Why are twin flames expectations of each other so high?

Why are my twin flame’s expectations of me so high? I asked myself often. I always thought that he was judging me. I assumed he was complaining about me and noting my worse traits. I used to say that he was not good for my self esteem, now I understand he helped me see my ego and he recognized my inner wounds and he let me know they were there and I was very triggered, and I blamed him.

I eventually started thinking that nothing I did would make him happy and then I let go of our union, I assumed that it would have to end between us because since he did nothing but complain about me, he would not really love me. The thing is, it never ended and I was very wrong about him,  very wrong about him and

What was incorrect was my mindset about our union, my beliefs around men and love, and my feelings for my flame. I was manifesting separation in our union. I was the one blocking the deeper connection. He didn’t actually want to leave me and I was in a path to destroy our relationship, what I called the ship, lost at sea and without destination.

Our ship was about to take off and become a spaceship! After only about 14 years, after much work on my physical body and much love from my twin I woke up from my slumber and I decided to love, guess what I realized? My twin felt judged and underappreciated just like I did! I was treating him the exact way I felt he was treating me!