Author: Eve Sanchez

Dear Lovestar,

Every man carries an anima, the feminine soul image that shapes how he loves, dreams, and feels. Meeting her is the first step toward sacred Union, we discussed this in the first article of this series. Then we get to know his inner feminine in a merging where “we’re 3” and we discussed this in the second article.

Now let us discuss the idea of “becoming his inner feminine,” which I purposely called his inner goddess.

Becoming His Inner Goddess

The Final Stage of the Inner Union and the Birth of Divine Love

The journey into divine love, as seen through both Carl Jung’s psychology and the twin flame path, reaches its culmination not when two souls finally unite but when each has become whole within themselves. The third stage, becoming his inner goddess, represents this sacred completion.

It is the point at which the masculine no longer seeks his feminine essence or merely invites her presence; he embodies her. The goddess is no longer a distant figure in his dreams or a projection onto his beloved. She becomes a living consciousness within him, guiding his thoughts, emotions, and creative impulses.

This transformation, according to Jung, is the crowning moment of individuation the full realization of the Self, which is both masculine and feminine, conscious and unconscious, human and divine.

For those on the twin flame journey, it is the moment when divine love ceases to be a pursuit and becomes a state of being.

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1. The Meaning of “Becoming Her”

To become the inner goddess does not mean a man ceases to be himself or loses his masculine essence. Rather, he becomes balanced the light and dark, the action and surrender, the sun and the moon coexisting harmoniously within him.

Jung observed that when the anima (the inner feminine) is fully integrated, a man gains access to the depths of his intuition, compassion, and creativity. He becomes capable of a more profound love, not just directed outward, but radiating from within.

In spiritual terms, this is the hieros gamos, or sacred marriage, taking place in the soul. The divine feminine and divine masculine are no longer in conflict. They move as one.

When he becomes his goddess, he becomes capable of embodying unconditional love. This is the energy that twin flames often sense: the point at which love itself becomes transcendent, healing, and universal.

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2. Living as the Embodied Union

To live as this inner goddess is to live from a state of presence, intuition, and receptivity, even within a masculine body or identity. It is not passive. It is power in its purest, most fluid form.

Jung believed that when this level of integration occurs, the individual begins to live symbolically. Life itself becomes a sacred myth unfolding. Every act, every emotion, every meeting holds meaning. The outer and inner worlds mirror each other perfectly.

For twin flames, this embodiment often manifests as a radical shift in how love is expressed. The relationship becomes a sacred partnership rather than a dynamic of pursuit and retreat. Each sees the divine reflected in the other, but also within themselves.

He no longer needs to “find” his feminine counterpart to feel whole. He has become her energy, her grace, her intuition. And in doing so, he becomes capable of truly meeting his divine feminine in her full power because he now understands her essence through lived experience.

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3. The Gifts of the Inner Goddess

When a man becomes his inner goddess, several transformations occur:

Creative Power Awakens. His ideas and dreams gain new vitality. The imagination becomes a channel of divine inspiration.

Emotional Depth Expands. He feels without fear. Vulnerability becomes a source of strength.

Intuitive Wisdom Emerges. Decisions are no longer purely rational; they arise from harmony between intellect and inner knowing.

Love Deepens. Relationships become sacred mirrors of his own completeness, rather than attempts to fill a void.


Jungian psychology teaches that these qualities arise naturally when the unconscious is integrated. They are not learned behaviors but revelations of the Self.

For twin flames, these are the energies that sustain eternal union. When both souls embody their inner opposites, love becomes effortless. There is no longer a polarity of chaser and runner, only two reflections of divine wholeness.

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4. Practices to Embody the Inner Goddess

The process of becoming the inner goddess is gradual. It requires patience, humility, and inner listening. Some practices inspired by Jung’s method and spiritual alchemy include:

Active Imagination: Dialogue with the inner feminine through journaling, meditation, or visualization. Allow her voice to speak without censorship.

Creative Expression: Paint, write, dance, or sing. The goddess speaks through art.

Dream Work: Record and interpret dreams. The inner feminine often communicates through symbols of water, moonlight, or love.

Shadow Integration: Face emotional wounds and projections. Healing these allows the goddess to rise.

Sacred Relationship: Honor relationships as reflections of your inner state. When tension arises, look within before reacting outward.


These are not mere techniques they are rituals of transformation. Each step brings the psyche closer to the divine union that Jung described as the ultimate goal of human evolution.

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5. The Mirror of Twin Flame Love

When he becomes his goddess, something miraculous happens in the twin flame bond. The external feminine feels the shift immediately. She senses his energy merging with hers not as dependence, but as resonance. The two become co-creators of divine love.

In this state, communication becomes telepathic, forgiveness comes naturally, and love transcends physical limitations. The relationship ceases to be about healing wounds and becomes about creating light.

The external union reflects the inner one. The dance of twin flames is complete when both have found their divine halves within.

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6. Sources for Further Study

For those who wish to deepen their understanding of Jungian integration and the symbolism of divine union:

Carl Jung – “Mysterium Coniunctionis” – Jung’s exploration of alchemy and the inner marriage of opposites.

Marie-Louise von Franz – “Alchemy: An Introduction to the Symbolism and the Psychology” – A clear explanation of Jung’s ideas on transformation and wholeness.

Robert A. Johnson – “Inner Work: Using Dreams and Active Imagination for Personal Growth” – Practical guidance for applying Jung’s methods.

Clarissa Pinkola Estés – “Women Who Run with the Wolves” – A poetic interpretation of feminine archetypes and their healing power.

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7. A Closing Reflection

Becoming his inner goddess is not a metaphor. It is the birth of his divine nature. It is the moment when love ceases to be between him and her and becomes through him and her.

The goddess he once sought is no longer separate. She lives in his breath, his art, his tenderness, his strength.

And for those walking the twin flame path, this is the final realization:
the union was never just about two souls finding each other,
it was about two divine forces finding themselves.

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With Love,

Eve.