Category: Love

  • Gratitude Challenge

    Dear diary,

    I am so concerned with doing something new that at times I forget to go back and do the usual old things.

    I have definitely done so many new things lately! And I have so much to write about, but today, I look at recent events in my life with gratitude. 🥹 🙏 ✨️

    What I’m grateful for this March

    This was definitely prompted by my birthday, and I’m absolutely grateful for the events on my birthday and the weekend afterward. I’m also grateful for the Pisces season, my absolute favorite 😍 season!

    • I started spring cleaning early, and it has resulted in a much cleaner and more beautiful home
    • I got new fabrics and art materials
    • I received amazing presents from my beloved Scorpio: A gorgeous glass serving bowl, a set of exquisite metal mixing bowls, an Audible account with the Book I wanted to read and many more interesting books, my favorite essential oils, I’m now wearing Jasmin, and a mystery piece of jewelry inspired by the book I wanted to read. A piece so private, I might tell you about it on my Sex with Scorpio blog, or I might not.
    • A lovely birthday celebration with my beloved. Do you think he reads this blog? 🤔 Perhaps only now I can recognize his celebration because it’s like everything he does, subtle, sexy, and unique, Scorpio like unlike the outrageous things some people do to celebrate others. Scorpio would never post on my Facebook happy birthday. Well, I have matured! I’m grateful for that.
    • Deeper union undoubtedly. More understanding. Today,
    • I started to practice more forgiveness, and it felt really great.
    • Leveling up our homeschooling! This has taken several years and end of 2023, and the beginning of this year has been our very best.
    • I’m so grateful for the amazing tutors we have hired for our children. We live in Arizona, where homeschooling is a thing, and we got an ESA, an Arizona program that gives children funds for their education. They pay for the amazing tutors we hire, computer and school materials. My oldest daughter has a fabulous UK English teacher, Dr. Anthony Radice, who teaches her a story writing class, it’s her favorite class. My second daughter has 3 different art classes.
    • The flowers are opening up in Arizona already, and I’m so grateful for them.
    • I literally had my best birthday yet, and I have a way forward to celebrate my birthday in a productive way.
    • I’m so grateful that this birthday was so good because it helped me “heal” from a very difficult birthday season last year.
    • I have been organizing my closet and realized I have more clothes that I could have ever guessed!
    • My shelves are stocked with food, supplements, and essential oils.
    • I’m drawing again and better than before and practicing my handwriting.
    • My children are starting to love learning, which makes me feel warm and fuzzy.
    • My love and I bought more than 50 books for our 5 children. Mostly for their homeschooling, and we know which books would spark their interest! It was amazing.
    • I have a new journal. It’s a vintage journal, not used, which I bought at Goodwill (like our children’s books).
    • Very amazing lovemaking (I try not to brag here about this topic, but it was really epic this month and absolutely worth mentioning). Read my sex journal on my Sex with Scorpio blog.
    • My best writings yet. Best poetry, 2 first songs! Amazing creative progress
    • I’m grateful for how many people are reading and interacting with this blog. Thank you 😊
    • Calligraphy practice
    • Starting my first poetry journal since my pre-tens years, but this time with my own poetry. I’m so excited! 😊 I started the journal since I mentioned the journal up there. It was the perfect time.
    • And there’s more!
    The Poetry Journal: Invade your space by Eve Lovestar

    As I practiced this exercise, I realized I was blessed this Pisces season more than ever before and that I’m doing really well.

    This is why gratitude journaling is powerful, and I’ll probably at least do it once a season from now on (astrological season). I shall do this in Aries season again, at least)

    With love and light,

    Eve, working on my poetry journal. I just finished my first poem, and I’m almost in tears!

  • Birthday in Pisces. Creating new rituals. Best celebration of me

    Dear journal,

    It’s my birthday today (it was on 3/7 when I started this), and I have been writing a lot about this event. How do I celebrate my birthday as a responsible adult? First, I have to become responsible! 😆 🤣 😂 that was a joke… 😆 🤣 😂

    My birthday rituals until now:

    • Fabulous hairstyle
    • Dressing up
    • Buying arts and crafts materials
    • Buying fabric
    • Oftentimes, getting Chipotle

    New birthday rituals I’m creating

    • Gratitude journaling
    • Past year in review
    • Setting intentions for next year
    • Accepting responsibility and being accountable for my actions
    • Giving back or charity
    • Baking my favorite cookies
    • Still buying art and craft materials and fabrics.

    I’m changing my rituals from stuff about my looks (and arts and crafts) to a more mature way to celebrate my birthday. I’m turning my birthday around and infusing my celebration with astrology, shadow work/ personal growth, and union because it’s not just what i look like on this day that ensures the best time.

    My intention for my birthday season is to do things that are good for me for the entire year because I realized it’s not about being happy on my birthday but doing things that would ensure prolonged happiness.

    I am 37, and I know I don’t look that age. My secret is faith, love, and so much lovemaking. ❤️ My teeth aged, though 😬 and I’ll talk about that.

    Birthday evolution:

    In childhood, our birthday celebration is not our responsibility. Typically, parents and families celebrate their children. I have two daughters who still don’t know know their own birthdays, but they don’t have to remember. They don’t get to stress about it. They know mommy will remind them the month before. We will have a birthday countdown. There will be fun and celebration. They will get their favorite foods and presents and more. My children even travel for their birthdays.

    In our teenage years, we experience a need to separate from our family and become our own person, and this might manifest as going out, celebrating with friends, and all sorts of different ways. Teenagers don’t want to be celebrated the way children do. They want their birthday to be cool and not sweet. They might want an expensive gift of their choosing or money. They might reject the usual birthday party.

    Even further, teenagers and very young people can celebrate their birthday in an unconscious and selfish way. For example: excessive partying, drinking, drug use, spending lots of money, shallow sex, and some selfish people might treat themselves to cheating on their girlfriend or boyfriend. 🤔

    I have noticed that many adults don’t grow past the stage of very young people birthday celebrations. Other adults simply don’t celebrate or do anything. Some adults do not want to be reminded of their birthday and rather nobody knew. My Scorpio lover says it’s just another day…

    What would be an evolution 🤔 of our birthday celebration if we suddenly become a mature and responsible adult? 🤔 It certainly would not be some of the damaging things some adults do.

    My intention is to change my birthday around from a let me have fun this day to let me do good things for me that will ensure I’m growing, getting better, becoming happier! This will be my renewed conscious birthday celebration.

    Accepting responsibility for my actions

    I will be very honest, and it hurts. I had not gone to the dentist in an embarrassingly long time. I spent my birthday lunch at the dentist, and wow, did I take responsibility for my actions! I am losing a tooth, which now I realize I must celebrate this loss. I already mourned the loss. I also will schedule pre-birthday dentist appointments so I will not have to go on my birthday.

    I decided to use my birthday to go to the dentist because I was way overdue, but I’m using this experience (divine as it was) for my growth and development.

    Doing something hard on my birthday

    Long ago, before I became Lovestar, I was lazy. I worked myself to a daily cleaning practice and was successful. Then my birthday came. On my birthday, the young me decided I would not clean on my birthday. What would be the hurt of one day of no cleaning? No big deal.

    Well, I broke my cleaning routine on my birthday, and this destroyed my cleaning routine, and I was unable to do all my work again for the longest time. 🙃 It was necessary, I realized, to do the hard things on my birthday!

    Life is not easy. It is important to do the normal, not easy, and not fun things on our birthday too. It is also important to celebrate but with balance. I work on my birthdays, too.

    A birthday joke

    It was my birthday and I had to write the date down.

    What date is it?

    Oh, right, it’s my birthday!

    But, what date is it?

    I pray you took something of value from my birthday introspection.

    I have been most busy which is why I have been offline.

    I decided to take responsibility very seriously and have been doing intense amounts of housework, house repair, and more. I also started spring cleaning, which is the earliest spring cleaning for me, and will become part of my birthday plan for the future.

    With love and light,

    Eve, now 37 (my birthday is 3/7 and now I’m 37) there’s actually significance to this birthday so I’ll write more about this.

  • What triangles and geometry taught me about union

    Dear Lovestar,

    I love geometry and use it for my work. I will be studying and learning more about geometry and specifically triangles. Why triangles? My favorite shape is, of course, the heart.

    Triangles from my childhood:

    I have memory holes of my childhood, but there are certain odd things I remember. One such strange phenomenon was my tracing triangles on my skin. I vividly remember wondering why am I doing this as I was tracing a triangle over and over again on my skin with my finger.

    The tracing happened automatically, and it was obviously something I was not thinking about but rather something that happened, and as it happened, I noticed then wondered why am I doing this? But I was unable to stop it. Even when I noticed it, I just observed the behavior amused.

    I would do it in different places such as my leg, my arm, my wrist… and the triangle shapes would sometimes face down and sometimes up. It was a very automatic and unconscious behavior.

    I thought I was a very strange kid 🤔 but after my spiritual awakening, upon remembering, I realized it was a spiritual phenomenon.  It would be great if I knew why or what it did, but it’s OK because I know it was for my highest good.

    My lover’s triangles of beauty marks:

    Only recently, I noticed that my beloved, Scorpio, has 2 triangles on his back. I called them constellations of beauty marks that make 2 perfect triangles next to one another.

    It was so amazing that I took pictures and I will not share them because he’s very private.

    What does it mean?

    I don’t know!

    But my mind worked fast and took me to the most basic geometry. Triangles have 3 sides, and for some reason, that made me think of the Trinity. The Trinity makes me think about union.

    The Trinity is so mysterious that we can’t understand it. As mysterious as the Trinity is Union, the elusive state in which we are one and the same. But union is even more complex than that.

    I have new insights about union that I guess I’m going to talk about in this post. I didn’t have a script. This developed mysteriously! This is a complex topic, but I have a simple way to explain it now. 

    Note: This is the conclusion I have reached about MY union. I am not suggesting that your union is like mine, and I have not studied other unions yet. Please study your own union and reach your own conclusions.

    We are a percentage of our souls. A small portion of our souls incarnated, and the rest is our “higher self.” Well, after interacting with my lover’s higher self for a while, I reached the conclusion that I too am an incarnation of “his” higher self, which is also my higher self.

    What triangles taught me about Union:

    Imagine a triangle with 3 equal sides, called an equilateral triangle. Imagine the top point to be the higher self, and in this case of twin flame union (again, I don’t know how other unions work), the higher self shone down 2 identical sides 😳 (Scorpio and I) and those two sides create a third energy (the third side) which is Union.

    Are equilateral triangles the shapes of union?

    Forget the heart. Equilateral triangles appear to be the shape of union. I will be using them from now on in my meditation, art, and rituals. I guess I’ll have to talk about this topic in the future. Once I know and understand more about this topic.

    Visualization exercise:

    Imagine a higher self or higher point shining down onto Earth you and your beloved. Both sides are the perfect length. See the union line as a strong, solid, unbreakable line. See the divine union triangle as harmonious and balanced. 

    I guess I did something different!

    Would you share about your experience with union

    With love and light,

    Eve = 1 side of the Divine Love triangle.

  • Pisces Holidays. Celebrations of spirituality, love, kindness, beauty, and nature.

    Pisces Holidays. Celebrations of spirituality, love, kindness, beauty, and nature.

    Dear Lovestar,

    I did this for Scorpio season when I highlighted the Scorpio season holidays of the dark and of war. It was enlightening to see that some holidays (certainly not all) aligned with the astrological energy at the time. Guess what? There are no dark holidays during Pisces season (that I found during 1 day of research)

    Today, I am researching the holidays celebrated during the Pisces season, and I want to know which ones align with the Pisces energy.

    Note: Not all holidays and celebratory days were included, and this information was collected online. There might be errors, and if you find one, please point it out.

    Pisces Season Holidays

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  • Is March the most romantic month of the year? Energy of Pisces = Romance. 😊 🙏 🤗

    Is March the most romantic month of the year? Energy of Pisces = Romance. 😊 🙏 🤗

    Dear Lovestar,

    "Pisces"

    The energy of the Pisces
    Is it mermaids at high seas?
    Or is it a mental crisis?

    As far as my eyes can see,
    And as far as my heart feels,
    All of my senses perceive
    Romance and eternal bliss,
    Making love and making peace.

    Eve Lovestar

    The energy of Pisces = Romance is what I realized in my analysis of the current energy by observing and analyzing the recent events in my life and my lover’s life. As a Pisces woman, you’re welcome.

    Note: I might be biased as a Pisces woman and as a romantic poet. These events might be the result of our karma and our inner work. There is no guarantee that these events will happen in your life, but in my belief, the current energy can trigger these if you’re ready and open to receive.

    I have noticed a few themes this March, and I wanted to share them. All of these themes are possible now. All happened in my house, some more than once. There is one current theme, ROMANCE. I believe March is even more romantic than February. What do you think?

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  • Activities to include poetry in and my new poems

    My current favorite poem. My previous favorite was Interdimensional travel, which I just wrote into song form.

    Dear Lovestar,

    You know I’m a poetry fanatic. Today, I will give all (but including me) some ideas to include more poetry in our lives. I will be doing some of these.

    But first, my newest poem:

    "It Starts"

    It starts with a kiss
    Or the soft breeze
    Brings me a piece
    Of you.
    Or it starts with a look,
    Or a page in a book
    Reminds me of you.
    It starts with a thought.
    Sometimes mine,
    Sometimes yours
    Mostly both
    Simultaneously.
    It starts with a kiss
    And the progress is quick
    Until we're on our sheets
    Making Love.

    Eve Lovestar

    Activities to include poetry in

    **Homeschool**: I love homeschooling (my children also have tutors) and use poetry for their lessons. I studied a lot of poetry, and I want to at least introduce my children to this magic. My oldest daughter has a great writing tutor (Dr. Anthony Radice) who has a poetry study class, and I’m convincing her to take it. Currently, I’m creating a Cleopatra lesson that I’ve been working on for about one week. I’m designing it to be an inmersive experience rather than a normal class, so I’m creating 2 board games, and I have integrated visualization exercises throughout the lessons and now I’m writing a poem for Cleopatra. Cleopatra was cool. She liked poetry! It’s the least I could do for the most powerful woman in history.

    Exerpt of my children’s poem, Cleopatra
    Exerpt of Cleopatra. Work in progress


    **Leisure Time**: Relaxing on a hammock with a poetry book or even reading poetry online 😀 and some snacks 😋 😀 is the perfect evening of weekend activity. I read poetry every day. I write poetry most days.

    **Relaxation**: Weekends offer a break from the hustle and bustle of the workweek, making it an ideal time for leisurely pursuits such as reading poetry. Few things can be as relaxing. My tip is to save poems that are relaxing to you. Reminder that you can download most of my poems on my poetry collection, though this link totally free.

    http://www.mobileapp.app/to/duCowXa?ref=cl

    **Inspiration**: Whenever I find an inspirational poem, I save it. An inspiration poem is a great and very easy to use tool for inspiration.


    **Personal Rituals**: Some individuals may have personal rituals or routines that involve reading poetry on weekends, such as enjoying a cup of tea while delving into a collection of poems.

    **Spiritual Rituals**: Have you noticed how spells rhyme? It’s because there’s a secret power to rhyming and poetry. Including poetry and rhyming into our spiritual rituals makes sense.

    **Nature and Inspiration**: Outdoor activities and nature walks can inspire creativity and appreciation for poetry. I write poetry at the park. Reading good poetry at the park would be awesome, too.

    **Poetry in therapy**: Use poetry as a therapeutic tool for self-expression and reflection in counseling or support groups or personal reflections.

    **Journaling**: It not only looks good on your journal, remember, there’s a secret power in poetry. If you don’t write poetry, simply write on your journal favorite poems or excerpts of poetry that speak to you or make you feel a desired way.

    **Arts and Crafts**: Another use for poetry where it just makes sense. Practice your calligraphy, create artwork for your wall of a poem, dedication cards, use a printed poem as background for any art form, create mixed media art including a printed poem… the possibilities are endless. Please leave me a comment with additional ideas to include in this list.

    **Romance**: What are poets most know for? Being romantics. Poems can offer insight, advice, inspiration, or a new energy that could potentially enhance your love life. I use my poetry 💯 percent to manifest the dream union I have today. But even before I fell in love, I loved to indulge in the sweet energy of a romantic poem.

    **Learning a new language **: When you learn a new language, you study a lot of boring stuff. I’m suggesting you should study something fun like the poetry and/ or music I’m that language. It’ll be much more fun and it’ll help with learning about the culture, too.

    What did you think?

    Will you be using any of these tips?

    Did I miss anything?

    Thank you so much for reading, and if you have a topic for a future topic, please leave me a comment.

    With love and light,

    Eve

  • 5 Simple Ways to Love More Today

    5 Simple Ways to Love More Today

    Dear Lovestar,

    Love is a force that enriches our lives, connects us to others, and brings joy and fulfillment. While grand gestures and extravagant displays of affection have their place, true love often thrives in the simplicity of everyday moments. Here are five simple ways to cultivate deeper connections and love more fully today:

    **1. Practice Active Listening:**
    Truly hearing and understanding someone is one of the most profound acts of love. Take the time to listen attentively to your loved ones without interrupting or judging. Show empathy and validation by acknowledging their feelings and experiences. By making others feel heard and valued, you strengthen your bonds and deepen your relationships.

    **2. Express Gratitude:**
    Take a moment to appreciate the people in your life and the love they bring. Express gratitude for their presence, their kindness, and the little things they do that make a difference. Whether it’s a heartfelt thank-you note, a spontaneous hug, or a sincere compliment, expressing gratitude fosters warmth and connection in relationships.

    **3. Show Affection Through Actions:**
    Small gestures of affection can speak volumes. Show your love through simple acts of kindness, such as preparing a favorite meal, offering a comforting embrace, or lending a helping hand. These gestures demonstrate thoughtfulness, care, and consideration, strengthening the bond between you and your loved ones.

    **4. Be Present in the Moment:**
    In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in distractions and obligations. Take the time to be fully present with your loved ones, giving them your undivided attention and affection. Put away your devices, engage in meaningful conversations, and create cherished memories together. Being present allows you to deepen your connections and savor the beauty of each moment.

    **5. Cultivate Self-Love:**
    Loving deeply starts from within. Take care of yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually, honoring your needs and nurturing your well-being. Practice self-compassion, embrace your strengths and imperfections, and prioritize self-care activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. By loving and accepting yourself wholeheartedly, you’ll be better equipped to love others deeply and authentically.

    Incorporating these simple practices into your daily life can foster deeper connections, enrich your relationships, and infuse your world with more love and meaning. Remember, love is not just a feeling—it’s a choice and a commitment to nurturing the bonds that matter most. So, dive deeper, embrace love in all its forms, and let your heart shine brightly today and every day.

    Was this helpful?

    With love and light,

    Eve

  • Pisces energy. What makes Pisces people wonderful

    Pisces energy. What makes Pisces people wonderful

    Dear Lovestar,

    It’s Pisces season, and I’m a Pisces woman, so let’s talk about the Pisces energy.

    Pisces people are often known for their compassionate nature, deep empathy, and imaginative creativity. They tend to have a strong intuition and are highly sensitive to the emotions of others, making them great listeners and supportive friends. Additionally, their artistic talents and ability to see the world through a unique lens contribute to their wonderful and enchanting qualities.

    Pisces in Love

    Pisces individuals can be great partners in love because of their innate empathy, compassion, and emotional depth. They are often highly attuned to their partner’s needs and feelings, making them thoughtful and caring companions. Pisces’ romantic nature and imaginative approach to love can bring a sense of magic and adventure to relationships. Additionally, their ability to connect on a deep emotional level fosters intimacy and understanding in their romantic bonds.

    Are you a Pisces or the lucky lover of a Pisces? Would you let us know your honest opinion?

    Thanks

  • Why I am sad today journaling exercise, the wisdom in journaling, and Frozen references

    Why I am sad today journaling exercise, the wisdom in journaling, and Frozen references

    Dear diary,

    I became sad today. Just out of nowhere came a heaviness, and then my vibe sank.

    Sometimes, I don't feel well
    Whether I show it or not.
    Some feelings I can't explain
    Some energies I don't translate.
    When I get in my own way
    I simply go away and cry
    My eyes put, all alone.

    Was it really out of nowhere? I was listening to a fabulous Mel Robbins podcast about attachment styles that explained how they relate to our childhood traumas and the core wounds of every style. The podcast was so good that I took notes, and I might have figured out my own attachment style. It should have been a moment of joy at discovering such a huge part of me. Additionally, Mel’s guest explained that we can actually change our attachment style, which is very empowering, and that was the first time I heard that.

    However, rather than feeling empowered, out of me came a heaviness.

    Is it because my birthday is coming and I feel strangely alone?

    Am I being crushed under my own high expectations of me?

    Is my cup empty?

    All I know is I felt so sad today that I was unable to cook dinner.

    Is it because I’m being reminded of my dad wound that was opened wide last year at around this same time. A wound that destroyed my birthday last year and lasted so long that I was unable to enjoy my child’s birthday also?

    And then my lover shows up and asks:

    Is it because I’m pregnant? I will be taking a pregnancy test.

    Or is it because I need to do more healing? Always

    Either way, between Olaf and my beloved Scorpio, I was in a good place again.

    And then I'm well again:
    After journaling,
    And the creation of poetry
    I am well again.
    With word play I found the power
    To keep going again.
    My beloved shared his energy
    With me and we made love.
    I wore crystals,
    I wore yellow,
    And this powered me to go
    Well beyond where I was stuck
    In my mind.
    I then spent lots of time
    In the sun
    And I talked to the people I Love.
    I am happy again.
    All is well.

    Dear friend,

    I do my best to be a positive influence on the internet to somewhat balance the negative influences.

    However, acting as though I’m always happy would be dishonest, and I don’t want to lie to you.

    I don’t have this figured out, and that is why I journal. Why am I so bold to journal publicly, often exposing secrets? It saves me time because I don’t have to write something else to post here and also because some of my best wisdom comes this way. There’s a power in journaling that might be more powerful than poetry.

    On that topic, and away from my feelings, journaling precedes poetry! If you aspire to be a poet or want to make your poetry better, start journaling! This is the wisdom I was referring to and why journaling is so powerful. It pulls information out of us. It translates our baggage into text, and it’s so healing.

    Poems are like spells

    If you asked me how to be happy, I’d tell you to journal and read good poetry! But I’m not a happiness expert!

    I’m a Love expert, though. I made myself laugh. My Muses are funny, too! This reminded me of the movie Frozen when Christoff tells Ana and Olaf his family members, who are trolls, are love experts, and Olaf hilariously says he is a love expert! That is my favorite part of that movie. My favorite part in the second movie is when Olaf, the wisest character in the movir, explains to Elsa that water has memory, and with that knowledge, her powers increased, an epic moment in the movie. We’re in the Elsa topic because Olaf makes me smile. When I drew Elsa about 6 years ago, I racked my brains, trying to figure out the main lesson in the movie. It wasn’t, I found, any of the catchy lines from the songs. The line I wrote in my picture was Love Thaws. That is the main lesson from the first movie.

    I have much more to learn about love, too! I guess I’m not an expert at all

  • “Volcano” energy in my poetry. Secret poems I don’t share…

    Dear Lovestar,

    I have a few new poems to share. Here is the first:

    “Volcano” by Eve Lovestar

    I doubted whether there was Pisces energy  in this poem, but there is. Pisces can feel under their stoic partner’s persona and understand their lover in a deeper way that they’ve probably been understood ever before.

    This was a simple thought, but it is how I feel about my stoic flame, who I call Scorpio. Scorpio has a volcano underneath!

    I wrote a second poem of a similar energy that my dear partner called goofy 🤪 but it’s very, very, something else! I can’t share it here. It’s a sensitive, 🥺 sensitive 🥺 poem. One of those that my lame poetry app flagged and demanded I change it… so, I shared it to my most secret poetry gallery in my collection. This is where I share the poems I don’t want to share. I believe I have a total of 4 poems I have not shared yet. I might in the future. Let’s see how much I change. In the recent past, I have shared 3 secret poems to this secret gallery.

    To read my secret poems, follow my poetry collection through this link: of course, these poems are highly sexual!

    https://www.wix.app/one-app-pro-gallery/gallery/Component32/2ff23c89-550d-4ba2-ac75-0c60080b959a/e6c66516-0948-4bdb-a79c-7379623cfac8

    What are your thoughts about this poem?

    Can you guess what the secret poem is about?

    Eve, high and low today, honestly