I was very needy for attention, and you could have deduced it by the needy poetry I was writing. I have the highest inclination and need for romance, and by a less romantic lover, I could be seen as needy.
If you don’t know your romance level yet, take my free quiz and find out your level and what it means about you.
I wondered yesterday…
Do I get upset that I’m not receiving the attention I crave or do I kindly request it. He is a Heart Harmony romantic, otherwise known as a Secret romantic.
I decided to go for the kind request since the arguments have not worked for me.
I asked him to put me on his to-do list!
He laughed and then said a bunch of cool and sexy things with the dark humor twist of a Scorpio! I was so emotional that I shed a tear.
Told him he floored me with his poetry!
It’s not poetry… he asserted.
But I disagreed. So I turned it into a poem.
My Scorpio said these things to me. I mixed 2 different conversations. Find out about his love manifestation on my Sex with Scorpio blog on my poetry collection app.
PS. I told him I wasn’t poisonous but instead I was very good for him!
I learned a lot of Latin last night. Today, I keep on thinking of words and phrases! It was very cool. My children don’t want to learn an ancient language, not in use. My partner Scorpio thinks learning a language highly in use I’d best, such as Chinese: forget that! I’m not learning Chinese! No intention whatsoever! I’m learning Latin for fun.
I have tried everything To not think about you today. Not because I don’t love To think of you in this way. But you hold captive my brain And I just can’t concentrate.
So, I tried learning Latin Just to keep you out of mind I learned that Latin is parent Of languages such as mine: Spanish, called Romance… Then I thought of you again. I started learning the numbers: Unus, Duo, Tres… Wait, six is sex? And there I was again Writing poetry for vos.
I really wanted to end the poem by saying: poetry for você (a Portuguese word for you) I hear this word in Brazilian songs and I love Brazil, Portuguese, Samba, and I love você!
Latin vocabulary:
Amor – Love (Also Spanish)
Lux – Light (Luz in Spanish)
One – Unus (Uno in Spanish)
Two – Duo (Dos in Spanish)
Three – Tres (also in Spanish)
Six – Sex (apparently it’s pronounced something like seks) (Seos in Spanish
Et – and (y in Spanish)
Femina – woman (I had heard this before/ reminded today on my first lesson) (mujer in Spanish)
Vos/ Tu – You (tú in Cuba and informal Spanish/ Vos in Argentina and extremely formal Spanish/ usted is formal)
That’s it for my Latin lesson before someone gets offended… teach me if I made a mistake. 🙏 🙏 🙏
This is a linguistic thing that I’m trying today. It has been fun:
I translated a poem to Italian with AI (sharing that in the next post)
Then, an Italian poet edited the AI translated poem
Then the italian poet translated other poems of mine
Then, the Italian poet (I share his Twitter handle on my next post) translated other poetry to Italian while I thanked him for the free Italian lesson.
I read the Italian poems desperately trying to understand. Since Italian and Spanish, my first language, share the Latin root, there are lots of similar words. I only know some words and rare phrases in Italian.
I then did some research into the similar words in Italian/ Spanish/ Portuguese, which is my favorite language.
I really want to learn Hindi, but it’s so hard. I researched everything about the Hindi script, which is lovely but so difficult. I read so much about Hindi and Sanskrit, the language of my dreams.
Then, I downloaded language learning apps
On Duolingo, I searched for Hindi and didn’t find it! But Latin was an option.
I was doing this for fun anyway! So, I chose Latin for learning on Duolingo.
As soon as the Latin lesson started, I was happy it wasn’t Hindi! I was acing the lesson. Eventually, I made many mistakes, of course, as it was my very first time. I learned a lot of new words, and as long as I keep on coming back, I know I can learn a lot of Latin. I trust myself that way and I believe I can learn anything I want.
There’s only one problem: I don’t like the Romans!
But I like ancient languages, and Latin is the root of Spanish! So I might settle for Latin.
My dream: Learning Sanskrit and reading the ancient poetry and divine texts! ✨️
But, I’m sure there’s Latin poetry. I’ll look right now!
Tell me the truth, was the lame linguistic thing boring?
I created this quiz to help you determine your romantic level 😉. I have identified 3 levels of romantics:
The extreme romantic: The Eternal Flameromantics: We breathe and eat romance. 46 to 60 points
The secret romantic: Heart’s Harmonyromantics: They think romance but don’t talk it. 26 to 45 points
The least romantic: Calm Watersromantics: Are they even romantic? 12 to 25 points
Why take my quiz
Understand your partner better and understand how much romance they can handle. Get inspired.
With an understanding of your own romantic level versus your partner, you can work towards enhancing your relationship. You can use the insights gained from my quiz to communicate your needs and desires more effectively and create a more fulfilling romantic connection with your partner.
I intend to develop informative and educational resources for each romance level that will provide you practical tips for enhancing your love life. These resources will cover topics such as communication skills, romantic gestures, maintaining intimacy, and navigating relationship challenges. Ask for help in the comments.
Overall, taking the quiz and exploring the different romance levels can be a steppingstone towards personal growth, relationship enhancement, and a deeper understanding of romance and love.
Take this quiz and figure out how romantic you are ❤️ 😍 💖
1. If you are in a garden for an event, what’s your first thought? a) The flowers are beautiful and may remind you of someone special. You enjoy their beauty, take pictures, and even smell them. b) “Flowers are nice, but they’re just plants.” You don’t care if you are a garden or not. c) You do not like flowers. You avoid them, make sure nobody takes pictures of you at the garden, and leave as soon as possible.
2. You’re walking in the rain with someone you care about. What crosses your mind? a) “This is so romantic, like a scene from a movie.” You imagine yourself dancing in the rain. You slow down and enjoy the experience. b) “I hope we don’t get too wet and wish you had an umbrella.” You walk faster. c) “I do not like the rain. My hair is wet. ” You might get upset or run to safety.
3. What’s your reaction when you see someone reading a love poem in public? a) “How beautiful! I wish I could express myself like that.” You stop and listen, maybe record them and tip them. Tears may appear if you resonate with the poem. b) “That’s a bit cheesy for my taste.” You ignore it and continue on your way. c) “I wonder if they’re doing that for attention.” You shake your head, and you might judge them.
4. Imagine you receive a heartfelt handwritten letter. How do you feel? a) Warmth and appreciation, it’s such a thoughtful gesture. You feel special and save the letter for as long as possible. b) It’s nice, but an email would have been quicker. How much time did they spend on this? You might feel obligated to keep it for a while but eventually might lose it. c) Mild surprise, handwritten letters are rare these days. This much work for something going in the trash! You might not even complete reading it. If it’s cutesy, you will roll your eyes.
5. How do you feel about stargazing with a romantic partner? a) It’s incredibly romantic, a chance to connect under the vast night sky. I’d hold hands and slowly lean into them. Eventually, we’d share a kiss, and an I love you. b) It sounds okay, but I’m not sure it’s worth the effort. I would rather stay in and watch a movie or even do the dishes, which sounds like a better use of our time. c) Will there be bugs? Eww. Let’s not.
6. What’s your reaction to witnessing a marriage proposal in a public place? a) “How magical! I hope they have a lifetime of happiness.” You take pictures, congratulate them, and tell everyone on social media. b) “That’s a bit too public for my taste.” You look away and try to ignore it. c) “I wonder if they planned this just for social media.” You think they will not last together.
7. How do you feel about cuddling while watching a movie? a) It’s the perfect way to feel close and connected and the only way to watch a movie. I watch movies just to cuddle. b) It’s okay, but sometimes I get uncomfortable. Or it will lead to more. c) I prefer to sit apart and focus on the movie. This is movie time. Cuddle time is always tomorrow.
8. What’s your ideal way to spend Valentine’s Day? a) A romantic dinner followed by a moonlit walk. Home-cooked meals, red dresses, poetry performances, romantic music, and special gifts. Every year is different! b) It’s just another day, nothing special. We will enjoy some intimate moments, that’s all! c) I make the point of doing nothing romantic on that day. I also don’t know the date it’s celebrated on. I also never do anything romantic…
9. You receive an unexpected gift from someone you’re dating. How do you react? a) With genuine delight and gratitude. I immediately thank them, and they know I loved it! b) It’s nice, but I’m not sure how to respond. They might not know if I liked their gift. c) I feel a bit awkward and unsure if I should reciprocate. I don’t like them as much anymore. They might be trying too hard. I avoid them. They might think I don’t like their gift but they should know I don’t do gifts this soon!
10. How do you feel about love songs? a) They’re incredibly moving and resonate with my emotions. I listen to as many love songs as possible. I’m much more romantic than most romantic songs! I should be a songwriter. b) They’re okay, but I don’t pay much attention to them. Music is music. c) They can be cheesy and over-the-top. I prefer any non romantic songs. Romance is for little girls!
11. Read and react to the following poem:
“Soulmates” poem by Eve
a) “This poem describes how I feel or how I want to feel. If I have not found my person yet, I have faith that I’ll meet them at the perfect time.” (chosen by liz) b) “I do not resonate with this poem! Soulmates do not exist, and if they did, we would all know by now.” c) “This poem is so cheesy.” It really sounds ridiculous 🙄 😒 😐…. getting off this blog ASAP!
12. Which quote resonates with you? a) “Our Love is written in the stars” b) “The depth of our Love is our greatest secret” c) “Our love is our safe space where we can be ourselves and not be judged for it”
Reflect on your answers.
What is your romantic level?
Rate your answers by assigning points:
– Option a) Add 5 points – Option b) Add 3 points – Option c) Add 1 point
Tally up the total points to determine your romantic inclinations.
THE ROMANCE LEVELS
46 to 60 points: The Eternal Flame: Most intense romantic. We believe in twin flames/ soulmates and fall in love at first sight.
The Eternal Flame is the most romantic level. Individuals in this category have the highest degree of romantic inclination and experience a deep and everlasting passion for romance. It implies a strong and enduring connection to romantic ideals and gestures.
Individuals who fit into the “Eternal Flame” category are deeply passionate about romance and love. They often prioritize emotional connection and intimacy in their relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:
1. **Hopeless Romantics:** They believe in the power of love and often express themselves through grand gestures and heartfelt expressions of affection.
2. **Emotionally Invested:** They are deeply invested in their relationships, cherishing every moment and valuing the emotional bond they share with their partner.
3. **Creative and Thoughtful:** They constantly strive to surprise and delight their partners with thoughtful gestures, whether it’s writing love letters, planning romantic getaways, or creating personalized gifts.
4. **Sensitive to Beauty:** They appreciate the beauty in the world around them, finding inspiration in nature, art, and music, which they often incorporate into their romantic gestures.
5. **Believers in Destiny:** They may believe in soulmates or the idea that certain people are destined to be together, which fuels their passion and commitment to finding and nurturing love.
Overall, individuals in the “Eternal Flame” category are guided by their unwavering belief in the transformative power of love and their dedication to keeping the flame of romance burning bright in their lives.
26 to 45 points: Heart’s Harmony: The Secret Romantic. They think it but don’t speak romance
For the second romance level, let’s consider an option that reflects a moderate level of romantic inclination, perhaps something like “Heart’s Harmony.” This name suggests a balance between romance and practicality, where individuals appreciate love and connection but may not necessarily embody the intense passion of the “Eternal Flame” category.
Individuals who fit into the “Heart’s Harmony” category strike a balance between romance and practicality in their approach to relationships. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:
Balanced Approach: They value romance and emotional connection in their relationships but also recognize the importance of practical considerations and maintaining a sense of balance in their lives.
Thoughtful and Considerate: They express their affection for their partners through meaningful gestures and acts of kindness, such as remembering important dates, offering support during difficult times, and showing appreciation for their partner’s efforts.
Communication Skills: They prioritize open and honest communication in their relationships, seeking to understand their partner’s needs and concerns while also expressing their own thoughts and feelings effectively.
Adaptability: They are flexible and adaptable in their approach to romance, recognizing that relationships require compromise and adjustment to navigate the ups and downs of life together.
Appreciation for the Little Things: They find joy and fulfillment in the everyday moments shared with their partner, whether it’s cooking dinner together, taking walks, or simply enjoying each other’s company.
Overall, individuals in the “Heart’s Harmony” category cultivate a relationship environment where love and practicality coexist, fostering a sense of mutual respect, understanding, and contentment in their romantic lives.
46 to 60 points: Calm Waters: Most likely to not take this quiz. Are they even romantic?
For the lowest level name, we want to convey an absence or minimal presence of romantic inclination. How about “Calm Waters”? This name suggests a serene and tranquil state, where romantic feelings may exist but are subdued or infrequent.
Individuals who fit into the “Calm Waters” category tend to have a more reserved or subdued approach to romance. Here are some characteristics that might describe them:
Pragmatic Outlook: They tend to approach relationships with a practical mindset, focusing on practicalities rather than grand gestures or intense displays of affection.
Independence: They value their independence and may prioritize personal pursuits and interests over romantic relationships.
Reserved Expression of Affection: While they may experience romantic feelings, they may not express them openly or frequently, preferring to keep their emotions private.
Preference for Stability: They seek stability and predictability in their relationships, valuing a sense of calm and tranquility over excitement or passion.
Contentment with Solitude: They are comfortable spending time alone and may not feel a strong need for constant companionship or romantic involvement.
Overall, individuals in the “Calm Waters” category may appreciate romance in a more subdued or understated manner, finding contentment in the quiet moments and subtle gestures of connection within their relationships.
This was fun!
According to my “research,” I’m as romantic as it gets! If someone is as romantic as me, let me know please, let’s be friends
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Eve’s beginner calligraphy: Poetry Journal. These Half Good words were some of my favorite 😍
I have been complaining about my calligraphy on this blog, which is unlikely.
Not because my calligraphy is excellent but because I understand that being a beginner is the learning and growth phase.
Today, I want to show you my progression in the art of calligraphy.
Notice the shakey hand of a beginner… This was my own design.
CalligraphyTips:
I got books to learn and inspire my children (my homeschooling tactic is I learn what I want my kids to learn, and as they watch me, they get motivated and choose to learn also).
We also got the right tools for calligraphy
I have been learning from the books
This way of writing letter C I had seen in the past but it was my first try. Learned this weekend from a book. I love the letter B! How many ways can a poet write Love? That is a post I’ll share in the future. The spiky Love was my favorite. My daughters felt it was too embellished, though I copied the calligraphy of this poem. Not my favorite, but it was great practice. Hearts letters: I have been working on my heart letters forever, and these are of my own design. My second daughter has started to draw heart letters and has started doing the lovely swirl flourishes that I have always done.The calligraphy of a poet includes heart flourishes B is one of my favorite letters First time with this style of lettering. Or was it really because I remember this style from before. I know my dad did lettering like this… Is calligraphy like meditation? At least for me it was. It was extremely healing.
Yes, this has been my eclipse gift! Thank you, universe! I’ll never forget this gift!
I’ll be showing you more of my poetry journal this week, including the poetry.
The solar eclipse is a partial one here in Arizona, but I’m still out under the sun and enjoying the new fabulous energy.
Partial Solar Eclipse that will not harm your vision: Eclipse Art by Eve Lovestar
This was my view of the sun. I couldn’t take a good picture, so I drew it to explain to others.
I will draw this on my new poetry journal, but u had to draw my first sketch right after the experience.
Eclipse reflection
I even explained to my beloved Scorpio that we always get into a fight prior to the eclipse. By now, we have made up and are more in love than ever.
There’s always a huge emotional trigger event for us before an eclipse, and once we get over it, there is a healing that occurs when we’re better off because of it.
Over my weekend, I worked on my poetry journal so much!
I practiced my calligraphy until I learned to love it. I’m still a beginner calligrapher compared to a pro, but I really loved my personal touch, and of course, I created my own letters! I actually studied and learned the anatomy of letters, and I spent hours on it.
I also added a lot of art to it. I want all the pages to have art…
Today, I’ll show you the art.
The mermaid/ siren lingerie and other designs is my thing now. The first two looks are looks of mine that ice blogged about on my Sex with Scorpio blog.
Fun fact: the mermaid skirt and the mermaid dress are one piece of clothing which I made with my own hands. I did color them differently but only for diversity in my journal.
Read about these fabulous pieces on my Sex with Scorpio blog 😍. Follow that exclusive blog through this link:
Yes, I do want to own a clothing line where I get to design and create my fabulous, feminine, and sexy designs.
The mermaid teddy (the lingerie garment is called a teddy, in case you didn’t know) has not been created yet, but it’s on my to-do list. I did make one that is too much for this vanilla blog! 😆 🤣 😂 Not that you’re vanilla, you’re cool! For more, vidi y Sex with Scorpio:
I am feeling so romantic today! I want to lounge on the couch with my lover. I want to kiss and be kissed so gently. I want a warm embrace, and I want to make love under a full moon.
I want to receive a love letter. I want someone to dedicate me a song. I want to receive a poem.
I want to dance around in a red ruffle dress. I want to wear a flower or my already romantically long hair. I want pearls on my neck.
This is starting to sound like a poem…
I want to hold hands. I want to look into someone’s eyes and discover their soul. I want to feel even deeper.
That is why I come online and talk to you. Thank you, fellow romantic, for receiving my bold yet humble gift of romance.
Romance is an unmet need that I have. My lover is not romantic like that. He accepts attention, but he’s a stoic…
I’m guessing that lots of humans have an unmet need around romance, and I have a solution.
You be romantic!
I’m feeling romantic, so I did this:
I went for a little walk in the park
I let my hair down and felt cute
I went under the sun
I took pictures of bugs I shared with my lover, and we talked about them
I sat against my favorite tree, which I’ve blogged about before in the clean-up of the park post I shared
I took pictures of myself on this tree
I sent my lover’s the pictures
I shared a joke with him
And I talked to you. Thank you for listening
We believe it’s the spotless lady beetleOh, I should have smiled. No worries, I am smiling now. 😊 I am not taking my shoes off here, but oh how I wish I was in my private garden. My best friend, the tree, is such a romantic! We’re perfect for each other.
I have decided to romance myself and to share my gift of romance with other romantics.
In other words, Scorpio, my dear partner, doesn’t have to change to meet my need! I’ll meet my own romantic need. He does meet my Love and certainly lovemaking needs. Also, my friendship and conversation needs.
I am not blaming my beloved Scorpio for not being a romantic, and I understand him for it 100 percent. He is but a victim of this cruel world.
The problem is not the individual people who are not romantic. The problem is the setting we’re playing in.
This is a huge topic for me. To not bore you, I’ll continue on another post.
Are you a romantic, too?
How do you meet your need for romance?
Is your person a romantic?
With love and light,
Eve, creating tools to satisfy my hunger for romance.
I have shown you some of the sexy text messages I have sent my lover, Scorpio. Today, I’ll do more of it.
I do this because it’s free content and for inspiration. Let me know if it helped. Feel free to copy me as long as you share these feelings for your person.
I believe the world would be a better place if we were all a little more romantic, and I’m just doing my part. This is part of my life mission. My intention is that visitors to this bold blog will become more romantic. You’re welcome.
I have started doing my part by becoming more romantic, I’m on the way to becoming even more romantic. There’s always a next level.
I have helped my lover be more romantic after he was left cold from several heartbreaks. And I’ll continue to romantically attract that man out of his mind.
I have inspired my children to aspire to romance.
I have poured my soul on the web to share my vision of a romantic world.
And now I share with you some of my most vulnerable text messages to my beloved, who I call Scorpio.
I meant something I couldn’t do before…
That’s it for now.
However, because I text this love of mine with this intensity all the time, I’ll collect more of these for future posts.
Lovestar Temple🔥 🔥 