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  • Seductress energy. Is Venus calling?

    Seductress energy. Is Venus calling?

    First of all I want to thank the dear person who read 71 of my blog posts a few days ago and the sweet person who read more than 20 blog posts today (or was it yesterday?). I am grateful for you and next time, start a conversation and I will write a poem for you. This happens every now and then and I blog for you dears.

    Dear Lovestar,

    I have been on such a beautiful journey with my beloved twin flame Scorpio. Our union has flourished after much needed healing, about two days ago, though, he surprised me with an unexpected request/ fantasy of sorts:

    Scorpio likes me to seduce him. That is he loves it when I aggresively start the sex! 🫢🫣🥴 I was triggered. I kind of am a sex blogger, I guess. Why is that upsetting to me?

    I have had this post written and saved for 2 days but I wasn’t able to give in. But it is Friday the 13, Venus day and day of the goddess. It is sexy femme day on steroids, so I post today and I am going home (currently stuck for hours getting car work done) to seduce him out of his pants! I immediately knew today was the day.

    Also, because I was almost killed in a truck accident, it is my new birthday, a sign from my goddess, Venus, to bring out my feminine power. (More on that accident saving later)

    Seductress energy, the Venus power

    Embracing the Art of Seduction: A Personal Journey

    In a world where traditional roles and expectations often shape our relationships, I find myself navigating a delicate balance between my values and my beloved lover’s desires. For the past 17 years, my twin flame and I have built a loving, monogamous relationship, blessed with five wonderful children. He has always been a source of unwavering support and devotion. Recently, he expressed a desire for me to take on a role that challenges my traditional views: he wants me to seduce him.

    The word “seduction” has always carried a certain weight for me, evoking notions of assertiveness and masculine energy. As someone who cherishes old-fashioned values and has been deeply influenced by a more reserved, traditional upbringing, this request triggered a sense of discomfort. In my mind, seduction was something to be approached from a more passive and nurturing standpoint.

    However, understanding the importance of maintaining an open and fulfilling relationship, I took a step back and considered his request with an open heart. I realized that this was not about shifting roles but about exploring a new dimension of our connection.

    In spiritual terms, this might be seen as an interplay between Venus and Lilith energies. Venus, representing love, beauty, sexual energy, and harmony, encourages us to embrace our sensuality in a way that enhances intimacy and connection.

    Lilith, on the other hand, symbolizes empowerment, independence, and a reclamation of one’s desires and power. Integrating these energies could offer a path to enriching our relationship, allowing us to express affection and desire in ways that resonate deeply with both partners.

    For those on a spiritual or twin flame journey, this might be an opportunity to explore how our personal energies can align with our partner’s needs, fostering a deeper, more harmonious connection. It’s about finding a balance where both partners feel valued and understood, and where traditional values can coexist with modern desires.

    In embracing this new approach, I hope to honor both my beloved’s wishes and my own values, finding a path that brings us closer while staying true to who we are.


  • Venus Day and a Feminine Blessing: Friday the 13th

    Venus Day and a Feminine Blessing: Friday the 13th

    Dear Lovestar

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    Celebrating Venus Day: Embracing the Ancient Goddess on Friday the 13th

    In ancient times, Friday the 13th was not the harbinger of misfortune that it is often considered today. Instead, it was a day imbued with positive significance, particularly in the context of Venus, the ancient goddess of love, beauty, and fertility. This day offers a unique opportunity to connect with the divine feminine and celebrate Venus’s enduring influence.

    Ok, I have to find an actual connection between Friday the 13th and Venus, in ancient times Friday was Venus’s day. Venus as Aphrodite is one if the most ancient deities and this day was celebrated as the goddess day. So I’m observing it as Venus day on steroids.

    Ancient Lore and Venus

    Venus, known as Aphrodite in Greek mythology, was revered across ancient cultures. She was celebrated not only for her associations with love and beauty but also for her role as a symbol of prosperity and harmony. The number 13, often seen as unlucky in modern times, had positive connotations in pre-patriarchal societies. It was associated with the lunar cycle and feminine energy, reflecting the cycles of life and nature.

    In Roman times, Venus had numerous festivals, including the Veneralia, held on April 1st, and the Venerealia, dedicated to her worship. The goddess was also honored in various rites connected to love and fertility, celebrating the life-giving forces she represented.

    Modern Celebrations of Venus Day

    Today, Friday the 13th can be a powerful day for modern spiritual women (and anyone else) to reconnect with Venus and celebrate her essence. Here are some ways to honor this ancient goddess and integrate her influence into contemporary spiritual practices:

    1. Rituals of Love and Beauty:
    • Create a Venus Altar: Set up a small altar with symbols associated with Venus such as roses, seashells, mirrors, and candles. Use these items to create a space that reflects beauty and harmony.
    • Offerings: Prepare offerings of flowers, honey, or sweet treats as symbols of abundance and love. These can be placed on your altar or shared with loved ones as an act of kindness.
    1. Meditation and Reflection:
    • Venus Meditation: Engage in a meditation focused on self-love and empowerment. Visualize Venus’s energy surrounding you, fostering a sense of beauty and confidence.
    • Journaling: Reflect on your personal connections to love and beauty. Write about how Venus’s attributes influence your life and how you can embody them more fully.
    1. Celebratory Activities:
    • Host a Gathering: Organize a gathering with friends or fellow spiritual practitioners to celebrate Venus Day. Share poetry, art, and stories that resonate with Venus’s themes.
    • Dance and Music: Venus was often associated with celebration and joy. Dance or listen to music that uplifts and connects you to the goddess’s energy.
    1. Embrace Feminine Wisdom:
    • Craft and Create: Engage in creative activities such as crafting, painting, or writing that allow you to express the divine feminine energy. Venus’s influence can inspire creativity and self-expression.
    • Learn and Share: Study the ancient lore of Venus and share your knowledge with others. Understanding the historical context can deepen your appreciation and connection to the goddess.

    Embracing the Spirit of Venus

    By celebrating Venus Day on Friday the 13th, modern spiritual women can reclaim the day’s ancient significance and embrace the goddess’s attributes in their daily lives. This celebration is an opportunity to honor the divine feminine, nurture self-love, and connect with the enduring legacy of Venus’s beauty and power.

    Whether through ritual, meditation, or creative expression, let Venus’s spirit guide you in celebrating love and beauty, and find joy in reconnecting with this timeless deity.


    Please comment with ideas or your wisdom on the topic,

  • I tried belly dance again and even introduced my daughters

    Dear Lovestar,

    I started learning Greek and I tried listening to Greek music but my ffamily did not like it. I study Italian and for learning, I listen to Italian music and do Italian karaoke. But the Greek music was a huge no for them, but I liked it. Anyway, while I was on the international music energy, I told my kids about my old belly dance obsession. It is howevver, not surprising at all that I just rediscovered bellydancing when I just started to work with Venus!

    There was a time, when I was an arts and craft blogger when I used to call myself the belly dancer. I used to draw belly dancers, took a video class, made belly dance costumes, and had a belly dance playlist before I had kids. Now, my oldest kid is 11. It has been a long time. And just like that, I found a belly dance lesson on Youtube. My secind daughter started the lesson with me but stopped because it was hard. During part of the lesson, my son asked to be held while I danced.

    Rediscovering the Joy of Belly Dancing: A Fun and Empowering Workout for Women

    There’s something magical about finding a form of exercise that not only gets your body moving but also nourishes your soul. That’s exactly what happened to me when I decided to give belly dancing another try. I had been reading about its benefits for women—how it’s great for fitness, boosts confidence, and even connects us with our feminine energy. Curious and excited, I jumped in, and it turned out to be one of the best decisions I’ve made for myself—and for my daughter said it as fun, it really was.

    A Workout That Feels Like Fun

    To me working out feels like a chore. But belly dancing? It’s a whole different experience. From the moment I started moving, I felt a sense of joy and freedom. The music, the movements, the rhythm—it all comes together in a way that’s not just about exercise but about celebrating my body. It’s like a dance party where I was the star, and the best part is, it doesn’t feel like work at all!

    Belly dancing engaged muscles I didn’t even know you had, and by the end of it, I realized I’d had a serious workout. But instead of feeling exhausted, I felt energized and more in tune with my body. The flowing movements work wonders for your core, hips, and even your posture. It’s a full-body workout wrapped in fun and creativity. My daughter did not believe me when I told her this teacher will help with her posture. I finished the class with a smile and ready to do some work.

    Connecting with Feminine Energy

    One of the things that drew me back to belly dancing was its deep connection to feminine energy. It’s a dance form that has been celebrated by women for centuries, and it’s easy to see why. The movements are all about embracing and enhancing your natural curves, moving with grace, and feeling confident in your own skin.

    As I danced, I felt a strong connection to the women who have danced this way throughout history. There’s something incredibly empowering about reclaiming this ancient art form and making it your own. It reminded me that movement isn’t just about fitness—it’s also about expression, joy, and connecting with the feminine energy that flows within us all.

    Ever Considered Belly Dancing?

    If you’ve been thinking about trying belly dancing—or if this is the first time it’s crossed your mind—I can’t recommend it enough. It’s a workout that’s good for your body, mind, and spirit. Whether you’re dancing alone, with friends, or sharing the experience with your daughters, it’s an activity that brings joy, confidence, and a deep connection to your feminine energy.

    So, put on some music, let your body move, and see where the dance takes you. You might just find that belly dancing becomes one of your favorite ways to stay fit, feel fabulous, and celebrate the beautiful, powerful woman that you are. And if you’ve got daughters, nieces, or friends, invite them to join in the fun. There’s nothing quite like the joy of dancing together and embracing the power of being a woman.

  • Venus Aphrodite. What the goddess represents

    Dear Lovestar,

    I understand perfectly if you do not believe in goddesses and deities. I myself, did not until I had an experience with Venus.

    However, if you do not believe in goddesses, here is how you can see Venus.

    Discovering Venus: Embracing the Essence of Beauty, Love, and Femininity

    For many, the name Venus evokes images of the ancient Roman goddess of love, beauty, and desire. But what if you don’t believe in goddesses or deities? Can Venus still hold significance in your life? Absolutely. Venus represents much more than mythology; she embodies universal energies that we can all connect with—beauty, love, femininity, and the powerful force of attraction, also our sexual energy.

    Venus Beyond Mythology

    You don’t need to believe in deities to feel the influence of Venus in your life. Think of Venus as a symbol, an archetype that represents certain aspects of our human experience. She’s the embodiment of love’s warmth, the glow of beauty that surrounds us, and the gentle yet potent energy of femininity. These are qualities we all recognize and can nurture within ourselves, regardless of our spiritual beliefs.

    Venus as the Energy of Beauty

    Beauty is one of the most accessible ways to connect with the essence of Venus. It’s not just about physical appearance but about finding and appreciating beauty in the world around you. When you take a moment to notice the colors of a sunset, the elegance of a flower, or the harmony in a piece of music, you’re tapping into Venus’s energy. Beauty enriches our lives, lifts our spirits, and connects us to something greater than ourselves.

    Venus as the Force of Love

    Love is another powerful way Venus manifests in our lives. It’s in the love we give and receive from others, the kindness we show to strangers, and the compassion we feel for those in need. Venus reminds us that love is a force that binds us together, making our lives richer and more meaningful. By cultivating love in all its forms—romantic, familial, platonic—we invite Venus’s energy into our hearts.

    Venus as the Embrace of Femininity also lives in our smile

    Venus also represents the energy of femininity, which is not confined to any particular gender. It’s about embracing qualities like nurturing, intuition, creativity, and softness. These traits are often undervalued in a world that prizes hard edges and fast results, but they are essential for balance and wholeness. By honoring and nurturing our feminine side, we bring Venus’s influence into our daily lives.

    Observing Venus in the Sky

    If you want to connect with Venus on a more tangible level, look to the night sky. Venus is the brightest planet and often visible just after sunset or before sunrise, known as the “Evening Star” or the “Morning Star.” Observing Venus can be a grounding experience, reminding us of the vastness of the universe and our place within it. It’s a moment to reflect on the beauty, love, and femininity that Venus symbolizes.

    How to Connect with Venus’s Energy

    Whether or not you believe in Venus as a goddess, you can still invite her energy into your life. Here are a few ways to do so:

    1. Surround Yourself with Beauty: Create an environment that pleases your senses. This could be through art, nature, music, or anything that makes you feel more connected to the beauty of the world.
    2. Practice Acts of Love: Whether it’s showing kindness to others, expressing gratitude, or simply spending time with loved ones, let love be a guiding force in your actions.
    3. Honor Your Feminine Side: Embrace qualities like intuition, creativity, and empathy. This can be as simple as allowing yourself to be gentle and compassionate with yourself and others.
    4. Observe Venus in the Sky: Take a moment to step outside during her visibility and gaze up at the planet. Let this be a time of reflection and connection to the energies she represents.
    5. Smile more: The goddess lives in the smile.

    Embracing Venus in Your Life

    Venus is more than a mythological figure; she’s a symbol of the beauty, love, and femininity that enrich our lives. By consciously connecting with these aspects of ourselves and the world, we can invite more joy, harmony, and love into our everyday experiences. So, the next time you think about Venus, take a moment to reflect on the beauty, love, and feminine energy that she represents. Let her inspire you to live a life filled with these wonderful qualities.

  • Smile Challenge: My Love Life Upgraded

    Dear Lovestar,

    It appears I did not know the power of smiling in relationship to Love.

    Since I started willing myself to smile as a challenge, I did not that joy was coming as a result of my smiling.

    Things simply turned around for me and everything became better.

    Now whenever I remember, I smile and smiling at my beloved is easiest. Whenever I look at him and smile he smiles or holds me and things just get better.

    The Surprising Power of a Smile: How I Rediscovered Joy in Love

    You know how sometimes you stumble upon something so simple yet so powerful that it feels like magic? Well, that happened to me recently when I discovered the power of smiling in my relationship. It all started as a little challenge to myself—a fun experiment, really. I decided to start smiling more, just to see what would happen. I never expected it to transform my life and my love so profoundly.

    The Challenge: Smile More

    It sounds almost too easy, right? Just smile more. But trust me, there’s something magical about it. I had read somewhere that smiling can trick your brain into feeling happier, even when you’re not particularly in the mood. So, I thought, why not give it a shot? Whenever I caught myself in a neutral or pensive mood, I’d remind myself to smile. It wasn’t forced; it was more like a gentle nudge to myself to find the little joys in the moment.

    The Unexpected Results: Joy Sneaking In

    Here’s the thing: I didn’t realize how quickly and dramatically things would change. At first, it felt a bit strange, like I was just going through the motions. But then, something incredible happened. As I smiled, joy started creeping into my life in the most delightful ways. It was as if my smile was a signal to the universe that I was open to happiness, and it responded generously.

    Love and Smiles: A Perfect Pair

    But the best part? The impact it had on my relationship. Smiling at my beloved became the easiest and most natural thing in the world. Every time I looked at him and smiled, I noticed a spark in his eyes—a mirror of the joy I was feeling. He’d smile back, or sometimes he’d just pull me into a warm embrace, and in those moments, everything felt perfect.

    It was as if my smile was a secret key that unlocked a deeper connection between us. We communicated more with our eyes and smiles than with words, and it brought us closer than ever. The little annoyances and stresses of daily life seemed to melt away whenever we shared a smile.

    The Takeaway: Smile, and the World Smiles Back

    Now, whenever I remember, I smile. It’s become a habit, a way of life, and it’s made everything better. I’ve learned that a smile is more than just an expression; it’s a powerful tool for cultivating joy, love, and connection. It’s a way to invite happiness into your life and to share it with those you love.

    So, if you’re ever feeling down or disconnected, try it out. Just smile. Smile at yourself, smile at the world, and especially smile at the ones you love. You might be surprised at how much brighter and sweeter life becomes.

    Smiling is simple, but its effects are profound. And the best part? It’s contagious. So go ahead—start smiling and watch as the world smiles back at you.

  • Eve Fonts. Heart Letters

    Dear Lovestar,

    Ever since I started practicing my calligraphy, my oldest daughter has been telling me to create a unique Eve font. Well, I just did with this app. I don’t love it because I did not have a lot of space to work on my phone and I hope edit the ones that are not perfect because of course, I finished this project within 20 minutes or less.

    My kids font:

    My daughters created their own font and theirs might be cuter than mine

  • The Sea, Venus, and Italian poetry

    Dear Lovestar,

    I wrote a poem half in Italian

    Italian is a very poetic language and I am learning some Italian, simply for fun. Writing poetry in Italian is easier than in Latin for me because Latin, being a dead language is much more difficult thatn Italian, even though I have barely studied Italian.

    I am learning Italian because I think it would help me in my Latin learning journey, and also because I thought it would be easy, then I find the beautiful Italian poetry and figure it was meant to be!

    Some themes I noticed in Italian art and music. I speak soon, but Italian music (I have been listening and singing for my learning and I will talk of it again) talks a lot about the heart (il cuore), Spanish also. In fact in Spanish, we call a beloved person mi corazon (my heart).

    Italian music also mentions this word a parola which means word. It is mentioned so much that I learned the word from music and looked it up, then learned the meaning. O have to learn more but it appears that it is used as one’s word, a word, the feelings in words, the meaning, things like that. By comparison, we do not use the word “word” in English as much in poetry.

    Anf the third theme I noticed was the sea. It makes sense since Italy is surrounded by sea basically. It appears that Italians love the sea and they inmortalie it in their art. In a beautiful song I heard a man singing he was going to the sea and to find a mermaid (Sono una sirena = I am a mermaid)

    It is not pure luck that all these things are related. It is all meant to be. Example, Venus, the Roman was ancient Italian, basically, see why she was born at sea? Well, of course, because she was born in Greece, an island as Aphrodite. Venus (the Roman Aphrodite) was seen as the mother of Rome (the now capital of Italy).

    In my poetry, I did not inlcude parola because I need to understand the word more.

    English translation:

    My heart lives in the sea
    Its vastness, like my love,
    Its calm, its color,
    Its profundity, my soul.

    Italian poetry. Dante and his divine comedy

    Did you know that the popular Italian poet Dante Alighieri was exiled? I need to know more about this man’s history.

    Dante Alighieri’s “Divine Comedy,” written in the early 14th century, is a seminal work in Italian literature and a cornerstone of Western cultural heritage. This epic poem, composed of three parts—Inferno, Purgatorio, and Paradiso—traces the journey of the soul through Hell, Purgatory, and Heaven.

    Dante’s choice to write in vernacular Italian rather than Latin was revolutionary, elevating the Tuscan dialect to a prominent literary language and setting a precedent for modern Italian. His work not only advanced Italian literary tradition but also profoundly influenced subsequent writers and thinkers, solidifying his role as a pivotal figure in the evolution of Italian language and literature. I learned this from Podcast Italiano on Youtube.

    Dante was exiled from Florence in 1302 due to political conflicts. He had been involved in the complex political and factional struggles of Florence, which led to his banishment. The “Divine Comedy” was written during his exile and is often seen as a reflection of his personal and political grievances, as well as his broader philosophical and theological concerns. The work itself did not cause his exile, but it did encapsulate his views on justice, politics, and morality, which were influenced by his experiences of exile.

    But was he exiled because of his poetry? Was he using poetry to attack his political enemies?

    The fault is of politics, obviously! Yet, poets will poet. And yes, I used poet as a verb.

    Learning some Italian,

    Eve

  • The Poetry Journal: Tailpieces, Calligraphy Art

    Dear Lovestar,

    Let’s bring tailpieces back!

    What is a tailpiece? It’s the decorative design under a poem (or any literature). Sometimes they are very fancy and complex, sometimes they’re very cute, sometimes they look ornate like a baroque church.

    As a lover of literature and classic literature, tailpieces were on every book I remember. They made a really big impression on me, and since then, I always do a simple tailpiece when I write by hand.

    I use the tailpiece as a sign that the poem (or any other handwriting) is a finished piece. If I do a poem without a tailpiece, it means it’s incomplete, or I want to work on it more.

    Tailpieces on my poetry journal

    My tailpieces compliment my cursive, and I use the same flourishes. My tailpiece themes are swirls, hearts, dots, and flowers. I like to design one on the spot and don’t like to copy them. I like unique ones.

    Three hearts with swirls
    Heart with swirls
    Infinity sign with swirl
    Swirls with dots
    Flower with swirls
    Infinity sign with swirls
    A swirl with dots design
    Asymmetrical swirls

    Digital tailpieces

    I realized that since tailpieces are such a big part of my literary experience, I should use them in my blogging, ebooks, and articles, too. I am going to create a library of them. These digital ones I just created on the Sketchbook app.

    Sunflower
    Love digital calligraphy
    My name as a tailpiece? Perfect idea 💡
    My name heart signature is cute enough. Digital Calligraphy
    Rose with swirls
    Golden heart with swirls
    Simple swirl
    Poetry journal tailpieces video on my girls’ channel

    https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTNofKyqV/

    Do you still see tailpieces in books?

    With love and light,

    Eve

  • Twin Flame Souls Connection mini meditation.  Tell me more

    Twin Flame Souls Connection mini meditation.  Tell me more

    Dear Lovestar,

    Tell me more with Shaman Durek

    I have been listening to Shaman Durek (fun fact, my lover is a shaman), and I tried this tell me more trick while sitting in nature.

    I immediately heard my twin flame say I love you, which triggered a beautiful heart-opening reaction.

    I then asked tell me more and beautiful, loving, and some private thoughts came through increasing the warmth I was feeling in my heart.

    It was a beautiful mini meditation that left me smiling.

    Coming soon: note on the smiling. I’m starting a smile more challenge ☺️ 😊 😄

    It is for Venus and I will be talking about this soon.

    I also received a request from Spirit to talk about my spiritual view of why our monthly running (or moon connecting blood offering) can be extremely after profound spiritual work.

    Talk soon,

    Eve

  • Wild Woman Freed

    Wild Woman Freed

    Wild Woman Freed poem 1

    Wild Woman Freed poem 2

    I was bound,
    Before,
    Tied down,
    I belonged,
    Then woke up,
    Hurting sore,
    My broken heart,
    Not my own.

    I learned to be free,
    I healed, I fled,
    I became complete,
    I grew up consciously.

    I freed the wild woman
    Underneath,
    I’m nothing but a human
    Running free.

    Eve