Category: Love

  • Romance (1). How I meet my unmet need for romance. Intro

    Dear Lovestar,

    I am feeling so romantic today! I want to lounge on the couch with my lover. I want to kiss and be kissed so gently. I want a warm embrace, and I want to make love under a full moon.

    I want to receive a love letter. I want someone to dedicate me a song. I want to receive a poem.

    I want to dance around in a red ruffle dress. I want to wear a flower or my already romantically long hair. I want pearls on my neck.

    This is starting to sound like a poem…

    I want to hold hands. I want to look into someone’s eyes and discover their soul. I want to feel even deeper.

    That is why I come online and talk to you. Thank you, fellow romantic, for receiving my bold yet humble gift of romance.

    Romance is an unmet need that I have. My lover is not romantic like that. He accepts attention, but he’s a stoic…

    I’m guessing that lots of humans have an unmet need around romance, and I have a solution.

    You be romantic!

    I’m feeling romantic, so I did this:

    • I went for a little walk in the park
    • I let my hair down and felt cute
    • I went under the sun
    • I took pictures of bugs I shared with my lover, and we talked about them
    • I sat against my favorite tree, which I’ve blogged about before in the clean-up of the park post I shared
    • I took pictures of myself on this tree
    • I sent my lover’s the pictures
    • I shared a joke with him
    • And I talked to you. Thank you for listening
    We believe it’s the spotless lady beetle
    Oh, I should have smiled. No worries, I am smiling now. 😊
    I am not taking my shoes off here, but oh how I wish I was in my private garden. 
    My best friend, the tree, is such a romantic! We’re perfect for each other.

    I have decided to romance myself and to share my gift of romance with other romantics.

    In other words, Scorpio, my dear partner, doesn’t have to change to meet my need! I’ll meet my own romantic need. He does meet my Love and certainly lovemaking needs. Also, my friendship and conversation needs.

    I am not blaming my beloved Scorpio for not being a romantic, and I understand him for it 100 percent. He is but a victim of this cruel world.

    The problem is not the individual people who are not romantic. The problem is the setting we’re playing in.

    This is a huge topic for me. To not bore you, I’ll continue on another post.

    Are you a romantic, too?

    How do you meet your need for romance?

    Is your person a romantic?

    With love and light,

    Eve, creating tools to satisfy my hunger for romance.

  • Scorpio men receive these heartfelt text messages

    Dear Lovestar,

    I have shown you some of the sexy text messages I have sent my lover, Scorpio. Today, I’ll do more of it.

    I do this because it’s free content and for inspiration. Let me know if it helped. Feel free to copy me as long as you share these feelings for your person.

    I  believe the world would be a better place if we were all a little more romantic, and I’m just doing my part. This is part of my life mission. My intention is that visitors to this bold blog will become more romantic. You’re welcome.

    I have started doing my part by becoming more romantic, I’m on the way to becoming even more romantic. There’s always a next level.

    I have helped my lover be more romantic after he was left cold from several heartbreaks. And I’ll continue to romantically attract that man out of his mind.

    I have inspired my children to aspire to romance.

    I have poured my soul on the web to share my vision of a romantic world.

    And now I share with you some of my most vulnerable text messages to my beloved, who I call Scorpio.

    I meant something I couldn’t do before…

    That’s it for now.

    However, because I text this love of mine with this intensity all the time, I’ll collect more of these for future posts.

    With love and light,

    Eve, inspired and motivated to love even deeper!

  • Have a difficult conversation with a love partner that fosters love, connection, and union. Part 2.

    Dear Lovestar,

    Picture this: a couple is having a hard conversation. They love each other very much, and because of that, they’ve been avoiding this conversation, and by now, it’s worse. This is my love and I…

    She gets emotional and calls him insensitive. He complains that she’s too emotional and overreacts. She gets triggered and overreacts. He gets offended and withdraws. They don’t talk to each other for a week and don’t resolve the issue. They try to act like it didn’t happen, but there is a loss of trust from unresolved issues.

    How should we have difficult conversations? They are unavoidable in love relationships if we intend to deepen the connection?

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  • Have a difficult conversation with a love partner that fosters love, connection, and union.

    Dear Lovestar,

    Can we have a difficult conversation with our love partner while focusing on love, connection, and union? I believe it’s all in the energy we go into the conversation with.

    In fact, the intention we have going into the conversation alone doesn’t manifest the result. Triggers occur during difficult conversations. We can get triggered, or they can get triggered. Also, if our ego is involved, a fight might be the result. A misunderstanding so serious can occur that loving partners can up to break up during a tough conversation.

    Up until now, my beloved and I have not been the best at communication. We mean well, but we’re both loners, we both had issues going into our relationship, and we’re both moody water signs. We misunderstand each other frequently. Now we know not to get emotional over a misunderstanding but to have a productive conversation instead.

    I mean no judgment to anyone having an issue with this. I am learning this now. I write about the things I have learned the hard way mostly. I have learned how to have a difficult conversation with my lover, and we can come out of it with a deeper connection. I am teaching you what I have learned. 

    It’s not easy to be conscious when we feel disrespected, hurt, or emotional. However, what I’m suggesting is exactly to go into a difficult conversation consciously. Read through the list below, and you’ll notice that you will need to be conscious to be able to handle yourself in a way that you’ll manifest the best outcome for both parties.

    I will elaborate further in tomorrow’s post.


    Tips for having conscious, difficult conversations in love

    Today, I offer you tips for having a difficult conversation with your love partner while focusing on deepening your connection and strengthening your love and union:

    1. **Choose the Right Time and Place:** Find a time when both of you are relaxed and free from distractions. Choose a quiet and private space where you can talk openly without interruptions. Drop your cell phones.

    2. **Set the Right Intentions:** Approach the conversation with the intention of understanding each other better and strengthening your relationship rather than blaming or accusing.

    3. **Use “I” Statements:** Express your thoughts, feelings, and concerns using “I” statements to avoid sounding accusatory. For example, say, “I feel…” instead of “You make me feel…”.

    4. **Active Listening:** Practice active listening by fully focusing on what your partner is saying without interrupting. Show empathy and understanding by reflecting back what you hear to ensure you understand correctly. Don’t be thinking of your response while they talk.

    5. **Express Empathy:** Show empathy towards your partner’s feelings and perspectives, even if you disagree. Validate their emotions and let them know you understand how they feel. Tell them something like “I understand how you’re feeling misunderstood” or “I understand how you could feel disrespected even though it wasn’t my intention.”

    6. **Be Honest and Transparent:** Be honest about your feelings and concerns, even if they are difficult to express. Transparency builds trust and intimacy in the relationship. Practice. Tell them you’re having a hard time expressing this.

    7. **Focus on Solutions:** Instead of dwelling on the problem, focus on finding solutions together. Brainstorm ideas and compromises that work for both of you to resolve the issue. Think of the future rather than the past.

    8. **Maintain Calmness:** Stay calm and composed during the conversation, even if emotions run high. Take deep breaths and pause if needed to regain composure before continuing. Take a break if needed. Do not shout!

    9. **Practice Patience and Understanding:** Understand that difficult conversations take time and may require multiple discussions to reach a resolution. Be patient with each other and avoid rushing the process.

    10. **End on a Positive Note:** Conclude the conversation on a positive note, reaffirming your love and commitment to each other. Express gratitude for your partner’s willingness to engage in open communication. Hugs and caressing or a kiss and an “I love you” should end the conversation.

    Remember, difficult conversations can be challenging, but they also present opportunities for growth and deeper connection in your relationship. Approach them with love, compassion, and a willingness to understand each other better.

    I already had a difficult conversation with my lover, and I realized that I’ve been keeping a lot inside to keep the peace. The buildup was upsetting our peace, though…

    So, I’ll be using these tips much more often.

    This weekend, we have a date to chat 💛 ❤️ 😍

    Which was your favorite?

    When I have thought conversations with my man, #2,4,5 have offered the best results.

    Thank you very much for reading, and if you loved this, follow this blog because I have lots of other love and union advice.

    With love and ligh,

    Eve, ready for this weekend: planned the outfit, the conversation, thinking about the lovemaking

  • Scorpio men receive these sexy text messages

    Dear Lovestar,

    Scorpio men receive a type of attention from women that is so intense that it almost doesn’t make sense.

    It is true that they inspire a type of devotion in their girlfriends/ partners/ wives that it can feel like we’re addicted to them.

    However, Scorpio men also receive a lot of attention from their social media, dating site profiles, ex-girlfriends, friends, coworkers, random women on the streets… this is why an “unevolved Scorpio” (as the Scorpio Scriptures on YouTube calls them) is a huge player. They have lots of options.

    The text messages I am sharing with you today are my text messages to my Scorpio man. This man, who I call my twin flame, has been my partner for 16 years and is very loyal to me. My devotion and my gratitude 🥹 relaxed me to the point I dropped my walls. Because of this, I can talk to him in such a vulnerable way today.  Scorpio is a stoic, I have no idea how he feels unless I ask, but his actions prove his good intentions every day. Also, I’m psychic, and I learned telepathy and astrology to improve our communication.

    This post is for your entertainment. But also, you will learn some Scorpio Astrology. Additionally, you might get inspired to send more romantic and sexy texts. If you want to receive texts like these, would you tell us how you will manifest them?


    Some men manage to get the attention of women in a way that they receive these kind of texts:

    Monday morning text, thinking about the weekend and the next time.
    Scorpio is naturally a mystic. My Scorpio and I are both water signs, and during eclipses, we get into all kids of miscommunication and fights. Afterward, we realize we were triggered, and there’s always some kind of healing. I always let him know as soon as I realize the cosmic weather is affecting us.
    One of the most attractive things about Scorpio is his sexy scent. 😍

    I have shared inappropriate sexts Scorpio receives on my Sex with Scorpio blog. Follow that exclusive blog at my poetry collection app through this link:

    http://www.mobileapp.app/to/duCowXa?ref=cl

    Thanks for reading and visiting today,

    If you have some secret Scorpio knowledge, let us know in the comments.

    Do you receive or send texts like these?

    With love and light,

    Eve, I am Pisces.

  • Twin flame union manifestation journaling prompts. Union tools.

    Dear Lovestar,

    Continuing on my latest trend of twin flame tools, today I offer you journaling prompts that should help you manifest/ promote/ ascend your union.

    Can these be used by non twin flames?

    Absolutely!

    But note that these prompts are intended to trigger a soul union with a beloved. You could be discouraged if you find your partner is not a soul connection.

    You can use these to create a deeper connection in a long-term, committed relationship of loyal Love. These will not attract anyone you want into your life but rather the person God created for you.

    Twin flame union journaling prompts.

    1. **Reflective Gratitude**: Reflect on the qualities of your twin flame that you are grateful for. How do these qualities contribute to your growth and ascension? Write a gratitude list focusing on your twin flame’s positive attributes and how they enhance your journey together.

    2. **Alignment Visualization**: Envision your ideal twin flame union. What does it look and feel like? Visualize yourselves in perfect alignment, both individually and as a couple. Write down the details of this vision and how it makes you feel.

    3. **Healing Intentions**: Identify any lingering wounds or obstacles within yourself or your twin flame that may be hindering your union. Set intentions for healing and release. Journal about the steps you can take individually and together to promote healing and growth.

    4. **Clearing Blocks**: Explore any patterns or beliefs that may be blocking the manifestation of your twin flame union. Write about ways you can release these blocks, whether through meditation, therapy, or self-reflection.

    5. **Soul Connection Exploration**: Dive deep into the spiritual connection between you and your twin flame. Reflect on past synchronicities, soul contracts, and shared experiences. Journal about the significance of these connections and how they guide your journey towards union.

    6. **Communication Intentions**: Set intentions for open, honest, and loving communication within your twin flame relationship. Reflect on any communication challenges you’ve faced and how you can overcome them together. Write down affirmations or mantras to support clear communication.

    7. **Sacred Union Rituals**: Brainstorm rituals or practices that honor your twin flame union. This could include meditation, energy healing, or sacred ceremonies. Journal about how these rituals can deepen your connection and promote spiritual growth.

    8. **Divine Timing Trust**: Surrender any feelings of impatience or urgency surrounding your twin flame union. Trust in the divine timing of your journey and write about how you can cultivate patience and surrender. Focus on living in the present moment and finding joy and fulfillment independent of union.

    These prompts are designed to help you delve deep into your twin flame journey, fostering growth, healing, and alignment towards union. Happy journaling!

    Did any of these help?

    Of course, if you want to see more like this on this blog, please comment and let me know or give this post a like.

    What was your favorite?

    My favorite was # 7

    With love and light,

    Eve, with a clear vision now.

  • Radical Self Love. Part 2.

    Dear Lovestar,

    Continuing on my radical Self Love  writings, I am going to expand on this concept and how it has helped me as much as time allows.

    In the meantime, I’ll leave you with a new poem on this topic. Read my radical self Love quote on my previous post. Please let me know if this topic helps you and if you need self-love writing prompts.

    Do you struggle with this topic? I can’t be the only person who at times breaks under my own expectations…

    Radical Self-Love

    I would want to be a man
    If only just for a day
    To find me and love myself,
    And heal together all the way.

    I would allow myself to be free.
    I would go the distance to get to know me.
    I would bring me flowers and write me poems.
    I would love myself to the end.

    I would take my time not to scare me.
    I would learn my secrets to take care of them.
    I would tell me all the things I feel.
    I would make sweet, sweet love to myself.

    If only I could be a man and meet myself,
    I would marry me right away
    I'd be a great husband and wife.
    I would never have to cry myself to sleep again.

    Eve Lovestar

    What a strange poem. I apologize if you didn’t like it. If so, read one of the mushy pieces I write for my lover man, Scorpio, on my poetry collection:

    http://www.mobileapp.app/to/duCowXa?ref=cl

    If you didn’t enjoy this poem, consider whether you would date yourself or make love to yourself or marry yourself. We all want Love (I believe you would not be on this blog if you didn’t), but are we embodying love? Do we feel worthy of love? Are we expecting from another something we are unable to give to ourselves?

    This is why Love starts with self-love. If we’re unable to love ourselves as the truly wonderful creatures we are, then, should we expect another, let’s say, a magnificent male to love us? According to the laws of the universe, we receive what we are.

    Self-love manifests true love

    Hey, it’s Aries season now. Officially, it’s not a romantic time. I so miss Pisces season, my favorite time of the year!

    And I was beaten by the eclipse energy! It was such a difficult time, but after about a week of crying, I have healed and upgraded myself and figured a way to make my union even stronger. How have you been feeling?

    With love and light,

    Eve, not angry anymore

  • Radical Self Love

    Dear Lovestar,

    For many different reasons I have in the past suffered (at times) of low self steem.

    Maybe I can write about this in the future. I’m signing up now simply to upload a new quote to the internet collective.

    Please download and share this quote far and wide if you feel like this or if you intend to feel like this.

    As a poet, remember that I use metaphors heavily. Also, clearly, I’ll never meet myself outside of me. I’m playing with fantasy and illusion on this piece.


    Self Love

    I love myself so much
    That if I met myself
    Outside of me,
    I'd become a lesbian today!

    Eve Lovestar

    This really made me smile. Thought about it in a delicious bath I had on Sunday. I want to put it on a T-shirt!

    With much appreciation for your visit today,

    Eve

  • My Poetry Journal. The Love Quotes. # 3 is exactly 💯 my situation with my Scorpio

    Dear Lovestar,

    I have been working on a new poetry journal, and honestly, my perfectionism is affecting me so deeply already! I only did a small amount of work and as good as I did (I wrote several brand new poems, and my handwriting was better than ever before)… all I noticed was the mistakes I made, and noticing the mistakes made me make more mistakes! And worse, I stopped the journaling…

    I was even wondering if I should discard the pages I filled out and start again. I definitely didn’t want to share my imperfect work.

    Anyway, I am in search of amazing love quotes to add to my poetry journal, and I decided to share these beautiful quotes with you.

    Love Quotes

    “Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same. Emily Bronte

    “Love makes your soul crawl from its hiding place.” Zora Neale Hurston

    “Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” – Aristotle

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