Dear Lovestar,
Welcome to my blog,
I pray you will like
What I share with Love.
I challenge myself
In various ways
The challenge today
Is to take you
To a poetic place.
If you do not know me,
Hello, I am Eve.
I'm the poetess
Whose Love kills her stress.
And if we have met,
And you're visiting again,
Welcome back, my friend,
You're sweet, make my day.
With Love and with light,
I wave you good bye,
Hope I'll see you soon,
Till then, have much fun.
Again, this was Eve,
With poetic bliss
Here is what we see the Scorpio man on the outside: too serious, mean, confrontational, intimidating, and kind of dark.
Here is what the Scorpio man is inside: loyal, considerate, intuitive, cares for others, and has a great heart.
I have talked too much about this
I hate flirting. However, I’m a huge flirt when I’m around my man, my most beloved, Scorpio.
I have become extremely good at flirting with him and getting the desired results. I will probably write a book about how to flirt.
Flirting doesn’t always have to involve grand gestures or rehearsed lines. Often, it’s about weaving a touch of charm and playfulness into everyday conversations. Here’s a guide to transforming your interactions into flirtatious exchanges that feel natural and engaging.
Authentic curiosity about your partner’s interests, experiences, and passions sets the stage for effective flirting. Ask open-ended questions about their hobbies, recent achievements, or dreams. For instance, if they mention a recent trip, ask, “What was the most exciting part of your trip? I’d love to hear more about it.” This not only shows that you’re attentive but also creates an opportunity for playful banter based on their responses.
Playful teasing can be a fun way to flirt if done with care. It’s about striking the right balance between humor and affection. For example, if they boast about their cooking skills, you might say, “Oh, I’m intrigued! Are you sure you’re not trying to impress me with your secret recipe?” This kind of teasing can build rapport and keep the conversation lively.
Compliments are a powerful tool in flirting, but they should feel sincere and specific. Instead of generic praise, focus on unique aspects that you genuinely appreciate. If they’re wearing a striking accessory, say, “That necklace is stunning. It really complements your style. Is there a special story behind it?” Tailoring your compliments to their personality or achievements adds a personal touch.
Introducing a light-hearted challenge can inject flirtation into the conversation. For example, “I’m on a mission to find the best [type of food] in town. Care to join me on this culinary adventure and see if we can find a winner together?” This approach not only creates an opportunity for further interaction but also adds an element of fun.
Humor is an excellent way to make flirting feel natural. Share a funny anecdote or playfully exaggerate a mundane experience. For example, “I tried baking last weekend and ended up with what can only be described as ‘artistic’ bread. Do you have any baking disasters to share?” Humor can break the ice and make the conversation more enjoyable.
Subtly introducing a sense of mystery can be intriguing. Instead of revealing everything about yourself immediately, share snippets and invite curiosity. For instance, “I’ve always had this quirky little hobby that not many people know about. Maybe I’ll share it if you’re lucky!” This piques interest and keeps the conversation engaging
When your partner shares something about themselves, respond with genuine enthusiasm. Showing excitement about their stories or interests can be very flattering. For example, “Wow, that’s amazing! I’ve always admired people who can [do something impressive]. You’re really inspiring!”
Flirting isn’t just about words; body language plays a crucial role. Maintain eye contact, smile warmly, and use subtle gestures like leaning in slightly or nodding encouragingly. These non-verbal cues can convey interest and attraction without the need for explicit statements.
While it’s important to show interest in your partner, balancing the conversation by sharing a bit about yourself can make the interaction feel reciprocal. For example, if they talk about their love for hiking, you might respond with, “I’ve always wanted to try hiking. What’s your favorite trail? Maybe I could join you sometime.”
Pay attention to your partner’s responses and body language. If they seem engaged and reciprocate your playful banter, you’re on the right track. If they seem uncomfortable or disinterested, it’s important to respect their boundaries and adjust your approach.
Turning conversations into flirtatious exchanges involves blending genuine interest, playful teasing, and thoughtful compliments. By integrating these elements into your interactions, you create a dynamic and engaging dialogue that can spark romance and deepen your connection. Remember, the key to successful flirting is authenticity and respect—always approach with a genuine desire to connect and enjoy the process.
I think some have no idea how to flirt or are using their “flirting skill” so wrong,
I thought myself…
I will help you 😆 🤣 😂
You will see more like this very soon,
Eve
Dear Lovestar,
I was very needy for attention, and you could have deduced it by the needy poetry I was writing. I have the highest inclination and need for romance, and by a less romantic lover, I could be seen as needy.
If you don’t know your romance level yet, take my free quiz and find out your level and what it means about you.
I wondered yesterday…
Do I get upset that I’m not receiving the attention I crave or do I kindly request it. He is a Heart Harmony romantic, otherwise known as a Secret romantic.
I decided to go for the kind request since the arguments have not worked for me.
I asked him to put me on his to-do list!
He laughed and then said a bunch of cool and sexy things with the dark humor twist of a Scorpio! I was so emotional that I shed a tear.
Told him he floored me with his poetry!
It’s not poetry… he asserted.
But I disagreed. So I turned it into a poem.
http://www.mobileapp.app/to/duCowXa?ref=cl
PS. I told him I wasn’t poisonous but instead I was very good for him!
I learned a lot of Latin last night. Today, I keep on thinking of words and phrases! It was very cool. My children don’t want to learn an ancient language, not in use. My partner Scorpio thinks learning a language highly in use I’d best, such as Chinese: forget that! I’m not learning Chinese! No intention whatsoever! I’m learning Latin for fun.
Eve, taking over Twitter, follow me @evelovestar
Dear Lovestar,
I’m learning Latin! 😌 😆 🤣
It’s kind of true but just for fun.
Anyway, I wrote this little something:
I have tried everything
To not think about you today.
Not because I don’t love
To think of you in this way.
But you hold captive my brain
And I just can’t concentrate.
So, I tried learning Latin
Just to keep you out of mind
I learned that Latin is parent
Of languages such as mine:
Spanish, called Romance…
Then I thought of you again.
I started learning the numbers:
Unus, Duo, Tres…
Wait, six is sex?
And there I was again
Writing poetry for vos.
©evelovestar
Vos = you in Latin.
I really wanted to end the poem by saying: poetry for você (a Portuguese word for you) I hear this word in Brazilian songs and I love Brazil, Portuguese, Samba, and I love você!
Amor – Love (Also Spanish)
Lux – Light (Luz in Spanish)
One – Unus (Uno in Spanish)
Two – Duo (Dos in Spanish)
Three – Tres (also in Spanish)
Six – Sex (apparently it’s pronounced something like seks) (Seos in Spanish
Et – and (y in Spanish)
Femina – woman (I had heard this before/ reminded today on my first lesson) (mujer in Spanish)
Vos/ Tu – You (tú in Cuba and informal Spanish/ Vos in Argentina and extremely formal Spanish/ usted is formal)
That’s it for my Latin lesson before someone gets offended… teach me if I made a mistake. 🙏 🙏 🙏
This is a linguistic thing that I’m trying today. It has been fun:
I translated a poem to Italian with AI (sharing that in the next post)
Then, an Italian poet edited the AI translated poem
Then the italian poet translated other poems of mine
Then, the Italian poet (I share his Twitter handle on my next post) translated other poetry to Italian while I thanked him for the free Italian lesson.
I read the Italian poems desperately trying to understand. Since Italian and Spanish, my first language, share the Latin root, there are lots of similar words. I only know some words and rare phrases in Italian.
I then did some research into the similar words in Italian/ Spanish/ Portuguese, which is my favorite language.
I really want to learn Hindi, but it’s so hard. I researched everything about the Hindi script, which is lovely but so difficult. I read so much about Hindi and Sanskrit, the language of my dreams.
Then, I downloaded language learning apps
On Duolingo, I searched for Hindi and didn’t find it! But Latin was an option.
I was doing this for fun anyway! So, I chose Latin for learning on Duolingo.
As soon as the Latin lesson started, I was happy it wasn’t Hindi! I was acing the lesson. Eventually, I made many mistakes, of course, as it was my very first time. I learned a lot of new words, and as long as I keep on coming back, I know I can learn a lot of Latin. I trust myself that way and I believe I can learn anything I want.
There’s only one problem: I don’t like the Romans!
But I like ancient languages, and Latin is the root of Spanish! So I might settle for Latin.
My dream: Learning Sanskrit and reading the ancient poetry and divine texts! ✨️
But, I’m sure there’s Latin poetry. I’ll look right now!
Tell me the truth, was the lame linguistic thing boring?
Either way,
Amor et Lux (Latin for Love and Light)
Amor is also love in Spanish
Eve, learning the Romance languages
Dear Lovestar,
I created this quiz to help you determine your romantic level 😉. I have identified 3 levels of romantics:
Understand your partner better and understand how much romance they can handle. Get inspired.
With an understanding of your own romantic level versus your partner, you can work towards enhancing your relationship. You can use the insights gained from my quiz to communicate your needs and desires more effectively and create a more fulfilling romantic connection with your partner.
I intend to develop informative and educational resources for each romance level that will provide you practical tips for enhancing your love life. These resources will cover topics such as communication skills, romantic gestures, maintaining intimacy, and navigating relationship challenges. Ask for help in the comments.
Overall, taking the quiz and exploring the different romance levels can be a steppingstone towards personal growth, relationship enhancement, and a deeper understanding of romance and love.
1. If you are in a garden for an event, what’s your first thought?
a) The flowers are beautiful and may remind you of someone special. You enjoy their beauty, take pictures, and even smell them.
b) “Flowers are nice, but they’re just plants.” You don’t care if you are a garden or not.
c) You do not like flowers. You avoid them, make sure nobody takes pictures of you at the garden, and leave as soon as possible.
2. You’re walking in the rain with someone you care about. What crosses your mind?
a) “This is so romantic, like a scene from a movie.” You imagine yourself dancing in the rain. You slow down and enjoy the experience.
b) “I hope we don’t get too wet and wish you had an umbrella.” You walk faster.
c) “I do not like the rain. My hair is wet. ” You might get upset or run to safety.
3. What’s your reaction when you see someone reading a love poem in public?
a) “How beautiful! I wish I could express myself like that.” You stop and listen, maybe record them and tip them. Tears may appear if you resonate with the poem.
b) “That’s a bit cheesy for my taste.” You ignore it and continue on your way.
c) “I wonder if they’re doing that for attention.” You shake your head, and you might judge them.
4. Imagine you receive a heartfelt handwritten letter. How do you feel?
a) Warmth and appreciation, it’s such a thoughtful gesture. You feel special and save the letter for as long as possible.
b) It’s nice, but an email would have been quicker. How much time did they spend on this? You might feel obligated to keep it for a while but eventually might lose it.
c) Mild surprise, handwritten letters are rare these days. This much work for something going in the trash! You might not even complete reading it. If it’s cutesy, you will roll your eyes.
5. How do you feel about stargazing with a romantic partner?
a) It’s incredibly romantic, a chance to connect under the vast night sky. I’d hold hands and slowly lean into them. Eventually, we’d share a kiss, and an I love you.
b) It sounds okay, but I’m not sure it’s worth the effort. I would rather stay in and watch a movie or even do the dishes, which sounds like a better use of our time.
c) Will there be bugs? Eww. Let’s not.
6. What’s your reaction to witnessing a marriage proposal in a public place?
a) “How magical! I hope they have a lifetime of happiness.” You take pictures, congratulate them, and tell everyone on social media.
b) “That’s a bit too public for my taste.” You look away and try to ignore it.
c) “I wonder if they planned this just for social media.” You think they will not last together.
7. How do you feel about cuddling while watching a movie?
a) It’s the perfect way to feel close and connected and the only way to watch a movie. I watch movies just to cuddle.
b) It’s okay, but sometimes I get uncomfortable. Or it will lead to more.
c) I prefer to sit apart and focus on the movie. This is movie time. Cuddle time is always tomorrow.
8. What’s your ideal way to spend Valentine’s Day?
a) A romantic dinner followed by a moonlit walk. Home-cooked meals, red dresses, poetry performances, romantic music, and special gifts. Every year is different!
b) It’s just another day, nothing special. We will enjoy some intimate moments, that’s all!
c) I make the point of doing nothing romantic on that day. I also don’t know the date it’s celebrated on. I also never do anything romantic…
9. You receive an unexpected gift from someone you’re dating. How do you react?
a) With genuine delight and gratitude. I immediately thank them, and they know I loved it!
b) It’s nice, but I’m not sure how to respond. They might not know if I liked their gift.
c) I feel a bit awkward and unsure if I should reciprocate. I don’t like them as much anymore. They might be trying too hard. I avoid them. They might think I don’t like their gift but they should know I don’t do gifts this soon!
10. How do you feel about love songs?
a) They’re incredibly moving and resonate with my emotions. I listen to as many love songs as possible. I’m much more romantic than most romantic songs! I should be a songwriter.
b) They’re okay, but I don’t pay much attention to them. Music is music.
c) They can be cheesy and over-the-top. I prefer any non romantic songs. Romance is for little girls!
11. Read and react to the following poem:
a) “This poem describes how I feel or how I want to feel. If I have not found my person yet, I have faith that I’ll meet them at the perfect time.” (chosen by liz)
b) “I do not resonate with this poem! Soulmates do not exist, and if they did, we would all know by now.”
c) “This poem is so cheesy.” It really sounds ridiculous 🙄 😒 😐…. getting off this blog ASAP!
12. Which quote resonates with you?
a) “Our Love is written in the stars”
b) “The depth of our Love is our greatest secret”
c) “Our love is our safe space where we can be ourselves and not be judged for it”
Reflect on your answers.
Rate your answers by assigning points:
– Option a) Add 5 points
– Option b) Add 3 points
– Option c) Add 1 point
Tally up the total points to determine your romantic inclinations.
46 to 60 points: The Eternal Flame: Most intense romantic. We believe in twin flames/ soulmates and fall in love at first sight.
The Eternal Flame is the most romantic level. Individuals in this category have the highest degree of romantic inclination and experience a deep and everlasting passion for romance. It implies a strong and enduring connection to romantic ideals and gestures.
Individuals who fit into the “Eternal Flame” category are deeply passionate about romance and love. They often prioritize emotional connection and intimacy in their relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:
1. **Hopeless Romantics:** They believe in the power of love and often express themselves through grand gestures and heartfelt expressions of affection.
2. **Emotionally Invested:** They are deeply invested in their relationships, cherishing every moment and valuing the emotional bond they share with their partner.
3. **Creative and Thoughtful:** They constantly strive to surprise and delight their partners with thoughtful gestures, whether it’s writing love letters, planning romantic getaways, or creating personalized gifts.
4. **Sensitive to Beauty:** They appreciate the beauty in the world around them, finding inspiration in nature, art, and music, which they often incorporate into their romantic gestures.
5. **Believers in Destiny:** They may believe in soulmates or the idea that certain people are destined to be together, which fuels their passion and commitment to finding and nurturing love.
Overall, individuals in the “Eternal Flame” category are guided by their unwavering belief in the transformative power of love and their dedication to keeping the flame of romance burning bright in their lives.
26 to 45 points: Heart’s Harmony: The Secret Romantic. They think it but don’t speak romance
For the second romance level, let’s consider an option that reflects a moderate level of romantic inclination, perhaps something like “Heart’s Harmony.” This name suggests a balance between romance and practicality, where individuals appreciate love and connection but may not necessarily embody the intense passion of the “Eternal Flame” category.
Individuals who fit into the “Heart’s Harmony” category strike a balance between romance and practicality in their approach to relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:
Overall, individuals in the “Heart’s Harmony” category cultivate a relationship environment where love and practicality coexist, fostering a sense of mutual respect, understanding, and contentment in their romantic lives.
46 to 60 points: Calm Waters: Most likely to not take this quiz. Are they even romantic?
For the lowest level name, we want to convey an absence or minimal presence of romantic inclination. How about “Calm Waters”? This name suggests a serene and tranquil state, where romantic feelings may exist but are subdued or infrequent.
Individuals who fit into the “Calm Waters” category tend to have a more reserved or subdued approach to romance. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:
Overall, individuals in the “Calm Waters” category may appreciate romance in a more subdued or understated manner, finding contentment in the quiet moments and subtle gestures of connection within their relationships.
This was fun!
According to my “research,” I’m as romantic as it gets! If someone is as romantic as me, let me know please, let’s be friends
Please share your romantic level
Dear Lovestar,
Continuing on my radical Self Love writings, I am going to expand on this concept and how it has helped me as much as time allows.
In the meantime, I’ll leave you with a new poem on this topic. Read my radical self Love quote on my previous post. Please let me know if this topic helps you and if you need self-love writing prompts.
Do you struggle with this topic? I can’t be the only person who at times breaks under my own expectations…
I would want to be a man
If only just for a day
To find me and love myself,
And heal together all the way.
I would allow myself to be free.
I would go the distance to get to know me.
I would bring me flowers and write me poems.
I would love myself to the end.
I would take my time not to scare me.
I would learn my secrets to take care of them.
I would tell me all the things I feel.
I would make sweet, sweet love to myself.
If only I could be a man and meet myself,
I would marry me right away
I'd be a great husband and wife.
I would never have to cry myself to sleep again.
Eve Lovestar
What a strange poem. I apologize if you didn’t like it. If so, read one of the mushy pieces I write for my lover man, Scorpio, on my poetry collection:
http://www.mobileapp.app/to/duCowXa?ref=cl
If you didn’t enjoy this poem, consider whether you would date yourself or make love to yourself or marry yourself. We all want Love (I believe you would not be on this blog if you didn’t), but are we embodying love? Do we feel worthy of love? Are we expecting from another something we are unable to give to ourselves?
This is why Love starts with self-love. If we’re unable to love ourselves as the truly wonderful creatures we are, then, should we expect another, let’s say, a magnificent male to love us? According to the laws of the universe, we receive what we are.
Self-love manifests true love
Hey, it’s Aries season now. Officially, it’s not a romantic time. I so miss Pisces season, my favorite time of the year!
And I was beaten by the eclipse energy! It was such a difficult time, but after about a week of crying, I have healed and upgraded myself and figured a way to make my union even stronger. How have you been feeling?
With love and light,
Eve, not angry anymore
Dear Lovestar,
For many different reasons I have in the past suffered (at times) of low self steem.
Maybe I can write about this in the future. I’m signing up now simply to upload a new quote to the internet collective.
Please download and share this quote far and wide if you feel like this or if you intend to feel like this.
As a poet, remember that I use metaphors heavily. Also, clearly, I’ll never meet myself outside of me. I’m playing with fantasy and illusion on this piece.
Self Love
I love myself so much
That if I met myself
Outside of me,
I'd become a lesbian today!
Eve Lovestar
This really made me smile. Thought about it in a delicious bath I had on Sunday. I want to put it on a T-shirt!
With much appreciation for your visit today,
Eve
Dear Lovestar,
On this post, I will tell you the only way you can actually enchant a Scorpio. I do not mean to put them under a spell at all.
A man can become enchanted by his woman through deep emotional connection, mutual respect, admiration, and shared experiences. Being attentive, supportive, and understanding can also foster a sense of enchantment. Additionally, maintaining passion, spontaneity, and keeping the relationship dynamic can contribute to keeping the enchantment alive. What about the Scorpio man?
Note: This text is highly metaphorical. I am using word play to amuse myself and to amuse you. Please read with an open mind and remember to never try to force a Scorpio to do anything because you will probably never see them again.
Please read my previous post, “Enchant the Scorpio,” before you read this one. On it, I explained the meaning of enchant, why love spells are wrong, how Scorpio can’t be put under spell, and that I’m dancing between the two meanings of the word enchant.
Scorpio men tend to fall in love deeply and passionately. They are often drawn to intense, emotional connections and value loyalty and honesty in their relationships. To win a Scorpio man’s heart, it’s important to be genuine, emotionally open, and willing to delve into deeper conversations. Building trust and showing loyalty are key factors in gaining their love.
A Scorpio man is often enchanted by depth, intensity, and authenticity. They are drawn to individuals who are confident yet mysterious, someone who can match their emotional intensity and engage them intellectually. Showing loyalty, honesty, and a willingness to explore deeper emotional connections can captivate a Scorpio man. They are also attracted to people who have a strong sense of self and are not afraid to be themselves fully.
In the bedroom, a Scorpio man is enchanted by a woman who is so vulnerable with him only who will let him own her body, more about this below.
Realize that by “owning,” I’m not referring to any loss of freedom of either of the individuals.
Have you ever heard the expression:
“He really owned his work” or “She owned the room”
These expressions do not mean literally owning the job or the building. Instead, they refer to the energy. In the examples above, “He” brought really good energy into work and finished all the work he had to do, and “she” had such an attractive energy she brought to “the room” that she captivated everyone.
In the context of Scorpio in bed with his beloved. He will own that moment, and there are several meanings to this phrase.
I will elaborate on this sensitive topic on my Sex with Scorpio blog. Read and follow through the link below:
http://www.mobileapp.app/to/duCowXa?ref=cl
There must be depth of character in a woman for a Scorpio man to become enchanted with her. Scorpios can’t stand shallow people, and they’re most picky about the woman they settle with. I know because a Scorpio man settled with me.
Additionally, Scorpios don’t like small talk. They’re as deep as it gets. A woman would drown in such depth if she wasn’t a good swimmer. Maybe this is why Scorpio is most compatible with Pisces and Cancer. We’re good swimmers.
To charm your Scorpio partner, show him the depth of your character. Speak with intensity about the topics you care about. Engage in deep conversations. Let him initiate conversations and engage. Listening to him is of the utmost importance.
Another highly charming quality in a woman for a Scorpio man is her understanding of energy and psychology. You will not understand the man, but if you can understand his energy…
Laughing together supports deep bonding. Laughing at his typically dark jokes will support his self steem. But making him laugh with authentic wit will charm him. Can you expose your vulnerable, authentic, witty personality to him? He would love that.
Scorpio men do not fall in love easily. For them to become enchanted by their lady is difficult. However, it’s possible as long as you’re the right woman for him, that he will become enchanted because they fall deep and hard in love, and they’re extremely loyal, and when they choose a woman to settle with is because they trust her. As long as you don’t disrespect him terribly, his love for you will last forever and might grow.
Reminder that you can not make a hard to convince Scorpio love you. The first thing you want to do is figure out if you’re compatible with Scorpio: Are you loyal to death? Are you private? Are you patient? Are you good with words? because they’re not… Are you willing to merge with him?
Enchanting your Scorpio lover will take time, perhaps years, but it will be very worth it.
What are your opinions on this topic? Reminder that this was mostly for fun.
Let me know if this was helpful at all and if you like this type of content.
With love and light,
Eve, strategizing my next move on Scorpio 😆 🤣 😂
Lovestar Temple🔥 🔥 