Dear diary,
Note: I write about evolved Scorpios, and if I ever write about a dark Scorpio (I know one of these, he’s my uncle), it’ll be obvious.
I am so grateful to have a Scorpio as my beloved because he tells me the truth and nothing but the truth! I love the truth so much! In the presence of the truth, I smile (as long as it’s not a sad truth, I’m very comfortable crying in that case) but I have learned to not get angry at truths that sting.
I know that Scorpio is the viral sign and the most popular one, but I’m not using Scorpio to find Scorpio addicts, fellow addicts… but I do love that Scorpio energy, which is why I talk about it so much.
My lover said he feels he’s walking on eggshells today because I’m asking him a bunch of questions! š š¤£ š I just need to know certain things, nothing serious, I just want to know everything. I bet someone is thinking I’m this or that… š š¤£ š my lover said something extremely simple and harmless about me. I wanted to know more. He said I’m serious but not like,”You’re too serious!” But rather, it was a comment of a side conversation. But you’re so serious that…
I’m so serious…
Wait! āļø what? I’m too serious? How so? What do you mean? But you like this about me…
This is not the first time I hear people say I’m so serious. Not by far. I am serious. It’s crazy funny, but this happened while I was writing the post about the love game and how I see love as a game now. How can I be serious, but living like life is a game?
I explained why I’m so serious and told him he liked that about me. My being serious makes me compatible with Scorpio. But only because, as he explained, when it’s time to get wild in our bedroom, I’m not serious anymore…
Why I’m serious
My seriousness is a defense mechanism. It keeps me safe. If you guessed that seriousness helps stop unwanted advances from men, you’re correct. What could I be keeping myself safe from? Lions, aliens? No! I must stay safe from men. Simply put, I have had to beat men off of me, but I wasn’t always able to beat them off! Alarming that women are prey for men, but we already knew this.
Many men adopt bully tactics on women, and sadly, it works on women who are not serious enough. Typically, the women these bully tactics work on are young women. Young people are not always serious. A serious young woman would not be the victim of as many attacks as a non serious young woman. Older women who remain non serious are also victims of these attacks and are the kind of women who would sleep with someone’s husband at work without caring.
What is a serious woman like?
A serious woman is focused on the big picture. We’re not trying to have the kind of fun today that would make us suffer tomorrow, such as sleeping with the wrong guy would or entering a relationship just for fun or interest. We have integrity.
Serious women have long-term goals that we must be serious enough to achieve. Serious women want to be respected, and if we’re disrespected, we throw such a huge fit that non serious people will never want to be around us anymore. We would complain, go to HR, call the police, tell his wife… whatever it takes! Don’t offend or wrong us. Go play with an easier girl.
Rather than getting into trouble, serious women stop potential trouble, and we will assist other women who easily get in trouble, mainly with safe and sound advice that others might see as boring.
Serious women are not boring as my beloved was quick to explain. When I’m in the safety of his bedroom and his safe arms, I let loose with much pride, and I enjoy myself plenty. I practice safe fun with safe people, and I never regret it! This is my joy.
Serious women make good wives and good mothers on top of good employees, good citizens, etc. We are good women with high standards, and we do want fun, but we want joy most. Cheap fun, such as going to the club half naked and getting drunk, would go against our vision of a joyful life, which is safe and regretless.
Serious women don’t date casually or sleep around. Those things take away from our big goals, our missions, our intentions, and would become trauma. Serious women are very serious about healing trauma, so we can be truly happy and offer a healthy us to the world.
Serious women need a serious man, not a player, a party dude, or anything that would lower our vibe. Serious women want marriage, family, children, and connection. We don’t settle for cheating, abuse, or anything short of what we deserve. Ohhhh… this is why boys see seriousness in a woman as a non desirable trait. We are not easy to take advantage of, and we appreciate ourselves so much that we don’t go with losers.
Women who are serious receive a very different treatment from men. We stir distrust in some, dislike in others, and admiration in many. We are not fun for people who want unhealthy fun. This is why Scorpio loves a serious woman. He wants a woman only for him fun and safe to love.
The Scorpio man’s ideal woman
A Scorpio man likes a serious woman for the world who will be relaxed and as freaky as possible with them. Freaky enough to please their insatiable sexual appetite.
Scorpio wants to be devoted to his woman, so it’s important for them to find a woman who is going to keep them guessing, I guess. Someone who is willing to learn, adapt, and literally blow their mind away. Yes, I am speaking about sex. No worries, they’re natural teachers, and they’re patient, but the bottom line is the woman who earns that forever loyalty of a Scorpio, is the woman who will allow him to play his games in her playground. He makes it so worth it.
It’s not all about sex with Scorpio. Sex is the language they speak and the way they connect with us, their ladies. Before they can engage in the potent lovemaking they need and desire, they need a woman they can trust who is first and foremost their friend. With time, this woman becomes his best friend, but again, their communication is sex heavy, and we need to understand that need.
Scorpio’s perfect match is a discreet woman. Especially a woman who doesn’t share her sexy pictures online. This is a huge turn-off because Scorpio wants his woman to only show those goods to him. He also deserves this, and he’s very good at taking care of this woman’s bounty.
Scorpios are very serious, and in short, they need a serious woman with the potential for the wildest sex.
PS. Scorpios like women who are smart and talented/ creative.
Are you one of these women? Are you into a Scorpio?
Thank you for your visit today. I appreciate you, and may you be blessed.
Eve, writing a twin flame post currently. I have so many new insights!
- Poetic Secrets. I play a game with AI. Tell me a secret about me based on my poem. Ambrosia Breath – Love Potion
- Building a Temple in the Middle of Real Life
- I asked AI ~ The Original Twin Flame Story: Plato’s Myth of the Divided Soul
- The Day I Decided My Body Was a Temple
- HOW TO TURN A FULL MOON INTO A 10āMINUTE SACRED PAUSE

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