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Author: Eve Sanchez

  • Have a difficult conversation with a love partner that fosters love, connection, and union. Part 2.

    Dear Lovestar,

    Picture this: a couple is having a hard conversation. They love each other very much, and because of that, they’ve been avoiding this conversation, and by now, it’s worse. This is my love and I…

    She gets emotional and calls him insensitive. He complains that she’s too emotional and overreacts. She gets triggered and overreacts. He gets offended and withdraws. They don’t talk to each other for a week and don’t resolve the issue. They try to act like it didn’t happen, but there is a loss of trust from unresolved issues.

    How should we have difficult conversations? They are unavoidable in love relationships if we intend to deepen the connection?

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  • Have a difficult conversation with a love partner that fosters love, connection, and union.

    Dear Lovestar,

    Can we have a difficult conversation with our love partner while focusing on love, connection, and union? I believe it’s all in the energy we go into the conversation with.

    In fact, the intention we have going into the conversation alone doesn’t manifest the result. Triggers occur during difficult conversations. We can get triggered, or they can get triggered. Also, if our ego is involved, a fight might be the result. A misunderstanding so serious can occur that loving partners can up to break up during a tough conversation.

    Up until now, my beloved and I have not been the best at communication. We mean well, but we’re both loners, we both had issues going into our relationship, and we’re both moody water signs. We misunderstand each other frequently. Now we know not to get emotional over a misunderstanding but to have a productive conversation instead.

    I mean no judgment to anyone having an issue with this. I am learning this now. I write about the things I have learned the hard way mostly. I have learned how to have a difficult conversation with my lover, and we can come out of it with a deeper connection. I am teaching you what I have learned. 

    It’s not easy to be conscious when we feel disrespected, hurt, or emotional. However, what I’m suggesting is exactly to go into a difficult conversation consciously. Read through the list below, and you’ll notice that you will need to be conscious to be able to handle yourself in a way that you’ll manifest the best outcome for both parties.

    I will elaborate further in tomorrow’s post.

    Tips for having conscious, difficult conversations in love

    Today, I offer you tips for having a difficult conversation with your love partner while focusing on deepening your connection and strengthening your love and union:

    1. **Choose the Right Time and Place:** Find a time when both of you are relaxed and free from distractions. Choose a quiet and private space where you can talk openly without interruptions. Drop your cell phones.

    2. **Set the Right Intentions:** Approach the conversation with the intention of understanding each other better and strengthening your relationship rather than blaming or accusing.

    3. **Use “I” Statements:** Express your thoughts, feelings, and concerns using “I” statements to avoid sounding accusatory. For example, say, “I feel…” instead of “You make me feel…”.

    4. **Active Listening:** Practice active listening by fully focusing on what your partner is saying without interrupting. Show empathy and understanding by reflecting back what you hear to ensure you understand correctly. Don’t be thinking of your response while they talk.

    5. **Express Empathy:** Show empathy towards your partner’s feelings and perspectives, even if you disagree. Validate their emotions and let them know you understand how they feel. Tell them something like “I understand how you’re feeling misunderstood” or “I understand how you could feel disrespected even though it wasn’t my intention.”

    6. **Be Honest and Transparent:** Be honest about your feelings and concerns, even if they are difficult to express. Transparency builds trust and intimacy in the relationship. Practice. Tell them you’re having a hard time expressing this.

    7. **Focus on Solutions:** Instead of dwelling on the problem, focus on finding solutions together. Brainstorm ideas and compromises that work for both of you to resolve the issue. Think of the future rather than the past.

    8. **Maintain Calmness:** Stay calm and composed during the conversation, even if emotions run high. Take deep breaths and pause if needed to regain composure before continuing. Take a break if needed. Do not shout!

    9. **Practice Patience and Understanding:** Understand that difficult conversations take time and may require multiple discussions to reach a resolution. Be patient with each other and avoid rushing the process.

    10. **End on a Positive Note:** Conclude the conversation on a positive note, reaffirming your love and commitment to each other. Express gratitude for your partner’s willingness to engage in open communication. Hugs and caressing or a kiss and an “I love you” should end the conversation.

    Remember, difficult conversations can be challenging, but they also present opportunities for growth and deeper connection in your relationship. Approach them with love, compassion, and a willingness to understand each other better.

    I already had a difficult conversation with my lover, and I realized that I’ve been keeping a lot inside to keep the peace. The buildup was upsetting our peace, though…

    So, I’ll be using these tips much more often.

    This weekend, we have a date to chat šŸ’› ā¤ļø šŸ˜

    Which was your favorite?

    When I have thought conversations with my man, #2,4,5 have offered the best results.

    Thank you very much for reading, and if you loved this, follow this blog because I have lots of other love and union advice.

    With love and ligh,

    Eve, ready for this weekend: planned the outfit, the conversation, thinking about the lovemaking

  • Sex with Scorpio blog. What’s new?

    Dear Lovestar,

    https://www.mobileapp.app/to/2zVeO5S?ref=2_cl

  • Scorpio men receive these sexy text messages

    Dear Lovestar,

    Scorpio men receive a type of attention from women that is so intense that it almost doesn’t make sense.

    It is true that they inspire a type of devotion in their girlfriends/ partners/ wives that it can feel like we’re addicted to them.

    However, Scorpio men also receive a lot of attention from their social media, dating site profiles, ex-girlfriends, friends, coworkers, random women on the streets… this is why an “unevolved Scorpio” (as the Scorpio Scriptures on YouTube calls them) is a huge player. They have lots of options.

    The text messages I am sharing with you today are my text messages to my Scorpio man. This man, who I call my twin flame, has been my partner for 16 years and is very loyal to me. My devotion and my gratitude šŸ„¹ relaxed me to the point I dropped my walls. Because of this, I can talk to him in such a vulnerable way today.  Scorpio is a stoic, I have no idea how he feels unless I ask, but his actions prove his good intentions every day. Also, I’m psychic, and I learned telepathy and astrology to improve our communication.

    This post is for your entertainment. But also, you will learn some Scorpio Astrology. Additionally, you might get inspired to send more romantic and sexy texts. If you want to receive texts like these, would you tell us how you will manifest them?

    Some men manage to get the attention of women in a way that they receive these kind of texts:

    Monday morning text, thinking about the weekend and the next time.
    Scorpio is naturally a mystic. My Scorpio and I are both water signs, and during eclipses, we get into all kids of miscommunication and fights. Afterward, we realize we were triggered, and there’s always some kind of healing. I always let him know as soon as I realize the cosmic weather is affecting us.
    One of the most attractive things about Scorpio is his sexy scent. šŸ˜

    I have shared inappropriate sexts Scorpio receives on my Sex with Scorpio blog. Follow that exclusive blog at my poetry collection app through this link:

    http://www.mobileapp.app/to/duCowXa?ref=cl

    Thanks for reading and visiting today,

    If you have some secret Scorpio knowledge, let us know in the comments.

    Do you receive or send texts like these?

    With love and light,

    Eve, I am Pisces.

  • Twin Flame Rituals. Twin Flame Tools.

    Dear Lovestar,

    Continuing on my latest twin flame union tools series, today I bring you ideas for simple rituals to manifest and strengthen your union.Ā 

    I don’t do a lot of Magick. But I do a lot of little things that help. I intend to be more intentional about my magick practices, and twin flame union is always my goal. Today, I’ll marry the 2.

    Beginner Twin Flame Rituals

    Here are eight beginner twin flame rituals that are simple, cost-effective, and can help manifest and promote union:

    1. **Mirror Meditation**: Sit facing a mirror with your twin flame’s photo or representation nearby. Gaze into the mirror and visualize your twin flame’s presence. Send them love and positive energy while affirming your union. This practice fosters connection and alignment.

    2. **Candle Ritual**: Light a candle symbolizing your twin flame connection. As it burns, visualize your union growing stronger and more vibrant. Speak aloud or write down affirmations of love, unity, and manifestation. Allow the candle to burn out naturally to seal your intentions.

    3. **Heart-Centered Visualization**: Find a quiet space and close your eyes. Imagine a golden thread connecting your heart to your twin flame’s heart. Visualize this thread growing brighter and stronger with each breath, uniting you in love and harmony. Spend a few minutes each day in this visualization.

    4. **Nature Connection**: Spend time outdoors with the intention of connecting with nature and your twin flame’s energy. Take a walk in a park or forest, focusing on the beauty around you. As you observe nature, feel your twin flame’s presence and visualize your union blossoming like the natural world.

    5. **Gratitude Ritual**: Create a gratitude journal specifically for your twin flame journey. Each day, write down three things you’re grateful for related to your union. This practice cultivates a positive mindset and aligns your energy with abundance and manifestation.

    6. **Letter Writing**: Write a letter to your twin flame expressing your love, intentions, and desires for your union. Be honest and heartfelt in your words. You can choose to send the letter energetically or physically, trusting that your message will reach your twin flame on a soul level.

    7. **Soul Connection Visualization**: Sit in a comfortable position and close your eyes. Visualize a sacred space where you and your twin flame meet on a soul level. Explore this space together (I always choose a gorgeous garden), communicate telepathically, and exchange love and energy. This practice strengthens your soul connection and promotes union.

    8. **Moon Manifestation Ritual**: Harness the energy of the moon to amplify your intentions for union. On the night of the new moon, write down your desires for your twin flame relationship on a piece of paper. Place the paper under a clear quartz crystal or in a special box. Revisit your intentions each month, allowing the moon’s cycles to support your manifestation efforts.

    These rituals are designed to be accessible to beginners and can be customized to suit your unique spiritual path and beliefs. Remember to approach them with an open heart and trust in the power of your connection with your twin flame.

    Which one was your favorite?

    Mine is #8

    I don’t do all of these, but I regularly do #7 in my secret garden, #6, and I do share some letter writing inspiration, I also do #4 and #5

    I intend that this list will be found by someone who needs this information.

    If you found this helpful, please let me know by leaving a comment or liking this post so I can create more like this.

    With live and light,

    Eve, with many great ideas lately

  • Twin flame union manifestation journaling prompts. Union tools.

    Dear Lovestar,

    Continuing on my latest trend of twin flame tools, today I offer you journaling prompts that should help you manifest/ promote/ ascend your union.

    Can these be used by non twin flames?

    Absolutely!

    But note that these prompts are intended to trigger a soul union with a beloved. You could be discouraged if you find your partner is not a soul connection.

    You can use these to create a deeper connection in a long-term, committed relationship of loyal Love. These will not attract anyone you want into your life but rather the person God created for you.

    Twin flame union journaling prompts.

    1. **Reflective Gratitude**: Reflect on the qualities of your twin flame that you are grateful for. How do these qualities contribute to your growth and ascension? Write a gratitude list focusing on your twin flame’s positive attributes and how they enhance your journey together.

    2. **Alignment Visualization**: Envision your ideal twin flame union. What does it look and feel like? Visualize yourselves in perfect alignment, both individually and as a couple. Write down the details of this vision and how it makes you feel.

    3. **Healing Intentions**: Identify any lingering wounds or obstacles within yourself or your twin flame that may be hindering your union. Set intentions for healing and release. Journal about the steps you can take individually and together to promote healing and growth.

    4. **Clearing Blocks**: Explore any patterns or beliefs that may be blocking the manifestation of your twin flame union. Write about ways you can release these blocks, whether through meditation, therapy, or self-reflection.

    5. **Soul Connection Exploration**: Dive deep into the spiritual connection between you and your twin flame. Reflect on past synchronicities, soul contracts, and shared experiences. Journal about the significance of these connections and how they guide your journey towards union.

    6. **Communication Intentions**: Set intentions for open, honest, and loving communication within your twin flame relationship. Reflect on any communication challenges you’ve faced and how you can overcome them together. Write down affirmations or mantras to support clear communication.

    7. **Sacred Union Rituals**: Brainstorm rituals or practices that honor your twin flame union. This could include meditation, energy healing, or sacred ceremonies. Journal about how these rituals can deepen your connection and promote spiritual growth.

    8. **Divine Timing Trust**: Surrender any feelings of impatience or urgency surrounding your twin flame union. Trust in the divine timing of your journey and write about how you can cultivate patience and surrender. Focus on living in the present moment and finding joy and fulfillment independent of union.

    These prompts are designed to help you delve deep into your twin flame journey, fostering growth, healing, and alignment towards union. Happy journaling!

    Did any of these help?

    Of course, if you want to see more like this on this blog, please comment and let me know or give this post a like.

    What was your favorite?

    My favorite was # 7

    With love and light,

    Eve, with a clear vision now.

  • Twin Flame Union Prayer

    Dear Lovestar,

    Today, I bring to you a simple but powerful union prayer.

    Edit the prayer as much as needed. Write it down or print this post. Repeat as needed. Repeat it when you want to connect with your flame, when there are issues, if you’re feeling separation, etc. You will know when you need it.

    Union Prayer

    Divine Universe, guide us on our journey to union, bless our paths with love, clarity, and understanding. Help our souls intertwine in harmony and our hearts beat as one. Grant us the strength to overcome challenges and the wisdom to cherish each moment together. With gratitude, we surrender to your divine guidance.

    You can finish with Amen if you choose.

    Please let me know if this helps by commenting or liking this post and I can share more like this.

    With love and light,

    Eve, in love

  • Twin Flame Union Mantras

    Dear Lovestar,

    Today, I bring to you 8 twin flame union mantras. Use these as needed to manifest your deepest union.

    1. “I am open to receiving and nurturing the divine connection of my twin flame.”
    2. “I trust in the universe to guide me towards my twin flame with love and clarity.”
    3. “I release any blocks or fears preventing the harmonious union with my twin flame.”
    4. “I am worthy of experiencing deep, unconditional love with my twin flame.”
    5. “I surrender to the divine timing of our reunion, knowing it will happen when the time is right.”
    6. “I align my thoughts and actions with the energy of love to attract my twin flame effortlessly.”
    7. “I embrace self-love and self-growth, knowing it enhances the bond with my twin flame.”
    8. “I visualize and affirm our twin flame union, knowing it is already manifested in the spiritual realm.”

    Which is your favorite?

    Mine is # 3

    Let me know if these help.

    With love and light,

    Eve, feeling grateful

  • 3 simple steps to be more feminine this week

    Dear diary,

    Being more feminine is a goal of mine. I don’t have an end goal, but it’s a constant progression.

    I ditched feminism because I had felt that I was better than men for too many years, and this caused separation in my union with my lover, Scorpio.

    What I want now is to be more feminine because I now feel that being a harsh feminist made me less feminine.

    I did notice that as I became more feminine, my lover became more masculine. Additionally, I feel safer, more abundant, more empowered, more powerful, and I feel more love. And I’m obviously a better mom now.

    3 things to make me feel more feminine this week:

    • Spiritual self care: I plan on taking a delicious bath today. I added flower essential oils to my soap, shampoo, and conditioner, and the lovely smell is making me want to spend more time in the bath. I’m going back to the basics here as I have written at length about taking spiritual baths, and I have had very spiritual experiences in that bath. I have been cleaning and organizing my bathroom, and this will help me feel more feminine: spending time in a beautiful space, smelling like flowers, dressing up afterwards.
    • Deep cleaning my house and de-cluttering: loving my house makes me feel very feminine.Ā 
    • Expressing myself vulnerably: I have made a date with my partner to have a deep chat. There are lots of things I need to get off my chest, and this will make me feel more calm and relaxed, and it should deepen our connection, which should make me feel beloved and thus more feminine.

    What makes you feel most feminine?

    As a bonus, I’m making my kitchen my space. I never liked being in the kitchen, and I hated doing the dishes. I was able to convince myself to love cooking and especially cooking very fancy and complex meals. I was also able to teach myself to bake. I’m now, as I said, jokingly brainwashing myself to love doing the dishes because I only want to do the things that I love.

    I put a diffuser right behind my sink, and I add my fanciest oils, Rose, Jasmin, and Geranium, which are my perfumes (together with lavender) to do the dishes. Now, as I do the dishes, I smell my perfumes, which are also the most relaxing oils to me. I’m a flower girl!

    I only like to clean with music on and I’ve been singing and dancing in the kitchen more than ever.

    We bought new dishes that I love to touch and look at, so washing them is a breeze, and it has worked wonderfully! Best transformation this month.

    Finally, I’m allowing myself to watch TV. I think TV is a waste of time, and I don’t other than Naked and Afraid. Well, I can see the TV from my sink… whatever works.

    A rewiring of my neurons is happening, and my house is so grateful. I’m grateful because now I don’t have to force myself to do human work. I love my time doing it, and I’m enjoying myself.

    With love and light,

    Eve, with my cleanest and best smelling house ever

  • Radical Self Love. Part 2.

    Dear Lovestar,

    Continuing on my radical Self Love  writings, I am going to expand on this concept and how it has helped me as much as time allows.

    In the meantime, I’ll leave you with a new poem on this topic. Read my radical self Love quote on my previous post. Please let me know if this topic helps you and if you need self-love writing prompts.

    Do you struggle with this topic? I can’t be the only person who at times breaks under my own expectations…

    Radical Self-Love

    I would want to be a man
    If only just for a day
    To find me and love myself,
    And heal together all the way.

    I would allow myself to be free.
    I would go the distance to get to know me.
    I would bring me flowers and write me poems.
    I would love myself to the end.

    I would take my time not to scare me.
    I would learn my secrets to take care of them. 
    I would tell me all the things I feel. 
    I would make sweet, sweet love to myself.

    If only I could be a man and meet myself,
    I would marry me right away
    I'd be a great husband and wife.
    I would never have to cry myself to sleep again. 

    Eve Lovestar

    What a strange poem. I apologize if you didn’t like it. If so, read one of the mushy pieces I write for my lover man, Scorpio, on my poetry collection:

    http://www.mobileapp.app/to/duCowXa?ref=cl

    If you didn’t enjoy this poem, consider whether you would date yourself or make love to yourself or marry yourself. We all want Love (I believe you would not be on this blog if you didn’t), but are we embodying love? Do we feel worthy of love? Are we expecting from another something we are unable to give to ourselves?

    This is why Love starts with self-love. If we’re unable to love ourselves as the truly wonderful creatures we are, then, should we expect another, let’s say, a magnificent male to love us? According to the laws of the universe, we receive what we are.

    Self-love manifests true love

    Hey, it’s Aries season now. Officially, it’s not a romantic time. I so miss Pisces season, my favorite time of the year!

    And I was beaten by the eclipse energy! It was such a difficult time, but after about a week of crying, I have healed and upgraded myself and figured a way to make my union even stronger. How have you been feeling?

    With love and light,

    Eve, not angry anymore