I was very needy for attention, and you could have deduced it by the needy poetry I was writing. I have the highest inclination and need for romance, and by a less romantic lover, I could be seen as needy.
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I wondered yesterday…
Do I get upset that I’m not receiving the attention I crave or do I kindly request it. He is a Heart Harmony romantic, otherwise known as a Secret romantic.
I decided to go for the kind request since the arguments have not worked for me.
I asked him to put me on his to-do list!
He laughed and then said a bunch of cool and sexy things with the dark humor twist of a Scorpio! I was so emotional that I shed a tear.
Told him he floored me with his poetry!
It’s not poetry… he asserted.
But I disagreed. So I turned it into a poem.
My Scorpio said these things to me. I mixed 2 different conversations. Find out about his love manifestation on my Sex with Scorpio blog on my poetry collection app.
PS. I told him I wasn’t poisonous but instead I was very good for him!
I learned a lot of Latin last night. Today, I keep on thinking of words and phrases! It was very cool. My children don’t want to learn an ancient language, not in use. My partner Scorpio thinks learning a language highly in use I’d best, such as Chinese: forget that! I’m not learning Chinese! No intention whatsoever! I’m learning Latin for fun.
You know I’m a romantic, and I bet you’re a romantic (unless you’re here to be a critic). Welcome to this very romantic blog experience. My intention is to share my copious amount of romantic energy with the world, to make romance cool again, and to help people deepen their love connections using, you guessed it, ROMANCE!
Romance is also an energy. Romance promotes positive vibes, happiness, and friendship. Romance is inspirational and motivational. Romance can deepen a love connection and enhances our creative expression.
Romance is also spiritual. It helps us be in the present as we feel sensations in our body and as we engage with a romantic partner. It can help connect us to our spirit and our beloved’s spirit. Through romance, we can make a connection to the universe or God.
Why are people not romantic today?
Such an excellent question, and I’m thinking of another question, were people ever romantic before? 🤔
Here is my intention: we become more romantic people and ascend love on the planet. I am doing my part. Will you join me in this romantic project?
There could be various reasons why some people aren’t interested in romance. It could be due to personal preferences, past experiences, focus on other priorities like career or personal development, or simply not feeling ready for it at the moment. Everyone’s preferences and priorities are different.
However, as I explored in my previous post on this subject, we can be romantic without a romantic partner. We can be romantic by and for ourselves. I have decided to romance myself.
Misconceptions about romance
Some misconceptions about romance and romanticism include:
1. **Romance is always grand gestures**: While grand gestures can be a part of romance, it’s often the small, everyday gestures of thoughtfulness and affection that sustain relationships.
2. **Romantic relationships are always easy and effortless**: In reality, relationships require effort, communication, and compromise from both partners.
3. **Romance is solely about passion and intensity**: While passion is important, lasting romance also involves companionship, trust, and emotional intimacy.
4. **Romance is only for young people**: People of all ages can experience and enjoy romance. Love and connection are not limited by age.
5. **Romance is only for beautiful, good looking, of attractive people**: this is what we see in movies. However, just like with age, this doesn’t apply. Romance is for anyone who wants to engage with love.
6. **Romance is always spontaneous**: While spontaneity can be exciting, planned romantic gestures or dates can be just as meaningful.
7. **Romance should always mirror what’s depicted in movies or books**: Real-life romance often looks different from what’s portrayed in media, and that’s perfectly normal. Each relationship is unique.
8. **Romance can fix all problems in a relationship**: While romance can strengthen a relationship, it’s not a solution for all problems. Communication and addressing underlying issues are crucial.
Understanding these misconceptions can help individuals have more realistic expectations and healthier attitudes towards romance and romantic relationships.
How can we make romance cool again?
Making romance “cool” again involves shifting societal perceptions and attitudes towards romance in a positive way. Here are some ways to do that:
1. **Celebrate diverse expressions of romance**: Recognize that romance can look different for everyone. Embrace and celebrate various forms of romantic expression, whether it’s through gestures, words, or actions.
2. **Promote healthy relationship dynamics**: Encourage open communication, respect, and kindness within relationships. Highlight the importance of mutual support, understanding, and compromise.
3. **Challenge stereotypes and misconceptions**: Address and debunk myths about romance and relationships. Encourage conversations that emphasize the complexity and depth of romantic connections.
4. **Showcase positive examples**: Highlight real-life examples of healthy, loving relationships in media, literature, and popular culture. Celebrate stories that depict authentic, respectful, and fulfilling romantic partnerships.
5. **Emphasize emotional intelligence**: Foster emotional intelligence and empathy, which are essential for building and maintaining strong romantic relationships. Encourage individuals to understand and express their emotions effectively.
6. **Promote self-love and self-care**: Remind people that self-love and self-care are fundamental aspects of healthy relationships. Encourage individuals to prioritize their own well-being and happiness.
7. **Encourage creativity and spontaneity**: Embrace creativity and spontaneity in romantic gestures and activities. Encourage people to think outside the box and tailor their expressions of romance to their unique preferences and personalities.
8. **Normalize vulnerability**: Create a culture where vulnerability is seen as a strength rather than a weakness. Encourage honest communication and the willingness to be emotionally vulnerable with partners.
By promoting these attitudes and behaviors, we can help make romance not only “cool” again but also healthy, fulfilling, and meaningful for individuals and society as a whole.
Was romance ever cool in the first place?
Yes, romance has been considered “cool” or culturally celebrated at various points in history and in different societies. Throughout literature, art, music, and cultural traditions, romance has often been idealized and romanticized as a source of beauty, passion, and inspiration. In many cultures, romantic gestures and expressions of love have been highly valued and admired.
For example, during the Romantic era in the late 18th and early 19th centuries, there was a widespread fascination with love, nature, and intense emotions. Romanticism, as an artistic and intellectual movement, celebrated individualism, imagination, and the power of the human spirit, often expressed through themes of love and longing.
Similarly, in modern times, romantic love has been a central theme in popular culture, with countless books, movies, songs, and other media dedicated to depicting romantic relationships and experiences. These portrayals have often contributed to the perception of romance as something desirable and aspirational.
Except now, there has been a darkening of this theme with free sex for all, threesomes and sexual perversion, porn, etc.
Of course, perceptions of romance can vary widely depending on cultural, societal, and individual factors. What is considered “cool” or celebrated in one context may not be the same in another. However, it’s fair to say that romance has held significance and cultural appeal for many people throughout history.
Dear friend, Thank you for engaging with me in this exploration of romance.
I pray that you received something useful from this.
We will discuss this topic again. At length.
As always, I intend to inspire you to be more romantic. Have I succeeded? Please let me know. I have many plans to inspire and motivate you to be more romantic and loving.
Do you have any tips to help make romance cool again? 😎 let’s do it together.
Picture this: a couple is having a hard conversation. They love each other very much, and because of that, they’ve been avoiding this conversation, and by now, it’s worse. This is my love and I…
She gets emotional and calls him insensitive. He complains that she’s too emotional and overreacts. She gets triggered and overreacts. He gets offended and withdraws. They don’t talk to each other for a week and don’t resolve the issue. They try to act like it didn’t happen, but there is a loss of trust from unresolved issues.
How should we have difficult conversations? They are unavoidable in love relationships if we intend to deepen the connection?
Can we have a difficult conversation with our love partner while focusing on love, connection, and union? I believe it’s all in the energy we go into the conversation with.
In fact, the intention we have going into the conversation alone doesn’t manifest the result. Triggers occur during difficult conversations. We can get triggered, or they can get triggered. Also, if our ego is involved, a fight might be the result. A misunderstanding so serious can occur that loving partners can up to break up during a tough conversation.
Up until now, my beloved and I have not been the best at communication. We mean well, but we’re both loners, we both had issues going into our relationship, and we’re both moody water signs. We misunderstand each other frequently. Now we know not to get emotional over a misunderstanding but to have a productive conversation instead.
I mean no judgment to anyone having an issue with this. I am learning this now. I write about the things I have learned the hard way mostly. I have learned how to have a difficult conversation with my lover, and we can come out of it with a deeper connection. I am teaching you what I have learned.
It’s not easy to be conscious when we feel disrespected, hurt, or emotional. However, what I’m suggesting is exactly to go into a difficult conversation consciously. Read through the list below, and you’ll notice that you will need to be conscious to be able to handle yourself in a way that you’ll manifest the best outcome for both parties.
I will elaborate further in tomorrow’s post.
Tips for having conscious, difficult conversations in love
Today, I offer you tips for having a difficult conversation with your love partner while focusing on deepening your connection and strengthening your love and union:
1. **Choose the Right Time and Place:** Find a time when both of you are relaxed and free from distractions. Choose a quiet and private space where you can talk openly without interruptions. Drop your cell phones.
2. **Set the Right Intentions:** Approach the conversation with the intention of understanding each other better and strengthening your relationship rather than blaming or accusing.
3. **Use “I” Statements:** Express your thoughts, feelings, and concerns using “I” statements to avoid sounding accusatory. For example, say, “I feel…” instead of “You make me feel…”.
4. **Active Listening:** Practice active listening by fully focusing on what your partner is saying without interrupting. Show empathy and understanding by reflecting back what you hear to ensure you understand correctly. Don’t be thinking of your response while they talk.
5. **Express Empathy:** Show empathy towards your partner’s feelings and perspectives, even if you disagree. Validate their emotions and let them know you understand how they feel. Tell them something like “I understand how you’re feeling misunderstood” or “I understand how you could feel disrespected even though it wasn’t my intention.”
6. **Be Honest and Transparent:** Be honest about your feelings and concerns, even if they are difficult to express. Transparency builds trust and intimacy in the relationship. Practice. Tell them you’re having a hard time expressing this.
7. **Focus on Solutions:** Instead of dwelling on the problem, focus on finding solutions together. Brainstorm ideas and compromises that work for both of you to resolve the issue. Think of the future rather than the past.
8. **Maintain Calmness:** Stay calm and composed during the conversation, even if emotions run high. Take deep breaths and pause if needed to regain composure before continuing. Take a break if needed. Do not shout!
9. **Practice Patience and Understanding:** Understand that difficult conversations take time and may require multiple discussions to reach a resolution. Be patient with each other and avoid rushing the process.
10. **End on a Positive Note:** Conclude the conversation on a positive note, reaffirming your love and commitment to each other. Express gratitude for your partner’s willingness to engage in open communication. Hugs and caressing or a kiss and an “I love you” should end the conversation.
Remember, difficult conversations can be challenging, but they also present opportunities for growth and deeper connection in your relationship. Approach them with love, compassion, and a willingness to understand each other better.
I already had a difficult conversation with my lover, and I realized that I’ve been keeping a lot inside to keep the peace. The buildup was upsetting our peace, though…
So, I’ll be using these tips much more often.
This weekend, we have a date to chat 💛 ❤️ 😍
Which was your favorite?
When I have thought conversations with my man, #2,4,5 have offered the best results.
Thank you very much for reading, and if you loved this, follow this blog because I have lots of other love and union advice.
With love and ligh,
Eve, ready for this weekend: planned the outfit, the conversation, thinking about the lovemaking
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Love is a force that enriches our lives, connects us to others, and brings joy and fulfillment. While grand gestures and extravagant displays of affection have their place, true love often thrives in the simplicity of everyday moments. Here are five simple ways to cultivate deeper connections and love more fully today:
**1. Practice Active Listening:** Truly hearing and understanding someone is one of the most profound acts of love. Take the time to listen attentively to your loved ones without interrupting or judging. Show empathy and validation by acknowledging their feelings and experiences. By making others feel heard and valued, you strengthen your bonds and deepen your relationships.
**2. Express Gratitude:** Take a moment to appreciate the people in your life and the love they bring. Express gratitude for their presence, their kindness, and the little things they do that make a difference. Whether it’s a heartfelt thank-you note, a spontaneous hug, or a sincere compliment, expressing gratitude fosters warmth and connection in relationships.
**3. Show Affection Through Actions:** Small gestures of affection can speak volumes. Show your love through simple acts of kindness, such as preparing a favorite meal, offering a comforting embrace, or lending a helping hand. These gestures demonstrate thoughtfulness, care, and consideration, strengthening the bond between you and your loved ones.
**4. Be Present in the Moment:** In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in distractions and obligations. Take the time to be fully present with your loved ones, giving them your undivided attention and affection. Put away your devices, engage in meaningful conversations, and create cherished memories together. Being present allows you to deepen your connections and savor the beauty of each moment.
**5. Cultivate Self-Love:** Loving deeply starts from within. Take care of yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually, honoring your needs and nurturing your well-being. Practice self-compassion, embrace your strengths and imperfections, and prioritize self-care activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. By loving and accepting yourself wholeheartedly, you’ll be better equipped to love others deeply and authentically.
Incorporating these simple practices into your daily life can foster deeper connections, enrich your relationships, and infuse your world with more love and meaning. Remember, love is not just a feeling—it’s a choice and a commitment to nurturing the bonds that matter most. So, dive deeper, embrace love in all its forms, and let your heart shine brightly today and every day.
It’s Pisces season, and I’m a Pisces woman, so let’s talk about the Pisces energy.
Pisces people are often known for their compassionate nature, deep empathy, and imaginative creativity. They tend to have a strong intuition and are highly sensitive to the emotions of others, making them great listeners and supportive friends. Additionally, their artistic talents and ability to see the world through a unique lens contribute to their wonderful and enchanting qualities.
Pisces in Love
Pisces individuals can be great partners in love because of their innate empathy, compassion, and emotional depth. They are often highly attuned to their partner’s needs and feelings, making them thoughtful and caring companions. Pisces’ romantic nature and imaginative approach to love can bring a sense of magic and adventure to relationships. Additionally, their ability to connect on a deep emotional level fosters intimacy and understanding in their romantic bonds.
Are you a Pisces or the lucky lover of a Pisces? Would you let us know your honest opinion?
I have a few new poems to share. Here is the first:
“Volcano” by Eve Lovestar
I doubted whether there was Pisces energy in this poem, but there is. Pisces can feel under their stoic partner’s persona and understand their lover in a deeper way that they’ve probably been understood ever before.
This was a simple thought, but it is how I feel about my stoic flame, who I call Scorpio. Scorpio has a volcano underneath!
I wrote a second poem of a similar energy that my dear partner called goofy 🤪 but it’s very, very, something else! I can’t share it here. It’s a sensitive, 🥺 sensitive 🥺 poem. One of those that my lame poetry app flagged and demanded I change it… so, I shared it to my most secret poetry gallery in my collection. This is where I share the poems I don’t want to share. I believe I have a total of 4 poems I have not shared yet. I might in the future. Let’s see how much I change. In the recent past, I have shared 3 secret poems to this secret gallery.
To read my secret poems, follow my poetry collection through this link: of course, these poems are highly sexual!
What is the transformational power of love? Love could transform our lives, and there’s no doubt about that. But there is more.
Today, I’m thinking of Love as a divine energy that some of us are able to tap into, but not everyone. My personal belief is that love can improve the world. How?
If we’re a vessel for love, we can share this love energy wherever we go, making the world a better place
If we are in love or have love in our lives, including self-love, we will be more relaxed, happier, much more able to deal with conflict, and better equipped for interpersonal relationships, thus making the world a better place by making our world a better place
If we make decisions with love every day, we would make much better decisions that would have a more positive impact on the world
Love is often regarded as a profoundly personal emotion, confined to the realm of romantic relationships or familial bonds. However, its impact extends far beyond the individual, reaching into our communities, workplaces, and the world at large. In a time where division and discord seem to dominate headlines, harnessing the power of love has never been more crucial.
Here, we explore how various forms of love—romantic, familial, self-love, and love in the workplace—can catalyze positive change and offer simple steps for anyone to contribute to a better world.
**1. Romantic Love:**
Romantic love is perhaps the most celebrated form of love, yet its potential to influence the world often goes unrecognized. When two individuals come together in love, they have the capacity to inspire each other, support growth, and foster resilience. Moreover, love teaches us empathy, compassion, and compromise—qualities that are essential for building harmonious societies. Additionally, it is a far better experience for children growing in the home when there’s an energy of love between the parents. When the children grow, they will improve the condition of the world if they have inherited the divine energy of love.
*Easy Steps:* – Practice active listening and open communication with your partner. You will gain skills that you will be able to use in situations with others that can have a positive impact on your relationships and community. – Cultivate gratitude for the small gestures and moments shared together. Get so used to feeling gratitude that you extend the feeling outside your romantic relationship. – Extend kindness and affection not only to your partner but also to strangers and acquaintances.
**2. Family Love:**
Family serves as the cornerstone of society, providing love, stability, and support. The bonds formed within families create a ripple effect that can influence generations to come. By nurturing strong family ties, we cultivate values of empathy, respect, and responsibility, which are essential for creating a more compassionate world. It’s easy to see how a great family has a positive effect on the community, which is our world. Similarly, we all know toxic family dynamics deeply would individuals who might be brokenhearted even for life which does not make the world a better place.
*Easy Steps:* – Spend quality time with family members, engaging in meaningful conversations and activities. – Express appreciation and affection regularly to strengthen familial bonds. – Practice forgiveness and understanding during times of conflict or disagreement.
**3. Self-Love:**
Self-love forms the foundation upon which all other forms of love are built. When we prioritize self-care and acceptance, we become better equipped to love others and contribute positively to the world around us. Moreover, self-love empowers us to set healthy boundaries, pursue our passions, and strive for personal growth.
*Easy Steps:* – Practice self-care rituals that nourish your body, mind, and soul, such as meditation, exercise, or creative expression. Being relaxed and happy will help you positively impact the world. – Challenge self-critical thoughts and cultivate self-compassion through affirmations and positive self-talk. As you get used to doing – Set aside time for activities that bring you joy and fulfillment, without guilt or obligation. Invite others into joyous and fulfilling activities for a bigger impact.
**4. Love in the Workplace:**
The majority of our waking hours are spent in the workplace, making it a prime environment for fostering love and connection. When coworkers operate from a place of mutual respect, collaboration, and support, productivity flourishes, and innovation thrives. Additionally, a culture of love in the workplace promotes employee well-being, reduces stress, and impacts the world in a positive way.
*Easy Steps:*
– Practice kindness and acceptance of other’s personalities. Learn not to complain unless needed. Be strong and don’t give in to any activities that would lower your vibe. – Be a love leader in the workplace. For some odd reason, people are okay showing their toxic love ways at work. Exude the energy of love everywhere, including in the workplace. I do as much as possible. I’m not afraid to show I’m a lover. I’m not afraid to show I’m in love. I’m not afraid to talk about many of these topics with coworkers and acquaintances. – Stand up against gossip and drama in the workplace. It’ll make the drama queens uncomfortable, but it will teach lessons, release drama, and relieve you and those who are being attacked by malicious gossip. In general, it’ll make the workplace a better place for all, and the idea is that people will be so positively affected that they’ll take some of that positive energy into the other parts of their life, thus contributing to a better world for all.
Today I will offer some easy steps for you to cultivate love within your relationship. My beloved and I naturally did all these things together. Our love I believe to be fated, however, you can follow these steps to reverse engineer Union.
Divine Love
Divine Love is love which is destined by fate or Love that has a divine aspect. You cannot make a connection to be fated if it isn’t, but you can figure out if a connection has a divine aspect by contemplating the effects the connection has on you, the depth of the connection, the healing the relationship causes, obviously, if getting the opposite, that connection would not be divine.
For the record, I don’t think that there is no value in connections that are not divine, but my opinion is that if it’s not divine, it might be earthly. In my experience, lots if not most of earthly connections are toxic.
You can cultivate divine love by connecting to what is divine together, by engaging in acts of kindness together, by reflecting on spiritual beliefs together and especially, if you have similar beliefs and values, bond over them.
Having compassion for your beloved is a good way to cultivate divine love. Understand your partner’s spiritual journey and help them without judgement and without pushing them. Engage in spiritual practices together and figure out new practices that will foster a deeper connection within you two.
Having children
For some people, such as myself, having children together is a very spiritual thing since we’re joining our essence with our partner and going into the future through our children. Additionally, your partner and you will have shared ancestry and that is a big deal. In our spiritual views, there are generational curses and blessings and as such, we want to be very intentional about who we mate with. It is my belief that we should cultivate divine love in our connection before we have children and then, having children will cultivate more divine love in the relationship.
Gratitude
Be grateful for each other and express gratitude. Then figure out what other things you can be grateful for as gratitude improves our lives. Anything you’re grateful for, grows. Starting a gratitude journal is a great idea to reflect and manifest more of the same.
Prayer and blessings
Pray together and/ or pray for each other. Pray for your union. Bless each other and send each other blessings. See your partner as blessed beyond belief.
Lovemaking
A divine connection is one where sex is lovemaking. I define lovemaking as sex that involves the heart. Connect through lovemaking. When your love is divine, it feels as though you’re connecting to a higher consciousness through lovemaking.
Healing
When love is divine, healing occurs. To cultivate divine love, heal your inner wounds, especially having to do with love or sex, this will allow to love deeper. You might be able to express previously suppressed energies from within you, especially if you are able to connect to a higher Love energy.
Forgiveness
Forgive each other and use that energy of acceptance and forgiveness to forgive the others who have hurt you in the past.
Journal about it
Journal about the meaning of divine love to you and how to foster it in your relationship. Come up with ideas of specific things you can do together to cultivate even more divine love.
Set powerful intentions
Set an intention to cultivate Divine Love. Set intentions regarding everything you are intentional about: Intend to have open communication. Intend to deepen the connection. Intend on healing through love. Intend that your grandchildren inherit healthy energy from you and your partner, etc.
Talk to your partner’s higher self
I stumbled upon this concept by following the Twin Flames 1111 blog by Cassady Cayne. I have now been a long-time follower and have consumed a lot of her content. This idea came from her tools, she offers many higher-level tools, way higher than I am expressing here. If you have already done all the simple steps and are ready for more, give her blog a follow.
I started communicating with my twin flame higher self in meditation and it was fun but eventually, his higher self started communicating with me in my meditation. Eventually I opened up and I chatted with his spirit. By now, his spirit’s voice is in my mind, answering all of my questions and giving me advice. Like I said, this is higher level than the steps I talked about before. You decide how divine your love will get. What resonates with you?
Remember that cultivating divine love is a journey that requires patience, commitment, and mutual effort from both partners. It’s about nurturing a deep, spiritual connection that transcends the physical and emotional aspects of your relationship.
How do you cultivate divine love within your relationship?
Thank you very much for visiting me today,
Eve, cultivating Divine Love with my lover, Scorpio
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