Category: deep connection

  • The Romance of the Divine Feminine and Masculine

    Dear Lovestar,

    I have been overwhelmed, yet, I managed to write these 2 romantic poems

    Taste Test needs no explanation. Or does it need an explanation?
    Body vs heart

    While you conquered my body,
    I was conquering your heart,
    I don’t go down without a fight,
    I will take with me what is mine!
    Oh, silly, silly, boy; oh, silly, silly, man,
    I will take what is mine in my arms.

    AI interprets this poem for you:

    This poem carries an intense, almost combative energy intertwined with themes of passion, possession, and a reversal of power dynamics. Here’s a breakdown of its meaning in the context of twin flame love and mysticism:

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    Line-by-Line Interpretation:

    1. “While you conquered my body, / I was conquering your heart”:

    This introduces a duality in the relationship—one partner focuses on physical connection, while the other seeks emotional or spiritual depth.

    In the twin flame context, it could reflect the push-pull dynamic, where one partner initially appears dominant, but the other subtly shifts the balance through emotional or spiritual mastery.

    2. “I don’t go down without a fight, / I will take with me what is mine!”:

    The speaker (Eve) asserts their power and determination. The phrase “what is mine” could symbolize the shared soul bond, indicating that they are claiming the emotional or spiritual essence that belongs to both.

    This line evokes the idea of karmic ties and the inevitable entanglement of twin flames, where separation is an illusion.

    3. “Oh, silly, silly, boy; oh, silly, silly, man,”:

    A playful yet condescending (not on purpose, I thought it was a silly but funny line) tone emerges here. The speaker seems amused by the partner’s naivety or failure to recognize the deeper connection at play.

    It reflects the mysticism of twin flames—one partner often “awakens” first and sees the spiritual nature of the bond.

    4. “I will take what is mine in my arms.”:

    This closes with a statement of possession and union. Despite any challenges or conflicts, the speaker intends to embrace the connection fully.

    The “arms” symbolize reconciliation, love, and the ultimate merging of souls that twin flames often seek.


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    Mystical Themes:

    Balance of Power: This poem reflects the interplay between the physical and emotional/spiritual realms, which is a common theme in twin flame dynamics.

    Soul Contracts: The repeated reference to “what is mine” suggests a preordained connection or destiny between the two, common in twin flame lore.

    Union and Separation: The tension between conquest and unity mirrors the twin flame journey’s oscillation between separation and eventual reunion.

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    Why It Resonates for Twin Flames:

    It captures the intensity, struggle, and ultimate longing for unity that defines the twin flame relationship. The poem’s assertive tone speaks to the profound sense of knowing that no matter the outward circumstances, the connection is undeniable and will be claimed in its fullness.

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    The Divine Feminine vs. The Divine Masculine

    This poem beautifully captures the dynamic interplay between the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies, which exist within all of us regardless of gender. Here’s an explanation in the context of those energies and Eve’s observations about love:

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    Divine Masculine and Feminine in Love

    Divine Masculine often expresses itself through action, structure, and the tangible. In relationships, this energy tends to focus on the physical, on conquest and protection—on grounding love in the material world.

    Divine Feminine is the counterpart, embodying intuition, nurturing, and the emotional or spiritual depth of love. This energy seeks to connect beyond the physical—to the heart and soul, creating a bond that transcends the surface.


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    Line-by-Line Analysis

    1. “While you conquered my body, / I was conquering your heart”:

    This highlights how the masculine energy initially approaches love: through the physical. The body becomes the medium through which connection is sought.

    Meanwhile, the feminine energy delves deeper, working its way into the emotional and spiritual essence of the relationship.

    The word “conquered” shows a dynamic exchange of power, but it’s not adversarial—it’s a mutual, complementary act where both energies fulfill their roles in uniting love.



    2. “I don’t go down without a fight, / I will take with me what is mine!”:

    The Divine Feminine asserts its strength here. It’s a reminder that feminine energy, though often soft and nurturing, is equally powerful and unyielding when it comes to claiming its place in love.

    “What is mine” reflects a soul-level recognition of love as something eternal, shared, and deeply deserved.



    3. “Oh, silly, silly, boy; oh, silly, silly, man,”:

    This line carries a tone of affection and amusement. It acknowledges how the masculine energy, focused on the physical, may initially miss the deeper, spiritual aspect of love. (This is the silly boy in the masculine).

    The feminine energy, with its intuitive insight, sees the fuller picture and gently (or playfully) guides the masculine to that realization.



    4. “I will take what is mine in my arms.”:

    The poem resolves in union—where physical and emotional/spiritual love meet. It suggests a harmony where both energies are honored, and love becomes whole.







    Why Both Are Perfect and Necessary

    This observation reflects a universal truth about love: it thrives when both the physical and spiritual aspects are engaged.

    The masculine energy’s focus on the physical grounds the relationship, making it real and tangible, building trust and safety.

    The feminine energy’s focus on the soul and heart elevates the relationship, giving it depth, meaning, and purpose.

    Together, they create a balanced love that is both rooted in the present and connected to something greater.


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    How This Relates to Eve’s Observation

    The poem reflects the healthy dynamic Eve’s observed in her own relationship. It acknowledges the natural ways Eve and her Scorpio love partner embody these energies at different moments, while also celebrating how they complement and enrich each other. It’s a celebration of love as both a physical and soulful experience, where each partner plays a vital role.

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    With love,

    Getting ready for Valentine’s!!!

    Eve (I’ll return, of course, with more romance and secrets)

  • Seductress energy. Is Venus calling?

    Seductress energy. Is Venus calling?

    First of all I want to thank the dear person who read 71 of my blog posts a few days ago and the sweet person who read more than 20 blog posts today (or was it yesterday?). I am grateful for you and next time, start a conversation and I will write a poem for you. This happens every now and then and I blog for you dears.

    Dear Lovestar,

    I have been on such a beautiful journey with my beloved twin flame Scorpio. Our union has flourished after much needed healing, about two days ago, though, he surprised me with an unexpected request/ fantasy of sorts:

    Scorpio likes me to seduce him. That is he loves it when I aggresively start the sex! 🫢🫣🄓 I was triggered. I kind of am a sex blogger, I guess. Why is that upsetting to me?

    I have had this post written and saved for 2 days but I wasn’t able to give in. But it is Friday the 13, Venus day and day of the goddess. It is sexy femme day on steroids, so I post today and I am going home (currently stuck for hours getting car work done) to seduce him out of his pants! I immediately knew today was the day.

    Also, because I was almost killed in a truck accident, it is my new birthday, a sign from my goddess, Venus, to bring out my feminine power. (More on that accident saving later)

    Seductress energy, the Venus power

    Embracing the Art of Seduction: A Personal Journey

    In a world where traditional roles and expectations often shape our relationships, I find myself navigating a delicate balance between my values and my beloved lover’s desires. For the past 17 years, my twin flame and I have built a loving, monogamous relationship, blessed with five wonderful children. He has always been a source of unwavering support and devotion. Recently, he expressed a desire for me to take on a role that challenges my traditional views: he wants me to seduce him.

    The word “seduction” has always carried a certain weight for me, evoking notions of assertiveness and masculine energy. As someone who cherishes old-fashioned values and has been deeply influenced by a more reserved, traditional upbringing, this request triggered a sense of discomfort. In my mind, seduction was something to be approached from a more passive and nurturing standpoint.

    However, understanding the importance of maintaining an open and fulfilling relationship, I took a step back and considered his request with an open heart. I realized that this was not about shifting roles but about exploring a new dimension of our connection.

    In spiritual terms, this might be seen as an interplay between Venus and Lilith energies. Venus, representing love, beauty, sexual energy, and harmony, encourages us to embrace our sensuality in a way that enhances intimacy and connection.

    Lilith, on the other hand, symbolizes empowerment, independence, and a reclamation of one’s desires and power. Integrating these energies could offer a path to enriching our relationship, allowing us to express affection and desire in ways that resonate deeply with both partners.

    For those on a spiritual or twin flame journey, this might be an opportunity to explore how our personal energies can align with our partner’s needs, fostering a deeper, more harmonious connection. It’s about finding a balance where both partners feel valued and understood, and where traditional values can coexist with modern desires.

    In embracing this new approach, I hope to honor both my beloved’s wishes and my own values, finding a path that brings us closer while staying true to who we are.


  • Love Ritual poem & interpretation. Twin flame sex. šŸ”„šŸ”„

    Dear Lovestar,

    Let’s chat again about twin flame sex. šŸ”„šŸ”„

    Love Ritual

    It is not always the same.
    We engage in many ways
    To avoid boredom with change
    And it works really well.

    But inside us, it’s the same.
    There is soul in many ways
    We will evolve, we will change
    But for the best as well.

    We engage in curious ways:
    There are secret games we play.
    There are we dreamy spells we say.
    We speak in tongues as well.

    There are prayers that we speak.
    Miracles that we have received.
    Our intentions set to please
    Our blessing in love is bliss.

    ©evelovestar


    Twin flame cosmic lovemaking

    This poem romanticized twin flame sex. We know it’s powerful. 😌 However, this poem is a large metaphor.

    The secret wisdom of this poem

    Don’t get me wrong, there are aspects of this poem that are rooted in the mystery. What does that mean?

    The mystery is twin flame lovemaking and its healing aspect.

    The main topic of the poem

    The poem refers to my sexual experience with my beloved Scorpio as a Love Ritual. In pleasing the other, we have rooted a beautiful union.

    Poem interpretation

    This poem explores the dynamic and evolving nature of our love, particularly within the context of a committed relationship where both partners are engaged in keeping the connection alive and vibrant. Here’s a breakdown of the key themes and ideas:

    Stanza 1: Embracing Change in Love

    • “It is not always the same.”
      • The poem begins by acknowledging that love is not a static experience. It changes and evolves over time.
    • “We engage in many ways / To avoid boredom with change / And it works really well.”
      • I highlight the importance of variety and creativity in maintaining a healthy relationship. By engaging in different activities and experiences, the couple avoids the monotony that can come with routine.

    Stanza 2: Consistency Beneath the Change

    • “But inside us, it’s the same.”
      • Despite the external changes and new experiences, the core of the relationship—its essence or soul—remains constant.
    • “There is soul in many ways / We will evolve, we will change / But for the best as well.”
      • This stanza suggests that while the relationship evolves, these changes are positive and contribute to the growth and deepening of the connection.

    Stanza 3: The Mystery and Playfulness of Love

    • “We engage in curious ways: / There are secret games we play. / There are dreamy spells we say. / We speak in tongues as well.”
      • Here, the poem delves into the more mystical and playful aspects of love. The “curious ways” might refer to private rituals, inside jokes, or intimate behaviors that only the couple understands. The “dreamy spells” and “speaking in tongues” suggest a deep, almost magical connection, where the couple communicates on a level beyond ordinary language.

    Stanza 4: Love as a Sacred and Blessed Experience

    • “There are prayers that we speak. / Miracles that we have received.”
      • This stanza introduces a spiritual dimension to the relationship, suggesting that the couple sees their love as something sacred, blessed, and miraculous.
    • “Our intentions set to please / Our blessing in love is bliss.”
      • The poem concludes by emphasizing that the couple’s love is intentional and mindful, with a focus on bringing joy to one another. The use of the word “bliss” underscores the profound happiness and fulfillment that comes from their relationship.

    Overall Interpretation

    The poem is a celebration of the multifaceted nature of love. It acknowledges the necessity of change and variety in maintaining a relationship while also recognizing the deep, unchanging core that keeps the bond strong. The playful and spiritual elements of the poem highlight the richness of love when it is nurtured with creativity, intention, and mutual respect.

  • Roman Astrology. Pisces best matches

    Dear Lovestar,

    We know astrology is ancient. The foundation of astrology is as ancient as Babylon.

    I am currently searching for the ancient aspects of astrology and, of course, love compatibility is in my mind.

    Note: I already know that my Scorpio is my divine match and I only do this for research purposes.

    In ancient Roman astrology, the compatibility of signs for love matches was interpreted based on the relationships between the zodiac signs and their ruling planets. Here’s how a Roman astrologer might have viewed the compatibility of Pisces with other signs:

    1. Scorpio (October 23 – November 21): Scorpio, ruled by Mars, was considered a potentially good match for Pisces. Both signs are associated with deep emotional intensity and intuition, making them compatible in terms of their emotional connection and shared passions.
    2. Taurus (April 20 – May 20): Taurus, ruled by Venus, was also seen as a harmonious match for Pisces. Taurus provides stability and grounding to Pisces’ dreamy and imaginative nature, creating a complementary balance in the relationship.
    3. Cancer (June 21 – July 22): Cancer, ruled by the Moon, shares Pisces’ sensitivity and emotional depth. They both value security and emotional intimacy, which fosters a strong bond and mutual understanding.
    4. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19): Capricorn, ruled by Saturn, complements Pisces’ intuitive and creative traits with practicality and ambition. Together, they can achieve balance between emotional depth and material success.
    5. Virgo (August 23 – September 22): Virgo, ruled by Mercury, provides intellectual stimulation and practical support to Pisces. Their shared attention to detail and analytical approach can create a supportive and nurturing partnership.

    Ancient Roman astrology emphasized the compatibility of signs based on their elemental qualities (fire, earth, air, water) and planetary rulerships. While individual compatibility depends on many factors beyond sun signs alone, these pairings were considered favorable due to their potential for emotional resonance, mutual understanding, and complementary strengths in a romantic relationship.

    Couples in Rome would get their astrology done while getting married.

    Roman Astrology Resources

    Astrology in Ancient Rome: A Brief Overview (thecollector.com): Roman Astrology. Pisces best matches Astrology in Ancient Rome: Poetry, Prophecy and Power (uchicago.edu): Roman Astrology. Pisces best matches (DOC) A History of Astrology Part I: Origins to the Romans | Jonathan Martin – Academia.edu: Roman Astrology. Pisces best matches Astrology and Divination in Ancient Rome: Unveiling the Secrets of the Stars (cosmiczodiacal.com): Roman Astrology. Pisces best matches

  • Venus Aphrodite. What the goddess represents

    Dear Lovestar,

    I understand perfectly if you do not believe in goddesses and deities. I myself, did not until I had an experience with Venus.

    However, if you do not believe in goddesses, here is how you can see Venus.

    Discovering Venus: Embracing the Essence of Beauty, Love, and Femininity

    For many, the name Venus evokes images of the ancient Roman goddess of love, beauty, and desire. But what if you don’t believe in goddesses or deities? Can Venus still hold significance in your life? Absolutely. Venus represents much more than mythology; she embodies universal energies that we can all connect with—beauty, love, femininity, and the powerful force of attraction, also our sexual energy.

    Venus Beyond Mythology

    You don’t need to believe in deities to feel the influence of Venus in your life. Think of Venus as a symbol, an archetype that represents certain aspects of our human experience. She’s the embodiment of love’s warmth, the glow of beauty that surrounds us, and the gentle yet potent energy of femininity. These are qualities we all recognize and can nurture within ourselves, regardless of our spiritual beliefs.

    Venus as the Energy of Beauty

    Beauty is one of the most accessible ways to connect with the essence of Venus. It’s not just about physical appearance but about finding and appreciating beauty in the world around you. When you take a moment to notice the colors of a sunset, the elegance of a flower, or the harmony in a piece of music, you’re tapping into Venus’s energy. Beauty enriches our lives, lifts our spirits, and connects us to something greater than ourselves.

    Venus as the Force of Love

    Love is another powerful way Venus manifests in our lives. It’s in the love we give and receive from others, the kindness we show to strangers, and the compassion we feel for those in need. Venus reminds us that love is a force that binds us together, making our lives richer and more meaningful. By cultivating love in all its forms—romantic, familial, platonic—we invite Venus’s energy into our hearts.

    Venus as the Embrace of Femininity also lives in our smile

    Venus also represents the energy of femininity, which is not confined to any particular gender. It’s about embracing qualities like nurturing, intuition, creativity, and softness. These traits are often undervalued in a world that prizes hard edges and fast results, but they are essential for balance and wholeness. By honoring and nurturing our feminine side, we bring Venus’s influence into our daily lives.

    Observing Venus in the Sky

    If you want to connect with Venus on a more tangible level, look to the night sky. Venus is the brightest planet and often visible just after sunset or before sunrise, known as the ā€œEvening Starā€ or the ā€œMorning Star.ā€ Observing Venus can be a grounding experience, reminding us of the vastness of the universe and our place within it. It’s a moment to reflect on the beauty, love, and femininity that Venus symbolizes.

    How to Connect with Venus’s Energy

    Whether or not you believe in Venus as a goddess, you can still invite her energy into your life. Here are a few ways to do so:

    1. Surround Yourself with Beauty: Create an environment that pleases your senses. This could be through art, nature, music, or anything that makes you feel more connected to the beauty of the world.
    2. Practice Acts of Love: Whether it’s showing kindness to others, expressing gratitude, or simply spending time with loved ones, let love be a guiding force in your actions.
    3. Honor Your Feminine Side: Embrace qualities like intuition, creativity, and empathy. This can be as simple as allowing yourself to be gentle and compassionate with yourself and others.
    4. Observe Venus in the Sky: Take a moment to step outside during her visibility and gaze up at the planet. Let this be a time of reflection and connection to the energies she represents.
    5. Smile more: The goddess lives in the smile.

    Embracing Venus in Your Life

    Venus is more than a mythological figure; she’s a symbol of the beauty, love, and femininity that enrich our lives. By consciously connecting with these aspects of ourselves and the world, we can invite more joy, harmony, and love into our everyday experiences. So, the next time you think about Venus, take a moment to reflect on the beauty, love, and feminine energy that she represents. Let her inspire you to live a life filled with these wonderful qualities.

  • Smile Challenge: My Love Life Upgraded

    Dear Lovestar,

    It appears I did not know the power of smiling in relationship to Love.

    Since I started willing myself to smile as a challenge, I did not that joy was coming as a result of my smiling.

    Things simply turned around for me and everything became better.

    Now whenever I remember, I smile and smiling at my beloved is easiest. Whenever I look at him and smile he smiles or holds me and things just get better.

    The Surprising Power of a Smile: How I Rediscovered Joy in Love

    You know how sometimes you stumble upon something so simple yet so powerful that it feels like magic? Well, that happened to me recently when I discovered the power of smiling in my relationship. It all started as a little challenge to myself—a fun experiment, really. I decided to start smiling more, just to see what would happen. I never expected it to transform my life and my love so profoundly.

    The Challenge: Smile More

    It sounds almost too easy, right? Just smile more. But trust me, there’s something magical about it. I had read somewhere that smiling can trick your brain into feeling happier, even when you’re not particularly in the mood. So, I thought, why not give it a shot? Whenever I caught myself in a neutral or pensive mood, I’d remind myself to smile. It wasn’t forced; it was more like a gentle nudge to myself to find the little joys in the moment.

    The Unexpected Results: Joy Sneaking In

    Here’s the thing: I didn’t realize how quickly and dramatically things would change. At first, it felt a bit strange, like I was just going through the motions. But then, something incredible happened. As I smiled, joy started creeping into my life in the most delightful ways. It was as if my smile was a signal to the universe that I was open to happiness, and it responded generously.

    Love and Smiles: A Perfect Pair

    But the best part? The impact it had on my relationship. Smiling at my beloved became the easiest and most natural thing in the world. Every time I looked at him and smiled, I noticed a spark in his eyes—a mirror of the joy I was feeling. He’d smile back, or sometimes he’d just pull me into a warm embrace, and in those moments, everything felt perfect.

    It was as if my smile was a secret key that unlocked a deeper connection between us. We communicated more with our eyes and smiles than with words, and it brought us closer than ever. The little annoyances and stresses of daily life seemed to melt away whenever we shared a smile.

    The Takeaway: Smile, and the World Smiles Back

    Now, whenever I remember, I smile. It’s become a habit, a way of life, and it’s made everything better. I’ve learned that a smile is more than just an expression; it’s a powerful tool for cultivating joy, love, and connection. It’s a way to invite happiness into your life and to share it with those you love.

    So, if you’re ever feeling down or disconnected, try it out. Just smile. Smile at yourself, smile at the world, and especially smile at the ones you love. You might be surprised at how much brighter and sweeter life becomes.

    Smiling is simple, but its effects are profound. And the best part? It’s contagious. So go ahead—start smiling and watch as the world smiles back at you.

  • The Creative Power of Love: Beyond Baby-Making and Into Smiles

    Dear Lovestar,

    Let’s discuss Love and smiles:

    Smile Challenge for Venus

    Love is often portrayed as a powerful force, essential for creating life. Yet, its creative influence extends far beyond the act of procreation. One of the most delightful and overlooked aspects of love’s creativity is its ability to generate smiles.

    When we think of love, we might first imagine the profound bond between partners or the nurturing care of parents for their children. However, love’s creativity manifests in many subtle and charming ways, one of which is the way it effortlessly brings smiles to our faces.

    Love as a Catalyst for Joy

    Smiles are a universal language of happiness, and love is their primary inspiration. When we are in love, our emotional state naturally shifts towards positivity. This state of joy is contagious, often resulting in smiles that brighten our days and those around us. Consider the simple yet profound effect of a loving gesture—whether it’s a thoughtful compliment, a warm embrace, or a shared laugh. These moments create a ripple effect of joy, turning into smiles that express our inner happiness.

    The Science Behind Love and Smiling

    Psychologically and biologically, love stimulates the release of feel-good hormones such as oxytocin, serotonin, and dopamine. These chemicals promote feelings of happiness and contentment, which often manifest as smiles. Smiling itself can reinforce these positive feelings, creating a loop of joy where love leads to smiling, and smiling, in turn, amplifies the love we feel.

    Love’s Creative Expression Through Smiles

    Love’s creativity isn’t confined to grand gestures or monumental moments. Often, it is found in the everyday expressions of affection and connection. Smiles that are born out of love can transform routine interactions into memorable experiences. They can bridge gaps, mend misunderstandings, and build stronger relationships.

    A smile shared between friends can strengthen a bond, while a smile from a loved one during a tough day can provide much-needed comfort. These small, creative acts of affection showcase how love’s influence extends into the art of living and interacting.

    Smiling: A Reflection of Love’s Impact

    When we think of love as a creative force, it’s clear that its power is not solely about creating new life but also about enriching our daily lives. Smiles are a testament to love’s enduring impact, reflecting joy, connection, and the deep satisfaction that comes from nurturing and being nurtured.

    In essence, love is a continuous source of creativity, and one of its most charming creations is the smile. It’s a simple, yet profound expression of our emotional landscape, made all the more beautiful by the love that inspires it.

    So next time you smile, remember that it is a creative gift of love—an expression of joy that enriches both your life and the lives of those around you. Embrace love’s ability to make you smile and let that smile be a testament to the creative power of affection in your life.

  • Twin Flame Union Ceremony šŸ”„šŸ”„ magick for union, mantras, inspiration.

    Dear Lovestar,

    I removed my twin anklets. The knot magic pair I tied on 8/8. I thought I was not going to remove them until next year or until they broke. But I did it prior to a loving encounter with my beloved. I was surprised and realized it was meant to be this way. I simply wasn’t seeing the whole picture yet when I intended not to remove them. I left them on an altar as an offering because they were charged and I felt called to do so.

    I kept the old single anklet made of the same mermaid fabric months ago.

    But they were charmed twin anklets…

    That is correct. I have been charging this mermaid fabric (obviously, the new fabric is new). What I mean is I’ve used this fabric solely for charmed power pieces. Need me to be specific?

    I have been using this fabric for knot magic because I realized it doesn’t tear and it ties easily on top of being fabulous. The knots never untie but are removable. It’s a pretty fun fabric. And I’m a mermaid deep inside.

    Being the crafter I am, I immediately turned the mermaid fabric into choker necklaces and lingerie. I have worn these pieces for sexual union with my beloved twin flame, Scorpio. Scorpio loves a siren. šŸ˜† 🤣 šŸ˜‚

    This conversation is getting spicy, to participate in the secret conversation of my Sex magick practice, please join my new (I have been looking for a safe place to share this) secret newsletter

    I first hand sewed the gorgeous dress/ skirt garment and a matching top, both of which I illustrated:

    The illustrated necklaces are my tie mermaid necklaces. This dress is the same garment as the skirt below, worn here with a corset.
    This is my charmed, hanmade, and, of course, unique mermaid lingerie. It’s a 9 piece collection. It has seen a lot of magic.

    Is it the sex or the magick?

    It’s sex magick

    Did I make myself clear?

    I have been using knot magic for sex magick.

    First of all, don’t get hung up on the word magick: it simply means to do whatever it is with a specific intention and in a ceremonial type of way.

    Why does it work? I think it works because of the power of the intention being set. In other words, you can manifest without the magick.

    Do you need a charmed piece for knot magick?

    Warning: If you don’t believe in it, do not wear it because it will not work! This is the mystery.

    These are the twin anklets on 8/8 prior to my tying ceremony

    You do not need a charmed piece of clothing or jewelry. You can do anything you wish with the desired intentions and have that work.

    The charm piece, I believe, ties a physical item to your intention. It works on your behalf even if you’re not holding the intention at a certain point. It works on an energetic unconscious level. But it’s your intention that will do the magic. In other words, your intention rather than the charm will manifest.

    I did create charm necklaces to sell on Etsy, a new thing that just happened this Lion’s Gate season, I’ve learned to do whatever the Lion’s Gate wants me to do, so now, I craft: Write, draw, craft, create, it has been so cool. The below links lead you to my mermaid tie necklaces on Etsy.

    Knot Magick: Mermaid Tie Necklace and Personalized Poem Mantra crystal Not Included – Etsy: Twin Flame Union Ceremony šŸ”„šŸ”„ magick for union, mantras, inspiration.

    Twin Flame Union Knot Magick: Mermaid Tie Necklace and Personalized Poem Mantra – Etsy

    Note! You could get one of these necklaces, but they’re not for anyone and should only be purchased by a believer or practitioner. They can be used for a twin flame ceremony, offering, or they could be tied on an altar for Venus (you’ll see my altar when ready). They come infused with the Lion’s Gate energy because that’s when I made them, and that was the intention I set upon them. They’ll also arrive with poetic intention mantras, prayers, or incantations. You tell me your intention, and I transform it into a mantra or an incantation to make your ceremony complete.

    Twin Flame Union Knot Magic Ceremony

    Knot magic has been used for binding and love magic since ancient times, and the practice remains for a reason: it holds power.

    In Ancient Greece, knot magic was also used for fidelity spells and sex magic. In India, a knotted wedding sash blesses the marriage. In Rome, Venus would get knotted gifts.

    The idea of using knot magic for love spells is, as I explained, very ancient. By the way, I heard of knot magic from a witch on YouTube (witch of Wanderlust), and it was nothing related to love but instead for protection.

    I started using knot magic because it’s extremely easy, and I already do crafts. But then I noticed that it worked. I will not stop using it now.

    I created an entire e-book on the subject of knot magick, which you can purchase on Etsy for only $1.11

    Unlock the Secrets of Knot Magic: A Guide to Creating Powerful Knots for Every Purpose. – Etsy

    Lovestar Union Ceremony

    You will need:

    • Tie anklet or bracelet. This could be a special tie or ribbon. Something you can make could be most powerful. It could be something purchased, but make sure the piece aligns with your intention.
    • An intention for your union
    • An incantation or alternatively a prayer
    • Your twin flame’s full approval and assistance. They should share your intention.

    Steps

    1. Create a powerful intention for your twin flame union: to reach union, to end separation, to deepen the union, to become exclusive. Consider your ideal end result and where you’re at in your union. The best thing you can do is tackle the next step in your journey. Is it communication, safety, or family related? Only you would know.

    2. Communicate with your twin flame: this specific ritual is intended for the twins to complete together. If you’re currently in separation, this is not the ritual for you. I asked my twin for his assistance. However, our union being quite strong and long-lasting, I have already asked for his permission for me to use his energy in my magick rituals. He said yes.

    WARNING: This will not work if you don’t get your twin’s consent. If you do not have consent from your person, call forth their soul or higher self, they are always available for you, and adjust the ceremony as needed.

    3. For my new ceremony: Using a tie anklet, tie a knot for the Divine Feminine, as you tie the know, say the following words:

    Incantation for the Divine Feminine

    “Goddess on Moonlight, hear my call,
    Mother of creation, cradle of all,
    With this knot, I bind to thee,
    Strength and grace, wild and free.
    May your power flow through me,
    Unleashing my inner divinity.
    In your embrace, I rise anew,
    Goddess within, fierce and true.”

    4. Now tie a knot for the Divine Masculine or ask the masculine to tie it, say this:

    Incantation for the Divine Masculine

    “Father of the blazing sun,
    Guardian of all that has begun,
    With this knot, I call to thee,
    Courage, wisdom, strength in me.
    May your force ignite my soul,
    Guiding me toward my highest goal.
    In your light, I stand strong,
    Warrior within, where I belong.”

    Now ask your twin flame to tie the anklet around your ankle. This is the Union knot, as it is tied, speak the following incantation:

    Incantation for Union

    “By the threads of fate, we are entwined,
    Heart to heart, soul to mind.
    With these knots, our paths align,
    Divine feminine, divine masculine, two entwined.
    Balance and harmony, now we weave,
    In perfect union, we believe.
    As above, so below,
    In this bond, our love shall grow.”

    Twin Flame Mantras

    Here are eight twin flame mantras to help strengthen your connection and deepen the spiritual bond with your twin flame:

    1. “Our souls are eternally intertwined, growing together in love and light.”
      • Use this mantra to affirm the deep, spiritual connection you share with your twin flame, reminding yourself that your bond transcends time and space.
    2. “We mirror each other’s strengths and weaknesses, helping each other evolve.”
      • This mantra acknowledges the role of twin flames in each other’s growth, embracing the challenges as opportunities for personal and spiritual development.
    3. “Our love transcends all obstacles, guiding us back to one another.”
      • Repeat this mantra to reinforce the belief that your love is powerful enough to overcome any challenges, always leading you back to your twin flame.
    4. “In our union, we find balance, harmony, and divine purpose.”
      • This mantra is a reminder that your relationship with your twin flame is not just about romantic love but also about achieving a higher purpose together.
    5. “We are two halves of the same soul, destined to reunite in divine timing.”
      • Use this mantra to cultivate patience and trust in the universe’s timing, knowing that your reunion with your twin flame is inevitable.
    6. “I honor the divine connection we share, trusting in our journey.”
      • This mantra is a powerful affirmation of the sacred bond between you and your twin flame, encouraging you to trust in the process, no matter how challenging it may seem.
    7. “Our love radiates pure light, healing us and those around us.”
      • Repeat this mantra to focus on the healing and transformative power of your love, which not only benefits you and your twin flame but also the world around you.
    8. “Together, we are stronger, wiser, and more aligned with our true selves.”
      • Use this mantra to strengthen your sense of unity with your twin flame, recognizing that your connection helps you both become the best versions of yourselves.

    These mantras can be used during meditation, journaling, or as daily affirmations to keep your twin flame connection strong and aligned with your higher purpose.

    With Love and light,

  • Secret Twin Flame Sex Magic, Spirit Work, and Kinky Poetry. Aphrodite, Venus, & Lillith

    Secret Twin Flame Sex Magic, Spirit Work, and Kinky Poetry. Aphrodite, Venus, & Lillith

    Dear Lovestar,

    I tried to make this post private, and password protected but my computer skills are limited, so you get to read it. I will learn, though. Do not be offended, please, when you notice password protected posts consisting of my sex journal. This is private stuff so it cannot be openly available.

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    This Lillith poem was inspired by a podcast by the Middle Age Witch podcast, I linked it below.

    I shared this beautiful poem on X, then added a secret third stanza for my lover who likes kinky poetry

    This just happened, and thus, the third stanza doesn’t have rhyme or rhythm. This was not for the poetics. It’s for the meaning.

    It’s the Lion’s Gate fault! I wish I could stop time. if it was the Lion’s Gate every day of the year, I’d always be this sassy.

    I got so many divine messages for divine spirit work to complete (That is the upgrade this year, full on magic work with spirits, I am graduating into a witch lol), and I’ve been divinely guided into goddess work and, for some reason, shadow work leading to Lillith. It was Scorpio, my lover, who suggested that sex is a way to work the shadows, yes, Scorpio would say that. However, for me, miss Pisces, bound by church as a girl, sex play is a big shadow for me.

    It could be that Lillith wants a poem; I will write some. The lady on the middle-aged witch podcast said that Lillith came to her when she was ready, that Lillith would only work with people who are ready to be unapologetically themselves, and I have in fact grown in this way. I don’t post this to X, actually, too many normal people, but I dip my toes. Maybe that is the sign, once I am more open on X (or Facebook, where my family is, I entered Pagan on my FB bio). Find me on FB as Eve Sanchez but I mostly post on Spanish.

    I was listening on the Middle-Aged witch podcast (I love that podcast) that Lillith loves an orgasm as an offering, and I’m wondering if she would be willing to communicate with me for some poetry creations using some sex magic.

    I work with Venus – Aphrodite

    Venus is the Roman name for the Greek Aphrodite, and they are the same goddess. Below, I will share some of my poetry for her and one day I will tell you of my work with her. I have been working with her for months. Later, I will tell you how you can work with Aphrodite – Venus, too.

    This poem talks of the cause of the Troyan war, when Aphrodite offered Paris the most beautiful woman in the world, the married queen Helen (long story).

    I have actually communicated with Venus Aphrodite, and I loved our interactions. I have a plan to ask a thing from my friend Aphrodite, just need to find the right offering for her. The poem below is of a convo with Dite, she expressed that men can’t forget (in my word play) the orgasms they give their lady. This is a drug you’re providing for your man.

    We wrote several poems together, Aphrodite – Venus and I. The below poem talks of a historical poem I read while studying Latin. This event was a yearly Venus festival. Tips for Venus work from her ancient festival: get nude, dancing barefoot, also beauty is an offering. Oh, and Bacchus (Dionysus in Greek pantheon) always leads to Aphrodite. This was the ancient way: parties and drinking (the ancients also put drugs in their drinks, though I am not telling you to do this) always lead to the Aphrodite work which is sex. They had sex cults; we have a cult of 2. ok I will have to tell you more.

    I jokingly told my man I was going to sacrifice him to the goddess, put him on my Aphrodite altar. The sign in that is that the orgasm offering is well received by her. Oh, I certainly invoke her into our bedroom play. I am indeed ok with a spirit third party; I can share with the goddess.

    This love spell was inspired by Roman Love magic, something I will continue to research and write about. The Romans didn’t believe in twin flames, but the Greeks did. But the romans were so afraid of Love magic that they made forms of it illegal.

    Indeed, knot magic has always been used for love, sex, and fidelity magic (Read about knot magic on my blog and purchase my $1 ebook on Etsy to start practicing knot magick today) PS. I have used knot magic with Venus, for sex magic, twin flame magic with my Scorpio lover’s permission, for an offering to the fae, for personal empowerment, for sexual freedom…) Knot Magic Ebook linked below:

    Ebook introducing knot magic with history, ideas, mantras, and more

    I have to tell you, my sex life with my beloved Scorpio exploded after my communications with the goddess. Why? Because I became more open as I realized that sex magic attracts the sex goddess, and she loosened me up a bit.

    This poem explains it best. I call the goddess into my space, I connect to Love, then he connects to me. This is sex magic and bringing a very sexy spirit into our bed for play. You wonder if Scorpio has an issue with this? lol Scorpio lives to connect to a mysterious feminine essence, he needs this, he is hooked. He has been looking for the goddess, he didn’t realize it like that, but he has been working with her, is what she said to me.

    I guess my next magic ebook will be about sex magic, but sorry, I will not be selling it for $1! These are my secrets, and anyone interested will have to pay up! My mouth is starting to part to tell my secrets but they will not be widely available.

    Why the threesome theme?

    My darling Scorpio is a very hot guy, and he gets chased by women on top of the obvious, if one tastes him, can’t forget the guy, has to come back on her knees. He kind of hides from women in the way I hide from men, except that I believe he gets a kick out of it, he is not afraid of being held down by a woman…

    Being a Scorpio, he wants a very, extremely loyal woman, and he gets hurt by lack of loyalty. Thus, his lineup of exes have in fact hurt him deeply.

    I don’t have to tell you that he’s extremely sexual and great in bed. That’s obvious. His exes are constantly trying to connect to him in this way and I had to tell him to get those cords under control because they bother me, the feeler of everything. I have been cutting the chords to his pesky exes, energy vampires, who regret having lost him. They’re the third parties in our union, the ghosts of girlfriends’ past. His heartbreak over those bad girls has stopped our union growth.

    He’s honest and open, so he tells me about the threesomes he declined šŸ˜† 🤣 šŸ˜‚

    I was very young and sexually inexperienced when I met him, and I had never met a sincere man, so I freaked out wondering if that most gorgeous man would dare ask me to do something like that.

    Upon my experience recognizing his soul as my boyfriend (I was 20), I decided I was going to be the woman to fulfill all his sexual needs (he manifested that, also), however, I was too shy to say anything. Once I heard the word threesome, I was shocked in disbelief and chose to not please his secret desires.

    This happened in our usual misunderstanding type of way.

    But how lucky am I that my man is so honest and straightforward? After years of holding back my sexual gratification, we talked about this and he has no intention of putting me in a difficult position and he is very grounded in his feeling for one partner. Yay

    But how lucky if he had another me? Even three! Lol

    The problem with threesomes is that they are cultural and a man who wasn’t pervy enough to lead women into those questionable encounters, can feel like they missed out. A good man like mine knows they didn’t miss on anything good. And a woman like me is unafraid to play tricks on my man’s mind. Lol

    After Scorpio expressed that he wanted 2 mes, I needed years to integrate that. After a lot of self growth I told him one of my naughtiest best dreams ever, a dream in which I saw about 12 hims, one after another after another kept coming and I was simply amazed. Nothing sexual happened, I just basked in their energy but Scorpio got so excited and he expressed it would have been much different had he been the dreamer. And now I am telling you how I have finally injected a sense of fantasy into my sex life. He dreams about threesomes? Good, you can have two mes or you can have me and my goddess.

    The Middle-Aged Witch’s podcasts about the Divine Feminine, masculine, the dark feminine, and Lillith

    Spellcasting
    Spirit communication
    Divine Feminine
    Divine Masculine
    Dark Feminine
    Lillith

    One day, I will email this beloved witch to tell her about my experiences with sex and love magic, my communication with Aphrodite, and the secret power of poetry.

    I remember distinctly she said she doesn’t know the history of why poetry is used in spellcasting. She isn’t a poet. As a poet myself, I want to offer my insight about the secret power of poetry.

    With love and light,

    Eve

  • Dancers are good in bed. True or False? Feeling the Music and Letting Your Body Talk.

    Dancers are good in bed. True or False? Feeling the Music and Letting Your Body Talk.

    Dear Lovestar,

    What a topic, and I’m triggered already.

    I don’t like to let people see me dance because I don’t want anyone to think about me sexually! Because from experience, people always connect dance to, let’s call it intimacy, and explore this topic with grace.

    It’s super rude to see someone dancing and bring up sex, but there are dances and dancers.. so who’s fault is it?

    It is a cultural problem to judge dancers according to sex and it shows a perverted side of our cultures.

    I didn’t become a “good dancer” until I felt free to dance because the only one watching was my lover, and he doesn’t have the perverted eyes I dislike. He doesn’t watch me. He sees me, and I don’t mind that.

    Quite simplified, but this is my tip on how to dance any dance you want.

    But the saying exists for a reason:

    Good dancers are good in bed. True? False?

    It is natural to assume that a person who is very skilled at dancing šŸ’ƒ is good in bed. But why does our brain make this connection?

    • We hear this over and over again, and we believe it.
    • We assume that if people are skilled at moving their body in a controlled manner, they can bring that skill into the bedroom.
    • Certain dances can be very sexy and evocative of sex and people can’t help but connect all moving of the body to the sexual.
    • Some people (mostly girls) use certain dance moves to get attention on their bodies. There can be a misconception that a dancer likes to have their bodies watched of do so to gain attention. The truth is that dance is art. 
    • Dance is a type of exercise. If you can dance all night long, you have the stamina and potential to last a while in the bed.
    • Many dances are SEXY and the partners can’t help but think of each other further.
    • Attachment can occur on the dance floor.
    • Dancers are excellent at reading the room and their partner.
    • Dancers pick up the vibrations of music with their body and move their body accordingly. This could be a superpower if intimately done.

    The Art of Dance and Its Echoes in Intimacy

    Ever dance with a lover? Few things are more sexy.

    Power of dancing


    In many cultures, a common belief suggests that those who excel in dance also possess a certain grace and skill in the bedroom. While this idea might seem like mere folklore or an old wives’ tale, it’s worth exploring why such a sentiment endures and whether there’s any truth to it.

    The Dance of Connection

    Dance, at its core, is an art form that demands connection. Whether it’s the intricate steps of ballroom or the free-flowing movements of contemporary styles, dance requires synchronization, rhythm, and empathy between partners. This connection mirrors the qualities needed in intimate relationships, where understanding, responsiveness, and mutual respect play pivotal roles.

    A good dancer often demonstrates heightened awareness of their own body and the body of their partner. This attunement can translate into a deeper understanding of physical cues and emotional nuances, which can be advantageous in a romantic context. The fluidity and confidence cultivated through dance might foster a similar ease and adaptability in intimate moments.

    Couple Dinamics

    In certain dances, there’s a couple dynamic in which there’s a certain leader. In all dances I know, this leader is a man. In this kind of dance, the woman trusts the man. Unlike in many relationships in which there’s no trust.

    Many intimate relationships could benefit from the trust that typically a woman puts on her partner in dance. Because for females, trust is paramount for feeling safe, therefore pleased.

    The Power of Rhythm

    Rhythm is a fundamental element of both dance and physical intimacy. In dance, rhythm guides movements, creating a harmonious flow. In the bedroom, a similar sense of rhythm—understood as the ebb and flow of interaction—can enhance the experience. A dancer’s ability to keep time and adapt to their partner’s pace might reflect their aptitude for maintaining a balanced and responsive dynamic in intimate encounters.

    Confidence and Expression

    Dancing often requires a degree of self-assurance and freedom of expression. You know you’re good at it, or at the very least, you’re enjoying yourself. These traits are equally valuable in intimate relationships, where confidence can lead to a more fulfilling experience. A dancer’s comfort with their body and their ability to express emotions through movement can contribute to a more open and communicative approach in romantic settings.

    Empathy and Communication

    Effective communication in dance involves both verbal and non-verbal cues. Partners must interpret each other’s movements and respond accordingly. This empathetic communication can translate into a heightened sensitivity to a partner’s needs and desires in an intimate relationship. The skills developed on the dance floor—such as reading body language and responding to subtle signals—can enhance one’s ability to connect deeply with a partner.

    Conclusion

    While the saying that ā€œpeople who are good dancers are good in bedā€ might not be universally true, there are aspects of dance that can contribute to a richer and more nuanced understanding of intimacy. The skills developed through dance—such as connection, rhythm, confidence, and empathy—can indeed foster qualities that enhance romantic experiences. Ultimately, it’s not just about the moves but the underlying principles of understanding and responsiveness that dance and intimacy share.

    Are people who are good dancers good in bed?

    At the intersection
    Of good dance
    And great sex
    I found you.

    I think there’s a point where the two meet and certain lucky people possess noth qualities.

    Let’s be honest

    Maybe people dance to get attention, and I don’t think that equals good sex. Good sex isn’t about a great person getting loads of attention. It’s a dance (pun intended) between two partners who are communicating with each other in a fun exchange.

    I believe people who are good at letting loose and dancing for the fun feeling of it are the ones who are good in bed.

    Don’t be a perv.

    It’s not right to wonder or make comments about whether or not someone else is good in bed.

    Use this info only for your entertainment and for the enrichment of your own love life.

    Please don’t harass a good dancer!

    If anything, take a dance class with your person. It will uplift your love live 100 percent.

    I hope this helps someone,

    Eve