Category: Family

  • I tried belly dance again and even introduced my daughters

    Dear Lovestar,

    I started learning Greek and I tried listening to Greek music but my ffamily did not like it. I study Italian and for learning, I listen to Italian music and do Italian karaoke. But the Greek music was a huge no for them, but I liked it. Anyway, while I was on the international music energy, I told my kids about my old belly dance obsession. It is howevver, not surprising at all that I just rediscovered bellydancing when I just started to work with Venus!

    There was a time, when I was an arts and craft blogger when I used to call myself the belly dancer. I used to draw belly dancers, took a video class, made belly dance costumes, and had a belly dance playlist before I had kids. Now, my oldest kid is 11. It has been a long time. And just like that, I found a belly dance lesson on Youtube. My secind daughter started the lesson with me but stopped because it was hard. During part of the lesson, my son asked to be held while I danced.

    Rediscovering the Joy of Belly Dancing: A Fun and Empowering Workout for Women

    There’s something magical about finding a form of exercise that not only gets your body moving but also nourishes your soul. That’s exactly what happened to me when I decided to give belly dancing another try. I had been reading about its benefits for women—how it’s great for fitness, boosts confidence, and even connects us with our feminine energy. Curious and excited, I jumped in, and it turned out to be one of the best decisions I’ve made for myself—and for my daughter said it as fun, it really was.

    A Workout That Feels Like Fun

    To me working out feels like a chore. But belly dancing? It’s a whole different experience. From the moment I started moving, I felt a sense of joy and freedom. The music, the movements, the rhythm—it all comes together in a way that’s not just about exercise but about celebrating my body. It’s like a dance party where I was the star, and the best part is, it doesn’t feel like work at all!

    Belly dancing engaged muscles I didn’t even know you had, and by the end of it, I realized I’d had a serious workout. But instead of feeling exhausted, I felt energized and more in tune with my body. The flowing movements work wonders for your core, hips, and even your posture. It’s a full-body workout wrapped in fun and creativity. My daughter did not believe me when I told her this teacher will help with her posture. I finished the class with a smile and ready to do some work.

    Connecting with Feminine Energy

    One of the things that drew me back to belly dancing was its deep connection to feminine energy. It’s a dance form that has been celebrated by women for centuries, and it’s easy to see why. The movements are all about embracing and enhancing your natural curves, moving with grace, and feeling confident in your own skin.

    As I danced, I felt a strong connection to the women who have danced this way throughout history. There’s something incredibly empowering about reclaiming this ancient art form and making it your own. It reminded me that movement isn’t just about fitness—it’s also about expression, joy, and connecting with the feminine energy that flows within us all.

    Ever Considered Belly Dancing?

    If you’ve been thinking about trying belly dancing—or if this is the first time it’s crossed your mind—I can’t recommend it enough. It’s a workout that’s good for your body, mind, and spirit. Whether you’re dancing alone, with friends, or sharing the experience with your daughters, it’s an activity that brings joy, confidence, and a deep connection to your feminine energy.

    So, put on some music, let your body move, and see where the dance takes you. You might just find that belly dancing becomes one of your favorite ways to stay fit, feel fabulous, and celebrate the beautiful, powerful woman that you are. And if you’ve got daughters, nieces, or friends, invite them to join in the fun. There’s nothing quite like the joy of dancing together and embracing the power of being a woman.

  • Smile Challenge: My Love Life Upgraded

    Dear Lovestar,

    It appears I did not know the power of smiling in relationship to Love.

    Since I started willing myself to smile as a challenge, I did not that joy was coming as a result of my smiling.

    Things simply turned around for me and everything became better.

    Now whenever I remember, I smile and smiling at my beloved is easiest. Whenever I look at him and smile he smiles or holds me and things just get better.

    The Surprising Power of a Smile: How I Rediscovered Joy in Love

    You know how sometimes you stumble upon something so simple yet so powerful that it feels like magic? Well, that happened to me recently when I discovered the power of smiling in my relationship. It all started as a little challenge to myself—a fun experiment, really. I decided to start smiling more, just to see what would happen. I never expected it to transform my life and my love so profoundly.

    The Challenge: Smile More

    It sounds almost too easy, right? Just smile more. But trust me, there’s something magical about it. I had read somewhere that smiling can trick your brain into feeling happier, even when you’re not particularly in the mood. So, I thought, why not give it a shot? Whenever I caught myself in a neutral or pensive mood, I’d remind myself to smile. It wasn’t forced; it was more like a gentle nudge to myself to find the little joys in the moment.

    The Unexpected Results: Joy Sneaking In

    Here’s the thing: I didn’t realize how quickly and dramatically things would change. At first, it felt a bit strange, like I was just going through the motions. But then, something incredible happened. As I smiled, joy started creeping into my life in the most delightful ways. It was as if my smile was a signal to the universe that I was open to happiness, and it responded generously.

    Love and Smiles: A Perfect Pair

    But the best part? The impact it had on my relationship. Smiling at my beloved became the easiest and most natural thing in the world. Every time I looked at him and smiled, I noticed a spark in his eyes—a mirror of the joy I was feeling. He’d smile back, or sometimes he’d just pull me into a warm embrace, and in those moments, everything felt perfect.

    It was as if my smile was a secret key that unlocked a deeper connection between us. We communicated more with our eyes and smiles than with words, and it brought us closer than ever. The little annoyances and stresses of daily life seemed to melt away whenever we shared a smile.

    The Takeaway: Smile, and the World Smiles Back

    Now, whenever I remember, I smile. It’s become a habit, a way of life, and it’s made everything better. I’ve learned that a smile is more than just an expression; it’s a powerful tool for cultivating joy, love, and connection. It’s a way to invite happiness into your life and to share it with those you love.

    So, if you’re ever feeling down or disconnected, try it out. Just smile. Smile at yourself, smile at the world, and especially smile at the ones you love. You might be surprised at how much brighter and sweeter life becomes.

    Smiling is simple, but its effects are profound. And the best part? It’s contagious. So go ahead—start smiling and watch as the world smiles back at you.

  • The Creative Power of Love: Beyond Baby-Making and Into Smiles

    Dear Lovestar,

    Let’s discuss Love and smiles:

    Smile Challenge for Venus

    Love is often portrayed as a powerful force, essential for creating life. Yet, its creative influence extends far beyond the act of procreation. One of the most delightful and overlooked aspects of love’s creativity is its ability to generate smiles.

    When we think of love, we might first imagine the profound bond between partners or the nurturing care of parents for their children. However, love’s creativity manifests in many subtle and charming ways, one of which is the way it effortlessly brings smiles to our faces.

    Love as a Catalyst for Joy

    Smiles are a universal language of happiness, and love is their primary inspiration. When we are in love, our emotional state naturally shifts towards positivity. This state of joy is contagious, often resulting in smiles that brighten our days and those around us. Consider the simple yet profound effect of a loving gesture—whether it’s a thoughtful compliment, a warm embrace, or a shared laugh. These moments create a ripple effect of joy, turning into smiles that express our inner happiness.

    The Science Behind Love and Smiling

    Psychologically and biologically, love stimulates the release of feel-good hormones such as oxytocin, serotonin, and dopamine. These chemicals promote feelings of happiness and contentment, which often manifest as smiles. Smiling itself can reinforce these positive feelings, creating a loop of joy where love leads to smiling, and smiling, in turn, amplifies the love we feel.

    Love’s Creative Expression Through Smiles

    Love’s creativity isn’t confined to grand gestures or monumental moments. Often, it is found in the everyday expressions of affection and connection. Smiles that are born out of love can transform routine interactions into memorable experiences. They can bridge gaps, mend misunderstandings, and build stronger relationships.

    A smile shared between friends can strengthen a bond, while a smile from a loved one during a tough day can provide much-needed comfort. These small, creative acts of affection showcase how love’s influence extends into the art of living and interacting.

    Smiling: A Reflection of Love’s Impact

    When we think of love as a creative force, it’s clear that its power is not solely about creating new life but also about enriching our daily lives. Smiles are a testament to love’s enduring impact, reflecting joy, connection, and the deep satisfaction that comes from nurturing and being nurtured.

    In essence, love is a continuous source of creativity, and one of its most charming creations is the smile. It’s a simple, yet profound expression of our emotional landscape, made all the more beautiful by the love that inspires it.

    So next time you smile, remember that it is a creative gift of love—an expression of joy that enriches both your life and the lives of those around you. Embrace love’s ability to make you smile and let that smile be a testament to the creative power of affection in your life.

  • Homeschool Plan: Learning Latin to inspire my children to learn Spanish/ languages

    Dear reader, First of all, this is absolutely not 100 percent of my homeschooling log. Additionally, my babies have awesome tutors, and I supplement their learning. Spanish is my first language. But I speak mostly English now. Dad speaks only English. Our children were not interested in learning Spanish, so I didn’t force them. Now, […]

    Homeschool Plan: Learning Latin to inspire my children to learn Spanish/ languages

    I am searching for Latin poetry since I don’t care about Roman texts. I feel their tears are not divine. I’m most interested in Sanskrit ancient divine texts…

    Eve, learning

  • The romance level quiz. I am an Eternal Flame & my lover is a Heart Harmony romantic.

    Dear Lovestar,

    The Romance Level Quiz by Eve Lovestar

    I created this quiz to help you determine your romantic level 😉. I have identified 3 levels of romantics:

    1. The extreme romantic: The Eternal Flame romantics: We breathe and eat romance. 46 to 60 points
    2. The secret romantic: Heart’s Harmony romantics: They think romance but don’t talk it. 26 to 45 points
    3. The least romantic: Calm Waters romantics: Are they even romantic? 12 to 25 points

    Why take my quiz

    Understand your partner better and understand how much romance they can handle. Get inspired.

    With an understanding of your own romantic level versus your partner, you can work towards enhancing your relationship. You can use the insights gained from my quiz to communicate your needs and desires more effectively and create a more fulfilling romantic connection with your partner.

    I intend to develop informative and educational resources for each romance level that will provide you practical tips for enhancing your love life. These resources will cover topics such as communication skills, romantic gestures, maintaining intimacy, and navigating relationship challenges. Ask for help in the comments.

    Overall, taking the quiz and exploring the different romance levels can be a steppingstone towards personal growth, relationship enhancement, and a deeper understanding of romance and love.


    Take this quiz and figure out how romantic you are ❤️ 😍 💖


    1. If you are in a garden for an event, what’s your first thought?
       a) The flowers are beautiful and may remind you of someone special. You enjoy their beauty, take pictures, and even smell them.
       b) “Flowers are nice, but they’re just plants.” You don’t care if you are a garden or not.
       c) You do not like flowers. You avoid them, make sure nobody takes pictures of you at the garden, and leave as soon as possible.

    2. You’re walking in the rain with someone you care about. What crosses your mind?
       a) “This is so romantic, like a scene from a movie.” You imagine yourself dancing in the rain. You slow down and enjoy the experience.
       b) “I hope we don’t get too wet and wish you had an umbrella.” You walk faster.
       c) “I do not like the rain. My hair is wet. ” You might get upset or run to safety.  


    3. What’s your reaction when you see someone reading a love poem in public?
       a) “How beautiful! I wish I could express myself like that.” You stop and listen, maybe record them and tip them. Tears may appear if you resonate with the poem.
       b) “That’s a bit cheesy for my taste.” You ignore it and continue on your way.
       c) “I wonder if they’re doing that for attention.” You shake your head, and you might judge them.

    4. Imagine you receive a heartfelt handwritten letter. How do you feel?
       a) Warmth and appreciation, it’s such a thoughtful gesture. You feel special and save the letter for as long as possible.
       b) It’s nice, but an email would have been quicker. How much time did they spend on this? You might feel obligated to keep it for a while but eventually might lose it.
       c) Mild surprise, handwritten letters are rare these days. This much work for something going in the trash! You might not even complete reading it. If it’s cutesy, you will roll your eyes.

    5. How do you feel about stargazing with a romantic partner?
       a) It’s incredibly romantic, a chance to connect under the vast night sky. I’d hold hands and slowly lean into them. Eventually, we’d share a kiss, and an I love you.
       b) It sounds okay, but I’m not sure it’s worth the effort. I would rather stay in and watch a movie or even do the dishes, which sounds like a better use of our time.
       c) Will there be bugs? Eww. Let’s not.

    6. What’s your reaction to witnessing a marriage proposal in a public place?
       a) “How magical! I hope they have a lifetime of happiness.” You take pictures, congratulate them, and tell everyone on social media.
       b) “That’s a bit too public for my taste.” You look away and try to ignore it.
       c) “I wonder if they planned this just for social media.” You think they will not last together.

    7. How do you feel about cuddling while watching a movie?
       a) It’s the perfect way to feel close and connected and the only way to watch a movie. I watch movies just to cuddle.
       b) It’s okay, but sometimes I get uncomfortable. Or it will lead to more.
       c) I prefer to sit apart and focus on the movie. This is movie time. Cuddle time is always tomorrow.

    8. What’s your ideal way to spend Valentine’s Day?
       a) A romantic dinner followed by a moonlit walk. Home-cooked meals, red dresses, poetry performances, romantic music, and special gifts. Every year is different!
       b) It’s just another day, nothing special. We will enjoy some intimate moments, that’s all!
       c) I make the point of doing nothing romantic on that day. I also don’t know the date it’s celebrated on. I also never do anything romantic…

    9. You receive an unexpected gift from someone you’re dating. How do you react?
       a) With genuine delight and gratitude. I immediately thank them, and they know I loved it!
       b) It’s nice, but I’m not sure how to respond. They might not know if I liked their gift.
       c) I feel a bit awkward and unsure if I should reciprocate. I don’t like them as much anymore. They might be trying too hard. I avoid them. They might think I don’t like their gift but they should know I don’t do gifts this soon!

    10. How do you feel about love songs?
       a) They’re incredibly moving and resonate with my emotions. I listen to as many love songs as possible. I’m much more romantic than most romantic songs! I should be a songwriter.
       b) They’re okay, but I don’t pay much attention to them. Music is music.
       c) They can be cheesy and over-the-top. I prefer any non romantic songs. Romance is for little girls!

    11. Read and react to the following poem:

    “Soulmates” poem by Eve

      a) “This poem describes how I feel or how I want to feel. If I have not found my person yet, I have faith that I’ll meet them at the perfect time.” (chosen by liz)
      b) “I do not resonate with this poem! Soulmates do not exist, and if they did, we would all know by now.”
      c) “This poem is so cheesy.” It really sounds ridiculous 🙄 😒 😐…. getting off this blog ASAP!

    12. Which quote resonates with you?
       a) “Our Love is written in the stars”
       b) “The depth of our Love is our greatest secret”
       c) “Our love is our safe space where we can be ourselves and not be judged for it”



    Reflect on your answers.


    What is your romantic level?

    Rate your answers by assigning points:

    – Option a) Add 5 points
    – Option b) Add 3 points
    – Option c) Add 1 point

    Tally up the total points to determine your romantic inclinations.

    THE ROMANCE LEVELS

    46 to 60 points: The Eternal Flame: Most intense romantic. We believe in twin flames/ soulmates and fall in love at first sight.

    The Eternal Flame is the most romantic level. Individuals in this category have the highest degree of romantic inclination and experience a deep and everlasting passion for romance. It implies a strong and enduring connection to romantic ideals and gestures.

    Individuals who fit into the “Eternal Flame” category are deeply passionate about romance and love. They often prioritize emotional connection and intimacy in their relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:

    1. **Hopeless Romantics:** They believe in the power of love and often express themselves through grand gestures and heartfelt expressions of affection.

    2. **Emotionally Invested:** They are deeply invested in their relationships, cherishing every moment and valuing the emotional bond they share with their partner.

    3. **Creative and Thoughtful:** They constantly strive to surprise and delight their partners with thoughtful gestures, whether it’s writing love letters, planning romantic getaways, or creating personalized gifts.

    4. **Sensitive to Beauty:** They appreciate the beauty in the world around them, finding inspiration in nature, art, and music, which they often incorporate into their romantic gestures.

    5. **Believers in Destiny:** They may believe in soulmates or the idea that certain people are destined to be together, which fuels their passion and commitment to finding and nurturing love.

    Overall, individuals in the “Eternal Flame” category are guided by their unwavering belief in the transformative power of love and their dedication to keeping the flame of romance burning bright in their lives.

    26 to 45 points: Heart’s Harmony: The Secret Romantic. They think it but don’t speak romance

    For the second romance level, let’s consider an option that reflects a moderate level of romantic inclination, perhaps something like “Heart’s Harmony.” This name suggests a balance between romance and practicality, where individuals appreciate love and connection but may not necessarily embody the intense passion of the “Eternal Flame” category.

    Individuals who fit into the “Heart’s Harmony” category strike a balance between romance and practicality in their approach to relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:

    1. Balanced Approach: They value romance and emotional connection in their relationships but also recognize the importance of practical considerations and maintaining a sense of balance in their lives.
    2. Thoughtful and Considerate: They express their affection for their partners through meaningful gestures and acts of kindness, such as remembering important dates, offering support during difficult times, and showing appreciation for their partner’s efforts.
    3. Communication Skills: They prioritize open and honest communication in their relationships, seeking to understand their partner’s needs and concerns while also expressing their own thoughts and feelings effectively.
    4. Adaptability: They are flexible and adaptable in their approach to romance, recognizing that relationships require compromise and adjustment to navigate the ups and downs of life together.
    5. Appreciation for the Little Things: They find joy and fulfillment in the everyday moments shared with their partner, whether it’s cooking dinner together, taking walks, or simply enjoying each other’s company.

    Overall, individuals in the “Heart’s Harmony” category cultivate a relationship environment where love and practicality coexist, fostering a sense of mutual respect, understanding, and contentment in their romantic lives.

    46 to 60 points: Calm Waters: Most likely to not take this quiz. Are they even romantic?

    For the lowest level name, we want to convey an absence or minimal presence of romantic inclination. How about “Calm Waters”? This name suggests a serene and tranquil state, where romantic feelings may exist but are subdued or infrequent.

    Individuals who fit into the “Calm Waters” category tend to have a more reserved or subdued approach to romance. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:

    1. Pragmatic Outlook: They tend to approach relationships with a practical mindset, focusing on practicalities rather than grand gestures or intense displays of affection.
    2. Independence: They value their independence and may prioritize personal pursuits and interests over romantic relationships.
    3. Reserved Expression of Affection: While they may experience romantic feelings, they may not express them openly or frequently, preferring to keep their emotions private.
    4. Preference for Stability: They seek stability and predictability in their relationships, valuing a sense of calm and tranquility over excitement or passion.
    5. Contentment with Solitude: They are comfortable spending time alone and may not feel a strong need for constant companionship or romantic involvement.

    Overall, individuals in the “Calm Waters” category may appreciate romance in a more subdued or understated manner, finding contentment in the quiet moments and subtle gestures of connection within their relationships.

    This was fun!

    According to my “research,” I’m as romantic as it gets! If someone is as romantic as me, let me know please, let’s be friends

    Please share your romantic level

  • Have a difficult conversation with a love partner that fosters love, connection, and union. Part 2.

    Dear Lovestar,

    Picture this: a couple is having a hard conversation. They love each other very much, and because of that, they’ve been avoiding this conversation, and by now, it’s worse. This is my love and I…

    She gets emotional and calls him insensitive. He complains that she’s too emotional and overreacts. She gets triggered and overreacts. He gets offended and withdraws. They don’t talk to each other for a week and don’t resolve the issue. They try to act like it didn’t happen, but there is a loss of trust from unresolved issues.

    How should we have difficult conversations? They are unavoidable in love relationships if we intend to deepen the connection?

    (more…)
  • Have a difficult conversation with a love partner that fosters love, connection, and union.

    Dear Lovestar,

    Can we have a difficult conversation with our love partner while focusing on love, connection, and union? I believe it’s all in the energy we go into the conversation with.

    In fact, the intention we have going into the conversation alone doesn’t manifest the result. Triggers occur during difficult conversations. We can get triggered, or they can get triggered. Also, if our ego is involved, a fight might be the result. A misunderstanding so serious can occur that loving partners can up to break up during a tough conversation.

    Up until now, my beloved and I have not been the best at communication. We mean well, but we’re both loners, we both had issues going into our relationship, and we’re both moody water signs. We misunderstand each other frequently. Now we know not to get emotional over a misunderstanding but to have a productive conversation instead.

    I mean no judgment to anyone having an issue with this. I am learning this now. I write about the things I have learned the hard way mostly. I have learned how to have a difficult conversation with my lover, and we can come out of it with a deeper connection. I am teaching you what I have learned. 

    It’s not easy to be conscious when we feel disrespected, hurt, or emotional. However, what I’m suggesting is exactly to go into a difficult conversation consciously. Read through the list below, and you’ll notice that you will need to be conscious to be able to handle yourself in a way that you’ll manifest the best outcome for both parties.

    I will elaborate further in tomorrow’s post.


    Tips for having conscious, difficult conversations in love

    Today, I offer you tips for having a difficult conversation with your love partner while focusing on deepening your connection and strengthening your love and union:

    1. **Choose the Right Time and Place:** Find a time when both of you are relaxed and free from distractions. Choose a quiet and private space where you can talk openly without interruptions. Drop your cell phones.

    2. **Set the Right Intentions:** Approach the conversation with the intention of understanding each other better and strengthening your relationship rather than blaming or accusing.

    3. **Use “I” Statements:** Express your thoughts, feelings, and concerns using “I” statements to avoid sounding accusatory. For example, say, “I feel…” instead of “You make me feel…”.

    4. **Active Listening:** Practice active listening by fully focusing on what your partner is saying without interrupting. Show empathy and understanding by reflecting back what you hear to ensure you understand correctly. Don’t be thinking of your response while they talk.

    5. **Express Empathy:** Show empathy towards your partner’s feelings and perspectives, even if you disagree. Validate their emotions and let them know you understand how they feel. Tell them something like “I understand how you’re feeling misunderstood” or “I understand how you could feel disrespected even though it wasn’t my intention.”

    6. **Be Honest and Transparent:** Be honest about your feelings and concerns, even if they are difficult to express. Transparency builds trust and intimacy in the relationship. Practice. Tell them you’re having a hard time expressing this.

    7. **Focus on Solutions:** Instead of dwelling on the problem, focus on finding solutions together. Brainstorm ideas and compromises that work for both of you to resolve the issue. Think of the future rather than the past.

    8. **Maintain Calmness:** Stay calm and composed during the conversation, even if emotions run high. Take deep breaths and pause if needed to regain composure before continuing. Take a break if needed. Do not shout!

    9. **Practice Patience and Understanding:** Understand that difficult conversations take time and may require multiple discussions to reach a resolution. Be patient with each other and avoid rushing the process.

    10. **End on a Positive Note:** Conclude the conversation on a positive note, reaffirming your love and commitment to each other. Express gratitude for your partner’s willingness to engage in open communication. Hugs and caressing or a kiss and an “I love you” should end the conversation.

    Remember, difficult conversations can be challenging, but they also present opportunities for growth and deeper connection in your relationship. Approach them with love, compassion, and a willingness to understand each other better.

    I already had a difficult conversation with my lover, and I realized that I’ve been keeping a lot inside to keep the peace. The buildup was upsetting our peace, though…

    So, I’ll be using these tips much more often.

    This weekend, we have a date to chat 💛 ❤️ 😍

    Which was your favorite?

    When I have thought conversations with my man, #2,4,5 have offered the best results.

    Thank you very much for reading, and if you loved this, follow this blog because I have lots of other love and union advice.

    With love and ligh,

    Eve, ready for this weekend: planned the outfit, the conversation, thinking about the lovemaking

  • 3 simple steps to be more feminine this week

    Dear diary,

    Being more feminine is a goal of mine. I don’t have an end goal, but it’s a constant progression.

    I ditched feminism because I had felt that I was better than men for too many years, and this caused separation in my union with my lover, Scorpio.

    What I want now is to be more feminine because I now feel that being a harsh feminist made me less feminine.

    I did notice that as I became more feminine, my lover became more masculine. Additionally, I feel safer, more abundant, more empowered, more powerful, and I feel more love. And I’m obviously a better mom now.

    3 things to make me feel more feminine this week:

    • Spiritual self care: I plan on taking a delicious bath today. I added flower essential oils to my soap, shampoo, and conditioner, and the lovely smell is making me want to spend more time in the bath. I’m going back to the basics here as I have written at length about taking spiritual baths, and I have had very spiritual experiences in that bath. I have been cleaning and organizing my bathroom, and this will help me feel more feminine: spending time in a beautiful space, smelling like flowers, dressing up afterwards.
    • Deep cleaning my house and de-cluttering: loving my house makes me feel very feminine. 
    • Expressing myself vulnerably: I have made a date with my partner to have a deep chat. There are lots of things I need to get off my chest, and this will make me feel more calm and relaxed, and it should deepen our connection, which should make me feel beloved and thus more feminine.

    What makes you feel most feminine?

    As a bonus, I’m making my kitchen my space. I never liked being in the kitchen, and I hated doing the dishes. I was able to convince myself to love cooking and especially cooking very fancy and complex meals. I was also able to teach myself to bake. I’m now, as I said, jokingly brainwashing myself to love doing the dishes because I only want to do the things that I love.

    I put a diffuser right behind my sink, and I add my fanciest oils, Rose, Jasmin, and Geranium, which are my perfumes (together with lavender) to do the dishes. Now, as I do the dishes, I smell my perfumes, which are also the most relaxing oils to me. I’m a flower girl!

    I only like to clean with music on and I’ve been singing and dancing in the kitchen more than ever.

    We bought new dishes that I love to touch and look at, so washing them is a breeze, and it has worked wonderfully! Best transformation this month.

    Finally, I’m allowing myself to watch TV. I think TV is a waste of time, and I don’t other than Naked and Afraid. Well, I can see the TV from my sink… whatever works.

    A rewiring of my neurons is happening, and my house is so grateful. I’m grateful because now I don’t have to force myself to do human work. I love my time doing it, and I’m enjoying myself.

    With love and light,

    Eve, with my cleanest and best smelling house ever

  • Home education. Our story and inspiring my children to be lifelong learners.

    Dear reader, Ever since my first child, now 11, was a baby, I have been interested in homeschooling. By now, I have 3 daughters being educated at home. Today, I don’t want to call it homeschooling anymore because what we do is not school. It is definitely education but not school. Home as the first […]

    Home education. Our story and inspiring my children to be lifelong learners.
  • 5 Simple Ways to Love More Today

    5 Simple Ways to Love More Today

    Dear Lovestar,

    Love is a force that enriches our lives, connects us to others, and brings joy and fulfillment. While grand gestures and extravagant displays of affection have their place, true love often thrives in the simplicity of everyday moments. Here are five simple ways to cultivate deeper connections and love more fully today:

    **1. Practice Active Listening:**
    Truly hearing and understanding someone is one of the most profound acts of love. Take the time to listen attentively to your loved ones without interrupting or judging. Show empathy and validation by acknowledging their feelings and experiences. By making others feel heard and valued, you strengthen your bonds and deepen your relationships.

    **2. Express Gratitude:**
    Take a moment to appreciate the people in your life and the love they bring. Express gratitude for their presence, their kindness, and the little things they do that make a difference. Whether it’s a heartfelt thank-you note, a spontaneous hug, or a sincere compliment, expressing gratitude fosters warmth and connection in relationships.

    **3. Show Affection Through Actions:**
    Small gestures of affection can speak volumes. Show your love through simple acts of kindness, such as preparing a favorite meal, offering a comforting embrace, or lending a helping hand. These gestures demonstrate thoughtfulness, care, and consideration, strengthening the bond between you and your loved ones.

    **4. Be Present in the Moment:**
    In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in distractions and obligations. Take the time to be fully present with your loved ones, giving them your undivided attention and affection. Put away your devices, engage in meaningful conversations, and create cherished memories together. Being present allows you to deepen your connections and savor the beauty of each moment.

    **5. Cultivate Self-Love:**
    Loving deeply starts from within. Take care of yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually, honoring your needs and nurturing your well-being. Practice self-compassion, embrace your strengths and imperfections, and prioritize self-care activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. By loving and accepting yourself wholeheartedly, you’ll be better equipped to love others deeply and authentically.

    Incorporating these simple practices into your daily life can foster deeper connections, enrich your relationships, and infuse your world with more love and meaning. Remember, love is not just a feeling—it’s a choice and a commitment to nurturing the bonds that matter most. So, dive deeper, embrace love in all its forms, and let your heart shine brightly today and every day.

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    With love and light,

    Eve