact, reflecting joy, connection, and the deep satisfaction that comes from nurturing and being nurtured.

    In essence, love is a continuous source of creativity, and one of its most charming creations is the smile. It’s a simple, yet profound expression of our emotional landscape, made all the more beautiful by the love that inspires it.

    So next time you smile, remember that it is a creative gift of love—an expression of joy that enriches both your life and the lives of those around you. Embrace love’s ability to make you smile and let that smile be a testament to the creative power of affection in your life.

  • Wild Woman Freed

    Wild Woman Freed

    Wild Woman Freed poem 1

    Wild Woman Freed poem 2

    I was bound,
    Before,
    Tied down,
    I belonged,
    Then woke up,
    Hurting sore,
    My broken heart,
    Not my own.

    I learned to be free,
    I healed, I fled,
    I became complete,
    I grew up consciously.

    I freed the wild woman
    Underneath,
    I’m nothing but a human
    Running free.

    Eve

  • Poetry Journal: The Most Romantic Poems

    Dear Lovestar,

    On my new-ish poetry journal, all the poems are my own.

    I only chose the best of my poems! Not all made the cut!

    I wrote new poems for the journal also.

    I edited my quote to say because we’re on it. I previously shared it saying because you’re in it.
    Love Transfer
    Time Capsule: excerpt of personalized Valentine’s card poem.
    Divine Love
    This lovely 😍 creation, once finished, will go on my poetry journal
    Breakfast in bed with my most challenging calligraphy yet
    Sun go down. With my signature swirl calligraphy: my own letter designs
    Half Good. My favorite calligraphy, and I’m wondering? Do I add the sexy drawing… no, I want my poetry journal to be PG13…
    Naked Soul. I dressed this fashion illustration in my clothes and jewels.

    Read about this adorable outfit in my exclusive Sex with Scorpio blog.

    Hint: This outfit is part of my 9 piece mermaid lingerie collection. Read on the app and follow that blog, which is part of my poetry collection:

    http://www.mobileapp.app/to/duCowXa?ref=cl

    In my heart. This is my usual cursive before I started calligraphy practice. It’s far from perfect
    I honor you quote

    What are your thoughts?

    Has my calligraphy improved since I shared the hack jobs I did while writing letters at 2 AM? 😆 🤣 😂 

    With love and light,

    Eve, inspired and happy 😊 😃 😀

  • 3 simple steps to be more feminine this week

    Dear diary,

    Being more feminine is a goal of mine. I don’t have an end goal, but it’s a constant progression.

    I ditched feminism because I had felt that I was better than men for too many years, and this caused separation in my union with my lover, Scorpio.

    What I want now is to be more feminine because I now feel that being a harsh feminist made me less feminine.

    I did notice that as I became more feminine, my lover became more masculine. Additionally, I feel safer, more abundant, more empowered, more powerful, and I feel more love. And I’m obviously a better mom now.

    3 things to make me feel more feminine this week:

    • Spiritual self care: I plan on taking a delicious bath today. I added flower essential oils to my soap, shampoo, and conditioner, and the lovely smell is making me want to spend more time in the bath. I’m going back to the basics here as I have written at length about taking spiritual baths, and I have had very spiritual experiences in that bath. I have been cleaning and organizing my bathroom, and this will help me feel more feminine: spending time in a beautiful space, smelling like flowers, dressing up afterwards.
    • Deep cleaning my house and de-cluttering: loving my house makes me feel very feminine. 
    • Expressing myself vulnerably: I have made a date with my partner to have a deep chat. There are lots of things I need to get off my chest, and this will make me feel more calm and relaxed, and it should deepen our connection, which should make me feel beloved and thus more feminine.

    What makes you feel most feminine?

    As a bonus, I’m making my kitchen my space. I never liked being in the kitchen, and I hated doing the dishes. I was able to convince myself to love cooking and especially cooking very fancy and complex meals. I was also able to teach myself to bake. I’m now, as I said, jokingly brainwashing myself to love doing the dishes because I only want to do the things that I love.

    I put a diffuser right behind my sink, and I add my fanciest oils, Rose, Jasmin, and Geranium, which are my perfumes (together with lavender) to do the dishes. Now, as I do the dishes, I smell my perfumes, which are also the most relaxing oils to me. I’m a flower girl!

    I only like to clean with music on and I’ve been singing and dancing in the kitchen more than ever.

    We bought new dishes that I love to touch and look at, so washing them is a breeze, and it has worked wonderfully! Best transformation this month.

    Finally, I’m allowing myself to watch TV. I think TV is a waste of time, and I don’t other than Naked and Afraid. Well, I can see the TV from my sink… whatever works.

    A rewiring of my neurons is happening, and my house is so grateful. I’m grateful because now I don’t have to force myself to do human work. I love my time doing it, and I’m enjoying myself.

    With love and light,

    Eve, with my cleanest and best smelling house ever