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  • A new dimension of love and lovemaking. Union update ❤️ 😍 💖

    Dear diary,

    ***Update since 5/5/23: that big Scorpio eclipse which coincided with my anniversary to Scorpio ♏️ ***

    Once expectations are dropped and nothing is expected, union manifests. Of course, this statement would be ridiculous applied to a 3D relationship. Of course, in the “real world” (such as the world my parents live in), clear expectations are needed, or they will not be met.

    Lucky for me, I don’t live in the real world. In the world I live in, I don’t have to tie my lover down. He willingly comes to me all the time. My lover doesn’t have to “buy me” or do anything special to earn my affection. I am totally free of charge. I know we live in a broken place, and this is why I want to change the world.

    A new dimension of love ❤️ 😍 💖

    Since my last update, my beloved Scorpio and I have become closer than ever. It was unexpected, really, so I’m sure it was divine timing, and perhaps the energy accelerated due to the eclipse. It really doesn’t matter why, the lovely thing happened and now I’m very grateful.

    I’m not going to give the specifics on what happened, too personal and unnecessary, but change started in my mind. Perhaps also in my beloved’s mind, I didn’t ask… In our conversations around this time, we talked about giving more to our connection. Giving more in a state of gratitude for the continued Love and the increasing depth of our Love.

    Long story short, I felt what I could only explain as a new dimension of love. More specifically, this change manifested as a new dimension in lovemaking.

    A new dimension in lovemaking 😋 😋 😋

    A new dimension in lovemaking is obviously yummy 😋 😜 😊 😉 😀 😍. It’s obvious and undeniable when this happens. This is a real phenomenon and not something that can be made up, not something that can be faked. Both partners feel the shift. The shift is positive, of course.

    This positive shift in lovemaking, which I’m calling a new dimension, is not some magical, otherworldly move to the 5D ( 😆 ). This positive shift is a new level. We all started somewhere, let’s say, at level zero. At different rates and for different reasons, we all leveled up our sex life. I’m not assigning levels to skills. What I speak of is an energetic “feeling” thing, not a theoretical learning thing. I didn’t do anything new, I did have a new intention, and I used the power of gratitude to manifest this shift.

    Manifested, or divine timing?

    If I used gratitude to manifest this shift, did I manifest it, or was it divine timing 🤔? I feel like this question is a lot like What came first, the chicken or the egg? Trying to answer it is a good journaling exercise.

    The shift started in my mind. There was probably plenty of assistance from my lover Scorpio. I feel his fantasies, so what I think (about sex) are not my thoughts at all. They’re at the very least shared thoughts, at most, my thoughts are his thoughts, which sounds dangerous ( 😆 🤣 😂) but I’m tuned into that vibe, so there is no harm. The power of tuning into his desires has been helpful for me because I’m the embarrassed little girl type…

    I don’t believe I manifested this. Though I’m certain that you, the reader, can manifest a higher level of love and a higher level of sex, the experience I write about was not manifested by me, there is a chance that it was manifested by my lover! He is Scorpio, and this shift happened under the influence of the Scorpio eclipse.

    Gratitude manifests a higher love

    My takeaway from this journaling exercise is if something manifested this new dimension of love was my gratitude 🥹 🙏 🙌 for my beloved and his love for me as well as my gratitude for the universe for bringing us together and I feel more and more grateful everyday!

    Today, during the summer solstice, ☀️ 🌞 ☀️ I plan on picking yellow flowers, picking pinecones, drawing suns with my children, and hope to make a fire.

    Thank you for your visit, and I wish you a lovely solstice and cancer season,

    Eve

  • A new dimension of love and lovemaking. Union update ❤️ 😍 💖

    Dear diary,

    ***Update since 5/5/23: that big Scorpio eclipse which coincided with my anniversary to Scorpio ♏️ ***

    Once expectations are dropped and nothing is expected, union manifests. Of course, this statement would be ridiculous applied to a 3D relationship. Of course, in the “real world” (such as the world my parents live in), there has to be clear expectations, or they will not be met.

    Lucky for me, I don’t live in the real world. In the world I live in, I don’t have to tie my lover down. He willingly comes to me all the time. My lover doesn’t have to “buy me” or do anything special to earn my affection. I am totally free of charge. I know we live in a broken world, and this is why I want to change the it.

    A new dimension of love ❤️ 😍 💖

    Since my last update, my beloved Scorpio and I have become closer than ever. It was unexpected, really, so I’m sure it was divine timing, and perhaps the energy accelerated due to the eclipse. It really doesn’t matter why, the lovely thing happened and now I’m very grateful.

    I’m not going to give the specifics on what happened, too personal and unnecessary, but change started in my mind. Perhaps also in my beloved’s mind, I didn’t ask… In our conversations around this time, we talked about giving more to our connection (I led this conversation). Giving more in a state of gratitude for the continued Love and the increasing depth of our Love. This is totally something I’d say and not Scorpio…

    The change I refer to was reaching a place together where we were more at peace, closer together, and wanting more.

    A new dimension in lovemaking 😋 😋 😋

    A new dimension in lovemaking is obviously yummy 😋 😜 😊 😉 😀 😍. It’s obvious and undeniable when this happens. This is a real phenomenon and not something that can be made up, not something that can be faked. Both partners feel the shift. The shift is positive, of course.

    This positive shift in lovemaking, which I’m calling a new dimension, is not some magical, otherworldly move to the 5D ( 😆 ). This positive shift is a new level. We all started somewhere, let’s say, at level zero. At different rates and for different reasons, we all leveled up our sex life. I’m not assigning levels to skills. What I speak of is an energetic “feeling” thing, not a theoretical learning thing. I didn’t do anything new, I did have a new intention, and I used the power of gratitude to manifest this shift.

    Manifested, or divine timing?

    If I used gratitude to manifest this shift, did I manifest it, or was it divine timing 🤔? I feel like this question is a lot like What came first, the chicken or the egg? Trying to answer it is a good journaling exercise.

    The shift started in my mind. There was probably plenty of assistance from my lover Scorpio. I feel his fantasies, so what I think (about sex) are not my thoughts at all. They’re at the very least shared thoughts, at most, my thoughts are his thoughts, which sounds dangerous ( 😆 🤣 😂) but I’m tuned into that vibe, so there is no harm. The power of tuning into his desires has been helpful for me because I’m the embarrassed little girl type…

    I don’t believe I manifested this. Though I’m certain that you, the reader, can manifest a higher level of love and a higher level of lovemaking, the experience I write about was not manifested by me, there is a chance that it was manifested by my lover! He is Scorpio, and this shift happened under the influence of the Scorpio eclipse, and I believed going into the eclipse that he might be manifesting something… but though my lover likely helped manifest this for us, I believe this was divine timing.

    Does sex get better after 16 years?

    That is such a great question, and we all know the answer is no. Most of us know of couples that fall apart much sooner than that and we ourselves might have gotten tired of someone in the past, most of us also experienced cheating and we assume cheaters cheat because they get bored. We assume that sex with the same person and the same way get boring.

    This is why finding a new dimension of lovemaking elevates the entire union. It suddenly becomes new again. The energy ascends, the feeling gets better, and the desire grows.

    I am excited about this big change in our union and so grateful. Now that I know this is possible, I will explore it even further. More of these posts are coming.

    Dear reader,

    Thank you for visiting and I’m grateful for you. I have been off the blog lots because my life has changed also in the busy area but I will always keep on coming back.

    Much love,

    Eve

  • The power of journaling

    Friends,

    This is something I wrote on a journal. There was no planning or researching this, and journaling is even more powerful than simple thought keeping.

    Sometimes, I blow myself away by the things that I write. I love to read an old piece of mine, written who knows how long ago and realize that I don’t think those thoughts today. It’s even better if I have no memory of those thoughts. I might ask myself, Did I write that?

    Where did those thoughts come from? Where did they go? That’s something I love about having a journal, and in my case, to have a blog where I can unload those wonderful thoughts. My blog is my “secret” journal and, of course, any readers, just a figment of my imagination. 😀 😉 😊

    Perhaps these “downloads” are more frequent because I have these outlets. If this is the case, I should write and share more to get more insights.

    Do I have a muse? Someone whispering these wonderful thoughts in my ear? Or is the thought stream conscious and searching for a matching frequency in a human? Either way, I am very grateful for this gift.

    Eve

  • Powerful. A lightworker poem written on eclipse day.

    “Powerful” poem by Eve Lovestar

    I can’t see the eclipse on this side of the world and can’t wait to see the pictures and videos.

    Since I missed my show, I went outside under the sun to observe in some way this event. I sat on the ground with my selenite crystal wand.

    As I sat in introspection, thoughts immediately came through my head. They said:

    “It’s time for transformation”

    Spirit on eclipse day

    Soon, the strem of thoughts got poetic, and I captured it. This is the first poem I’ve written in a long time.

    I thought love poems would flow because it is also my anniversary, but I will take this. I’ll work up the courage for romance next.

    With much Love and light,

    Eve

  • Scorpio Eclipse and my anniversary with Scorpio

    Dear friends,

    I am excited to celebrate our 16th anniversary today, May 5th. We are not giving each other gifts or going out to eat. Our celebrations are very private. We eat a home-cooked meal, hang with our kids, and bond. I like to spend the day in gratitude for our connection, and, quite honestly, he wants to celebrate everything in our bedroom with an amazing display of his Scorpio power.

    On May 5th, there’s also the lunar eclipse in Scorpio. I am excited to celebrate during the eclipse, though I’m aware the energies could get very tough. I wonder how the Scorpio eclipse will affect my Scorpio man. Will the Scorpio energy be too much for him? Will he become more aroused as the Scorpio energy is sexy? Will he choose introspection?

    Will secrets be revealed? I love secrets, and we have been sharing lots of deep, held back facts. Held for up to 16 years. Nothing major. It’s the little things that count. I am open to secrets flowing.

    It has been a wild ride up to the eclipse. My lover already let me know the mood is not perfect for celebrating. My tactic tomorrow will be smooth. I’ll opt for meditation, writing, and poetry writing. Perhaps I’ll write him a love letter since this was very well received in the past and I only in 2023, after 15 years as lovers that I decided to write him (and share) a love letter. I did it as a fun thing, and I’ll probably do this tomorrow.

    Please be safe during this eclipse (like if it was a weather storm) and be forgiving to people because everyone should be triggered.

    With love and light,

    Eve

  • Pisces to Scorpio love letter

    Beloved Scorpio,

    I, Pisces, love you, Scorpio. I love your depth, your intensity,  your sensitivity, and your sensual power. Scorpio, you rule my daydreams and my fantasies. I feel most fulfilled in your presence. I feel most feminine in your arms. I feel most powerful when I am noticed by you.

    Scorpio, I am grateful that you are my perfect match, and I am your perfect match. You have what I need and I have what you need. We were made, perfect, for each other.

    Thank you for noticing me within the sea of countless women, and especially thank you for choosing me over all the other Pisces girls who would have loved to have you.

    Please know that my love is pure and deep and blessed by the light. I could only surrender to you. I can only be vulnerable with you. No energy comes close to yours. I am forever yours.

    And Scorpio, don’t worry, I will match your intensity when you need it most.

    With so much love and gratitude,

    Your Eve,

  • Speak blessings on your twin flame union. Manifestation technique.

    Of all the things we say about our twin flame union, which things are positive? Which are negative? Does it really make a difference?

    Everything is made of energy, including our words. The words we speak have a certain vibration. In our twin flame connection, if we’re manifesting union, we must keep the vibration high between the twin flames.

    If we’re speaking lowly of our twin flame, our connection, or talking about ourselves lacking love and respect, we’re sending those low vibes directly to our connection and might be manifesting separation.

    Because the connection is made of the two twins which appear to be separate and the connection is the line that unites us, talking negatively about either your twin or yourself affects union just like talking negatively about the connection is most likely to manifest separation unless there’s an energetic change.

    The words we regularly speak of our connection are a clue of whether we’re manifesting union, separation, or something in between.

    But I believe it’s not simply that our languages manifest, though we use our languages to bless the things we dearly love, to curse thd things we’re afraid of or dislike, to banish what we don’t believe or understand, to excert power and manipulate, to gossip, even to abuse, etc. 

    Languages give us spells that powerfully transform our surroundings, spells we use all day long. Conversations and interactions need to be kept vibing high so they can become a powerful tool for the  manifestation of union. I personally love sweet and sexy rhyming spells to manifest union, and if you feel curious about those, find my poetry and see what I mean.

    The low vibes. Complaining and gossiping in a relationship

    When we gossip about others, we’re sending them a low vibration, and we’re receiving their bad response energetically. Gossiping about another person all the time is like waging an energetic war. We send them crappy energy and receive a response. Gossip is like a drug, very addictive and difficult to change for the better.

    When we gossip about others, others might gossip about us because, energetically and subconsciously, the person we’re gossiping about picked up on our gossip and if they are addicted to gossip, they will start gossiping about us. Both people will feed off the other person’s bad energy. I know this will resonate with those who know two people who constantly gossip about each other.

    Within couples, gossip has very negative effects. When a couple gossips about others, not only are they getting negative responses from those they gossip about, but the union will likely become rocky. People who gossip are not trustworthy and ultimately, your twin might become suspicious even if you don’t gossip about him because he reacts to the energy of gossip and he wants your energy to be a safe space for him.

    I’m writing an entire post about gossip, and I’ll speak more about gossip as it relates to relationships and especially twin flames.

    Negativity and drama in the twin flame connection.

    The negativity and drama we experience are part of the energetic baggage we carry around. Unless we’re very familiar with cleaning our energy, we carry lots of negativity and drama because we find it everywhere. Our twin flames react to the baggage we carry because they know our soul, which is pure light. Our twin flame would react to negativity and drama vibes we carry around, even if say vibes have nothing to do with our flame.

    When we are manifesting union, we must become conscious of the baggage we carry. This is the healing we do in our connection where we become as close as possible to our higher self, who is our twin flame’s ideal lover. Our higher self would not gossip or participate in drama.

    Since our twin can feel this negativity and drama as low vibes and this causes running, it makes sense that when we stop gossiping, our vibration rises, and then we might become aligned with and therefore manifest union.

    Imagine then if, for some reason, I decided to gossip or speak maliciously of my twin to family, friends, coworkers, and the internet. We all know someone who talks about their partner and as twin flames, I’m sure we’ve all seen the comments on videos and posts where negativity about the twin flame connection are spread. It happens, and it manifests separation.

    Our twin knows what we think about them deep down. Depending on their level of awareness, he might not even realize it’s your belief that they’re picking up. They might feel our judgements of them as self-doubt or not feel worthy, which would certainly manifest separation because they don’t feel worthy of you.

    The high vibes. Blessings sent

    If gossiping about our flame can manifest separation, then it makes sense that speaking positively about our twin flame and our connection can help us manifest union. Speaking is how we use spells to manifest whatever we’re creating, often unconsciously. I’m suggesting that we create a habit of consciously speaking words of love, respect, and loyalty about our partner and our connection.

    I don’t suggest we lie about our connection. I am speaking to those twins who have decided to manifest union, twins that know beyond any doubt their partner is their twin flame, and they believe they can reach union. In other words, I believe a lot of those twins flame complaints left on comments are from people who are not twin flames at all. I believe there is something to be grateful about in every real twin flame union.

    Gratitude is a high vibe, and sending gratitude to your twin is a sure way to manifest warm thoughts for you in your twin’s heart. Just like he (or she) can feel when you talk or think negatively about him or the connection, he can feel when you speak or think words of gratitude.

    When we openly tell our flame, “I’m so lucky to have you,” or ” Thank you for coming into my life,” or “I’m so grateful you are mine”, his reaction will be that of someone feeling loved (unless he’s running), my insight is even when we tell those words to our mom, sister, friend, whoever, our twin will feel them and they will be a lot more willing to open their hearts to union. Even further, I’m suggesting that our twin will even feel our thinking of these high vibrational thoughts.

    I’m suggesting we use the power of our connection consciously. Our connection has two ends, mine and his. I could feed my connection lies, disrespect, drama, and my Twin would send me the same low vibe back in the form of running and separation. Or I could choose to feed gratitude, love, and acceptance consciously into my connection to which my beloved would have to react with the same high vibe, perhaps in the way of union.

    Speak blessings on your twin flame union

    Start practicing to always send love and light to your union by speaking positively about your twin and the connection. Then, see yourself through your twin’s eyes and feel the love they feel for you and start speaking about yourself in the positive way your twin speaks or thinks about you.

    Understand that your union exists. Even if you’re currently in separation. There is a time, a place, a dimension where  you and your twin are in union. If it’s difficult to bless your union in the physical, connect to this magical place where your union is pure and full of love. Connect to this place and recognize what you feel. Feel gratitude for the feeling, for that union, for that place.

    When you speak to your flame, be kind. Not fake kind. That’s the 3D low vibes, and they can feel if you’re not genuine. Feel within yourself that you can trust your twin and allow the feeling of warmth, appreciation, and love for this person to bubble to the surface, then transform that vibe into words and have a vulnerable conversation where you are not rude, judgemental, or short with your twin. Even if you don’t get romantic (if either of you is attached to a karmic partner), your twin will remember your kindness and will start to compare all potential lovers to your sweet and kind energy.

    Finally, literally send blessings by intending your twin will be, well, blessed. Visualize your twin receiving love, strength, gratitude from the universe, and everyone they care about. See, in your mind’s eye, your twin receiving abundance, praise, and rewards. See them being fulfilled, happy, healed. Say a prayer for them. Ask angels to surround and care for them. Send them love. Intuitively, do what you feel will send the highest vibes.

    If you have any additional tips on how to bless our twin flame unions, please share on the comments.  If you know anyone who needs this, please kindly share.

    I intend this information will assist you in your union.

    With much respect and lots of Love,

    Eve

  • Lovemaking meditation. Stop overactive mind to reach orgasm.

    TRIGGER ALERT!!! WE DISCUSS SEX,  ORGASMS, AND THE LACK OF ON THIS POST. MEANT FOR FEMALES. READ FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES. ENGAGING SEXUALLY WITH A FEMALE? COME GET INSIGHT. WRITTEN WITH LOVE AND LIGHT FOR THE COLLECTIVE OF FEMALES.

    Dear friend,

    I was in a deep conversation with my beloved ❤️ when he mentioned how many women go their entire lives without experiencing an orgasm. We discussed the topic further and were baffled that only a tiny percentage of females are able to have an orgasm through vaginal intercourse alone. Lucky us, and how do we spread the awareness that this is within reach for many more?

    Why do I care about orgasms?

    There are many reasons. One is my partner believes it’s hot. Whether he vocalizes it or not, my partner gets off getting me off. It not only deepens the connection and makes me open to more sex, but also my partner gets confirmation that he’s doing something very well and that I’m enjoying myself with him.

    During an orgasm, there is a huge release of sexual energy that has interacted with my attentive lover. This energy has manifestation power. It’s a perfect time to set an intention.

    Having an orgasm is a huge self steem boost, and it makes me feel better. My theory is that it also makes me look better, at least while the orgasm has the effect and their spell last a while.

    I believe there are health benefits to having orgasms. Additionally, I believe it helps balance hormones, can help balance feminine and masculine energies within my body, and can help ground me. I can not prove these beliefs. I don’t have orgasms for their health benefits either. They just feel really, really good. They feel like bliss.

    There is a healing power to having orgasms. Energetic, mental, and health manifestations of the two. Regular orgasms can be powerful, like therapy with a good therapist, orgasms can help get stuck energy out of the body, and this has helped me ascend, grow, transform, heal, and become who I am today.

    Regular orgasms help manifest union. With my theory about them helping remove stuck energy out of the body, regular orgasms could trigger running and chasing but ultimately should help bring the lovers to union.

    It’s said that orgasms increase the chances of becoming pregnant. (If not trying to get pregnant, use caution)

    My personal experience

    I, too, have experienced orgasmless sex. That is the sex that sucks that I wish I would have never settled for. I didn’t even think female orgasms existed until I was a woman and read about it in a magazine! I was told and taught about the monumental male orgasm with their creative power but never even informed about the bliss I too could experience and I would not feel that bliss until I met my beloved, and luckily for me, I was only 20.

    If teenage girls were taught about the female orgasm, they would be less likely to give their bodies to undeserving partners and would not go into long-term relationships with mediocre partners.  Girls would grow into women who are confident in their bodies and who are comfortable sharing their opinions and talking openly with their partners. Please do your part and let someone know of the incredible power of having an orgasm as a female.

    My beloved 🔥🔥 who was made for me by God and set up to date me by the universe, is my orgasm giver. It’s his superpower, and I have been blessed, I know. I speak from my experience of what I have noticed in going from not enjoying sex to loving every moment of it and wanting more with the right partner. The right partner was key.

    In my youth, in Cuba, I remember people said that girls fell in love with the first guy they had sex with. I never believed that. I believe that girls fall in love with the first guy who gives them an orgasm. She would be powerless to not fall in love.

    What I believe is that in a relationship, if a girl still doesn’t love a man before he gives her her first orgasm, she will fall in love the moment she feels it.

    Why am I not having orgasms?

    I could be judging myself. If I’m thinking I don’t look good enough during sex, if I’m wondering if I look good or bad, if I’m trying to hide perceived body imperfections, if I’m trying to look a certain way rather than being vulnerably me, I can’t have an orgasm. But I have realized that in any position, we look hot. The imperfections are not noticeable.  He is not looking at my huge belly. He is looking at his favorite part of me, and he does a great job of finding my sexiest side.

    I could be judging my performance. If I’m thinking I’m doing a poor job during sex, I’ll likely not experience bliss. If I’m trying too hard, if I’m competing with his previous lover, or with some idea of what I should be doing, or if I mistakenly believe I have to act like some porn star, I will not have an orgasm. As a woman, I have found that I don’t have to be any of those things for my partner. The only way is to surrender without judgment! If I let go completely, I’ll feel bliss.

    I could be judging my partner. Perhaps we are fighting or mad at each other. I will not have an orgasm if I choose to have sex with the wrong partner. It would not work if I dared compared him to a previous partner. For me, I have to feel safe with a man to even come close. His energy has to feel right. I should not have any questions of whether or not he’s cheating. I’m definitely not cheating. It’s not a one-time stand, a mistake, or a partner I want to break up with. It starts with the right partner, and I’m giving all of me because I trust him.

    I could be judging the experience. If instead of enjoying every second of it, I’m in my mind, concerned if it’s too soon, too late, if I’m overcome by jealousy, if I think I will regret the experience, I would not expect to have an orgasm. However, I have learned in my connection that to enjoy lovemaking, I have to be present in that moment, and that means not thinking about anything that is not part of that experience or that could enhance the experience.

    Tips to reach an orgasm

    As a woman, since I only surrender my body to my beloved, the right guy, and my orgasm giver, only my overactive thinking mind could prevent me from enjoying the lovemaking experience, peaking with an orgasm. My belief is that to have a fulfilling sex life, a female must first have a worthy partner, and once that is accomplished, she needs to simply calm that overactive mind that prevents her from enjoying herself to the max through overthinking.

    Thinking during the sexual act is the biggest thing I’ve noticed that can stop my pleasure. I don’t know how this works for males and only speak about what I know. If, during sex, a woman starts thinking about work or family drama, she will not have an orgasm. If her shopping list pops in her mind or her bills, her pleasure will fade. If a woman becomes preoccupied with anything at all during sex, she will not enjoy it much because, as a woman, this experience is internal.

    For those of us who practice meditation, it’s easy to realize that lovemaking is the perfect meditative experience. After all, being in the moment is not letting our thoughts wander into the past or future, being in our current energy, feeling what we are feeling, being patient, and not rushing the experience, accepting, surrendering to the moment, being in a receptive mode, letting go of judgements…

    Letting go of thoughts is difficult! It might even be impossible to be in a non thinking state unless someone has been practicing for a while. Yet, while making love, when thoughts come through my mind, just like when I meditate, I don’t let that thought become a conversation that would take my concentration out of my beloved. I don’t want to miss a second of my lover’s attention, so I’ve practiced. If my mind is going 1000 miles a second and not being helpful, I use willpower and take my thoughts to an extremely powerful and sexy moment in our connection, such as our first time.

    If my mind is overactive, I visualize my beloved and I making love. This practice tames the overthinking mind and adds another layer of sexy, the mind suddenly working to my benefit.

    Prior to lovemaking

    • Set a romantic and mainly safe stage for lovemaking.
    • Relax body and mind.
    • Set a powerful intention such as to receive as much pleasure as is given, to reach union, to become more aligned.
    • Surrender to lover’s touch. Decide that all of him is worthy of all of me.
    • Calm overactive mind by reassuring that all is well. Remember the first time or a time when total surrender caused an orgasm.

    During lovemaking

    • Don’t hold anything back. When the intention is to reach an orgasm, there is a need to be open to one’s lover.
    • Don’t judge the experience, myself, my lover.
    • Be grateful. Gratitude makes everything sweeter and is a powerful manifestation technique.
    • Be open. During this experience, we might pick up our partner’s thoughts, desires, and fantasies. Accept them without judgment.
    • Be vulnerable.
    • Share the best of me.
    • Curve overactive mind by only engaging with thoughts that promote pleasure in my body. Visualizing my partner and I making love.
    • If thinking too much: open eyes and feast off the view of my beloved.
    • Surrender completely to the experience. Know that this is divine. I am worthy of this experience. I am worthy of feeling this much pleasure.
    • Intend that my lover will receive my love, gratitude, and appreciation from this exchange.
    • This exchange is an energetic one. Intend that our bodies will know how to interact with one another and provide each other the sweetest and most memorable experience.
    • Let go of the need to have an orgasm.  This will be an amazing experience regardless, and if I’m trying to hard, it will not happen.

    After lovemaking

    • Tell him how much I enjoyed it, or if not bold enough, let it be known.
    • Be grateful. Tell him or not, feel gratitude for this experience.
    • Sit in the vibe of lovemaking. A sexy energy was left behind, feel it.
    • Understand I am worth the pleasure felt, and there is nothing wrong with what we did. On the contrary, as a spiritual experience, lovemaking gets us closer to God. .
    • Feel my lover’s gratitude. He might not say it or recognize its gratitude, but he will be feeling it.
    • Decide to do this again.

    Dear friend, as a female, I reclaim my feminine power in the arms of my beloved. Our exchange is a safe experience where I can be my most vulnerable self. We engage with Love, respect, and passion. Our intention is to become closer, to please each other, and to feel pleasure ourselves, and we believe this is a gift from God, we will not judge or reject this gift from God.

    If you’re inspired, I invite you to engage with your beloved in lovemaking with the knowledge that not only can you have the most delicious orgasm but it will make your life more enjoyable and, dare I say, will make the world a better place.

    I pray this post will be useful, and if you find it enjoyable, please share it with a friend.

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    Thanks for reading,

    Please let me know if this was helpful,

    With love and light,

    Eve

  • The power of conscious sex

    Trigger alert! ⚠️🚨⚠️ I will be talking about unconscious sex!!! Read only if you will not have an unwanted response!

    Sex can be many things. It can be sweet lovemaking. It can be deceptive, stolen, and sold. Sex can hurt, or it can heal. Sex can be very unconscious. But can sex be conscious?

    Dear friend, I am not writing this post with  judgment in my heart. I have settled for the lower vibing sex, too. Though I judge myself a bit because we tend to be stricter, tougher on ourselves than others, I am not judging your experience. My intention with this post is to debate this topic. I am journaling. I am also not putting conscious sex on a pedestal because I feel I appreciate conscious sex much more after experiencing unconscious sex.

    What is conscious sex?

    Sex can be very unconscious. So then, by contrast, there has to be conscious sex. Sex is obviously very private, and we don’t get to know, like we know people who are conscious about their diet, conscious about their speech, or conscious about their appearance, but many of the people we know should be engaging in conscious sex. And if they’re not, there’s something wrong with this world. I do believe there’s something wrong with this world, but I believe we can help balance the energies through conscious sex.

    According to the dictionary, to be conscious is to be aware of and respond to our surroundings. In the context of sex, I would say conscious sex is when we engage in sex in a way that we are aware of what we’re doing. There are no tricks played, and both partners engage openly and willingly.  Responding to our surroundings during conscious sex sounds to me, like engaging with a positive intention, responding to our partner, being sensitive, and being open.

    Being conscious can also mean being awake. Awake neaning aware, knowing something that some don’t know exist, to bring that which is unconscious into our consciousness. In the context of sex, and in a more spiritual light, I would say conscious sex can be to engage, knowing secrets about sex that are not available to all (if you have any such secrets, please blow the whistle on the comments). To engage in a ritualistic way (for the light). To perform sexual magic, etc.

    Is conscious sex lovemaking? Conscious sex is lovemaking, but not all lovemaking is conscious.

    My personal experience

    I was all messed up when I was matched by the universe with my beloved twin flame. Previous to meeting him, I didn’t understand, appreciate, or love myself. Unfortunately,  when those things are lacking, we tend to give ourselves easier than when our self-love is strong.

    I was also heartbroken from childhood trauma. My chakras were out of alignment. I was not my healthiest or most beautiful.

    This was until my beloved worked his magic on me. I’m a different woman now that I’ve been touched by him. I believe he shone a light into me. It was a light so bright that anything that was not in alignment with it was obliterated. And so he blessed me from the inside out with the power of conscious sex. This is his superpower and the superpower of twin flame sex.

    The power of conscious sex

    Conscious sex heals. It can heal sexual trauma. It can even help heal us from sexual abuse.

    Conscious sex helps us ascend. It shines a light on low vibing energies within the body and, therefore, it can raise our vibration.

    Conscious sex can free us from heavy, ancestral energies, karma, and even curses. Set up a powerful intention as you engage.

    Conscious sex is a powerful tool for manifestation. Using the energies of the exchange to create the world we want to live in and be a part of.

    Conscious sex can create a beloved family.

    Conscious sex is a way to connect to source, spirit, and the universe. It’s a prayer of love.

    Conscious sex can help ascend the low sex vibes on Earth. The low vibes are all around us, and we’re all interacting with these energies. Through Conscious sex, just like it can support our bodies and get the low sex energies out of our bodies, so to can Conscious sex work the low sex energies in our planet until eventually, if we’re successful in our mission of love, one day there will be more Conscious than unconscious sex on Earth and healing will come. Sex will have ascended on Earth.

    Please tell me on the comments of your experience or opinions about conscious sex.

    Also, share how and what you manifest through conscious sex.

    With love and light,

    Eve

  • Great sex. The secret to a long lasting relationship?

    Trigger alert ⚠️  I talk about sex, lovemaking, and long relationships here. Read only if these topics will not trigger an unwanted response in you. Thank you.

    Dear friends,

    Since I’ve been reunited with my beloved, lovemaking has been a dream. We have been under a spell of attraction, and we’re loving every second of it. If cameras started rolling and a movie was made of our lives, it would be a sexy romance. We were separated not because we wanted to but for work and family travel.

    Today, a thought occurred to me. Is good sex or lovemaking the secret to a long-lasting relationship?

    I was deep in thought, figuring out if lovemaking creates a lasting relationship. A long relationship would not be as fulfilling if the sex was not good for most couples (this post is very basic and does not cover sexless unions, which I know exist, but I’m not an expert in)

    Great sex will cause this in your relationship

    • The better the sex, the least likely a couple is to cheat because we’re less likely to get bored.
    • Having great sex as their fun secret, a couple is likely to feel fun and relaxed to others and, therefore, be magnetic.
    • People who have great sex are likely to have high self steem since their bodies are the object of much pleasure to their partners. And people who have high self steem are likely to have more sex. It’s a sexy cycle.
    • Couples who have great sex are likely to have much more of it than couples who have less than the greatest sex.
    • People who have great sex give each other orgasms and regular orgasms might make the couples more relaxed and laid back.
    • People who have great sex might be in touch with their internal world due to heightened daydreaming and fantasizing.
    • Great sex will make you closer as a couple.
    • Couples who have great sex are probably much more open and honest when talking to each other since they’re very open and vulnerable with their bodies.
    • Couples who have great, regular sex might hold hands, hug, touch, look each other in the eyes, and smile at each other more often because they’re comfortable in their skin and comfortable sharing with their partner, and they crave their partner’s touch.
    • Please let me know in the comments what great sex causes in couples.

    But will great sex cause a relationship to be long-lasting? To extend a relationship that without great sex might break up? Or could two people who are not right for each other stay together due to great sex?

    What is great sex? Great sex is sex you feel lucky to have had. Sex you don’t regret. Sex you look forward to having again. Sex you feel lucky to have in your life. Sex that you remember with a warm smile. 😏 Sex that brings about much pleasure and makes your day better. Sex that results in 2+ orgasms. Sex that you never want to say no to. Sex that relaxes. Sex that makes you closer as a couple. Sex that you dream, daydream, and fantasize about. Conscious sex.

    I don’t think great sex alone should extend a relationship that is meant to end. Also, people don’t only cheat because their sex life is lacking. They also cheat looking for emotional connection and support. I believe everyone should consider all aspects of their relationship when deciding to stay with someone or end a relationship.

    There might be couples who have great sex and are not meant to be with each other. But they might not be as happy. There are many reasons to break up with a person, and I don’t think they should be ignored due to the great sex. People might feel afraid to leave a partner they have great sex with and be left with something worse. Yet again, nobody is perfect, and we should be patient (my lover was very patient with me).

    My personal experience

    Many years ago, before I started calling my partner beloved and started seeing our connection as God sent, we already had great sex. And I remember being quite bothered by our great sex. I wondered if the amazing sex was the best of our relationship because we were going through a rough patch.

    Not that I thought the great sex was a bad thing, I wondered if there was nothing deeper. What would keep us together once the sex is gone? Obviously, I craved the closeness that would be in our future, our now present.

    It’s possible my partner would have dumped me if the sex wasn’t great from the beginning. He is Scorpio, a very passionate lover, and he connects through sex. Without great sex, there is no connection. In fact, our dating would not probably have turned into a relationship if our sex wasn’t mind-blowing.

    However, I thought we would break up because we were not as connected, and that is what I was after. So, both partners might feel differently, and it depends on how high the partners value sex. It depends on the people within the union whether or not to stay together. A partner might value physical connection more, and another partner might value an emotional connection. The partner who values emotional connection might be OK having less than great sex but the person who values physical intimacy would not settle for an emotional connection that lacks in the bedroom department.

    Time to take great sex more seriously

    In my unpacking the question of whether or not great sex extends the life of relationships, one thing I realized is, of course, it does. But more importantly, great sex should be taken more seriously as part of the foundation of a relationship. Later, we will get old, and we can revisit this topic, but while young and energetic, we can enjoy this gift.

    I think great sex is an excellent tool to become more connected with our partner. And we should limit sex with not worthy partners because it can become addicting.

    I will encourage all committed relationships who are not already taking advantage of the power of connecting through sex to start taking steps to a better sex life. There is always another deeper level of connection, and what more connected state of being than making love with your partner? Open up lovers to the power of conscious sex.

    With much Love and respect,

    Eve