Category: Inspiration

  • The Deepening Bond: How Lovemaking Enhances Connection

    Dear Lovestar,

    In the tapestry of human relationships, lovemaking is a thread that binds hearts, souls, and lives together in profound ways. It is more than just a physical act; it is a dance of intimacy, trust, and vulnerability that deepens the connection between partners. In the quiet, tender moments shared in each other’s embrace, we find the essence of love—an essence that calls for exploration and celebration.

    The Power of Intimacy

    Lovemaking is the ultimate expression of intimacy, a sacred ritual that transcends the mundane and connects us on a deeply emotional level. When two people come together in this intimate act, they open themselves up to each other in a way that words cannot capture. It is in these moments of vulnerability that true connection flourishes, creating a bond that is resilient and enduring.

    Intimacy in lovemaking goes beyond physical closeness. It involves emotional openness and the willingness to share our innermost thoughts, fears, and desires. This emotional intimacy strengthens the relationship, fostering a sense of security and trust that is essential for deep connection.

    Building Trust and Vulnerability

    Trust and vulnerability are the cornerstones of any meaningful relationship. Lovemaking is a powerful way to build and reinforce these elements. By being physically and emotionally naked with our partners, we show them that we trust them completely and that we are willing to be vulnerable. This mutual trust and vulnerability create a safe space where both partners can be their true selves without fear of judgment or rejection.

    When we trust our partners enough to share our bodies and souls with them, we affirm the depth of our commitment and the strength of our bond. This trust is reciprocated, leading to a virtuous cycle of deeper connection and intimacy.

    The Dance of Passion

    Passion is the spark that keeps the flame of love burning bright. Lovemaking is a celebration of this passion, a way to express our deepest desires and our affection for our partners. The physical pleasure experienced during lovemaking is intertwined with emotional fulfillment, creating a powerful synergy that enhances the overall connection.

    By exploring each other’s bodies and desires, couples can discover new dimensions of their relationship. This exploration keeps the passion alive, ensuring that the relationship remains vibrant and dynamic.

    Communication and Understanding

    Lovemaking is a form of non-verbal communication that can convey love, appreciation, and desire more effectively than words. Through touch, caresses, and shared pleasure, partners communicate their feelings and strengthen their emotional bond. This non-verbal communication can also help resolve conflicts and misunderstandings, as it allows couples to reconnect and reaffirm their love for each other.

    Understanding each other’s needs and desires is crucial for a fulfilling relationship. Lovemaking provides an opportunity to learn about each other in a deeply personal way, fostering empathy and compassion.

    A Call for Exploration

    In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it is easy to neglect the importance of lovemaking. However, it is essential to recognize that this intimate act is not a luxury but a necessity for a healthy, thriving relationship. Couples should make a conscious effort to prioritize their intimate time, exploring each other’s desires and deepening their connection.

    Explore with Curiosity and Openness: Approach lovemaking with a sense of curiosity and openness. Be willing to try new things and discover what brings joy and fulfillment to both partners. This exploration can lead to a deeper understanding and appreciation of each other.

    Communicate Your Desires: Open communication is key to a satisfying lovemaking experience. Share your desires, fantasies, and boundaries with your partner. This transparency fosters trust and ensures that both partners feel valued and respected.

    Create a Romantic Atmosphere: Set the stage for intimacy by creating a romantic atmosphere. Light candles, play soft music, and eliminate distractions. This attention to detail can enhance the overall experience and make lovemaking a special and cherished ritual.

    Prioritize Intimate Time: In the midst of busy schedules, it is important to prioritize intimate time. Set aside regular moments for lovemaking, ensuring that both partners feel connected and appreciated.

    Embrace the Journey

    Lovemaking is a journey of discovery and connection. By embracing this journey with an open heart and a spirit of exploration, couples can deepen their bond and enrich their relationship. It is in these intimate moments that we find the true essence of love—a love that is tender, passionate, and enduring.

    So, take the time to explore, to communicate, and to celebrate the profound connection that lovemaking brings. In doing so, you will create a relationship that is not only fulfilling but also deeply enriching, a testament to the power of love and the beauty of intimacy.

    With love,

    Eve

  • The Timeless Dance of Love: Embracing Intimacy with Your Partner

    Dear Lovestar,

    In the quiet moments of dawn, as the world slumbers and dreams waltz through the minds of the weary, there exists a sacred space where hearts intertwine and souls dance. This is the realm of intimacy, a timeless dance of love, where women hold the power to weave threads of connection, passion, and profound affection with their partners. Embracing this tender art is not just about the physical act of love; it is about nurturing a bond that transcends the ordinary, elevating the relationship to a divine symphony of togetherness.

    The Symphony of Connection

    In the soft glow of candlelight, amidst whispered secrets and gentle caresses, lies the essence of true connection. When a woman chooses to make love with her man, she opens a gateway to an intimate universe where words are unnecessary, and the language of the heart speaks in silken tones. This connection is more than physical; it is a soulful communion, an embrace that says, “I see you, I cherish you, I am yours.”

    The Gift of Vulnerability

    In the act of love, vulnerability becomes a precious gift. It is in these moments of unguarded tenderness that we reveal our true selves, shedding the armor of daily life. For a woman, allowing herself to be vulnerable with her lover is an act of profound trust and love. It is an affirmation that within this sacred space, she feels safe, cherished, and adored. This vulnerability, far from being a weakness, is the very foundation upon which enduring love is built.

    The Dance of Passion

    Passion is the fire that ignites the soul, a fervent expression of desire that transcends the mundane. When a woman embraces her passion, she invites her husband into a world of unbridled emotion and fervent longing. This dance of passion is not just about physical gratification; it is an exploration of the depths of love, a journey into the heart of what it means to be truly alive and profoundly connected.

    The Harmony of Love

    Love, in its purest form, is a harmonious melody that resonates within the hearts of those who embrace it. Making love is an expression of this harmony, a testament to the deep and abiding affection that binds a couple together. For a woman, engaging in this intimate dance with her husband is an affirmation of their bond, a celebration of the life they have built together, and a promise of the love that will carry them through the ages.

    The Canvas of Memory

    Every act of love is a brushstroke on the canvas of memory, a vivid reminder of the moments shared and the dreams woven together. When a woman chooses to make love with her husband, she creates memories that will linger in the quiet corners of their hearts, memories that will be whispered in the twilight of their years. These moments, imbued with tenderness and passion, become the manifestaion of their shared life, a testament to the enduring power of love.

    The Sanctuary of Home

    In a world that often rushes and roars, the act of making love creates a sanctuary, a haven of peace and serenity. For a woman, this intimate space becomes a refuge where she can find solace and strength in the arms of her beloved. It is a reminder that amidst the chaos, there is a place where love reigns supreme, a sanctuary where two hearts beat in unison.

    The Eternal Dance

    Love is an eternal dance, a ballet of hearts that sways to the rhythm of life. When a woman embraces this dance with her husband, she steps into a timeless tradition, a celebration of the union of two souls. This dance, filled with grace and beauty, is a reminder that love, in all its forms, is the most profound expression of our humanity.

    In the end, making love is not just an act; it is a symphony of connection, vulnerability, passion, harmony, memory, sanctuary, and eternity. It is a celebration of the divine union between a woman and her husband, a testament to the power of love to transcend the ordinary and elevate the human spirit. So, let us embrace this dance with open hearts and cherish the sacred space it creates, for in this intimate realm, we find the true essence of love.

    Were you inspired?

    With love,

    Eve

  • Shall I compare thee to a summer day? Solstice poetry by Shakespeare

    Shall I compare thee to a summer day? Solstice poetry by Shakespeare

    Dear Lovestar,

    Happy Solstice!

    I love taking pictures with the sun and this is just one of them in my back yard.

    I didn’t write a summer poem yet, so I decided to let Shakespeare do the speaking today.

    Read and enjoy one of the most popular and beloved poems ever by the most famous English poet.

    Shakespeare sonnet 18

    Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day?
    Thou art more lovely and more temperate:
    Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,
    And summer’s lease hath all too short a date:
    Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,
    And often is his gold complexion dimmed;
    And every fair from fair sometime declines,
    By chance or nature’s changing course untrimmed;
    But thy eternal summer shall not fade
    Nor lose possession of that fair thou owest;
    Nor shall Death brag thou wanderest in his shade,
    When in eternal lines to time thou growest:
    So long as men can breathe or eyes can see,
    So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.

    The poem in simple, modern language

    Can I compare you to a summer’s day?
    You’re more lovely and calm in every way:
    Harsh winds may shake the buds in May’s delight,
    And summer’s lease is brief, too short a stay.
    Sometimes the sun burns too hot in the sky,
    Its golden face obscured by passing clouds;
    And everything that’s fair will fade in time,
    By chance or nature’s ever-changing shroud.
    But your eternal beauty will not wane,
    Nor lose the beauty that you possess now;
    Nor will Death boast you wander in his shade,
    For in these lines you’ll live, eternal vow:
    As long as people breathe and see with eyes,
    So long as this endures, you never die.

    Did you love it? ❤️

    I guess if this poem was dedicated to me, I’d reply:

    “A summer day in Arizona (desert where I live)? Or a summer day in Michigan (where it snows and my mom lives) 😆 🤣 😂

    Joke aside,

    I’ll continue working with this poem to celebrate the solstice

    Eve

  • The Romance Levels Quiz

    Dear Lovestar,

    I created The Romance Level Quiz to help readers understand their romantic inclinations. I might consider creating a quiz to shed light on your partner’s romantic level.

    Why take my quiz

    Taking the “Determine your Romantic Level” quiz can be a valuable and enlightening experience for readers for several reasons:

    1. **Self-Reflection:** By exploring your romantic inclinations through the quiz, you can gain insight into your own attitudes and behaviors towards romance. Understanding your romantic level can help you better understand yourself and your relationship preferences.

    2. **Relationship Awareness:** Learning about different romance levels can increase your awareness of the various ways people approach romantic relationships. This knowledge can help you understand your partner better and navigate relationships more effectively.

    3. **Personal Growth:** Exploring the different romance levels and their associated characteristics can serve as a catalyst for personal growth and development. You may identify areas where you want to cultivate more romance in your life or learn how to strike a balance between romance and practicality.


    4. **Relationship Enhancement:** Armed with a deeper understanding of your own romantic level and the different approaches to romance, you can work towards enhancing your relationship. You can use the insights gained from my quiz to communicate your needs and desires more effectively and create a more fulfilling romantic connection with your partner.

    5. **Educational Resources:** I intend to develop informative and educational resources for each romance level that will provide you with valuable insights and practical tips for enhancing your love life and improving your romantic relationships. These resources can cover topics such as communication skills, romantic gestures, maintaining intimacy, and navigating relationship challenges. Ask for help in the comments.

    Overall, taking the quiz and exploring the different romance levels can be a steppingstone towards personal growth, relationship enhancement, and a deeper understanding of romance and love.

    If you have not taken the quiz yet, click on this link and find out your romance level and what it means about you.

    Take my Romance Level Quiz and find out your level

    Resources and tools for the different romance levels I’ve created so far:

    Heart Harmony romantic poetry and how I got his attention as an Eternal Flame Romantic 🔥

  • Poetry translation tips and tools from a bilingual poet.

    Dear Lovestar,

    Poetry is my life!

    I’m bilingual and translating even my poetry is tough! But I do my best.

    Click on this link to follow my Spanish poetry blog. Most of these poems have been translated from English.

    https://wordpress.com/wp-login.php

    Why poetry translation is so difficult

    Translating poetry can be quite challenging, as it involves not only conveying the literal meaning of the words but also capturing the nuances of the original language, including its rhythm, meter, rhyme, and cultural context.

    Additionally, poetry often relies heavily on wordplay, imagery, and symbolism, which may not have direct equivalents in other languages. As a result, translators often face the task of striking a balance between fidelity to the original text and creating poetic work that resonates with readers in the target language.

    This is best done by a bilingual poet!

    This balancing act can lead to different interpretations and stylistic choices among translators, resulting in slight differences in the translations.

    For an example of the slight differences, look at my Italian translated poem.

    Tips for poetry translation

    Translating poetry is indeed a complex task that requires a deep understanding of both the source language and the target language, as well as a sensitivity to the nuances of poetic expression. Here are some tips for translating poetry:

    1. **Understand the Poem:** Before beginning the translation process, carefully read and analyze the poem to understand its themes, imagery, tone, and cultural context. Pay attention to the poet’s use of language, including word choice, rhythm, meter, and rhyme scheme.

    2. **Capture the Essence:** Strive to capture the essence and emotional impact of the original poem rather than focusing solely on a literal translation of the words. Consider the poet’s intended meaning and the effect they are trying to achieve with their language.

    3. **Maintain the Poetic Form:** Try to preserve the poetic form and structure of the original poem as much as possible in the translation. This includes maintaining rhyme, meter, and rhythm whenever feasible, or finding creative alternatives that capture the musicality of the poem in the target language.

    4. **Adapt Cultural References:** Be mindful of cultural references and idiomatic expressions that may not have direct equivalents in the target language. Adapt these references to make them relevant and understandable to readers in the target culture while preserving the intended meaning of the original.

    5. **Use Figurative Language:** Pay attention to the poet’s use of figurative language, such as metaphors, similes, and symbolism. Translate these elements thoughtfully, aiming to convey their poetic impact and emotional resonance in the target language.

    6. **Seek Feedback:** Once you have completed a draft of your translation, seek feedback from others, such as fellow translators, poets, or native speakers of the target language. Their insights can help you refine your translation and ensure that it effectively captures the spirit of the original poem.

    7. **Revise and Refine:** Translation is an iterative process, so be prepared to revise and refine your translation multiple times. Experiment with different word choices, phrasings, and stylistic elements until you are satisfied with the final result.

    8. **Read Widely:** Familiarize yourself with a wide range of poetry in both the source and target languages to deepen your understanding of poetic techniques and styles. Reading poetry in translation can also provide valuable insights into the art of translation.

    By following these tips and approaches, you can create translations that honor the beauty and artistry of the original poetry while making it accessible to readers in another language.

    Poetry translation tools for modern poets (I have used all of these):

    1. AI does a way better job than Google translate if you need to translate a poem to or from a language you don’t understand. I used it for translating my poem to Italian, which I dont speak.

    2. Rhyming dictionary: I told a friend who writes songs, and he didn’t know it was a thing. Example: search on Google words that rhyme with blue.

    3. Google search: Research your grammar if not 100 percent familiar as well as vocabulary that is new. There’s plenty of grammar and linguistic articles I use this trick super often.

    4. Synonym dictionary for finding words that mean the same.

    5. Antonym dictionary for finding opposite words.

    6. Bilingual dictionary

    7. Consult literary translations on your chosen languages already available

    8. Read poetry in both languages

    9. Collaborate and get feedback: I did this when I asked an Italian poet to proofread my AI translated poem, and he made slight edits and confirmed that the AI translation was OK.

    10. Follow poets of both languages on social media: I’ll be following Portuguese poets next. Have a tiny exposure to Italian poetry from Twitter. I followed Hindi poets.

    With ❤️ & ✨️

    Eve, learning Latin through Latin poetry

  • Homeschool Plan: Learning Latin to inspire my children to learn Spanish/ languages

    Dear reader, First of all, this is absolutely not 100 percent of my homeschooling log. Additionally, my babies have awesome tutors, and I supplement their learning. Spanish is my first language. But I speak mostly English now. Dad speaks only English. Our children were not interested in learning Spanish, so I didn’t force them. Now, […]

    Homeschool Plan: Learning Latin to inspire my children to learn Spanish/ languages

    I am searching for Latin poetry since I don’t care about Roman texts. I feel their tears are not divine. I’m most interested in Sanskrit ancient divine texts…

    Eve, learning

  • Scorpio poetry. The secret romantic feels deep. Romance Levels Quiz

    Dear Lovestar,

    I was very needy for attention, and you could have deduced it by the needy poetry I was writing. I have the highest inclination and need for romance, and by a less romantic lover, I could be seen as needy.

    If you don’t know your romance level yet, take my free quiz and find out your level and what it means about you.

    I wondered yesterday…

    Do I get upset that I’m not receiving the attention I crave or do I kindly request it. He is a Heart Harmony romantic, otherwise known as a Secret romantic.

    I decided to go for the kind request since the arguments have not worked for me.

    I asked him to put me on his to-do list!

    He laughed and then said a bunch of cool and sexy things with the dark humor twist of a Scorpio! I was so emotional that I shed a tear.

    Told him he floored me with his poetry!

    It’s not poetry… he asserted.

    But I disagreed. So I turned it into a poem.

    My Scorpio said these things to me. I mixed 2 different conversations. Find out about his love manifestation on my Sex with Scorpio blog on my poetry collection app.

    http://www.mobileapp.app/to/duCowXa?ref=cl

    PS. I told him I wasn’t poisonous but instead I was very good for him!

    I learned a lot of Latin last night. Today, I keep on thinking of words and phrases! It was very cool. My children don’t want to learn an ancient language, not in use. My partner Scorpio thinks learning a language highly in use I’d best, such as Chinese: forget that! I’m not learning Chinese! No intention whatsoever! I’m learning Latin for fun.

    Eve, taking over Twitter, follow me @evelovestar

  • Romance and sex. A linguistic poem by an Eternal Flame romantic. Romance Level Quiz

    Dear Lovestar,

    I’m learning Latin! 😌 😆 🤣

    It’s kind of true but just for fun.

    Anyway, I wrote this little something:

    Romance and Sex

    I have tried everything
    To not think about you today.
    Not because I don’t love
    To think of you in this way.
    But you hold captive my brain
    And I just can’t concentrate.


    So, I tried learning Latin
    Just to keep you out of mind
    I learned that Latin is parent
    Of languages such as mine:
    Spanish, called Romance…
    Then I thought of you again.
    I started learning the numbers:
    Unus, Duo, Tres…
    Wait, six is sex?
    And there I was again
    Writing poetry for vos.

    ©evelovestar

    Vos = you in Latin.

    I really wanted to end the poem by saying: poetry for você (a Portuguese word for you) I hear this word in Brazilian songs and I love Brazil, Portuguese, Samba, and I love você!

    Latin vocabulary:

    Amor – Love (Also Spanish)

    Lux – Light (Luz in Spanish)

    One – Unus (Uno in Spanish)

    Two – Duo (Dos in Spanish)

    Three – Tres (also in Spanish)

    Six – Sex (apparently it’s pronounced something like seks) (Seos in Spanish

    Et – and (y in Spanish)

    Femina – woman (I had heard this before/ reminded today on my first lesson) (mujer in Spanish)

    Vos/ Tu – You (tú in Cuba and informal Spanish/ Vos in Argentina and extremely formal Spanish/ usted is formal)

    That’s it for my Latin lesson before someone gets offended… teach me if I made a mistake. 🙏 🙏 🙏


    This is a linguistic thing that I’m trying today. It has been fun:

    I translated a poem to Italian with AI (sharing that in the next post)

    Then, an Italian poet edited the AI translated poem

    Then the italian poet translated other poems of mine

    Then, the Italian poet (I share his Twitter handle on my next post) translated other poetry to Italian while I thanked him for the free Italian lesson.

    I read the Italian poems desperately trying to understand. Since Italian and Spanish, my first language, share the Latin root, there are lots of similar words. I only know some words and rare phrases in Italian.

    I then did some research into the similar words in Italian/ Spanish/ Portuguese, which is my favorite language.

    I really want to learn Hindi, but it’s so hard. I researched everything about the Hindi script, which is lovely but so difficult. I read so much about Hindi and Sanskrit, the language of my dreams.

    Then, I downloaded language learning apps

    On Duolingo, I searched for Hindi and didn’t find it! But Latin was an option.

    I was doing this for fun anyway! So, I chose Latin for learning on Duolingo.

    As soon as the Latin lesson started, I was happy it wasn’t Hindi! I was acing the lesson. Eventually, I made many mistakes, of course, as it was my very first time. I learned a lot of new words, and as long as I keep on coming back, I know I can learn a lot of Latin. I trust myself that way and I believe I can learn anything I want.

    There’s only one problem: I don’t like the Romans!

    But I like ancient languages, and Latin is the root of Spanish! So I might settle for Latin.

    My dream: Learning Sanskrit and reading the ancient poetry and divine texts! ✨️

    But, I’m sure there’s Latin poetry. I’ll look right now!

    Tell me the truth, was the lame linguistic thing boring?

    Either way,

    Amor et Lux (Latin for Love and Light)

    Amor is also love in Spanish

    Eve, learning the Romance languages

  • The romance level quiz. I am an Eternal Flame & my lover is a Heart Harmony romantic.

    Dear Lovestar,

    The Romance Level Quiz by Eve Lovestar

    I created this quiz to help you determine your romantic level 😉. I have identified 3 levels of romantics:

    1. The extreme romantic: The Eternal Flame romantics: We breathe and eat romance. 46 to 60 points
    2. The secret romantic: Heart’s Harmony romantics: They think romance but don’t talk it. 26 to 45 points
    3. The least romantic: Calm Waters romantics: Are they even romantic? 12 to 25 points

    Why take my quiz

    Understand your partner better and understand how much romance they can handle. Get inspired.

    With an understanding of your own romantic level versus your partner, you can work towards enhancing your relationship. You can use the insights gained from my quiz to communicate your needs and desires more effectively and create a more fulfilling romantic connection with your partner.

    I intend to develop informative and educational resources for each romance level that will provide you practical tips for enhancing your love life. These resources will cover topics such as communication skills, romantic gestures, maintaining intimacy, and navigating relationship challenges. Ask for help in the comments.

    Overall, taking the quiz and exploring the different romance levels can be a steppingstone towards personal growth, relationship enhancement, and a deeper understanding of romance and love.


    Take this quiz and figure out how romantic you are ❤️ 😍 💖


    1. If you are in a garden for an event, what’s your first thought?
       a) The flowers are beautiful and may remind you of someone special. You enjoy their beauty, take pictures, and even smell them.
       b) “Flowers are nice, but they’re just plants.” You don’t care if you are a garden or not.
       c) You do not like flowers. You avoid them, make sure nobody takes pictures of you at the garden, and leave as soon as possible.

    2. You’re walking in the rain with someone you care about. What crosses your mind?
       a) “This is so romantic, like a scene from a movie.” You imagine yourself dancing in the rain. You slow down and enjoy the experience.
       b) “I hope we don’t get too wet and wish you had an umbrella.” You walk faster.
       c) “I do not like the rain. My hair is wet. ” You might get upset or run to safety.  


    3. What’s your reaction when you see someone reading a love poem in public?
       a) “How beautiful! I wish I could express myself like that.” You stop and listen, maybe record them and tip them. Tears may appear if you resonate with the poem.
       b) “That’s a bit cheesy for my taste.” You ignore it and continue on your way.
       c) “I wonder if they’re doing that for attention.” You shake your head, and you might judge them.

    4. Imagine you receive a heartfelt handwritten letter. How do you feel?
       a) Warmth and appreciation, it’s such a thoughtful gesture. You feel special and save the letter for as long as possible.
       b) It’s nice, but an email would have been quicker. How much time did they spend on this? You might feel obligated to keep it for a while but eventually might lose it.
       c) Mild surprise, handwritten letters are rare these days. This much work for something going in the trash! You might not even complete reading it. If it’s cutesy, you will roll your eyes.

    5. How do you feel about stargazing with a romantic partner?
       a) It’s incredibly romantic, a chance to connect under the vast night sky. I’d hold hands and slowly lean into them. Eventually, we’d share a kiss, and an I love you.
       b) It sounds okay, but I’m not sure it’s worth the effort. I would rather stay in and watch a movie or even do the dishes, which sounds like a better use of our time.
       c) Will there be bugs? Eww. Let’s not.

    6. What’s your reaction to witnessing a marriage proposal in a public place?
       a) “How magical! I hope they have a lifetime of happiness.” You take pictures, congratulate them, and tell everyone on social media.
       b) “That’s a bit too public for my taste.” You look away and try to ignore it.
       c) “I wonder if they planned this just for social media.” You think they will not last together.

    7. How do you feel about cuddling while watching a movie?
       a) It’s the perfect way to feel close and connected and the only way to watch a movie. I watch movies just to cuddle.
       b) It’s okay, but sometimes I get uncomfortable. Or it will lead to more.
       c) I prefer to sit apart and focus on the movie. This is movie time. Cuddle time is always tomorrow.

    8. What’s your ideal way to spend Valentine’s Day?
       a) A romantic dinner followed by a moonlit walk. Home-cooked meals, red dresses, poetry performances, romantic music, and special gifts. Every year is different!
       b) It’s just another day, nothing special. We will enjoy some intimate moments, that’s all!
       c) I make the point of doing nothing romantic on that day. I also don’t know the date it’s celebrated on. I also never do anything romantic…

    9. You receive an unexpected gift from someone you’re dating. How do you react?
       a) With genuine delight and gratitude. I immediately thank them, and they know I loved it!
       b) It’s nice, but I’m not sure how to respond. They might not know if I liked their gift.
       c) I feel a bit awkward and unsure if I should reciprocate. I don’t like them as much anymore. They might be trying too hard. I avoid them. They might think I don’t like their gift but they should know I don’t do gifts this soon!

    10. How do you feel about love songs?
       a) They’re incredibly moving and resonate with my emotions. I listen to as many love songs as possible. I’m much more romantic than most romantic songs! I should be a songwriter.
       b) They’re okay, but I don’t pay much attention to them. Music is music.
       c) They can be cheesy and over-the-top. I prefer any non romantic songs. Romance is for little girls!

    11. Read and react to the following poem:

    “Soulmates” poem by Eve

      a) “This poem describes how I feel or how I want to feel. If I have not found my person yet, I have faith that I’ll meet them at the perfect time.” (chosen by liz)
      b) “I do not resonate with this poem! Soulmates do not exist, and if they did, we would all know by now.”
      c) “This poem is so cheesy.” It really sounds ridiculous 🙄 😒 😐…. getting off this blog ASAP!

    12. Which quote resonates with you?
       a) “Our Love is written in the stars”
       b) “The depth of our Love is our greatest secret”
       c) “Our love is our safe space where we can be ourselves and not be judged for it”



    Reflect on your answers.


    What is your romantic level?

    Rate your answers by assigning points:

    – Option a) Add 5 points
    – Option b) Add 3 points
    – Option c) Add 1 point

    Tally up the total points to determine your romantic inclinations.

    THE ROMANCE LEVELS

    46 to 60 points: The Eternal Flame: Most intense romantic. We believe in twin flames/ soulmates and fall in love at first sight.

    The Eternal Flame is the most romantic level. Individuals in this category have the highest degree of romantic inclination and experience a deep and everlasting passion for romance. It implies a strong and enduring connection to romantic ideals and gestures.

    Individuals who fit into the “Eternal Flame” category are deeply passionate about romance and love. They often prioritize emotional connection and intimacy in their relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:

    1. **Hopeless Romantics:** They believe in the power of love and often express themselves through grand gestures and heartfelt expressions of affection.

    2. **Emotionally Invested:** They are deeply invested in their relationships, cherishing every moment and valuing the emotional bond they share with their partner.

    3. **Creative and Thoughtful:** They constantly strive to surprise and delight their partners with thoughtful gestures, whether it’s writing love letters, planning romantic getaways, or creating personalized gifts.

    4. **Sensitive to Beauty:** They appreciate the beauty in the world around them, finding inspiration in nature, art, and music, which they often incorporate into their romantic gestures.

    5. **Believers in Destiny:** They may believe in soulmates or the idea that certain people are destined to be together, which fuels their passion and commitment to finding and nurturing love.

    Overall, individuals in the “Eternal Flame” category are guided by their unwavering belief in the transformative power of love and their dedication to keeping the flame of romance burning bright in their lives.

    26 to 45 points: Heart’s Harmony: The Secret Romantic. They think it but don’t speak romance

    For the second romance level, let’s consider an option that reflects a moderate level of romantic inclination, perhaps something like “Heart’s Harmony.” This name suggests a balance between romance and practicality, where individuals appreciate love and connection but may not necessarily embody the intense passion of the “Eternal Flame” category.

    Individuals who fit into the “Heart’s Harmony” category strike a balance between romance and practicality in their approach to relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:

    1. Balanced Approach: They value romance and emotional connection in their relationships but also recognize the importance of practical considerations and maintaining a sense of balance in their lives.
    2. Thoughtful and Considerate: They express their affection for their partners through meaningful gestures and acts of kindness, such as remembering important dates, offering support during difficult times, and showing appreciation for their partner’s efforts.
    3. Communication Skills: They prioritize open and honest communication in their relationships, seeking to understand their partner’s needs and concerns while also expressing their own thoughts and feelings effectively.
    4. Adaptability: They are flexible and adaptable in their approach to romance, recognizing that relationships require compromise and adjustment to navigate the ups and downs of life together.
    5. Appreciation for the Little Things: They find joy and fulfillment in the everyday moments shared with their partner, whether it’s cooking dinner together, taking walks, or simply enjoying each other’s company.

    Overall, individuals in the “Heart’s Harmony” category cultivate a relationship environment where love and practicality coexist, fostering a sense of mutual respect, understanding, and contentment in their romantic lives.

    46 to 60 points: Calm Waters: Most likely to not take this quiz. Are they even romantic?

    For the lowest level name, we want to convey an absence or minimal presence of romantic inclination. How about “Calm Waters”? This name suggests a serene and tranquil state, where romantic feelings may exist but are subdued or infrequent.

    Individuals who fit into the “Calm Waters” category tend to have a more reserved or subdued approach to romance. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:

    1. Pragmatic Outlook: They tend to approach relationships with a practical mindset, focusing on practicalities rather than grand gestures or intense displays of affection.
    2. Independence: They value their independence and may prioritize personal pursuits and interests over romantic relationships.
    3. Reserved Expression of Affection: While they may experience romantic feelings, they may not express them openly or frequently, preferring to keep their emotions private.
    4. Preference for Stability: They seek stability and predictability in their relationships, valuing a sense of calm and tranquility over excitement or passion.
    5. Contentment with Solitude: They are comfortable spending time alone and may not feel a strong need for constant companionship or romantic involvement.

    Overall, individuals in the “Calm Waters” category may appreciate romance in a more subdued or understated manner, finding contentment in the quiet moments and subtle gestures of connection within their relationships.

    This was fun!

    According to my “research,” I’m as romantic as it gets! If someone is as romantic as me, let me know please, let’s be friends

    Please share your romantic level

  • Deep Love. Sexy, romantic poem and a fun way to learn Spanish

    Dear Lovestar,

    I’ve always dreamt about being a teacher. Teaching English to people I know who need to learn it is something I want to do really badly!

    Writing poetry is my gift.

    I decided to mix my wish and my gift, and now, I have decided to use my romantic poetry to help people learn English. 

    I translated this poem to Spanish, and I shared both poems on my brand new Spanish blog. Read that blog post through this link and follow that blog if you Speak Spanish or if you’re studying Spanish because I’ll be sharing translations and tools to make language learning fun.

    I don’t know how much time I will be dedicating to this project, but if you’re interested in learning English or Spanish, let me know so I can create something more useful.

    “Deep Love” romantic poem by Eve

    With love and light,

    Eve, with a glow in my eyes