It appears I did not know the power of smiling in relationship to Love.
Since I started willing myself to smile as a challenge, I did not that joy was coming as a result of my smiling.
Things simply turned around for me and everything became better.
Now whenever I remember, I smile and smiling at my beloved is easiest. Whenever I look at him and smile he smiles or holds me and things just get better.
The Surprising Power of a Smile: How I Rediscovered Joy in Love
You know how sometimes you stumble upon something so simple yet so powerful that it feels like magic? Well, that happened to me recently when I discovered the power of smiling in my relationship. It all started as a little challenge to myself—a fun experiment, really. I decided to start smiling more, just to see what would happen. I never expected it to transform my life and my love so profoundly.
The Challenge: Smile More
It sounds almost too easy, right? Just smile more. But trust me, there’s something magical about it. I had read somewhere that smiling can trick your brain into feeling happier, even when you’re not particularly in the mood. So, I thought, why not give it a shot? Whenever I caught myself in a neutral or pensive mood, I’d remind myself to smile. It wasn’t forced; it was more like a gentle nudge to myself to find the little joys in the moment.
The Unexpected Results: Joy Sneaking In
Here’s the thing: I didn’t realize how quickly and dramatically things would change. At first, it felt a bit strange, like I was just going through the motions. But then, something incredible happened. As I smiled, joy started creeping into my life in the most delightful ways. It was as if my smile was a signal to the universe that I was open to happiness, and it responded generously.
Love and Smiles: A Perfect Pair
But the best part? The impact it had on my relationship. Smiling at my beloved became the easiest and most natural thing in the world. Every time I looked at him and smiled, I noticed a spark in his eyes—a mirror of the joy I was feeling. He’d smile back, or sometimes he’d just pull me into a warm embrace, and in those moments, everything felt perfect.
It was as if my smile was a secret key that unlocked a deeper connection between us. We communicated more with our eyes and smiles than with words, and it brought us closer than ever. The little annoyances and stresses of daily life seemed to melt away whenever we shared a smile.
The Takeaway: Smile, and the World Smiles Back
Now, whenever I remember, I smile. It’s become a habit, a way of life, and it’s made everything better. I’ve learned that a smile is more than just an expression; it’s a powerful tool for cultivating joy, love, and connection. It’s a way to invite happiness into your life and to share it with those you love.
So, if you’re ever feeling down or disconnected, try it out. Just smile. Smile at yourself, smile at the world, and especially smile at the ones you love. You might be surprised at how much brighter and sweeter life becomes.
Smiling is simple, but its effects are profound. And the best part? It’s contagious. So go ahead—start smiling and watch as the world smiles back at you.
Love is often portrayed as a powerful force, essential for creating life. Yet, its creative influence extends far beyond the act of procreation. One of the most delightful and overlooked aspects of love’s creativity is its ability to generate smiles.
When we think of love, we might first imagine the profound bond between partners or the nurturing care of parents for their children. However, love’s creativity manifests in many subtle and charming ways, one of which is the way it effortlessly brings smiles to our faces.
Love as a Catalyst for Joy
Smiles are a universal language of happiness, and love is their primary inspiration. When we are in love, our emotional state naturally shifts towards positivity. This state of joy is contagious, often resulting in smiles that brighten our days and those around us. Consider the simple yet profound effect of a loving gesture—whether it’s a thoughtful compliment, a warm embrace, or a shared laugh. These moments create a ripple effect of joy, turning into smiles that express our inner happiness.
The Science Behind Love and Smiling
Psychologically and biologically, love stimulates the release of feel-good hormones such as oxytocin, serotonin, and dopamine. These chemicals promote feelings of happiness and contentment, which often manifest as smiles. Smiling itself can reinforce these positive feelings, creating a loop of joy where love leads to smiling, and smiling, in turn, amplifies the love we feel.
Love’s Creative Expression Through Smiles
Love’s creativity isn’t confined to grand gestures or monumental moments. Often, it is found in the everyday expressions of affection and connection. Smiles that are born out of love can transform routine interactions into memorable experiences. They can bridge gaps, mend misunderstandings, and build stronger relationships.
A smile shared between friends can strengthen a bond, while a smile from a loved one during a tough day can provide much-needed comfort. These small, creative acts of affection showcase how love’s influence extends into the art of living and interacting.
Smiling: A Reflection of Love’s Impact
When we think of love as a creative force, it’s clear that its power is not solely about creating new life but also about enriching our daily lives. Smiles are a testament to love’s enduring impact, reflecting joy, connection, and the deep satisfaction that comes from nurturing and being nurtured.
In essence, love is a continuous source of creativity, and one of its most charming creations is the smile. It’s a simple, yet profound expression of our emotional landscape, made all the more beautiful by the love that inspires it.
So next time you smile, remember that it is a creative gift of love—an expression of joy that enriches both your life and the lives of those around you. Embrace love’s ability to make you smile and let that smile be a testament to the creative power of affection in your life.
I have been in meditation with the goddess whitout calling her but it ocurred to me that she can be invoqued as the ancients did.
Meditation with Aprodite
Begin by finding a comfortable seated position, either on the floor or in a chair. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths, inhaling slowly through your nose and exhaling gently through your mouth. Allow your body to relax with each breath, letting go of any tension or stress.
1.Imagine yourself standing on a soft, sandy beach at dawn. The sky above is painted with gentle hues of pink and gold, and the air is warm and fragrant with the scent of blooming roses. The soft sound of waves gently crashing against the shore fills your ears, soothing your mind.
2.As you walk along the beach, you notice a radiant figure in the distance. She is Aphrodite, the goddess of love, beauty, and sensuality. She stands near the water’s edge, her seafoam-colored gown flowing elegantly in the breeze, adorned with delicate pearls. Her presence exudes warmth, kindness, and an overwhelming sense of love.
3.As you approach her, you feel a deep connection to her energy, a sensation of unconditional love enveloping you. She smiles warmly at you, and with a gentle gesture, she invites you to sit beside her on the sand. As you sit, you feel a calmness wash over you, as if all your worries and fears are being carried away by the gentle waves. You smile.
4.Aphrodite places her hand on your heart, and you feel a soft, glowing light emanating from within. This light is the essence of divine love—pure, radiant, and infinite. It fills your entire being, from the top of your head to the tips of your toes, warming you with its gentle embrace.
5.In this moment, you are reminded of your own inner beauty and worth. Aphrodite whispers words of love and affirmation to you, reminding you that you are deserving of all the love and joy that life has to offer. She encourages you to embrace your true self, to love yourself fully and without judgment.
6.As you bask in this loving energy, take a few moments to reflect on what love means to you. Think about how you can bring more love and compassion into your life, both for yourself and for others. Let Aphrodite’s wisdom guide you as you set an intention to live with an open heart, allowing love to flow freely through every aspect of your life.
7.When you are ready, take a deep breath and slowly begin to return to the present moment. Feel the sand beneath you, hear the waves once more, and know that you can always return to this place of divine love whenever you need to. Gently open your eyes, carrying the light of Aphrodite’s love with you throughout your day.
Take a moment to express gratitude to Aphrodite for her guidance and love. Know that you are always connected to this divine energy, and that you are a vessel of love, beauty, and grace.
I tried to make this post private, and password protected but my computer skills are limited, so you get to read it. I will learn, though. Do not be offended, please, when you notice password protected posts consisting of my sex journal. This is private stuff so it cannot be openly available.
This Lillith poem was inspired by a podcast by the Middle Age Witch podcast, I linked it below.
I shared this beautiful poem on X, then added a secret third stanza for my lover who likes kinky poetry
This just happened, and thus, the third stanza doesn’t have rhyme or rhythm. This was not for the poetics. It’s for the meaning.
It’s the Lion’s Gate fault! I wish I could stop time. if it was the Lion’s Gate every day of the year, I’d always be this sassy.
I got so many divine messages for divine spirit work to complete (That is the upgrade this year, full on magic work with spirits, I am graduating into a witch lol), and I’ve been divinely guided into goddess work and, for some reason, shadow work leading to Lillith. It was Scorpio, my lover, who suggested that sex is a way to work the shadows, yes, Scorpio would say that. However, for me, miss Pisces, bound by church as a girl, sex play is a big shadow for me.
It could be that Lillith wants a poem; I will write some. The lady on the middle-aged witch podcast said that Lillith came to her when she was ready, that Lillith would only work with people who are ready to be unapologetically themselves, and I have in fact grown in this way. I don’t post this to X, actually, too many normal people, but I dip my toes. Maybe that is the sign, once I am more open on X (or Facebook, where my family is, I entered Pagan on my FB bio). Find me on FB as Eve Sanchez but I mostly post on Spanish.
I was listening on the Middle-Aged witch podcast (I love that podcast) that Lillith loves an orgasm as an offering, and I’m wondering if she would be willing to communicate with me for some poetry creations using some sex magic.
I work with Venus – Aphrodite
Venus is the Roman name for the Greek Aphrodite, and they are the same goddess. Below, I will share some of my poetry for her and one day I will tell you of my work with her. I have been working with her for months. Later, I will tell you how you can work with Aphrodite – Venus, too.
This poem talks of the cause of the Troyan war, when Aphrodite offered Paris the most beautiful woman in the world, the married queen Helen (long story).
I have actually communicated with Venus Aphrodite, and I loved our interactions. I have a plan to ask a thing from my friend Aphrodite, just need to find the right offering for her. The poem below is of a convo with Dite, she expressed that men can’t forget (in my word play) the orgasms they give their lady. This is a drug you’re providing for your man.
We wrote several poems together, Aphrodite – Venus and I. The below poem talks of a historical poem I read while studying Latin. This event was a yearly Venus festival. Tips for Venus work from her ancient festival: get nude, dancing barefoot, also beauty is an offering. Oh, and Bacchus (Dionysus in Greek pantheon) always leads to Aphrodite. This was the ancient way: parties and drinking (the ancients also put drugs in their drinks, though I am not telling you to do this) always lead to the Aphrodite work which is sex. They had sex cults; we have a cult of 2. ok I will have to tell you more.
I jokingly told my man I was going to sacrifice him to the goddess, put him on my Aphrodite altar. The sign in that is that the orgasm offering is well received by her. Oh, I certainly invoke her into our bedroom play. I am indeed ok with a spirit third party; I can share with the goddess.
This love spell was inspired by Roman Love magic, something I will continue to research and write about. The Romans didn’t believe in twin flames, but the Greeks did. But the romans were so afraid of Love magic that they made forms of it illegal.
Indeed, knot magic has always been used for love, sex, and fidelity magic (Read about knot magic on my blog and purchase my $1 ebook on Etsy to start practicing knot magick today) PS. I have used knot magic with Venus, for sex magic, twin flame magic with my Scorpio lover’s permission, for an offering to the fae, for personal empowerment, for sexual freedom…) Knot Magic Ebook linked below:
Ebook introducing knot magic with history, ideas, mantras, and more
I have to tell you, my sex life with my beloved Scorpio exploded after my communications with the goddess. Why? Because I became more open as I realized that sex magic attracts the sex goddess, and she loosened me up a bit.
This poem explains it best. I call the goddess into my space, I connect to Love, then he connects to me. This is sex magic and bringing a very sexy spirit into our bed for play. You wonder if Scorpio has an issue with this? lol Scorpio lives to connect to a mysterious feminine essence, he needs this, he is hooked. He has been looking for the goddess, he didn’t realize it like that, but he has been working with her, is what she said to me.
I guess my next magic ebook will be about sex magic, but sorry, I will not be selling it for $1! These are my secrets, and anyone interested will have to pay up! My mouth is starting to part to tell my secrets but they will not be widely available.
Why the threesome theme?
My darling Scorpio is a very hot guy, and he gets chased by women on top of the obvious, if one tastes him, can’t forget the guy, has to come back on her knees. He kind of hides from women in the way I hide from men, except that I believe he gets a kick out of it, he is not afraid of being held down by a woman…
Being a Scorpio, he wants a very, extremely loyal woman, and he gets hurt by lack of loyalty. Thus, his lineup of exes have in fact hurt him deeply.
I don’t have to tell you that he’s extremely sexual and great in bed. That’s obvious. His exes are constantly trying to connect to him in this way and I had to tell him to get those cords under control because they bother me, the feeler of everything. I have been cutting the chords to his pesky exes, energy vampires, who regret having lost him. They’re the third parties in our union, the ghosts of girlfriends’ past. His heartbreak over those bad girls has stopped our union growth.
He’s honest and open, so he tells me about the threesomes he declined 😆 🤣 😂
I was very young and sexually inexperienced when I met him, and I had never met a sincere man, so I freaked out wondering if that most gorgeous man would dare ask me to do something like that.
Upon my experience recognizing his soul as my boyfriend (I was 20), I decided I was going to be the woman to fulfill all his sexual needs (he manifested that, also), however, I was too shy to say anything. Once I heard the word threesome, I was shocked in disbelief and chose to not please his secret desires.
This happened in our usual misunderstanding type of way.
But how lucky am I that my man is so honest and straightforward? After years of holding back my sexual gratification, we talked about this and he has no intention of putting me in a difficult position and he is very grounded in his feeling for one partner. Yay
But how lucky if he had another me? Even three! Lol
The problem with threesomes is that they are cultural and a man who wasn’t pervy enough to lead women into those questionable encounters, can feel like they missed out. A good man like mine knows they didn’t miss on anything good. And a woman like me is unafraid to play tricks on my man’s mind. Lol
After Scorpio expressed that he wanted 2 mes, I needed years to integrate that. After a lot of self growth I told him one of my naughtiest best dreams ever, a dream in which I saw about 12 hims, one after another after another kept coming and I was simply amazed. Nothing sexual happened, I just basked in their energy but Scorpio got so excited and he expressed it would have been much different had he been the dreamer. And now I am telling you how I have finally injected a sense of fantasy into my sex life. He dreams about threesomes? Good, you can have two mes or you can have me and my goddess.
The Middle-Aged Witch’s podcasts about the Divine Feminine, masculine, the dark feminine, and Lillith
Spellcasting
Spirit communication
Divine Feminine
Divine Masculine
Dark Feminine
Lillith
One day, I will email this beloved witch to tell her about my experiences with sex and love magic, my communication with Aphrodite, and the secret power of poetry.
I remember distinctly she said she doesn’t know the history of why poetry is used in spellcasting. She isn’t a poet. As a poet myself, I want to offer my insight about the secret power of poetry.
I am working on a secret project. Something I’ve wanted to work on for a long time. It’ll be a lot of work but I already started which is the hardest part. It’s the Lion’s Gate energy!
I can’t tell you what it is yet, but it involves poetry and ancient Greece.
In the meantime, I’ll show you my Athena and Aphrodite artwork in progress.
Aphrodite, ancient Greek goddess of Love, pleasure, fertility, and beauty
Athena, ancient Greek goddess of wisdom, War, and craftsAthena poem. Find me on X @evelovestar for more poetry
I’m putting both on my altar. This project is more than just art. Not only am I practicing the ancient Greek letters, but I also have a Roman inspired love altar project, and Aphrodite is Venus, so the artwork translates. Bye a
Scroll of wisdom from Pythia, who is in Delphi. The two first lines are said to have been inscribed in the Delphi temple. The last line is said to have been a Pythia oracle. The Pythia. Oracle priestess of Delphi
The Pythia became cool 😎 to me when I learned that she spoke in poetry.
My daughter told me I am the Pythia
😆 🤣 😂
I have a lot more ancient art to draw, I’ll be sharing it with you along with my poetry and the mysteries and wisdom I find in the books.
That means that I have a gift to hear and I write what I hear.
I have several muses: real entities or thought forms 🤔 that give me not only ideas but entire thought poems while I drive, entire story plots while I desperately try to sleep, visuals of arts I’m not skilled enough to create, complex ideas for writing topics, and more.
It also means I have the gift to translate. I can translate Spanish English, and I’m studying 3 other languages, Latin, Italian, and Ancient Greek, for new poetry to translate… 🙃
But aside from the self-promotion of my nerd ego… 🤓 🤪 😜
I possess the gift of translating feelings and energies into words. I write what I feel and what I perceive. And of course, this “gift” is overwhelming…
But now, I’m experimenting with new kinds of poetry
Lovestar Temple🔥 🔥 