Dear reader, Ever since my first child, now 11, was a baby, I have been interested in homeschooling. By now, I have 3 daughters being educated at home. Today, I don’t want to call it homeschooling anymore because what we do is not school. It is definitely education but not school. Home as the first […]
For a few years now, I have been celebrating birthdays as a birthday season rather than celebrating one single day.
I was already on a spiritual journey and observing astrology when I started celebrating a birthday season. I celebrate/ observe my birthday (and my children’s) for about 2 weeks, 1 before and one after.
My birthday month is my month. I personally love March from beginning to end, and I have a great feeling during the entire month. I don’t go crazy with celebration, but I do things for myself during the entire month. Now that I have been studying astrology for about 4 years, I celebrate the Pisces season as my season.
I started doing this because I realized how difficult it is to do all the things I wanted to do for my children’s birthday, and I had a feeling that I was not doing enough for them. Then I started doing some things before and some things after the birthday.
With this exercise, I intend to be more intentional about my family birthday celebrations and solidify this by adding reminders to my calendar. I will also add birthday reminders to my partner’s calendar.
Some things I do for my children pre and post birthdays:
Buy and stock their favorite foods
Take them to their favorite store
Let them choose what I’m cooking
Give them gifts
Let them choose activities to engage in
Spend extra time with said kid. Usually, I’m doing my best to be very fair and spend about the same time with each kid unless we’re celebrating a child’s birthday season, then they get extra time and attention and I might spend an hour cuddling with or holding a young child or 30 minutes having a deep chat with a big child.
Something I’ve started doing with my big girls is talk about how they’re changing. I let them know in which ways I think they’ve grown. I ask how they have changed. I tell them what I like about the “new” them, and oftentimes, they have not noticed how they have grown up.
I am grateful for their birthday. It might seem silly or small and unnecessary, but many parents regret the growth of their children. This is silly because we can’t stop them from growing up, and it sends the children the message that they’re wrong for growing.
I am not talking about my birthday anymore. Last weekend we celebrated the birthday of my second daughter. We will continue her celebration through the week and next weekend.
There are new ways in which I want to celebrate my children and therefore I’ll write about this again because whatever I write about, I get better at!
There are things I missed in my previous list. Additionally, there are new things I’m grateful for since yesterday!
Things I’m grateful for.
Celebrating my youngest daughter’s 2nd birthday this weekend.
Taking all our kids to their first jiu-jitsu class. Attempting to inspire my 4 year old son to like it so we can enroll him once a week.
It’s a perfect time for hiking in Arizona, and we did it as a family. We love hiking but had not done so in months.
Getting so many new arts and crafts materials for our children that it’s super fun to test all.
My two big girls started practicing their handwriting, totally inspired by my own handwriting practice. My second daughter, Cancer ♋️, is as much of an artist as me, and she has almost copied my style of handwriting with her own flavor. I was in tears when I noticed her swirls on her letters, the fact that she created her own font, and the adorable swirls she creates, almost like mine, adorned with hearts and dots.
I started designing some new outfits with the new fabrics I bought.
I had some home repair work done, and I have an appointment for another repair of a leak I have discovered. Next, I have plans to paint an ourside wall of my house.
I’m cleaning my car today.
I’m becoming more prepared. As Pisces, my freedom is paramount! I don’t want to have such a strict schedule that I’m being run by it, but I need to find a balance between my freedom and my accomplishments.
Mixing my own cleaning solution. I have always wanted this and watched many influences who do. I tried my own recipe and was so amazed at how fabulous it smells and how it helps the cleanup.
Again, with the spring cleaning: we bought many new brushes and cleaning materials. It was an investment, but even my daughter realized that with the right materials, it’s much easier to clean.
Running my diffuser. 2 of my diffusers broke during the last 12 months ( I had 3 as gifts, I guess, for my previous birthday), so buying new ones is not exciting because many are expensive but cheap… but in the last year, I learned how to clean a diffuser properly, and the survivor is so clean! I’m very grateful for this.
Since yesterday, I have written about 8 new poems for my new poetry journal! I’m not sure how I’ll proceed with this. I’m already working on several posts about my new journal, but I might hold the original poetry for a special type of project.
My lover and I got lots of new dishes.
It rained on my birthday and it’s raining again since yesterday. If you live in England, you might think it’s not a blessing, but I live in the desert, so birthday rain was a blessing, and I saw rainbows on my birthday and today! A sign of blessing and spiritual support!
With the beginning of spring, 2 of our new toddler trees in the yard (very exciting) are growing leaves again. One of them looked dead to my beloved Scorpio, so it was a pleasant surprise.
I said Scorpio gifted me an audio book of a new mystery book I wanted, and I listened to this book. I learned so many things. I’ll be reviewing this book but on my Sex with Scorpio blog.
I started listening to another book, which is not as exciting as the first, but I’m studying ancient civilizations/ cultures/ mythology, and I am learning about Norse mythology now
And I’m very grateful that I feel so very excellent ☺️
I definitely will do this much more often because, oh, how blessed I feel when I practice gratitude.
It’s not an easy thing to do publicly because we know that many people hate on other’s blessings, and I have attracted that for a very long time.
Gratitude 🥹 🥹 🥹 is a crucial step of manifestation, and I just got an idea! 💡
Union manifestation journaling prompt
Gratitude journal about this:
What are you grateful for in your love life, about your partner, your union?
As you ponder on this prompt challenge, you will send the signal to your lover and the universe that you accept the blessing of union.
I am so concerned with doing something new that at times I forget to go back and do the usual old things.
I have definitely done so many new things lately! And I have so much to write about, but today, I look at recent events in my life with gratitude. 🥹 🙏 ✨️
What I’m grateful for this March
This was definitely prompted by my birthday, and I’m absolutely grateful for the events on my birthday and the weekend afterward. I’m also grateful for the Pisces season, my absolute favorite 😍 season!
I started spring cleaning early, and it has resulted in a much cleaner and more beautiful home
I got new fabrics and art materials
I received amazing presents from my beloved Scorpio: A gorgeous glass serving bowl, a set of exquisite metal mixing bowls, an Audible account with the Book I wanted to read and many more interesting books, my favorite essential oils, I’m now wearing Jasmin, and a mystery piece of jewelry inspired by the book I wanted to read. A piece so private, I might tell you about it on my Sex with Scorpio blog, or I might not.
A lovely birthday celebration with my beloved. Do you think he reads this blog? 🤔 Perhaps only now I can recognize his celebration because it’s like everything he does, subtle, sexy, and unique, Scorpio like unlike the outrageous things some people do to celebrate others. Scorpio would never post on my Facebook happy birthday. Well, I have matured! I’m grateful for that.
Deeper union undoubtedly. More understanding. Today,
I started to practice more forgiveness, and it felt really great.
Leveling up our homeschooling! This has taken several years and end of 2023, and the beginning of this year has been our very best.
I’m so grateful for the amazing tutors we have hired for our children. We live in Arizona, where homeschooling is a thing, and we got an ESA, an Arizona program that gives children funds for their education. They pay for the amazing tutors we hire, computer and school materials. My oldest daughter has a fabulous UK English teacher, Dr. Anthony Radice, who teaches her a story writing class, it’s her favorite class. My second daughter has 3 different art classes.
The flowers are opening up in Arizona already, and I’m so grateful for them.
I literally had my best birthday yet, and I have a way forward to celebrate my birthday in a productive way.
I’m so grateful that this birthday was so good because it helped me “heal” from a very difficult birthday season last year.
I have been organizing my closet and realized I have more clothes that I could have ever guessed!
My shelves are stocked with food, supplements, and essential oils.
I’m drawing again and better than before and practicing my handwriting.
My children are starting to love learning, which makes me feel warm and fuzzy.
My love and I bought more than 50 books for our 5 children. Mostly for their homeschooling, and we know which books would spark their interest! It was amazing.
I have a new journal. It’s a vintage journal, not used, which I bought at Goodwill (like our children’s books).
Very amazing lovemaking (I try not to brag here about this topic, but it was really epic this month and absolutely worth mentioning). Read my sex journal on my Sex with Scorpio blog.
My best writings yet. Best poetry, 2 first songs! Amazing creative progress
I’m grateful for how many people are reading and interacting with this blog. Thank you 😊
Calligraphy practice
Starting my first poetry journal since my pre-tens years, but this time with my own poetry. I’m so excited! 😊 I started the journal since I mentioned the journal up there. It was the perfect time.
And there’s more!
The Poetry Journal: Invade your space by Eve Lovestar
As I practiced this exercise, I realized I was blessed this Pisces season more than ever before and that I’m doing really well.
This is why gratitude journaling is powerful, and I’ll probably at least do it once a season from now on (astrological season). I shall do this in Aries season again, at least)
With love and light,
Eve, working on my poetry journal. I just finished my first poem, and I’m almost in tears!
It’s my birthday today (it was on 3/7 when I started this), and I have been writing a lot about this event. How do I celebrate my birthday as a responsible adult? First, I have to become responsible! 😆 🤣 😂 that was a joke… 😆 🤣 😂
My birthday rituals until now:
Fabulous hairstyle
Dressing up
Buying arts and crafts materials
Buying fabric
Oftentimes, getting Chipotle
Braided hairstyle is quite messy in the afternoon but lasted all day
New birthday rituals I’m creating
Gratitude journaling
Past year in review
Setting intentions for next year
Accepting responsibility and being accountable for my actions
Giving back or charity
Baking my favorite cookies
Still buying art and craft materials and fabrics.
I’m changing my rituals from stuff about my looks (and arts and crafts) to a more mature way to celebrate my birthday. I’m turning my birthday around and infusing my celebration with astrology, shadow work/ personal growth, and union because it’s not just what i look like on this day that ensures the best time.
My intention for my birthday season is to do things that are good for me for the entire year because I realized it’s not about being happy on my birthday but doing things that would ensure prolonged happiness.
I am 37, and I know I don’t look that age. My secret is faith, love, and so much lovemaking. ❤️ My teeth aged, though 😬 and I’ll talk about that.
Birthday evolution:
In childhood, our birthday celebration is not our responsibility. Typically, parents and families celebrate their children. I have two daughters who still don’t know know their own birthdays, but they don’t have to remember. They don’t get to stress about it. They know mommy will remind them the month before. We will have a birthday countdown. There will be fun and celebration. They will get their favorite foods and presents and more. My children even travel for their birthdays.
In our teenage years, we experience a need to separate from our family and become our own person, and this might manifest as going out, celebrating with friends, and all sorts of different ways. Teenagers don’t want to be celebrated the way children do. They want their birthday to be cool and not sweet. They might want an expensive gift of their choosing or money. They might reject the usual birthday party.
Even further, teenagers and very young people can celebrate their birthday in an unconscious and selfish way. For example: excessive partying, drinking, drug use, spending lots of money, shallow sex, and some selfish people might treat themselves to cheating on their girlfriend or boyfriend. 🤔
I have noticed that many adults don’t grow past the stage of very young people birthday celebrations. Other adults simply don’t celebrate or do anything. Some adults do not want to be reminded of their birthday and rather nobody knew. My Scorpio lover says it’s just another day…
What would be an evolution 🤔 of our birthday celebration if we suddenly become a mature and responsible adult? 🤔 It certainly would not be some of the damaging things some adults do.
My intention is to change my birthday around from a let me have fun this day to let me do good things for me that will ensure I’m growing, getting better, becoming happier! This will be my renewed conscious birthday celebration.
Accepting responsibility for my actions
I will be very honest, and it hurts. I had not gone to the dentist in an embarrassingly long time. I spent my birthday lunch at the dentist, and wow, did I take responsibility for my actions! I am losing a tooth, which now I realize I must celebrate this loss. I already mourned the loss. I also will schedule pre-birthday dentist appointments so I will not have to go on my birthday.
I decided to use my birthday to go to the dentist because I was way overdue, but I’m using this experience (divine as it was) for my growth and development.
Doing something hard on my birthday
Long ago, before I became Lovestar, I was lazy. I worked myself to a daily cleaning practice and was successful. Then my birthday came. On my birthday, the young me decided I would not clean on my birthday. What would be the hurt of one day of no cleaning? No big deal.
Well, I broke my cleaning routine on my birthday, and this destroyed my cleaning routine, and I was unable to do all my work again for the longest time. 🙃 It was necessary, I realized, to do the hard things on my birthday!
Life is not easy. It is important to do the normal, not easy, and not fun things on our birthday too. It is also important to celebrate but with balance. I work on my birthdays, too.
A birthday joke
It was my birthday and I had to write the date down.
What date is it?
Oh, right, it’s my birthday!
But, what date is it?
I pray you took something of value from my birthday introspection.
I have been most busy which is why I have been offline.
I decided to take responsibility very seriously and have been doing intense amounts of housework, house repair, and more. I also started spring cleaning, which is the earliest spring cleaning for me, and will become part of my birthday plan for the future.
With love and light,
Eve, now 37 (my birthday is 3/7 and now I’m 37) there’s actually significance to this birthday so I’ll write more about this.
I love geometry and use it for my work. I will be studying and learning more about geometry and specifically triangles. Why triangles? My favorite shape is, of course, the heart.
Triangles from my childhood:
I have memory holes of my childhood, but there are certain odd things I remember. One such strange phenomenon was my tracing triangles on my skin. I vividly remember wondering why am I doing this as I was tracing a triangle over and over again on my skin with my finger.
The tracing happened automatically, and it was obviously something I was not thinking about but rather something that happened, and as it happened, I noticed then wondered why am I doing this? But I was unable to stop it. Even when I noticed it, I just observed the behavior amused.
I would do it in different places such as my leg, my arm, my wrist… and the triangle shapes would sometimes face down and sometimes up. It was a very automatic and unconscious behavior.
I thought I was a very strange kid 🤔 but after my spiritual awakening, upon remembering, I realized it was a spiritual phenomenon. It would be great if I knew why or what it did, but it’s OK because I know it was for my highest good.
My lover’s triangles of beauty marks:
Only recently, I noticed that my beloved, Scorpio, has 2 triangles on his back. I called them constellations of beauty marks that make 2 perfect triangles next to one another.
It was so amazing that I took pictures and I will not share them because he’s very private.
What does it mean?
I don’t know!
But my mind worked fast and took me to the most basic geometry. Triangles have 3 sides, and for some reason, that made me think of the Trinity. The Trinity makes me think about union.
The Trinity is so mysterious that we can’t understand it. As mysterious as the Trinity is Union, the elusive state in which we are one and the same. But union is even more complex than that.
I have new insights about union that I guess I’m going to talk about in this post. I didn’t have a script. This developed mysteriously! This is a complex topic, but I have a simple way to explain it now.
Note: This is the conclusion I have reached about MY union. I am not suggesting that your union is like mine, and I have not studied other unions yet. Please study your own union and reach your own conclusions.
We are a percentage of our souls. A small portion of our souls incarnated, and the rest is our “higher self.” Well, after interacting with my lover’s higher self for a while, I reached the conclusion that I too am an incarnation of “his” higher self, which is also my higher self.
What triangles taught me about Union:
Imagine a triangle with 3 equal sides, called an equilateral triangle. Imagine the top point to be the higher self, and in this case of twin flame union (again, I don’t know how other unions work), the higher self shone down 2 identical sides 😳 (Scorpio and I) and those two sides create a third energy (the third side) which is Union.
Are equilateral triangles the shapes of union?
Forget the heart. Equilateral triangles appear to be the shape of union. I will be using them from now on in my meditation, art, and rituals. I guess I’ll have to talk about this topic in the future. Once I know and understand more about this topic.
Visualization exercise:
Imagine a higher self or higher point shining down onto Earth you and your beloved. Both sides are the perfect length. See the union line as a strong, solid, unbreakable line. See the divine union triangle as harmonious and balanced.
I did this for Scorpio season when I highlighted the Scorpio season holidays of the dark and of war. It was enlightening to see that some holidays (certainly not all) aligned with the astrological energy at the time. Guess what? There are no dark holidays during Pisces season (that I found during 1 day of research)
Today, I am researching the holidays celebrated during the Pisces season, and I want to know which ones align with the Pisces energy.
Note: Not all holidays and celebratory days were included, and this information was collected online. There might be errors, and if you find one, please point it out.
The energy of the Pisces Is it mermaids at high seas? Or is it a mental crisis?
As far as my eyes can see, And as far as my heart feels, All of my senses perceive Romance and eternal bliss, Making love and making peace.
Eve Lovestar
The energy of Pisces = Romance is what I realized in my analysis of the current energy by observing and analyzing the recent events in my life and my lover’s life. As a Pisces woman, you’re welcome.
Note: I might be biased as a Pisces woman and as a romantic poet. These events might be the result of our karma and our inner work. There is no guarantee that these events will happen in your life, but in my belief, the current energy can trigger these if you’re ready and open to receive.
I have noticed a few themes this March, and I wanted to share them. All of these themes are possible now. All happened in my house, some more than once. There is one current theme, ROMANCE. I believe March is even more romantic than February. What do you think?
My current favorite poem. My previous favorite was Interdimensional travel, which I just wrote into song form.
Dear Lovestar,
You know I’m a poetry fanatic. Today, I will give all (but including me) some ideas to include more poetry in our lives. I will be doing some of these.
But first, my newest poem:
"It Starts"
It starts with a kiss Or the soft breeze Brings me a piece Of you. Or it starts with a look, Or a page in a book Reminds me of you. It starts with a thought. Sometimes mine, Sometimes yours Mostly both Simultaneously. It starts with a kiss And the progress is quick Until we're on our sheets Making Love.
Eve Lovestar
Activities to include poetry in
**Homeschool**: I love homeschooling (my children also have tutors) and use poetry for their lessons. I studied a lot of poetry, and I want to at least introduce my children to this magic. My oldest daughter has a great writing tutor (Dr. Anthony Radice) who has a poetry study class, and I’m convincing her to take it. Currently, I’m creating a Cleopatra lesson that I’ve been working on for about one week. I’m designing it to be an inmersive experience rather than a normal class, so I’m creating 2 board games, and I have integrated visualization exercises throughout the lessons and now I’m writing a poem for Cleopatra. Cleopatra was cool. She liked poetry! It’s the least I could do for the most powerful woman in history.
Exerpt of my children’s poem, Cleopatra Exerpt of Cleopatra. Work in progress
**Leisure Time**: Relaxing on a hammock with a poetry book or even reading poetry online 😀 and some snacks 😋 😀 is the perfect evening of weekend activity. I read poetry every day. I write poetry most days.
**Relaxation**: Weekends offer a break from the hustle and bustle of the workweek, making it an ideal time for leisurely pursuits such as reading poetry. Few things can be as relaxing. My tip is to save poems that are relaxing to you. Reminder that you can download most of my poems on my poetry collection, though this link totally free.
**Inspiration**: Whenever I find an inspirational poem, I save it. An inspiration poem is a great and very easy to use tool for inspiration.
**Personal Rituals**: Some individuals may have personal rituals or routines that involve reading poetry on weekends, such as enjoying a cup of tea while delving into a collection of poems.
**Spiritual Rituals**: Have you noticed how spells rhyme? It’s because there’s a secret power to rhyming and poetry. Including poetry and rhyming into our spiritual rituals makes sense.
**Nature and Inspiration**: Outdoor activities and nature walks can inspire creativity and appreciation for poetry. I write poetry at the park. Reading good poetry at the park would be awesome, too.
**Poetry in therapy**: Use poetry as a therapeutic tool for self-expression and reflection in counseling or support groups or personal reflections.
**Journaling**: It not only looks good on your journal, remember, there’s a secret power in poetry. If you don’t write poetry, simply write on your journal favorite poems or excerpts of poetry that speak to you or make you feel a desired way.
**Arts and Crafts**: Another use for poetry where it just makes sense. Practice your calligraphy, create artwork for your wall of a poem, dedication cards, use a printed poem as background for any art form, create mixed media art including a printed poem… the possibilities are endless. Please leave me a comment with additional ideas to include in this list.
**Romance**: What are poets most know for? Being romantics. Poems can offer insight, advice, inspiration, or a new energy that could potentially enhance your love life. I use my poetry 💯 percent to manifest the dream union I have today. But even before I fell in love, I loved to indulge in the sweet energy of a romantic poem.
**Learning a new language **: When you learn a new language, you study a lot of boring stuff. I’m suggesting you should study something fun like the poetry and/ or music I’m that language. It’ll be much more fun and it’ll help with learning about the culture, too.
What did you think?
Will you be using any of these tips?
Did I miss anything?
Thank you so much for reading, and if you have a topic for a future topic, please leave me a comment.
Lovestar Temple🔥 🔥 