The Love quiz, a tool to help gauge your romantic love for first love

Dear Lovestar,

Thank you so very much for visiting me. You grace this humble blog with your presence.

Today, I’m doing something completely different, though still rooted in love and romance. Today, I will help any readers gauge their love. Are you in love truly?

I intend to make this quiz a helpful tool for the reader. I’m not a physician or psychologist. This is technically for your entertainment because it is impossible for me to tell you whether or not you’re in love. This is something that only you can figure out. However, since I understand love, I can guide you by offering steps and helping you understand what love feels like. You should come to a conclusion by the end of the exercises I will offer. I will offer more exercises in my next post.

Trigger alert!!! ⚠️ 📢 ⚠️  This quiz is for initial love, dating, falling in love, not for connection or union. By using this tool incorrectly, you could come to the wrong conclusion. Answer all questions honestly for the best results. Some readers might conclude that they’re not truly in love. Use as your own risk.

Do you need this love quiz? Answer these questions to find out:

Do you feel you’re falling in love but are not sure?

Did you tell someone you love them but now have doubts?

Are you analyzing your feelings before telling your person you love them?

Are you thinking about love after your first Valentine’s/ holiday/ birthday together?

Are you falling in love for the first time and have nothing to compare your feelings to?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, this post is for you.

Figure out if it is love you’re feeling with these simple exercises

I will not tell you what you feel, I’ll rather help guide you through your feelings with a series of exercises, and you will come to your own conclusion. Follow these exercises:

• Smell his dirty laundry: There was a study conducted by Swiss researchers in 1995 that suggested women might be attracted to the scent of men who have a different immune system from their own, potentially indicating compatibility. Did I tell you I love the smell on my man when he has just worked out? His smell turns me on.
• Talk to him honestly, if you have not been fully open (you know if you need to). Be vulnerable and gauge their response.
• Text him the thing you don’t want to say, then start a conversation this way.
• Write him a love letter. Read it as if you were receiving the letter. How do you feel? Journal about your feelings.
• Express your fears about love and gauge their response.

A love quiz: Gauge your love for your person

Here’s a simple quiz to help you reflect on your feelings:

1. How often do you think about your person?
   • Rarely or never
   • Occasionally
   • Frequently
   • Constantly
2. When you’re with them, how do you feel?
   • Uninterested or indifferent
   • Comfortable and content
   • Excited and happy
   • Overwhelmed with emotion
3. How do you prioritize their needs and wants compared to your own?
   • I don’t consider them much
   • I consider them equally
   • I prioritize them somewhat
   • I prioritize them above my own
4. How do you feel about their flaws or imperfections?
   • They bother me a lot
   • I accept them as part of who they are
   • I find them endearing
   • I don’t notice any flaws
5. Can you picture a future with this person?
   • No, not at all
   • Maybe, it’s something I’ve thought about
   • Yes, I can see us together
   • Absolutely, I can’t imagine my future without them
6. How do you feel when they’re not around?
   • I don’t really notice
   • I miss them a bit
   • I miss them a lot
   • I feel incomplete without them
7. How do you react to their successes and failures?
   • I don’t really care
   • I feel indifferent
   • I feel proud and supportive
   • I feel deeply affected, both positively and negatively

How to use this love quiz

Tally up your answers and see where you fall on the scale from “not in love” to “very likely in love.” Remember, this quiz is just a tool for self-reflection, and only you can truly know your feelings.

To figure out how you truly feel, journal about these questions and your answers. Intend to write down your feelings with vulnerability. Don’t think about what to write but instead write the first thing that comes to your mind.

Ask your spiritual guides for assistance. They’re always there to help you, and they care about your live life. Pull some tarot cards and interpret the energy that comes through. Does it resonate?

Journaling prompts to figure out if you’re in love or not

• Write about your future with your person: See your future. Go 1 month ahead of the present moment. Is your person with you? How connected are you? Them go 1 year/ 2 years/ 5 years/ 1 decade into the future, is your person with you? How do you feel about your connection?
• Explore the feeling behind your sexual encounters, if any. Otherwise, write about your expectation or disinterest in possible sexual encounters
• Can your person parent your babies?: Mating as animals happens as our response to our subconscious drive to reproduce, and when we engage sexually, there is a chance to become pregnant with some exceptions. Write on your journal about a future when your person is the parent to your baby. How do you feel about sharing your descendants with your person? What does it mean for your descendants to be your person’s descendant?
• I like Teal Swan’s definition of love as this: loving someone is making them a part of you. Therefore, when you truly love, it is impossible to hurt the recipient of your attention: Write your feelings about this definition of love. Can you make your person a part of you to the point that hurting them would be the same as hurting you?
• In union, your energies merge with your beloved’s energies. Journal about the idea of merging with your person. Imagine you adopt his or her traits. Imagine that you are them. You should figure out a few things by doing this.

Do you need to heal before you can love?

This is normal in our sad, toxic world, and it happened to me. You might need healing before you can love.

In other words, traumatic wounds can prevent you from loving deeply and promote separation. If you need me to expand on healing to be able to love, please let me know in the comments.

Since this post has gone on long enough, I’ll continue this topic on my next post. I’ll do something different then. I have written the most romantic poetry, and I’ll expose you to it and ask you to feel those feelings and wonder if you feel like that about your person. It’ll be a fenomenal tool for gauging your love.