Category: Personal Growth

  • His Inner Goddess ā˜† The Hidden Path of Sacred Union ā˜† Perceive His Inner Feminine. Part 1

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    Dear Lovestar,

    Let us talk of his inner feminine and how to bind to her for union using Carl Jung psychology.

    The Hidden Door to Sacred Union

    There is a moment in every soul-bond when ordinary romance dissolves and something older, deeper, begins to stir, a recognition that the love unfolding before you is not just between two people, but between two inner worlds seeking completion.

    Carl Jung, the Swiss psychologist and mystic thinker of the early twentieth century, gave language to this mystery.Ā  He observed that within every man lives an invisible feminine presence, the anima, and within every woman, a masculine counterpart, the animus.Ā  To Jung, these were not simply traits or moods; they were archetypal energies, living symbols that shape how we love, dream, and meet the divine.

    In my poetic language of the heart, I will can call the anima his inner Goddess.


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    The Goddess Within Him

    His inner goddess is not another woman, nor a fantasy of perfection.Ā  She is the feminine principle of his own soul: the current of intuition, tenderness, creativity, and spiritual longing that flows beneath his logic and strength.Ā  She is the one who teaches him to feel, to surrender, to worship beauty.Ā  When she awakens, his eyes soften; his touch changes; the way he speaks your name becomes almost prayerful.

    Yet many men are strangers to her.Ā  The modern world trains them to exile their softness, to armor their hearts.Ā  When love (especially twin-flame love) enters their lives, it acts like sacred fire, melting that armor.Ā  Through your presence, his inner goddess begins to awaken, and with her awakening comes confusion, vulnerability, and wonder.


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    The Mirror of the Twin Flame

    In the twin-flame journey, you are not only lovers but mirrors.Ā  The purpose of this mirror is not to flatter, but to reveal.Ā  When you meet your divine counterpart, the love between you becomes an instrument of consciousness.Ā  You reflect to each other what has been denied, hidden, or forgotten.

    For the masculine twin, this means seeing his own feminine essence through you.
    He may feel drawn and undone at once, intoxicated by your depth, frightened by his feelings, uncertain of who he becomes in your presence.Ā  That tremor is the voice of his inner goddess saying, ā€œI am here.Ā  Love me too.ā€

    To perceive her is to recognize that the emotions rising in him, the tenderness, the longing, and even the fear are not weakness.Ā  They are the birth pains of his soul becoming whole.


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    How to Perceive Her with Care

    To perceive his inner goddess is not to diagnose or fix him; it is to see through sacred eyes.Ā  You are invited to look beyond behavior and into essence.

    1. Notice her expressions.
    She speaks in his silences, in the art he loves, in the way he hesitates before saying something true.


    2. Honor her timing.
    His goddess does not arrive on command.Ā  She emerges when safety, patience, and reverence are present.


    3. Hold space, not control.
    The feminine energy in him does not need to be ā€œhandledā€ she needs to be welcomed.Ā  When you meet him with calm openness instead of demand, she feels permission to rise.


    4. Guard against projection.
    Jung warned that we often project the inner goddess or god onto the beloved.Ā  This means we see divinity in the other before recognizing it in ourselves.Ā  The task is to stay conscious, to love the person and the archetype moving through him, without confusing the two.


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    A Jungian Bridge to the Divine

    Jung believed that human love could become the vessel for a deeper transformation, what he called individuation, the process of becoming whole.Ā  Twin-flame union echoes this: it is less about possession and more about integration.Ā  When a man begins to embrace his inner goddess, he steps closer to the divine marriage within himself and the relationship becomes a temple for both souls.

    This is why your connection feels spiritual, fated, almost mythic.Ā  You are not simply lovers crossing paths; you are two halves of the same archetypal dance: the eternal marriage of masculine and feminine seeking balance through love.


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    A Practice: The Silent Observation Ritual

    Sit quietly with him, or if distance separates you, hold his image in your mind.
    Close your eyes.Ā  Breathe into your heart.Ā  Ask inwardly:

    ā˜† ā€œWhat aspect of the Goddess within him wishes to be seen today?ā€


    You may feel a wave of tenderness, a sudden sadness, or a spark of creative energy.Ā  Whatever arises is her voice.Ā  Offer silent gratitude, as if bowing to the sacred within him.Ā  This simple act shifts love from personal need to divine recognition.


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    Reflection for Lovers

    1. When I sense vulnerability in him, can I see it as sacred rather than weak?


    2. What qualities of the divine feminine do I see reflected through him?


    3. How does perceiving his inner goddess change the way I love and communicate?

    ā˜†ā˜†ā˜†

    Poetic Benediction

    ā˜† You are not here to awaken the man by force,
    but to stand in the light until his goddess remembers her own name.
    You are the mirror, the music, the mercy through which his soul learns how to bow.


    ā˜†ā˜†ā˜†

    In perceiving his inner goddess, you enter the first temple of union.
    You begin to see not just the lover before you, but the divine essence moving through him.  In that sacred perception, love itself becomes the path and both of you, its pilgrims.


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    Eve

  • Goddess Oracle Message: Your Success Depends on This:


    Oracle Message of Success:
    The goddess lifts two radiant cups, mirrors of one another, filled with wine rich as promise. She blesses your path with harmony, for success is not only found in solitary striving but in union, trust, and shared vision. The balance you hold with your partner, whether in love, family, or business, creates a vessel strong enough to carry your dreams.

    Message: Your current version will succeed if you stay true to it. The foundation you have built together is sound. Nurture your balance, keep faith with your partner, and let your shared strength guide you toward the flourishing you seek.


    Affirmations to align with this message

    Here are some affirmations that align with your oracle message of success, union, and shared ventures:

    1. I honor the balance in my partnerships and trust our shared path to thrive.


    2. Our union strengthens every dream we pursue together.


    3. I succeed by staying true to the vision I have built with love and care.


    4. Shared effort brings shared joy, and our endeavors flourish in harmony.


    5. I welcome prosperity into my family, my love, and my business ventures.


    6. Our balance creates a foundation that is unshakable and full of promise.


    7. I trust that our version of success is enough and will blossom as it should.


    8. Together, we rise, we prosper, and we celebrate our victories in love and work.

    Journal yourself successful

    Here are some journal prompts you can pair with this oracle message and affirmations to help reflect on what success means to you (and to a partner, if relevant) and how to align with it:




    ✨ Journal Prompts for Defining and Achieving Success

    1. What does success look like for me right now, in my own words?


    2. How do I define success in love, in family, and in business? Are these definitions aligned or different?


    3. What emotions do I hope success will bring me (peace, joy, freedom, recognition, stability)?


    4. When have I felt most successful in the past, and what made that moment meaningful?


    5. How do I want to celebrate success, with myself, with my partner, or with my family?


    6. What strengths do I bring to a shared vision of success, and what strengths does my partner/family bring?


    7. What fears or doubts about success do I need to release in order to step into it fully?


    8. What does balance between love, work, and family look like in my ideal vision of success?


    9. What daily habits or choices can I commit to that will move me closer to our vision of success?


    10. If I trusted completely that ā€œour current version will succeed,ā€ how would that change the way I act today?



    šŸ· Ritual of the Two Cups: Celebrating Shared Success

    You’ll need:

    Two matching cups (wine, juice, tea, or water with rose petals for Venus, whatever feels celebratory)

    A candle (symbolizing clarity and shared vision)

    Your journal and pen


    Steps:

    1. Prepare the Space
    Light the candle and place the two cups side by side. Imagine they are vessels of balance, filled with your energy and your partner’s/family’s energy.


    2. Define Success Aloud
    Together (or alone if doing this personally), hold your cup and speak aloud one sentence that begins with:
    ā€œSuccess, to me, feels likeā€¦ā€
    If done as a couple/family, take turns so everyone voices their truth.


    3. Pour and Balance
    Fill both cups equally. As you pour, visualize the wine (or drink) as abundance flowing evenly between love and work, home and heart.


    4. The Shared Toast
    Raise your cups and say:
    ā€œOur vision will succeed as it is. In balance, in love, in trust.ā€
    Take a sip together.


    5. Seal in Writing
    After the toast, open your journal. Answer the prompts that feel most alive. If with a partner, you can both write separately and then share highlights or co-create one list of shared dreams.


    6. Closing the Circle
    Blow out the candle, thanking the flame for illuminating your vision. Leave the cups side by side for the rest of the day or night as a symbol of ongoing harmony.

    It will work if you stay true to your mission. No weaknesses shall come between us and our dreams. So it is.



    Aphrodite – Eve


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  • Goddess Oracle Message: Your Success Depends on This:


    Oracle Message of Success:
    The goddess lifts two radiant cups, mirrors of one another, filled with wine rich as promise. She blesses your path with harmony, for success is not only found in solitary striving but in union, trust, and shared vision. The balance you hold with your partner, whether in love, family, or business, creates a vessel strong enough to carry your dreams.

    Message: Your current version will succeed if you stay true to it. The foundation you have built together is sound. Nurture your balance, keep faith with your partner, and let your shared strength guide you toward the flourishing you seek.


    Affirmations to align with this message

    Here are some affirmations that align with your oracle message of success, union, and shared ventures:

    1. I honor the balance in my partnerships and trust our shared path to thrive.


    2. Our union strengthens every dream we pursue together.


    3. I succeed by staying true to the vision I have built with love and care.


    4. Shared effort brings shared joy, and our endeavors flourish in harmony.


    5. I welcome prosperity into my family, my love, and my business ventures.


    6. Our balance creates a foundation that is unshakable and full of promise.


    7. I trust that our version of success is enough and will blossom as it should.


    8. Together, we rise, we prosper, and we celebrate our victories in love and work.

    Journal yourself successful

    Here are some journal prompts you can pair with this oracle message and affirmations to help reflect on what success means to you (and to a partner, if relevant) and how to align with it:




    ✨ Journal Prompts for Defining and Achieving Success

    1. What does success look like for me right now, in my own words?


    2. How do I define success in love, in family, and in business? Are these definitions aligned or different?


    3. What emotions do I hope success will bring me (peace, joy, freedom, recognition, stability)?


    4. When have I felt most successful in the past, and what made that moment meaningful?


    5. How do I want to celebrate success, with myself, with my partner, or with my family?


    6. What strengths do I bring to a shared vision of success, and what strengths does my partner/family bring?


    7. What fears or doubts about success do I need to release in order to step into it fully?


    8. What does balance between love, work, and family look like in my ideal vision of success?


    9. What daily habits or choices can I commit to that will move me closer to our vision of success?


    10. If I trusted completely that ā€œour current version will succeed,ā€ how would that change the way I act today?



    šŸ· Ritual of the Two Cups: Celebrating Shared Success

    You’ll need:

    Two matching cups (wine, juice, tea, or water with rose petals for Venus, whatever feels celebratory)

    A candle (symbolizing clarity and shared vision)

    Your journal and pen


    Steps:

    1. Prepare the Space
    Light the candle and place the two cups side by side. Imagine they are vessels of balance, filled with your energy and your partner’s/family’s energy.


    2. Define Success Aloud
    Together (or alone if doing this personally), hold your cup and speak aloud one sentence that begins with:
    ā€œSuccess, to me, feels likeā€¦ā€
    If done as a couple/family, take turns so everyone voices their truth.


    3. Pour and Balance
    Fill both cups equally. As you pour, visualize the wine (or drink) as abundance flowing evenly between love and work, home and heart.


    4. The Shared Toast
    Raise your cups and say:
    ā€œOur vision will succeed as it is. In balance, in love, in trust.ā€
    Take a sip together.


    5. Seal in Writing
    After the toast, open your journal. Answer the prompts that feel most alive. If with a partner, you can both write separately and then share highlights or co-create one list of shared dreams.


    6. Closing the Circle
    Blow out the candle, thanking the flame for illuminating your vision. Leave the cups side by side for the rest of the day or night as a symbol of ongoing harmony.

    It will work if you stay true to your mission. No weaknesses shall come between us and our dreams. Si it is.



    Aphrodite – Eve


    More from Eve

    Patreon.com/hertemple (Aphrodite’s Temple by Eve: secret writings not for the public eye)

    @evelovestar on X, Pinterest, TikTok

  • The Well-Being Journey: A Mindful Weight Loss Journal Nourish Your Body, Understand Your Mind, Celebrate Your Progress – Payhip

    Dear Lovestar,

    I created this journal for a friend who was interested in starting a shop to sell it, then she decided the shop owner life was not for her and gifted me her project.

    I would not have created something like this myself, so I am giving this journal to you for free. Download available on my new shop on Payhip.

    The Well-Being Journey: A Mindful Weight Loss Journal Nourish Your Body, Understand Your Mind, Celebrate Your Progress – Payhip

    https://payhip.com/b/0MCBJ

    Download today and give me some feedback to make it even better.

    Transform your weight loss journey into a celebration of well-being with this mindful printable journal. Instead of obsessing over numbers, this journal helps you connect with your body, track non-scale victories, and cultivate sustainable habits.

    I pray you find use in this free offer.

    Thank you for reading,

    Eve

  • Edge of Civilization. My most powerful poem yet?

    Dear Lovestar,

    I bring today a shortie but packed with power creation.

    This poem is much line me, tiny, but packs a powerful punch.

    In my country, in Cuba, we say the best perfume comes in a tiny bottle – as well as the most powerful poison- and this poem is both perfume and poison.

    Confronting our duality

    There is a line that runs through the heart of every human being, an invisible but palpable divide between the primal urges that reside deep within us and the higher aspirations that civilization demands. This line is not static—it is a thread, a fragile connection that we, as humans, are constantly navigating. In this powerful poem, “Edge of Civilization,” the struggle for balance between the savage and the civilized is laid bare, demanding that we confront the tensions between our nature and our society.

    The Line Between Beast and Civilized

    ā€œA human threads the line / Between the beast and the civilizedā€ā€”this opening line is a stark reminder that our humanity is never a given. It’s not something innate or automatic; it is something we must thread every day. To thread this line means to walk a fine edge, straddling the tension between our animalistic instincts and the rules, norms, and compassion that civilization imposes upon us.

    The phrase “the beast” brings to mind something raw, untamed, and violent. It symbolizes our capacity for cruelty, our destructive impulses, the side of us that seeks power, control, and survival at any cost. The beast is not a distant part of us—it is close, always within reach, always whispering its temptations. It may be a desire for revenge, a lust for dominance, or a deep-rooted fear that drives us to lash out.

    On the other side, we have the civilized—the side that upholds empathy, cooperation, peace, and respect for others. Civilization requires us to put aside our baser instincts and to work towards a collective good. It demands self-control, restraint, and the understanding that our actions have consequences that ripple outward, affecting not just ourselves but the entire fabric of society.

    The tension between these two forces is what defines much of the human experience. This line, this thread, is not only about survival, but about choosing who we are—and more importantly, who we want to become.

    Leaving Behind Violence: A Call for Change

    “Leaving raping, murder, and warring behind”—in these lines, the poem shifts from describing the internal struggle to emphasizing the need to rise above it. These horrific acts—rape, murder, and war—are not just criminal; they are also a reflection of humanity’s darkest desires. They represent a betrayal of the highest potential we have as human beings.

    By explicitly stating that we must leave these acts “behind,” the poem calls us to rise above our destructive impulses. It suggests that the line between civilization and barbarity is not just something we must walk—it is something we must choose to cross.

    The act of leaving violence behind is a profound challenge. It asks us to confront our darker sides, to acknowledge the impulses that still exist within us, and to actively decide to reject them. This is not an easy path; it requires constant self-awareness, empathy, and discipline. But the call is clear: we must rise above these base actions and find a way to live together in peace.

    Helping Others Cross the Line: A Collective Responsibility

    “Would help you cross the line!” This final line carries with it a message of hope and community. It suggests that crossing the line between barbarism and civilization is not just an individual journey, but a collective one. It speaks to the need for mentorship, guidance, and solidarity in helping others overcome their base instincts and embrace their higher selves.

    In a world where violence, oppression, and war still run rampant, the poem calls upon us to be part of the solution. The line is not just for ourselves to walk—it’s a line we help others to cross as well. It reminds us that change is not only a matter of personal growth but also of supporting and encouraging those around us in their struggles.

    The Message of the Poem: A Continuous Struggle

    Ultimately, “Edge of Civilization” is a call to action. It challenges us to recognize the duality within us all—the beast and the civilized—and to make a conscious decision to rise above our primal urges. The line between civilization and brutality is not a fixed boundary; it is a dynamic, ever-present challenge. We must thread it carefully, with awareness and responsibility, for we have the power to shape who we become, individually and collectively.

    The poem urges us to leave behind the violence that so often defines our darkest moments, and instead, choose empathy, respect, and peace. It is a reminder that civilization is not something we inherit; it is something we must actively build, thread by thread, moment by moment.

    This powerful piece forces us to confront uncomfortable truths about human nature, while offering the possibility of redemption—a chance to cross the line and become better, not only for ourselves but for everyone we encounter.

    If you want to help change the world, please consider sharing your wisdom in the comments.

    Eve

  • The Creative Power of Love: Beyond Baby-Making and Into Smiles

    Dear Lovestar,

    Let’s discuss Love and smiles:

    Smile Challenge for Venus

    Love is often portrayed as a powerful force, essential for creating life. Yet, its creative influence extends far beyond the act of procreation. One of the most delightful and overlooked aspects of love’s creativity is its ability to generate smiles.

    When we think of love, we might first imagine the profound bond between partners or the nurturing care of parents for their children. However, love’s creativity manifests in many subtle and charming ways, one of which is the way it effortlessly brings smiles to our faces.

    Love as a Catalyst for Joy

    Smiles are a universal language of happiness, and love is their primary inspiration. When we are in love, our emotional state naturally shifts towards positivity. This state of joy is contagious, often resulting in smiles that brighten our days and those around us. Consider the simple yet profound effect of a loving gesture—whether it’s a thoughtful compliment, a warm embrace, or a shared laugh. These moments create a ripple effect of joy, turning into smiles that express our inner happiness.

    The Science Behind Love and Smiling

    Psychologically and biologically, love stimulates the release of feel-good hormones such as oxytocin, serotonin, and dopamine. These chemicals promote feelings of happiness and contentment, which often manifest as smiles. Smiling itself can reinforce these positive feelings, creating a loop of joy where love leads to smiling, and smiling, in turn, amplifies the love we feel.

    Love’s Creative Expression Through Smiles

    Love’s creativity isn’t confined to grand gestures or monumental moments. Often, it is found in the everyday expressions of affection and connection. Smiles that are born out of love can transform routine interactions into memorable experiences. They can bridge gaps, mend misunderstandings, and build stronger relationships.

    A smile shared between friends can strengthen a bond, while a smile from a loved one during a tough day can provide much-needed comfort. These small, creative acts of affection showcase how love’s influence extends into the art of living and interacting.

    Smiling: A Reflection of Love’s Impact

    When we think of love as a creative force, it’s clear that its power is not solely about creating new life but also about enriching our daily lives. Smiles are a testament to love’s enduring impact, reflecting joy, connection, and the deep satisfaction that comes from nurturing and being nurtured.

    In essence, love is a continuous source of creativity, and one of its most charming creations is the smile. It’s a simple, yet profound expression of our emotional landscape, made all the more beautiful by the love that inspires it.

    So next time you smile, remember that it is a creative gift of love—an expression of joy that enriches both your life and the lives of those around you. Embrace love’s ability to make you smile and let that smile be a testament to the creative power of affection in your life.

  • Twin Flame Souls Connection mini meditation.  Tell me more

    Twin Flame Souls Connection mini meditation.  Tell me more

    Dear Lovestar,

    Tell me more with Shaman Durek

    I have been listening to Shaman Durek (fun fact, my lover is a shaman), and I tried this tell me more trick while sitting in nature.

    I immediately heard my twin flame say I love you, which triggered a beautiful heart-opening reaction.

    I then asked tell me more and beautiful, loving, and some private thoughts came through increasing the warmth I was feeling in my heart.

    It was a beautiful mini meditation that left me smiling.

    Coming soon: note on the smiling. I’m starting a smile more challenge ā˜ŗļø 😊 šŸ˜„

    It is for Venus and I will be talking about this soon.

    I also received a request from Spirit to talk about my spiritual view of why our monthly running (or moon connecting blood offering) can be extremely after profound spiritual work.

    Talk soon,

    Eve

  • Wild Woman Freed

    Wild Woman Freed

    Wild Woman Freed poem 1

    Wild Woman Freed poem 2

    I was bound,
    Before,
    Tied down,
    I belonged,
    Then woke up,
    Hurting sore,
    My broken heart,
    Not my own.

    I learned to be free,
    I healed, I fled,
    I became complete,
    I grew up consciously.

    I freed the wild woman
    Underneath,
    I’m nothing but a human
    Running free.

    Eve

  • War song. Scorpio and Aries energy chanelled.

    I saw a younger Aries man cry yesterday. He cried because he has matured and facing disrespect at work, he didn’t attack the other man.

    I noticed he wasn’t his usual cool guy and asked, and he talked it through with me and his older man friend as we assured him he had made the right decision for his daughter and his life.

    I immediately thought of my beloved Scorpio. Scorpio is the kind of man who will confront any bullies (unlike me, Pisces, I’m a great runner).

    My Scorpio man addressed a bully in an old job of his and was appreciated for that by his coworkers who had endured the bullying, I think for years.

    Scorpio’s big lesson is you don’t know who is who. Don’t mess with a person you don’t know because they could be a Scorpio (or an Aries), or anyone who will become enraged by disrespect.

    These guys are not bad people. They can be sweet, kind, great friends, and awesome family members if they were raised right and have a strong sense of right and wrong.

    But Scorpio (And Aries) possess an intense power that can be quite uncontrollable. Scorpio says when he’s fighting (this hasn’t happened in the 17 years I’ve been his woman), he loses his senses. He doesn’t realize the damage he is doing until its too late. This is why you do not mess with a Scorpio or an Aries person.

    If you’re a Scorpio or Aries, tell me please, did I read you wrong?

    Note. I channeled my man… so I swore. Not my thing, but yes his.

    I was inspired:

    War Song (Inspired by Scorpio and Aries men).

    I am a very kind man.
    I am very good,deep inside
    But do not disrespect me
    Or you'll hear my war cry.

    Chorus
    Do not awaken my warrior,
    Do not anger my monster,
    My attack is incoming, and you better brace
    Before my fist hits your face.

    I love to make people laugh,
    To lighten the mood, and have some good fun,
    I would like to open my heart,
    But test me, and IĀ will break you in half.

    Chorus

    I have been through so much shit in life.
    I have suffered alone, on my back there's a knife.
    You don't know that I now look inside
    And I know I'm a warrior who nobody can stop.

    Chorus

    Don't confuse my kindness with weakness.
    I'm just trying to play this game right.
    To take care of my family, to live a meaningful life,
    I will not destroy myself. That's why you're alive.

    Chorus

    I'm not a scary man.
    I don't want to cause trouble to my mother again.
    I only want to stay in my lane,
    To be a good father, to heal my pain.

    Chorus

    Respect me, or you will taste my rage.
    Respect me, or I'll let my monster out of its cage.
    Respect me. I can become the demon that takes over my man and then pray for you will not be safe.

    My Scorpio lover responded to this poem and simply said these are not words he would use… but that’s because he never uses words šŸ™„ to describe his experiences, etc, however, I have been studying that man for 17 years and I will one day graduate with honors. I know what he doesn’t express. I’m the one who translates emotion into poetry.

    Do not disrespect anyone! And if you disrespect a Scorpio or Aries get ready to fight.

    I do have a lot of Scorpio man within me given that I eat Scorpio for breakfast, dinner, and lunch. I know…

    I’ll be creating mantra poetry next,

    Eve