Category: Parenting

Dear Lovestar,

I blew it on Valentine’s! Let’s talk of a few things.

I created a personalized Valentine’s card for a friend

I loved creating a personalized Valentine’s card! It was a very fun and rewarding experience. I loved creating generic E-cards to share with you, but those poems speak of how I feel. They might not reflect how you feel.

This experience was fun because as soon as my friend answered a few questions, I knew what the poem should be about as if he wrote it. I channeled him!

25 year old marriage. What keeps him in love?

This friend of mine is quite the character! He’s smart, funny, and creative, too. He is a Capricorn. So I asked what he likes about his wife so I could write a poem for her that felt very personal. I believe she’s an Aquarius.

He said: he jokes to her that he married her for the physical aspects he loves about her, but in truth, what he loves is her personality. Her infectious crazy laugh, the way she daydreams about their future, how awesome a mom she is, how much she takes care of her family. She is a sweet feminine woman, and her cooking is restaurant style.

What I learned from this interaction is that strong men love soft women who are kind. It’s not her looks that matter most contrary to what we have been led to believe. My entire life, I thought I was not beautiful enough to attract men, and later in life, I attracted the hottest alpha male I have ever met. I felt so uncomfortable because I thought he was way out of my league. Of course, I call this man Scorpio today, and he loves me deeper than he knows how to express. I guess this is a topic for another time, but reminder to the ladies:

http://www.mobileapp.app/to/duCowXa?ref=cl download these quotes, poetry, and E-cards from my poetry collection through this link.

Why does Scorpio not celebrate Valentine’s?

Scorpio loves me without a doubt (he might or might not like me 😆). Yet, he has never celebrated Valentine’s with me. I asked to make sure it was not just me and LOL it sounded like this is his most romantic stage. 😂 It was so hilarious. He said that for a short period of time, he tried to take girls out on dates and be normal. It was a very short period of time when he was trying to fit in. It didn’t work for him. Scorpio is unconventional and does not like to fit in. 🙃 Scorpio doesn’t celebrate Hallmark holidays. Don’t tell him/ her how to celebrate.

Some Scorpio memes to explain this lol moment

These two Scorpio memes can be downloaded from my poetry collection (together with quotes, poems, and E-cards). Scorpio lobe art gallery. Link below:

http://www.mobileapp.app/to/duCowXa?ref=cl

I’m forgetting the points I was trying to make…

But Scorpio doesn’t only not celebrate Valentine’s (which is a silly celebration anyway), he doesn’t celebrate Christmas, even birthdays. His non celebration of my birthday was the hardest thing for me because I’ve always been celebrated…

To the point that I might not know how to celebrate myself. I blew it this Valentine’s. I feel as though I’m unconsciously returning to my childhood when others would celebrate me. But can I learn to celebrate myself without expecting this from others?

My plan was to cook and bake as well as do Valentine’s crafts with my children. Well, I dressed up in a red dress in the evening, and then my kids did not care to dress up or do Valentine’s stuff. I let them do what they wanted because, after all, I observe Valentine’s by myself (and with you), but I have a plan to change this for the future. I plan to celebrate Valentine’s with my daughters. Truly, we celebrate love all year round, so it’s not even a big deal. Oh, Scorpio cooked and fed the family! It might have been his way to celebrate, and he kissed me like he had not seen me in months. This kiss was extremely sweet and very well received.

Scorpio felt he should write me a letter

Remember the AI vs. me letter contest I posted yesterday? The letter I wrote for Scorpio and I sent it to him. Of course, I have always sent him poetry, and I post it around the house, but he usually doesn’t even acknowledge my romantic efforts. He is a stoic. This is how come I’m learning telepathy. I’m in his mind now, so he can’t keep secrets. I also made friends with his higher self. I have secret abilities, too! Scorpio better watch out!

At night, having dinner, he told me he thought he wasn’t doing enough. With a chuckle, I explained that, in fact, I don’t want a Valentine’s celebration (I’d like that, but it would not be genuine for Scorpio yo be doing that. He’s not fake, and I don’t like fake) I would not settle for a fake celebration. And he’s Scorpio. He can’t be fake. I understand that very perfectly, which is why I celebrate by myself.

What would a Scorpio letter be like? I really hope he writes it! Would he swear, talk about the economy, politics, and aliens? Will he joke? Will the tone be serious? I’m very curious 🤔 👀 😏

Letter writing tip: spiritual beats romantic

I sent Scorpio my love letter from yesterday, and he said it was sweet. He has expressed his love for my letters in the past. I already knew he would appreciate it. Then he pointed out a punctuation mistake 😆 🤣 😂 which I appreciated because I fixed it before I shared my letter with you. But even though he did not say more until dinner time, he had been thinking… 🤔

Then there was this huge sincronicity! Yesterday, on my Eve vs. AI letter post I shared links to all my previous letter writing posts, and as I looked for such posts, I was reminded about the union letter I wrote for him: an insanely long 17 page letter speaking of our union connection.

This letter is the real deal with a drawing of us and a poem I did share. This letter is so secret that it’s the one I’ve not shared. For that letter, I dropped into a very receptive state, I prayed and intended that what I wrote would bring us closer, then I asked spirit to take my hand and write. I wrote for hours at night until the morning. Things so secret that I didn’t know came out. I honestly was a bit embarrassed and hoped he would not read that letter, but somehow, 2 pages showed up on the couch. 😅

It’s possible that I swiped this letter because it made me feel so vulnerable and because I talk about twin flame stuff, which is still something I’m trying to figure out, I don’t want to be a liar by saying something I think which might not be the full truth. But, I got those letter pages and I’ll read them again. It’ll be a very enlightening experience to read them again, and I hope I can use them for inspiration to write a twin flame union post.

I guess I just rambled…

Thank you for reading, and I pray you took something positive from this chat.

Do you need help writing letters? Read yesterday’s post.

Eve, writing so much I don’t have enough time to share.