Picture this: a couple is having a hard conversation. They love each other very much, and because of that, they’ve been avoiding this conversation, and by now, it’s worse. This is my love and I…
She gets emotional and calls him insensitive. He complains that she’s too emotional and overreacts. She gets triggered and overreacts. He gets offended and withdraws. They don’t talk to each other for a week and don’t resolve the issue. They try to act like it didn’t happen, but there is a loss of trust from unresolved issues.
How should we have difficult conversations? They are unavoidable in love relationships if we intend to deepen the connection?
Can we have a difficult conversation with our love partner while focusing on love, connection, and union? I believe it’s all in the energy we go into the conversation with.
In fact, the intention we have going into the conversation alone doesn’t manifest the result. Triggers occur during difficult conversations. We can get triggered, or they can get triggered. Also, if our ego is involved, a fight might be the result. A misunderstanding so serious can occur that loving partners can up to break up during a tough conversation.
Up until now, my beloved and I have not been the best at communication. We mean well, but we’re both loners, we both had issues going into our relationship, and we’re both moody water signs. We misunderstand each other frequently. Now we know not to get emotional over a misunderstanding but to have a productive conversation instead.
I mean no judgment to anyone having an issue with this. I am learning this now. I write about the things I have learned the hard way mostly. I have learned how to have a difficult conversation with my lover, and we can come out of it with a deeper connection. I am teaching you what I have learned.
It’s not easy to be conscious when we feel disrespected, hurt, or emotional. However, what I’m suggesting is exactly to go into a difficult conversation consciously. Read through the list below, and you’ll notice that you will need to be conscious to be able to handle yourself in a way that you’ll manifest the best outcome for both parties.
I will elaborate further in tomorrow’s post.
Tips for having conscious, difficult conversations in love
Today, I offer you tips for having a difficult conversation with your love partner while focusing on deepening your connection and strengthening your love and union:
1. **Choose the Right Time and Place:** Find a time when both of you are relaxed and free from distractions. Choose a quiet and private space where you can talk openly without interruptions. Drop your cell phones.
2. **Set the Right Intentions:** Approach the conversation with the intention of understanding each other better and strengthening your relationship rather than blaming or accusing.
3. **Use “I” Statements:** Express your thoughts, feelings, and concerns using “I” statements to avoid sounding accusatory. For example, say, “I feel…” instead of “You make me feel…”.
4. **Active Listening:** Practice active listening by fully focusing on what your partner is saying without interrupting. Show empathy and understanding by reflecting back what you hear to ensure you understand correctly. Don’t be thinking of your response while they talk.
5. **Express Empathy:** Show empathy towards your partner’s feelings and perspectives, even if you disagree. Validate their emotions and let them know you understand how they feel. Tell them something like “I understand how you’re feeling misunderstood” or “I understand how you could feel disrespected even though it wasn’t my intention.”
6. **Be Honest and Transparent:** Be honest about your feelings and concerns, even if they are difficult to express. Transparency builds trust and intimacy in the relationship. Practice. Tell them you’re having a hard time expressing this.
7. **Focus on Solutions:** Instead of dwelling on the problem, focus on finding solutions together. Brainstorm ideas and compromises that work for both of you to resolve the issue. Think of the future rather than the past.
8. **Maintain Calmness:** Stay calm and composed during the conversation, even if emotions run high. Take deep breaths and pause if needed to regain composure before continuing. Take a break if needed. Do not shout!
9. **Practice Patience and Understanding:** Understand that difficult conversations take time and may require multiple discussions to reach a resolution. Be patient with each other and avoid rushing the process.
10. **End on a Positive Note:** Conclude the conversation on a positive note, reaffirming your love and commitment to each other. Express gratitude for your partner’s willingness to engage in open communication. Hugs and caressing or a kiss and an “I love you” should end the conversation.
Remember, difficult conversations can be challenging, but they also present opportunities for growth and deeper connection in your relationship. Approach them with love, compassion, and a willingness to understand each other better.
I already had a difficult conversation with my lover, and I realized that I’ve been keeping a lot inside to keep the peace. The buildup was upsetting our peace, though…
So, I’ll be using these tips much more often.
This weekend, we have a date to chat 💛 ❤️ 😍
Which was your favorite?
When I have thought conversations with my man, #2,4,5 have offered the best results.
Thank you very much for reading, and if you loved this, follow this blog because I have lots of other love and union advice.
With love and ligh,
Eve, ready for this weekend: planned the outfit, the conversation, thinking about the lovemaking
Scorpio men receive a type of attention from women that is so intense that it almost doesn’t make sense.
It is true that they inspire a type of devotion in their girlfriends/ partners/ wives that it can feel like we’re addicted to them.
However, Scorpio men also receive a lot of attention from their social media, dating site profiles, ex-girlfriends, friends, coworkers, random women on the streets… this is why an “unevolved Scorpio” (as the Scorpio Scriptures on YouTube calls them) is a huge player. They have lots of options.
The text messages I am sharing with you today are my text messages to my Scorpio man. This man, who I call my twin flame, has been my partner for 16 years and is very loyal to me. My devotion and my gratitude 🥹 relaxed me to the point I dropped my walls. Because of this, I can talk to him in such a vulnerable way today. Scorpio is a stoic, I have no idea how he feels unless I ask, but his actions prove his good intentions every day. Also, I’m psychic, and I learned telepathy and astrology to improve our communication.
This post is for your entertainment. But also, you will learn some Scorpio Astrology. Additionally, you might get inspired to send more romantic and sexy texts. If you want to receive texts like these, would you tell us how you will manifest them?
Some men manage to get the attention of women in a way that they receive these kind of texts:
Monday morning text, thinking about the weekend and the next time.Scorpio is naturally a mystic. My Scorpio and I are both water signs, and during eclipses, we get into all kids of miscommunication and fights. Afterward, we realize we were triggered, and there’s always some kind of healing. I always let him know as soon as I realize the cosmic weather is affecting us.One of the most attractive things about Scorpio is his sexy scent. 😍
I have shared inappropriate sexts Scorpio receives on my Sex with Scorpio blog. Follow that exclusive blog at my poetry collection app through this link:
Continuing on my latest trend of twin flame tools, today I offer you journaling prompts that should help you manifest/ promote/ ascend your union.
Can these be used by non twin flames?
Absolutely!
But note that these prompts are intended to trigger a soul union with a beloved. You could be discouraged if you find your partner is not a soul connection.
You can use these to create a deeper connection in a long-term, committed relationship of loyal Love. These will not attract anyone you want into your life but rather the person God created for you.
Twin flame union journaling prompts.
1. **Reflective Gratitude**: Reflect on the qualities of your twin flame that you are grateful for. How do these qualities contribute to your growth and ascension? Write a gratitude list focusing on your twin flame’s positive attributes and how they enhance your journey together.
2. **Alignment Visualization**: Envision your ideal twin flame union. What does it look and feel like? Visualize yourselves in perfect alignment, both individually and as a couple. Write down the details of this vision and how it makes you feel.
3. **Healing Intentions**: Identify any lingering wounds or obstacles within yourself or your twin flame that may be hindering your union. Set intentions for healing and release. Journal about the steps you can take individually and together to promote healing and growth.
4. **Clearing Blocks**: Explore any patterns or beliefs that may be blocking the manifestation of your twin flame union. Write about ways you can release these blocks, whether through meditation, therapy, or self-reflection.
5. **Soul Connection Exploration**: Dive deep into the spiritual connection between you and your twin flame. Reflect on past synchronicities, soul contracts, and shared experiences. Journal about the significance of these connections and how they guide your journey towards union.
6. **Communication Intentions**: Set intentions for open, honest, and loving communication within your twin flame relationship. Reflect on any communication challenges you’ve faced and how you can overcome them together. Write down affirmations or mantras to support clear communication.
7. **Sacred Union Rituals**: Brainstorm rituals or practices that honor your twin flame union. This could include meditation, energy healing, or sacred ceremonies. Journal about how these rituals can deepen your connection and promote spiritual growth.
8. **Divine Timing Trust**: Surrender any feelings of impatience or urgency surrounding your twin flame union. Trust in the divine timing of your journey and write about how you can cultivate patience and surrender. Focus on living in the present moment and finding joy and fulfillment independent of union.
These prompts are designed to help you delve deep into your twin flame journey, fostering growth, healing, and alignment towards union. Happy journaling!
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I have been working on a new poetry journal, and honestly, my perfectionism is affecting me so deeply already! I only did a small amount of work and as good as I did (I wrote several brand new poems, and my handwriting was better than ever before)… all I noticed was the mistakes I made, and noticing the mistakes made me make more mistakes! And worse, I stopped the journaling…
I was even wondering if I should discard the pages I filled out and start again. I definitely didn’t want to share my imperfect work.
Anyway, I am in search of amazing love quotes to add to my poetry journal, and I decided to share these beautiful quotes with you.
Love Quotes
“Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.“ Emily Bronte
“Love makes your soul crawl from its hiding place.” Zora Neale Hurston
“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” – Aristotle
The energy of the Pisces Is it mermaids at high seas? Or is it a mental crisis?
As far as my eyes can see, And as far as my heart feels, All of my senses perceive Romance and eternal bliss, Making love and making peace.
Eve Lovestar
The energy of Pisces = Romance is what I realized in my analysis of the current energy by observing and analyzing the recent events in my life and my lover’s life. As a Pisces woman, you’re welcome.
Note: I might be biased as a Pisces woman and as a romantic poet. These events might be the result of our karma and our inner work. There is no guarantee that these events will happen in your life, but in my belief, the current energy can trigger these if you’re ready and open to receive.
I have noticed a few themes this March, and I wanted to share them. All of these themes are possible now. All happened in my house, some more than once. There is one current theme, ROMANCE. I believe March is even more romantic than February. What do you think?
My current favorite poem. My previous favorite was Interdimensional travel, which I just wrote into song form.
Dear Lovestar,
You know I’m a poetry fanatic. Today, I will give all (but including me) some ideas to include more poetry in our lives. I will be doing some of these.
But first, my newest poem:
"It Starts"
It starts with a kiss Or the soft breeze Brings me a piece Of you. Or it starts with a look, Or a page in a book Reminds me of you. It starts with a thought. Sometimes mine, Sometimes yours Mostly both Simultaneously. It starts with a kiss And the progress is quick Until we're on our sheets Making Love.
Eve Lovestar
Activities to include poetry in
**Homeschool**: I love homeschooling (my children also have tutors) and use poetry for their lessons. I studied a lot of poetry, and I want to at least introduce my children to this magic. My oldest daughter has a great writing tutor (Dr. Anthony Radice) who has a poetry study class, and I’m convincing her to take it. Currently, I’m creating a Cleopatra lesson that I’ve been working on for about one week. I’m designing it to be an inmersive experience rather than a normal class, so I’m creating 2 board games, and I have integrated visualization exercises throughout the lessons and now I’m writing a poem for Cleopatra. Cleopatra was cool. She liked poetry! It’s the least I could do for the most powerful woman in history.
Exerpt of my children’s poem, Cleopatra Exerpt of Cleopatra. Work in progress
**Leisure Time**: Relaxing on a hammock with a poetry book or even reading poetry online 😀 and some snacks 😋 😀 is the perfect evening of weekend activity. I read poetry every day. I write poetry most days.
**Relaxation**: Weekends offer a break from the hustle and bustle of the workweek, making it an ideal time for leisurely pursuits such as reading poetry. Few things can be as relaxing. My tip is to save poems that are relaxing to you. Reminder that you can download most of my poems on my poetry collection, though this link totally free.
**Inspiration**: Whenever I find an inspirational poem, I save it. An inspiration poem is a great and very easy to use tool for inspiration.
**Personal Rituals**: Some individuals may have personal rituals or routines that involve reading poetry on weekends, such as enjoying a cup of tea while delving into a collection of poems.
**Spiritual Rituals**: Have you noticed how spells rhyme? It’s because there’s a secret power to rhyming and poetry. Including poetry and rhyming into our spiritual rituals makes sense.
**Nature and Inspiration**: Outdoor activities and nature walks can inspire creativity and appreciation for poetry. I write poetry at the park. Reading good poetry at the park would be awesome, too.
**Poetry in therapy**: Use poetry as a therapeutic tool for self-expression and reflection in counseling or support groups or personal reflections.
**Journaling**: It not only looks good on your journal, remember, there’s a secret power in poetry. If you don’t write poetry, simply write on your journal favorite poems or excerpts of poetry that speak to you or make you feel a desired way.
**Arts and Crafts**: Another use for poetry where it just makes sense. Practice your calligraphy, create artwork for your wall of a poem, dedication cards, use a printed poem as background for any art form, create mixed media art including a printed poem… the possibilities are endless. Please leave me a comment with additional ideas to include in this list.
**Romance**: What are poets most know for? Being romantics. Poems can offer insight, advice, inspiration, or a new energy that could potentially enhance your love life. I use my poetry 💯 percent to manifest the dream union I have today. But even before I fell in love, I loved to indulge in the sweet energy of a romantic poem.
**Learning a new language **: When you learn a new language, you study a lot of boring stuff. I’m suggesting you should study something fun like the poetry and/ or music I’m that language. It’ll be much more fun and it’ll help with learning about the culture, too.
What did you think?
Will you be using any of these tips?
Did I miss anything?
Thank you so much for reading, and if you have a topic for a future topic, please leave me a comment.
Love is a force that enriches our lives, connects us to others, and brings joy and fulfillment. While grand gestures and extravagant displays of affection have their place, true love often thrives in the simplicity of everyday moments. Here are five simple ways to cultivate deeper connections and love more fully today:
**1. Practice Active Listening:** Truly hearing and understanding someone is one of the most profound acts of love. Take the time to listen attentively to your loved ones without interrupting or judging. Show empathy and validation by acknowledging their feelings and experiences. By making others feel heard and valued, you strengthen your bonds and deepen your relationships.
**2. Express Gratitude:** Take a moment to appreciate the people in your life and the love they bring. Express gratitude for their presence, their kindness, and the little things they do that make a difference. Whether it’s a heartfelt thank-you note, a spontaneous hug, or a sincere compliment, expressing gratitude fosters warmth and connection in relationships.
**3. Show Affection Through Actions:** Small gestures of affection can speak volumes. Show your love through simple acts of kindness, such as preparing a favorite meal, offering a comforting embrace, or lending a helping hand. These gestures demonstrate thoughtfulness, care, and consideration, strengthening the bond between you and your loved ones.
**4. Be Present in the Moment:** In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in distractions and obligations. Take the time to be fully present with your loved ones, giving them your undivided attention and affection. Put away your devices, engage in meaningful conversations, and create cherished memories together. Being present allows you to deepen your connections and savor the beauty of each moment.
**5. Cultivate Self-Love:** Loving deeply starts from within. Take care of yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually, honoring your needs and nurturing your well-being. Practice self-compassion, embrace your strengths and imperfections, and prioritize self-care activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. By loving and accepting yourself wholeheartedly, you’ll be better equipped to love others deeply and authentically.
Incorporating these simple practices into your daily life can foster deeper connections, enrich your relationships, and infuse your world with more love and meaning. Remember, love is not just a feeling—it’s a choice and a commitment to nurturing the bonds that matter most. So, dive deeper, embrace love in all its forms, and let your heart shine brightly today and every day.
I have a few new poems to share. Here is the first:
“Volcano” by Eve Lovestar
I doubted whether there was Pisces energy in this poem, but there is. Pisces can feel under their stoic partner’s persona and understand their lover in a deeper way that they’ve probably been understood ever before.
This was a simple thought, but it is how I feel about my stoic flame, who I call Scorpio. Scorpio has a volcano underneath!
I wrote a second poem of a similar energy that my dear partner called goofy 🤪 but it’s very, very, something else! I can’t share it here. It’s a sensitive, 🥺 sensitive 🥺 poem. One of those that my lame poetry app flagged and demanded I change it… so, I shared it to my most secret poetry gallery in my collection. This is where I share the poems I don’t want to share. I believe I have a total of 4 poems I have not shared yet. I might in the future. Let’s see how much I change. In the recent past, I have shared 3 secret poems to this secret gallery.
To read my secret poems, follow my poetry collection through this link: of course, these poems are highly sexual!
Today I will offer some easy steps for you to cultivate love within your relationship. My beloved and I naturally did all these things together. Our love I believe to be fated, however, you can follow these steps to reverse engineer Union.
Divine Love
Divine Love is love which is destined by fate or Love that has a divine aspect. You cannot make a connection to be fated if it isn’t, but you can figure out if a connection has a divine aspect by contemplating the effects the connection has on you, the depth of the connection, the healing the relationship causes, obviously, if getting the opposite, that connection would not be divine.
For the record, I don’t think that there is no value in connections that are not divine, but my opinion is that if it’s not divine, it might be earthly. In my experience, lots if not most of earthly connections are toxic.
You can cultivate divine love by connecting to what is divine together, by engaging in acts of kindness together, by reflecting on spiritual beliefs together and especially, if you have similar beliefs and values, bond over them.
Having compassion for your beloved is a good way to cultivate divine love. Understand your partner’s spiritual journey and help them without judgement and without pushing them. Engage in spiritual practices together and figure out new practices that will foster a deeper connection within you two.
Having children
For some people, such as myself, having children together is a very spiritual thing since we’re joining our essence with our partner and going into the future through our children. Additionally, your partner and you will have shared ancestry and that is a big deal. In our spiritual views, there are generational curses and blessings and as such, we want to be very intentional about who we mate with. It is my belief that we should cultivate divine love in our connection before we have children and then, having children will cultivate more divine love in the relationship.
Gratitude
Be grateful for each other and express gratitude. Then figure out what other things you can be grateful for as gratitude improves our lives. Anything you’re grateful for, grows. Starting a gratitude journal is a great idea to reflect and manifest more of the same.
Prayer and blessings
Pray together and/ or pray for each other. Pray for your union. Bless each other and send each other blessings. See your partner as blessed beyond belief.
Lovemaking
A divine connection is one where sex is lovemaking. I define lovemaking as sex that involves the heart. Connect through lovemaking. When your love is divine, it feels as though you’re connecting to a higher consciousness through lovemaking.
Healing
When love is divine, healing occurs. To cultivate divine love, heal your inner wounds, especially having to do with love or sex, this will allow to love deeper. You might be able to express previously suppressed energies from within you, especially if you are able to connect to a higher Love energy.
Forgiveness
Forgive each other and use that energy of acceptance and forgiveness to forgive the others who have hurt you in the past.
Journal about it
Journal about the meaning of divine love to you and how to foster it in your relationship. Come up with ideas of specific things you can do together to cultivate even more divine love.
Set powerful intentions
Set an intention to cultivate Divine Love. Set intentions regarding everything you are intentional about: Intend to have open communication. Intend to deepen the connection. Intend on healing through love. Intend that your grandchildren inherit healthy energy from you and your partner, etc.
Talk to your partner’s higher self
I stumbled upon this concept by following the Twin Flames 1111 blog by Cassady Cayne. I have now been a long-time follower and have consumed a lot of her content. This idea came from her tools, she offers many higher-level tools, way higher than I am expressing here. If you have already done all the simple steps and are ready for more, give her blog a follow.
I started communicating with my twin flame higher self in meditation and it was fun but eventually, his higher self started communicating with me in my meditation. Eventually I opened up and I chatted with his spirit. By now, his spirit’s voice is in my mind, answering all of my questions and giving me advice. Like I said, this is higher level than the steps I talked about before. You decide how divine your love will get. What resonates with you?
Remember that cultivating divine love is a journey that requires patience, commitment, and mutual effort from both partners. It’s about nurturing a deep, spiritual connection that transcends the physical and emotional aspects of your relationship.
How do you cultivate divine love within your relationship?
Thank you very much for visiting me today,
Eve, cultivating Divine Love with my lover, Scorpio
Lovestar Temple🔥 🔥 